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Yes u are right, David, i think there is a reversal of harassment now, we need to start agitating for our rights too

The first thing that came to mind when i saw this thread was , 'wowwww, another beijing conference'

I don't believe in divorce, and i really don't want to have one or marry a lady with a predisposition to divorce. But if any guy finds himself in such a mess, the kids are better off staying with their mum

ThiefOfHearts:

why are scared?

It appears ladies go into marriage with rigid battle-ready minds, anticipating the worst. Even if they are married to nice guys, their fears/negative attitudes create a seeming battle ground, a hasty altar where their families are sacrificed with the blood thirsty dagger of divorce

Wow, i missed the most of this hot debate. I'm sincerely scared now reading the unshifting stance of the new generation would-be wives.

Et tu Radiante, even u Radiant

Getting married was top on my new year resolution list, now i've changed my mind. I might simply opt for a village girl who is not overtly westernised, a call to my mum will get me the 'uncontaminated package'

@David and Donzman
good points, guys

All rise please, let's toast to the majesty of Shevchenko, he does not only know how to dribble on the soccer pitch but on the love field also

Shevchenko, just carry on with your life, it's not something to worry about, u are not alone, it happens to most guys

My friend once visited my family house with the girlfriend, she is so beautiful that i was completely captivated when i saw her, i knew it will only take moments before she falls in love with me. It took few innocent eye contacts, body languages, deep attention to her opinions and listening to all she had to say no matter how uninteresting they were. I made her feel accepted and loved (this is what my friend never did). She never hid her love for me, my friend closely policed us to prevent us from going physical. The annoying part is that he confided in me that he never loved her but was just using her to fill the emotional gap created by the absent fiancee who was away on vacation and unknown to this girl. He had since dumped her and i can't pick her either, not after going out with my friend , though i love her. The story goes on and on,,,

So Shevchenko, we all have our stories and it's not strange for girls to act that way, so if it is a problem to u, u can heed iice's counsel and hide your handsome face from them

I was referring to the honesty of most Nairaland girls, none is making spurious claim to a non-existent virginity

It wasn't intended to malign

He should wear a sticker with these words boldly written,,,,

''Desperate London gals, here goes a shy hot naija single ready for a holiday fling, file-in behind me but make sure the queue is orderly''

He should then lay ambush for his prey in all the length and breadth of london with his nuclear-sticker, but advise him to make ready a large capacity cargo plane to ferry the spoils from his hoilday expedition to nigeria

Ladies should bury their pride and wrong cultural norms and take the bull by the horn before it escapes them once again in 2007

One of my new year resolutions is to discard my playa cloak and get married this year, provided the lady proposes to me on her knees, crying me a river, pledging her undying love

Just imagine the thrill as u grill her heart and distill true love from her deepest self with effortless skill

Anyway, whether a man or the woman proposes, the most important thing is equal commitment/interest from both sides

U do what, Radiant? Oh my, i thought that was only reserved for me, pls tell me it's a joke

Most guys often prefer virgins when it comes to marriage, but experienced gals for flings

I'm yet to meet a girl who honestly desires a virgin for a hubby. The higher the number of female-laurels a guy is decorated with, from his past love conquests, the better.

Still grappling with a possible justification for this strange disparity

@ McKren

There are many virgins out there, it depends on where u are looking. Strongly believe u are not looking for them in NL

She might not be self-centred. Not everyone attaches importance to xmas. I don't also. I believe gifts shouldn't be reserved for xmas, birthdays, val,,,

@ Busta

I like your new picture but please bring back the old pic, u are absolutely stunning. I often log into Nairaland to steal a look

But Radiant, u are yet to say ur opinion on the matter. Does marriage worth the stress afterall?

Count me out of the lopsided deal then,

free sex, free kids, an all-expense-paid life? haba, my middle name is not Santa

Happy new yr and welcome back Radiant.

I'm just trying to adopt the wisdom of our forefathers. They were wiser, they had many children 'inside wedlock' from different women and made their wives take care of them and their kids

Radiant, where have u been?

@ Topic

Not a bad idea, just another cheap means of helping men achieve their procreative potentials provided both mum and kids' upkeep is entirely the lady's affair .

ThiefOfHearts:

Who ever believes women arent moved by "what they see" is a slowpoke. Tall & gorgeous works for me

All hope is not lost, here goes a post from a sincere girl

TOH, Good to know that these features make your head go woooop That's a timely warning, i was about to post my pics on Nairaland but i'm afraid i don't want my heart to be stolen yet

@Jaybaby and Mukina

Stop the fight girls. We have ur pics so know who is taller tho' one is sitting and the other standing

@ topic

Why are women not crazy about tall men? Anyone with this opinion is an alien visiting the earth from pluto

Why do women melt at the sight of gorgeous tall men? Yet they say women are not moved by what they see - lie lie lie

Men are crazy about tall girls - Fallacy 1

Short guys go for tall girls and always get them if their pockets are tall

Tall guys are sometimes attracted to short girls - 'cause their petite frame hits them on the right side

Average girls are so so, nothing spectacular, just part of the global pool to pick from

Tho' i'm 6 ft, i'm wary of tall girls. Tall girls are often less endowed. What do u want to do with a skinny girl, with size 28 or 32 and invisble curves though she is tall? Worry less if u are tall or short, most guys only care about the assets - face, boobs and bum. A double combo of any of these 3 attributes will do the magic

Radiant:

No kidding!

Honey, you didn't tell them about me?

I simply hit the delete button. Trust me, if they were girls, i would have politely told them that my heart has been Radiantly won over

Thonia, u will make a good lawyer

Radiant, hope u are now fully aware of the legal implications of ur actions on NL

I also got 3 unco-ordinated messages from some funny NL usernames today, but unfortunately for them, they are guys and i'm not gay yet

Thanks Radiant

I'm indeed da bomb, i'm getting excited, hope da bomb doesn't blow his swollen head off

2old4that, what do u mean? Do u want me to stay online forever? am i a yahoo boy?

Here goes 2old4that again!!!!!! I thought we've settled this fight for long. I'm sure Osegwu knows how to be a good loser

I can't wait to watch the drama unfold when mukina comes online,

but this is not fair Radiant, u are supposed to be the chief bridesmaid, and u have put little effort to defend ur friend

As soon as u want it, but u have to pay for my first trip

just kidding about the payment though it's a short haul flight so will cost less than 200 pounds

_{ahhhhhh, uhhhhhh can't seem to get enough, have to catch the next flight to Magheru}

I just blew my first online kiss to Radiant

@ Osegwu

Pls will u leave Radiant out of this ur wild dreams. Whatever happened to PH babes? U came too late, Radiant has given her heart away, she has chosen the best part, and i know her for sure, it is easier for an elephant to pass thru the eye of a needle than for lovely Radiant to overturn her decision