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So what are you trying to prove,FREAK?

I thank everyone for their responses:Good and bad.

Johndoe100:

@inzaneclan

There are a lot of frustrated  l.esbians on this forum who spend most of their time trying to make others miserable. You have met the some of the leaders here, their more restrained partners would not come out to challenge you but believe me they are watching.
The d. ildo acrobats take it as a point of honor to be as obnoxious as they can, in fact the more foul they are the happier they feel. Just ask the posters who have basically told you to go f, k yourself.

HA!HA!! Thank you sir,While I do not agree that they are frustrated L.esbians as you put it,I see that some of them radiate a lot of negative energy on the forum,and use it to deplete the positive energy of others.
As for me I believe in a united and strong family section.No amount of abuse can make me change my mind.

@ Madam Tpia,
I know you are trying to break me in,but I am afraid you will not be very successful.

ifyalways:

Hate is a strong word.Who get energy to hate on internet "programs and viruses"

LOL @ Replies first

@Topic,some people can be mischievous sha.They would cuss you out in other sections then come on here and start acting up when they are dished back their sauce.

Some questions and threads people throw on here can be quite irritating and sometimes mad annoying.How do you justify/be nice when replying such threads?

Some ppl believe or assume they know it all.Anyone with contrary views is either silly,illiterate or both.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-99703.0.html

Happy Reading^

@Ifyalways,
Thank you for your explanation.I read the thread and learnt a lot,however that does not mean we should not be civil to ourselves if we do not agree on certain things.

harakiri:

@inzaneclan, One thing need to understand is this : Nairaland is an anonymous forum where people feel free to air there views with the liberty of hiding their true identities. Unlike fb and other forums where you can somewhat trace the posters, most here are faceless and thus, they bare their true opinions other than "watered down politically correct sentiments". Furthermore, as much as you try to appear "civil,cool and collected", there will always be people who would capitalize on that and will reply you in a manner that leaves you no choice than draw pistols and fire salvos. This is something you'll experience and get accustomed to with time. There are people that will spill vile comments here and even if you try to "reason" with them, they'll simply use you as a scapegoat! You'll get used to it. Trust me on that. In between, I kinda prefer people airing how the TRULY feel (negative or positive) rather than people typing "civil" comments that everyone wants to hear. This forum would be boring without the burning flames you know. If you doubt me,open a thread about BARNEY and see how many comments you get, lol. Cheers.

Thank you for your comments sir.However I feel there is too much negative energy being expended in these internet fights.Why can't we generate positive energy to each other.We should be one big happy family,helping each other out.
Maybe this thread I opened sounds like Barney to most members of the forum and that is why they are not responding?Please do I have to be controversial and abusive to get responds to my thread?

There is so much hatred and negative energy on this family section of NL.Why can't we be on big family and look out for each other?Why so much fussing and fighting?
@OP,I hope you and your wife find what you are looking for because in the end what are all these struggles for?May God be with you.

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Madam actually I am a female.
And you are not without guilt,what i am saying is try to be civil when you disagree with someone,see it doesn't hurt.
And I think the way you responded to my post was a little harsh.
Comon sister,we are friends eh?

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But sir they could disagree in a polite and civil way and still get rid of the stress do you agree?

Hello everybody,
I am new on Nairaland,and I have spent the whole day going through some of the topics on the family forum.
While I must admit that most of the threads are quite intresting topics,I have a problem with a lot of the responses.
I thought people came here to get aolutions to their problems,but what they recieve in return are cruel insults.I am not talking about the well natured humour,but the outright,rude,sarcastic and snide responses.
Then there are the battles between some male and female groups,where real time insults and abuse are exchanged.
There is nothing wrong with disagreements during a discussion,but resorting to insulting peoples parents and lineage is certainly taking it too far.
The family section of NL should be populated by mature and experienced posters.We have to realise we can not all agree with one anothers viewpoint,but I feel we can agree with one another in a polite way without any vulgar and rude responses.
Please people what do you feel about my observation?
Why all the insults flying all over the family section?[b][/b]

Please explain further,why your mother does not want you to marry a man whom you already have an issue for?
More facts are needed,please.

Actually some women are violent towards their husbands and physically beat them up.
I once had a neighbour who used to get beaten up by his wife to the extent he used to run out of his apartment and leave the house for her.
And when he would return in the night the woman would not say anything,but wait till the guy was fast asleep,then she would wake him up around midnight and start beating the poor man up again.
Pray that God does not give you a troublesome and violent woman as a wife.
There was even one day she broke bottles all over the couples sitting room and invited her husband to engage her in a fight on top of the bottles.
I witnessed all these while Growing up.The couple were tennants in my dads house.

While I do not support the op,I think it takes two to tango.
What about single girls who agree to go out with married men?
Lots of girls do it,because if the single gals did not go out with married men,then the married men would not be able to commit adultry and betray their marrriage vows.
In fact I learnt that some girls respond to the speech married mens speech like this:

MARRIED MAN: Old girl I am Married o! In fact I have been married for 5 years.
SINGLE GAL: And so what,if you are married nko?Am I going to tell your wife?
From the above you find that both parties are to blame.
However married men should not keep gal friends.

It is part of loving and caring,gals like to be held because it is reassuring and it shows she is comfortable with you and trusts you to protect and take care of her.

mekaboy:

Why do girls feel that if a man is holding them tight while they sleep is a sign of love. I like to sleep freely without holding anybody or anyone holding me. I don't feel comfortable holding someone when I sleep.because I don't want to break her heart I hold her at night, when I wake up I get serious pain on my right shoulder joint. But I keep this to my self, but I think if I have to get married to a lady I have to let her know how I like to sleep if not I will wake up one day and notice that my hands have fallen of from holding. Are there any guys out there like me ?