UjSizzle:
Figured the title would get your attention This is really more of my opinion than some fact, so I'm hoping we'll be able to discuss 'intelligently'. I'll keep this straight and simple though , so you don't need to worry about reading an epistle.

I'm a strong advocate for understanding why people act the way they do because it is truly the only way to tolerate and deal with them. So lets discuss the over flogged topic of Nigerian women and their supposed love of money .

Why are 'Nigerian women' money conscious?
Really the answer isn't far fetched: They are simply pursuing happiness.

Being happy is really the summary of all a woman wants, but happiness as we know is subject to individuals; what makes A happy maybe different from what makes B happy.

Now while some may say that a woman should be happy with a man who loves her, we might want to ask ourselves: Is love really enough? Can you trust an emotion that can be so easily extinguished just as quickly as it was sparked?
Money is the next best thing after love. Seriously, lets not deceive ourselves here, money makes the world go round. And who says it can't buy you happiness?
To people who are superficial(and that's not a crime), money is happiness. Even to the less superficial ones, it does have the same effect.

Now men, you really didn't think i was going to spare you, did you?
If you believe Nigerian women are gold diggers, it is because consciously, unconsciously or subconsciously you made them so.
I was having a discussion with a friend some months back, and she said she couldn't marry an Igbo man who grew up in Anambra(sorry my brothers). She had a really good reason for that if i may say. Men who go after money with such tenacity believe that it is the only way to please their woman. I don't know who taught you that you could substitute yourself with your wealth, but so far it's worked, and now that the women are following what will supposedly please them(make them happy) you complain. Aren't you the most confused beings alive? We'll leave your confusion for another discussion.

So in essence, every woman wants happiness. Some find it in self fulfilment, others find it in love, and yet others find it in materiality.
You can't really blame a person for what they believe will keep them happy, the best you can do is change their mindset. It is really about orientation, what they have been led to believe. Some believe their happiness is tied to someone(a man or woman) or something(possibly the good things of life that only money can buy), while others believe happiness comes from within. I say to each man his own after all there are those who have trusted in love and your potentials and yet nothing good had come of it that they gradually start to resent you. You really can't blame a person for wanting substance, can you?

If men really believe there is more to them than their money(for the few who have some faith in themselves) then it is time to start showing these women those hidden treasures that can make them happy. Until you can successfully do that, please chase after your money and let the women chase after you, and stop complaining

gimakon:


Thank you Mr unsilly,hehehehe I go show u maturity by not talking to you, silence is the best answer for fools like YOU

gimakon:
He shouldn't have done that, just let her be. And let her go, definitely she would remember him for all the good things he did for her maybe sometime in her later life

My case when I tabled it on here I was laughed and booed at, you now see, I'm not the only one in the same situation, ladies get silly every passing day and they infect the young ones with the same attitude. This is a girl I almost laid down my life for. Procurement of university admission, I even saw to that.... I became her worst enemy.

My case, I decided to beg her even when she cheated with some guy and even moved on with him... to forget everything and come back, she come day use me play, I cried all night, cos I was really in love, but I saw the only revenge I owe against her is letting her go and planning my life to be a better man.

She started calling by herself, and using her cousins Facebook to monitor whatever I do on Facebook, I didn't block her from whatsapp, so she sees what I do,but yea... I'm just silent about her.
I'm still looking at her. I leave it to God almighty, to judge, his( your friends) actions, werent worth it.

Jennynkk:
Happening right now as I was passing through Ada-george

orlaryhincah:
This creature was spotted among 2 others during school hours today at Jubilee Model, Surulere. Unfortunately for it, it was killed by the students of the school though the other 2 ran away but this very one was unlucky. I wouldn't believe this not until I got the picture, though said it won't die easily after being stoned and all so it took and elderly man to use a knife on it. Not surprise cause it's a Cat family, is it true they have 9 lives?

Senjuchiha:
who let ds jigaboo in hia?

lalasticlala:
President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan’s aide on Public Affairs, Doyin Okupe, has mocked Buhari who recently attended a thanksgiving service in Lagos with his running mate, Prof Yemi Osinbajo, who is a pastor at RCCG. He did that via his Twitter account. See tweet below:

"Buhari attends thanksgiving in Lagos. How time changes. Next Gmb will be taking Holy Communion in this desperate bid for Power. Jesus is Lord",


http://mobile.twitter.com/doyinokupe/status/552233424602542080?p=v

Decryptor:


And for wasting your energy typing, you are more stu.pid. Son of a vaga.bond

Decryptor:


I displayed that first photo because it was on the wall of the soldier that was lamenting that he was sent to fight boko haram without weapons and he was personally carrying the weapon himself. There was no need attaching this one first cos fo.ols like you would argue blindly.

Decryptor:


Look at the picture below...Are those not Nigerian Soldiers? The guy in the extreme left, and the one on top of the Armoured Personnel Carrier what are they carrying? Their father's walking stick??

And before you will claim that those are Chadian or even Ghanaian Soldiers....See the link:

https://www.nairaland.com/1851468/nigerian-troops-recapture-damboa-photos

I know you and your cohorts definitely pretended not to see it when it came out on FP.

[size=18pt]NOW...WHO IS STU.PID? Anuofia!![/size]

atlwireles:


You don't have to sallow anything. They were found guilty by a military court. What you and Falana believe are insignificant to me.

Decryptor:
Talking about being ill-equipped: I saw this on his facebook page...so this weapon he is carrying here with the bullet belt to match with his colleague is hunter's gun abi?

These northerners and their apc masters will never cease to amuse me

Lafem:
Wike is Rivers next gov, says Patience Jonathan

DECEMBER 14, 2014 BY CHUKWUDI AKASIKE

The wife of the President, Mrs. Patience Jonathan, has restated her endorsement for the governorship candidate of the Peoples Democratic Party in Rivers State, Nyesom Wike.

The First Lady, who spoke at the burial ceremony of Senator Tari Sekibo in Okrika on Saturday, expressed her confidence that Wike would be the next governor of the state.

It was her second public endorsement of Wike.

Jonathan, while addressing Okirika Council of Chiefs at the event, said, “Before you today is the next governor of Rivers State. He is the former Minister of State for Education, Barrister Nyesom Wike.

“The PDP is the best party and the most popular party in the country. The PDP is the leading party that will win Rivers State.”

The First Lady said she would continue to stand by those committed to the inclusive development of the people of the state and not leaders who insist on emasculating other groups through policies that will displace them.

She pointed out that such leaders would also not be allowed to produce their successor in the state, adding that their anointed successor had been briefed to continue with similar divisive policies.

On the virtues of late Sekibo, Jonathan said the former lawmaker believed in development and was committed to making sacrifices for the growth of the nation.

Culled from: http://www.punchng.com/news/wike-is-rivers-next-gov-says-patience-jonathan/

freecocoa:
Thats where you have it so wrong, marriage is not an achievement and some people's lives don't depend on it, so never tell me to go marry first, I never told you I was looking for a husband and no, the man I will marry won't be a toddler.

freecocoa:
Grow the feck up niggah, the food at the eatery, was it made by your wife? Your wife was at a function and you called her to say you were hungry, she even try say make you eat food wey dey house still you no happy, what should she have done? Left the occasion and come breastfeed you or what exactly? May I never end up with men like you, mschew.

freecocoa:
Dump that modafucking kid you are dating, like what rubbish? I'm so peeved I could do the break up on your behalf, seriously who behaves that way?

This hediot doesn't love nor respect you.

lalasticlala:
So to hug a friend and former boss in public is now forbidden? Oma ga o. Some group posted this pic below of former president Obasanjo and former minister Oby Ezekwesili at the former's book launch yesterday on their Facebook page and wrote some mess about it. See it after the cut...


http://lindaikeji..in/2014/12/people-sef-see-what-they-wrote-about.html?m=1

Mystic1:
I'll appreciate and withdraw my claims only if you're able to announce your position in Nigeria social strata. Tell me what makes you tink u're levels above me. Is it your obsession or what just tell everyone her what your position is because this isn't the first time you're claiming to be high and mighty.

chreldb:

How dare u!! . Ancient fellow. Lol

Bublanski: In Black & White!

fruityjojo:
Was all this really necessary

Johnnoah1st: pls where in Nigeria is portHarcourt?I haven't heard of DAT village/town b4 though but may God heal all does who have Ebola dere in Jesus name.

mizcalvina: who cares wat you think i am, i dnt give a damn, sweetie

mizcalvina: yea ryt, you definitely one of dem, demon

mizcalvina: u can say whatever u wanna, i dnt take shitttt*

jennylove7575: dat Na sophisticated classy barawo..stealing directly from CBN.. Dem no still from individuals hard earned savings.

jennylove7575: Yes they are never straight forward. Yahoo guys have short life span...their evil acquired money is worthless. Vanity and cursed. My dear I will never date a Yahoo boy. Yahoo people are very easily to detect.they only have crookish sense dem no clever...now Na yahoo plus aka kidney traders.

mizcalvina: These re the reasons why i hate yahoo guys.. (1) they re cheaters (2) they re smokers(3) they re liars (4) they spend money unNecessarily,above all they're demons/devilish.....