posakosa:


look at yourself--- who dissed you. I didn't diss you.

I only stated that you sound like a nasty person and I am not sure who would like to meet you. Because it is obvious that you cannot detect humor, sarcasm, and statements.

Nigerians don't trust each other, this is NOT news. talkless of making an effort to meet someone you met online.


If you are a student, make an effort to meet Nigerians at your school.

But you don't know me, how would you conclude I'm nasty? Have you seen me before or have we met? I know humor, sarcasm but I also know stupidity!

Nigerians don't trust eachother, why? Is it not things like this that make it worse so why criticise those that detest Nigerians since we don't even trust our own selves?

Also where did u see I was interested in meeting someone online? which even if I was, how does that concern you? is it paining you? Unfortunately I'm not interested in that, was only looking for parties with a lot and mostly Nigerians, there are enough of mixed parties, just looking for more only Nigerians' parties.

U sound like a female but newayz girl/boy. I don't know what is really pinching you   do u have a lover here and you are scared he/she might go astray? I'm confused.

posakosa:

I have been on this site waay before you and I am only here for FUN. Not here to meet anyone in person.

FUN?? I laugh your mates are going cruising, bowling, movies, beach, horse riding, sky diving etc for fun, you are here even BOLD enough to say u have been here waaaaayy long catching your fun on a computer, online, dissing people? Girl or boy grow up! c'mon

tpia.:

people do have a right to be suspicious btw.

Suspicious about what if I may ask? Is this site filled with scams? I'm still a little shocked wondering where I went wrong by asking anyone that knows or is organising Nigerian parties/gatherings to holla? What is wrong in that?

omega25red:

located by 185 and morris avenue in the bronx

Thanks Omega, wasn't really that interested, just thought I try if there are a lot since this is a Nigerian site. There are enough parties but usually don't come across a lot of Nigerian ones but I'm good! Thanks newayz

posakosa:

You are a confused girl----- Redeem Christian Church of God--- I think u may have some issues if u need to log onto NLD to find friends.

I guess u r referring to urself! What are you doing on here if I may ask? same thing I guess, If u were too busy, I don't think you would have noticed this site nor my thread! Don't have time for the likes of you! Stay off my back!

posakosa:

I find that its most Nigerians who are born in the U.S. and have probably never been to Niger---are the ones who have this desire and yearn to hang out with people in the Nigerian community BADLY---- quite interesting.

It's not a matter of being born in the US or not, there is really no place like home. Even if you have a mixture of all races, there would still be that desire to mingle amongst your own people.

posakosa:

oooh k. good for you. They even have more Nigerians in the VA/MD/DC area. ---- ----- I tend to stay away from Nigerians I won't lie. They have some drama attached to them. I only associate with certain folks.

Real drama! trust especially the girls.

omega25red:

@ poster

i tried that a long time ago when i first joined this forum and i got the same response. People are so cynical they think you are trying to get them mixed up in something. My advice check out the info brooklyn99 gave or join RCCG in the Bronx if you are in the city they have lots of good people there (Nigerians) and you know nobody parties like church folks lol

Honestly such a shame! It's funny 'cos it's not a do or die things before some of these people especially the girls start talking all sorts of pieces talking about widows, 90 yr-old grand ma or organise by urself or even prostituting. If they are looking for husband, they should be open and say so not bringing unnecessary drama. what is RCCG if I may ask?

So my crime here is asking people that know of Nigerian parties/ gatherings taking place in New York or close to let me know?

Sighsss, Nigerians?! Girls?!

posakosa:

Interested in running a prostitution ring---- <get some Nigerian binches in the room>

what the hell r you talking about? if you are a prostitute, sorry i'm not one.

Paroh_frey:

organise one by yourself.

Sisi_Kill:

My great grand mama is turning 90 on sat.

You are invited, there will be a lot of singles there. I know for sure that at least 6 of her friends are widowed.

Why are girls jealous creatures? Where these sarcastic comments called for. I posted this here because I know there are a lot of Nigerians on here and for your information I'm not looking for a husband or boyfriend which even if I was, how does that concern you both? Sisi kill why don't you attend? afterall she is your great grand mama with lot of widowers? Rubbish!


P.S no one has to reply this or answer, not compulsory, neither am I desperate for such!
Nigerians? Girls!

Anyone organizing Nigerian parties, (Ibo, yoruba) or knows about some in the U.S in New York or close to could holla at me. Hardly come across any. Would love some and want to meet more Nigerians.

This is my email jasmine_0220@hotmail.com

Anyone organizing Nigerian parties, (Ibo, yoruba) or knows about some in the U.S in New York or close to could holla at me. Hardly come across any. Would love some and want to meet more Nigerians.

This is my email jasmine_0220@hotmail.com

Anyone organizing Nigerian parties, (Ibo, yoruba) or knows about some in the U.S in New York or close to could holla at me. Hardly come across any. Would love some and want to meet more Nigerians.

This is my email jasmine_0220@hotmail.com

posakosa:

try talking about their children---- you will notice how COLD they become.

It happens and has happened to me before. There's nothing I didn't mention and the guy still kept pushing and pushing.

posakosa:

Call him Uncle or use Sir --- say things like "you remind me of my dad"

Say "hope your children and wife and doing well"

Married men don't like when you talk about their kids.

Do NOT go along with it, it might lead to other things.

Trust me some don't mind @ all. The very foolish desperate ones. They would still go ahead even if u remind them of their wives.

What are ur credentials?

Noooooo!

chrisshado:

is it only the ladies dat are commenting here well d fashion style of a guy is dependant on his nature of work first of all but normally u ve 2 l**k gud in any style of dressing u are using
secondly if as a girl u don like d fashion style of your guy i think b4 u buy any stuff 4 him u let him know abt your sense of humour towards his fashion style i think guys like wen their girls tell them things dat dey like and dislike abt them if not all guys I DO
thirdly some1 said dat U CAN TAKE A GUY OUT OF D GHETO BUT CAN'T TAKE THE GHETO OUT OF HIM note its not only ghetho boys dat don't know how to dress infact most ghetho boys dresses more dan d so called jebbis am a ghotho guy and i know how to dress and ma crew, pals and frnds are all ghetho boys and dey know how to dress
IF U ARE L**KING 4 STYLE 4 your GUY CONTACT THE GHETO

Yes I know some ghetto guys know how to dress @ least with a little style not wearing one old fashion shirt and one kinda pants with non matching or old fashioned shoes.

Druss:

Na his fashion be your problem? only his fashion - and that is a show stopper for you

Do you realise that if you marry the guy - he automatically looks towards you for fashion tips ,

no dump guy over fashion - cheating, whoring, binging yes but not fashion!!

marriage

Lord_Reed:

Since he is not why does it bother u? If u are thinkin of dating him den I suggest u make up your mind based on his other redeeming qualities and quit stringing him along.

Stringing who along? I don't understand.

Seun:

Aguy who doesn't care about fashion won't be happy with a girl who think that is what life is about. Go ahead and let him know, you have nothing to lose because the relationship will never work.

I didn't quite get the bolded part. I cannot let him know yet, he isn't my boyfriend. He just happened to admire me and made known his feelings and intentions to me.

missSexy:

good luck!!!!! i had the same problem with one of my exe's, i even told him about it. we would go shopping for him but he would end up getting nothing for himself. he dressed white, u know walmart kinda clothes that looked like they were made in the 80's. anyway after sometime, i just got tired of having to hide him from my friends. he was so embarrassing. so i dropped him.

that's funny but that shouldn't make one drop someone you love since u said u were already with him.

Pharoh:

Let him be it is his choice or don't you know what you are doing is what ladies don't want to hear from a guy. You said he has other qualities you desire in a guy so what else do you want? Perfect Guy ?

Who is talking of perfect guy? I know there is no perfect guy and also I'm not trying to make him my boyfriend. He happens to admire me which so far nothing wrong with him exceot the fashion sense and yes he has made his feelings known to me but when i think of his style, it discourages me.

Ebonyeyes:

So fashion is his only vice? well thats better than those lying, cheating goons polluting the cities . Girl go ahead and make it official and gradually take him shopping.

You are right but you and I both know, that would still be an obstruction, i mean I'm not in love with him yet to force myself to get used to his fashion sense and style.

y me:

if that is his dress sense i dont think you can change him
remember, you can take a boy out of the ghetto but you cant take the ghaeto out of the boy

But that's me losing a potential real good man.

BoredAtWor:

@Glitt3rz

How about you buy some stylish stuff for him.
Politely tell him, you would like him to wear more of stuff like this.

His reaction to this would let you know if you are doomed to be with a fashion-less guy or if there is hope for improvement.

ayomidej:

Of course you can change it when you go out buy some him the kind of clothes you like.

But he isn't a boyfriend yet so how do I just tell him things like that?

iice:

By telling him. . .e.g i don't do pink shirts

You can gradually introduce him to certain styles. . . like buy him a piece you like and know will look good on him. Try to persuade him to try it out once, if he doesn't like it. . .you can try some other piece.

wow! That's too blunt. He's not a boyfriend yet just someone that happens to admire me and has very good qualities but the fashion sense is obstructing.

We women know that (real good) men are scarce. I met this guy who is a very good man, good qualities, education, job but what he lacks is fashion. I mean, his dressing is just too plain, and I'm not talking of gucci shoes, versace belt, not at all but at least have some style. How would or should one go about this?