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Family / Re: "Deny Your Husband Sex" - Leaked Chats Of A Cheating Wife by heartmatters(f): 2:01am On Sep 24, 2017
what is BDSM pls?
Travel / Re: I Finally Got To America-thanks Nairaland! by heartmatters(f): 12:20pm On Sep 19, 2017
Hi everyone, so far I've only seen pple begging for the report. Has anyone gotten it yet?

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Romance / Re: She Desperately Wants To Marry Me by heartmatters(f): 11:59pm On Aug 18, 2017
@ op, I've been in your girl's shoes but in my case it was two d/c within a space of four years. you both made the mistake and though ten good years is a long time but I don't think you should marry the lady in question; @ least if it were me, I won't marry you. The fact that you need the approval of others in a situation you both created is wack to me, if you truly loved her then you don't need Anto
nio's approval. And just so you know I walked away from my relationship without any regrets and with God's mercy and grace I've a child now with my husband not my ex. Talk to her and also pray that whatever you both decide, God's Grace and mercy matters most.

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Travel / Re: I Finally Got To America-thanks Nairaland! by heartmatters(f): 5:09pm On Aug 05, 2017
Pls I need a copy of your report, adenijinufisat@ymail.com. Thanks
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Dear Jobseekers, What's Your Pain And How Can You Be Helped? by heartmatters(f): 4:01pm On Jan 20, 2017
I'm a graduate of English Language from OAU since 2013, I've worked as a sales rep but I'm currently out of work. I would love to work in a NGO because of my kind and peaceful nature, my e-mail is adenijinufisat@ymail.com.
NYSC / Re: Ekiti B15 Lets Meet by heartmatters(f): 4:32pm On Nov 25, 2015
Pls when does stream2 camp closes.
Travel / Re: QATAR And UAE GENERAL VISA ENQUIRIES PART 2 by heartmatters(f): 5:55am On Oct 10, 2015
Thanks
Travel / Re: QATAR And UAE GENERAL VISA ENQUIRIES PART 2 by heartmatters(f): 8:55pm On Oct 09, 2015
justi4jesu:





Have you contacted any travel agency close to where to reside?



Not yet, want to have an idea of it's price
Travel / Re: QATAR And UAE GENERAL VISA ENQUIRIES PART 2 by heartmatters(f): 6:03pm On Oct 09, 2015
My fellow nairalanders, I'm planing for my honey moon in December and I have no idea how much their visa cost in Nigeria naira. Does anyone have an idea? Thanks
Travel / How Much Does Dubai Visa Cost Now by heartmatters(f): 5:14pm On Oct 09, 2015
My fellow nairalanders, I'm planing for my honey moon in December and I have no idea how much their visa cost in Nigeria naira. Does anyone have an idea? Thanks
Business To Business / Re: Newly Found Shipping Agent For China Importers - Tested And Proven by heartmatters(f): 6:49pm On Sep 01, 2014
@ nivlin and jagars, what does for have to do with chating? Using a blackberry curve 7
Business To Business / Re: Newly Found Shipping Agent For China Importers - Tested And Proven by heartmatters(f): 7:45am On Sep 01, 2014
@ ymodulous, pls I'm an amateur who want to start importing jewelry. I'm finding it difficult to chat with a seller on Aliexpress, and according to chrisvicmall website, it's $10/kg for shipment. That is quite expensive for some who has just abt 15k and wants to start business.
Please, what will you advice I do? And I stay in Ibadan, how do I get my delivery to my door step?
Romance / Re: Should A Woman Have A Side Guy In Case Of Disappointment By Her Main Man? by heartmatters(f): 6:35pm On Aug 23, 2014
see how all these guys are getting worked up, yet they are the baba's @ keeping side chicks and cheating.

xtervaganza: I have no business with your cousin or sister having a side guy or whatever
But she's a low life for inviting YOU, HER FRIEND to a date with the guy
Typical hungry b1tch
Romance / A Dumb Girl Learnt Her Lesson by heartmatters(f): 11:55pm On Jan 05, 2014
I started dating my ex-boyfriend in my year two in the university, we experienced what an average couple go through, probably because we were young at first we did not worry about where the relationship was going to lead us.
Two years into the relationship I was passing of potential suitors because I was in love, then I discussed with ex about making plans for the future but most times all he talked about was enjoying the moment. While enjoying the moment I got pregnant which came as a shock to both of us because Posting 2 was my diet pills once we don't play safe, knowing the kind of family I was raised from there was no way I could go home pregnant so I opt for abortion. 

There is a saying that once you run away from a responsibility once, you will never be ready no matter how much you try. And then there was a second, the funny thing was I always take the two pills in a postinor2 tab once just to avoid complications but complications seems to always show up. Well that was when my common sense set in, I'm barely 24 ! And I've already done two abortions plus my relationship wasn't heading towards the altar anytime soon or never. I've not done anything reasonable with my life yet, so I told myself ENOUGH!!!!

 I rebuked myself because in all A MAN HAS NOTHING TO LOSE. When the deed was done, my body is the one been damaged gradually, I'M NOT A VICTIM BECAUSE IT WAS WITH MY CONSENT excluding the guilt. 
I dusted myself because I'm yet to achieve my best, I ended the toxic relationship because a relationship that adds nothing positive to my life is toxic and it can kill me. And I love myself more than anything or anyone in this world, so MY POINT IS WE WOMEN SHOULD STOP PLAYING THE VICTIMS CARD at least in cases like this. 


ENOUGH ALREADY, He dumped you after many abortions, So what? LIFE DOESN'T START AND END WITH ONE MAN. TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS, I'm till healing, give it time and your past exist only in your memory. What the future hold is new, let US women stop being our own worse enemy. Let us be wise, you loved him, you will love someone else. IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR PARENTAL RESPONSIBILITY,DON'T DO IT!



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Culled from http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2013/12/abortion-after-i-had-enough-i-deleted.html?m=1

Before anyone curse me out abet Jr opinion might help or save someone out there.
Romance / Abortion - After I Had Enough I Deleted My Toxic Relationship....you Can As Well by heartmatters(f): 9:54pm On Dec 30, 2013
I started dating my ex-boyfriend in my year two in the university, we experienced what an average couple go through, probably because we were young at first we did not worry about where the relationship was going to lead us.
Two years into the relationship I was passing of potential suitors because I was in love, then I discussed with ex about making plans for the future but most times all he talked about was enjoying the moment. While enjoying the moment I got pregnant which came as a shock to both of us because Postinor 2 was my diet pills once we don't play safe, knowing the kind of family I was raised from there was no way I could go home pregnant so I opt for abortion. 



There is a saying that once you run away from a responsibility once, you will never be ready no matter how much you try. And then there was a second, the funny thing was I always take the two pills in a postinor2 tab once just to avoid complications but complications seems to always show up. Well that was when my common sense set in, I'm barely 24 ! And I've already done two abortions plus my relationship wasn't heading towards the altar anytime soon or never. I've not done anything reasonable with my life yet, so I told myself ENOUGH!!!!

 I rebuked myself because in all A MAN HAS NOTHING TO LOSE. When the deed was done, my body is the one been damaged gradually, I'M NOT A VICTIM BECAUSE IT WAS WITH MY CONSENT excluding the guilt. 
I dusted myself because I'm yet to achieve my best, I ended the toxic relationship because a relationship that adds nothing positive to my life is toxic and it can kill me. And I love myself more than anything or anyone in this world, so MY POINT IS WE WOMEN SHOULD STOP PLAYING THE VICTIMS CARD at least in cases like this. 


ENOUGH ALREADY, He dumped you after many abortions, So what? LIFE DOESN'T START AND END WITH ONE MAN. TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS, I'm till healing, give it time and your past exist only in your memory. What the future hold is new, let US women stop being our own worse enemy. Let us be wise, you loved him, you will love someone else. IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR PARENTAL RESPONSIBILITY,DON'T DO IT!



BY BLOG VISITOR


Culled from http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2013/12/abortion-after-i-had-enough-i-deleted.html?m=1
Culture / Re: Why Do Yorubas Return The Bride-price To The Groom's Family? by heartmatters(f): 9:45pm On Dec 30, 2013
I think most parent see collecting bride price as selling their daugthers. My dad told us my mother's parent returned d bride price to him, that all they wanted was for him to take care of their child, if not they will be @ his place to pack her things.
Romance / My Story And I Hope Someone Learns From This by heartmatters(f): 10:19am On Dec 27, 2013
This is my story

My high school crush became my boyfriend when I was in part two in the university, after we both realised we liked each other very much, and we dated for almost 4yrs. We experienced what every other people gain and lose in a relationship, but there was a point my boyfriend told me he was not promising anything and I guess probably he doesn't want to break my heart. So I let some important things slide, after some years I knew we were serious about each other but anytime I tell my bf to let us discuss our future,to him we were young and why discuss the future when there was time. Then I got pregnant and I resorted to abortion, I made that decision not him because I didn't want to embrass myself or my family, nor do I want to be the girl who trapped him with been pregnant.
After that nothing seems to change but everytime I see a kid, I wished I had mine. Things didn't change between me and my bf but then I got pregnant again! I was sure I wasn't ready to abort but who was I kidding? I went through with the second abortion and that time I put an end to the relationship, but we made up again.
Things changed and I knew as much as I loved the guy, I love myself more. I knew breaking off my relationship which I thought would lead us to our happily ever after would kill me inside but I did it anywhere because we both will keep living in sin and every time an unwanted pregnancy occur we will resort to what we always do. So I did both of us a favour, especially me because a man has NOTHING TO LOSE.

I decided to share my story after reading a lot about we women sacificing our body all in the name of love and a story a guy put up on linda ikeji's blog about dumping a lady after six abortion because she might give birth again. And again in the end we the women are the ones who have everything to lose, I pray those of us who have done abortions get God's forgiveness but not ever having to be in that postion depends on US.
Sorry for the long epistle I just thought I should let out whats on my mind, we women have to stop been our own worse enemy.
Romance / Re: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by heartmatters(f): 8:25am On Dec 27, 2013
@ d poster, pls tell the lady to chill abeg.

I've been there but in my case I knew I was killing myself gradually and the guy has nothing to lose to I ended the relationship. She is not a saint either cos they both agreed to it, so as far as her womb is not damaged or health risk involved, she will be okay.
Trust me, she would be okay. I was in love too but when u love yourself more you won't put yourself in a risky position. Killing the guy only add to the murder she already committed, instead pray God forgives you both so nemesis won't catch up with you.
Romance / Re: Girls Leaving Thier Pants And Bra In Bf Place. .. by heartmatters(f): 8:18pm On Dec 04, 2013
That is one way to map ur territory, that's one of the obvious reasons I left my ex. A friend that leaves her stuff @ ur place has something else in mind.

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Religion / Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by heartmatters(f): 8:28pm On Nov 29, 2013
@martronilla, I'm not going to say much but one thing I want people to pray about is not to be misled by the quran or bible or by the words of our preachers, learn to read your holy books on ur own. The bible permits a believer to marry an un believer (1 corinthian 7, 12-14), guess you've not come across that b4 gave your opinion. Okay bye
Business To Business / Get Your Building Materials From A Relaible Company by heartmatters(f): 11:57pm On Sep 06, 2013
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