Na waooo

Una dey confuse me more and more,
Now to start with , this guy no be person wey go just lie like that,cos he saved most of the converstaion and also from what the babe said on phone they made love three times and the promises where not made as she claimed in her mail.because all she said I later heared it on the save converstaion, from the recorded

THE LADY: Why u dey fear to get steady relationship
MY CO-WORKER: My mind never dey made up now and more so I get many professional exams to write for now

THE LADY: Shey na belle dey fear you
MY CO-WORKER:I no dey fear belle,if I like the person and get plans to marry am,if e get belle no wahala

THE LADY: Shey I qualify for that
MY CO-WORKER:Let us take things one step at a time and see what happens


That is jsut part of the many converstaions he saved and there are more,so its not like he made love to her and promised her not to worry that he would take care of it.

To the aspect of not suing condom, I no dey der so na wetin im tell me I follow,and according to him they met in Edo and made love on the 1st and 2nd of August this month,so e never reach one month yet.

Now to the DNA,when should he do it,after the woman born or when

SA Goddess:

He must have been ready for fatherhood and more, how did he not know the condom burst? He then proceeded to thrust until he came inside the woman, he will live, he is not the first!

@GODDESS what do you think he should do next, dats why I came here cos me no sabi wetin im go do


@jaybe, From the conversation he saved on his phone at the lady's house before they had sex,na the lady start am and also asked for the sex
@googles, wetin happen don happen na solution no be blame, ok??

More advice please and not blame, what has happened has happened

My co-worker told me something yesterday and since we are very close I felt I should help out.

He met a lady through facebook and they communicated for some time and called each other.he even helped her put in applications to many fimrs that advertised vacancy.The babe,from what my co-worker told me,is some one that is looking for a seriouse relationship and he told her that he is not ready but the babe keeps cajoling him and giving him instances of relationships that did not start well but later became better.

Last month he travlled to Lagos for his leave and on his way back to uyo he branched to see the lady in Edo who had been pleading with him to see her.From the converstaion my friend saved on yahoo and face book I found out my self that the lady is in Love with him even without seeing him in person.On several occasion she had sent love text messages and also most of their phone calls the guy recorded it and he played them to me.

Now the problem is when he went to see her in benin he slept in the lady's house and they made love and in one of the process the condom got burst(from what my he told me) and he released inside.But after that he apologised to the lady and the lady went to the bathroom and washed immediately.

He told me When he came back he told me everything that happened and later told the lady that he was sorry that as regards the relationship he cannot go ahead as he is not ready for one now.

Just yesterday he called me and told me that the lady sent him an email which he forwarded to me this morning,

Please take a look


l have gotten another jobs and l have not seen my mentrationU don’t know l was not good enough for u before u came to edo, and l was not good enough when u makes luv to me countless time, that make me an expected mother and u an expected father.

I asked u what u like about me, you said a lot of things and u re ready to take any action, if l get pregnant, well, is too late now, cos, u don’t have where to go. I might not be good for you, but l will be ok as the mother of your child. I promise u, l will look for u when l am strong enough. Because l have really try to terminate the pregnancy.

I can see u choose partner because of physical appearance, then u will see there is no enough inner attraction to sustain us as they change. And they do change. One thing about life, if u lives long enough, it’s the great equalizer. The young become old, beautiful become average, if a relationship is based on edoysical attraction, what happened when physical body fades? And the burning flames become little more than a glow? True love is stronger than that and withstands the passage of time. Infact, true love is like a fine wine, growing sweeter as it ages.

U might think being a good lover is about being able to perform sexual feats with great skill and sensitivity that could be fine if we speak all of our lives in beds. A good partner is the one who stays when all other have walked away. That is why l choose u as my lover, u gave me hope when other have gone, l could have look at your incapability on bad, know one day, u will perform more than enough. Because l have make a move to mentioned thing are normal.
All l needed is a relationship that can protect me from the storm of life. I can not really blame you because everything about you is fresh and new.
So my dear, this is all l have to say now, just call me and tell me how and where we re going to see concerning your unborn child, l know u will now allow the child to suffer what he did not know anything about, I gave you two week, if u didn’t make a move with the pics, l can locate u in two day. Do have a lovely day, remember I am not forcing myself on u, l have even forgotten you if not this.

ABEG HE JUST ASK ME WHAT HE WOULD DO, ME I NO KNOW NA IM AKE ME BRING AM COME HERE PLEASE I NEED YOUR ADVICE

Naija_Sisi:

Why would u want to toast if you have not met them before

I mean some one you just met today and u just gbadun her style and some how there might not be any opportunity seeing her soon if you dont make the move now.

Please help out,

Can any one give some examples of how to toast a chick you have not met before??

Its now on at cinemas, HARRY PORTER AND THE NIGERIAN POLITICIANS!!!!

@poster, Haaaaaaaaa ,ohhh

You f-up, you for just break the bottle for your own head and then stab your self twice before you stab the guy, so im go know say you serious,

I am just wondering, what is it in a woman's bosom that makes guys manliness misbehave anytime we see one whether, clothed or not

First to all those who says the poster is lying, I pray you dont experience anything like it,
I believe the guy for some reasons

1. I t has happened to me before but mine was loss of phone
2. She took advantage of the guy's place of work and no one in this country would want to loose his/her work because of one idiot
3. If it was a lie some one who knows the lady(I dont believe Bigjoe does) would have definitely seen her pics on NL and must have told her and there would have been a heavy reaction.

Finally,there nothing wrong in social networking or meeting people online its all a matter of being careful and also meet people in public places close to you,so if yawa dey ur own people go dey around, "NO BODY WEY NO FIT FALL MUGU"

guy abeg i hope say no be comedy you wan use the chop ooooooo

MY guy u r not in Love with her, Its ur dick that in love with her pussy and you lips in love with her breast.
 Shey dem no dey give dog meet make im look after,for your town

Dont ruin her relationship ask God to give you Yours.

Bros, how Old are you and also are you sure you are ready for a seriouse relationship?? Its easy to say but difficult achieve

Having sex with a girl i met for the first time without condom in 2006, men after I went for a seminar I was forced to take an aids test and when the test came out i was relived, NEGATIVE

promised never to try that in my life agin

namun:

i wonder why gusy are sooooooooo particular about sex. na food?

My Dear me self they wonder oooo,we like that tin no be small may God help us


@post sometimes virginity is in the mind,

After all these definitions and stuff, my question is is it proper

we see it in our communities everyday and quickies are the order of the day, does it mean no more decent girls in our campuses and who is to blame

Hmmm
the lady who was in a messey situation for a year I would say sorry, but you let it happen for too long and please stop generalizing.I grew up in Lagos and I know many yoruba guys who beat up their girl friend and even strip them naked in the process of beating them so its not the tribe but the person.

Practically as an Igbo man,I have never dated any Igbo girl and I cant say why, all my ex including my current gf are all yoruba girls and that is not to say yoruba girls prefer igbo men its just that where ever your heart leads you dont disobey sometimes or you would pay for it.

When he is 18 or just finihsed from secondary school, then he is of legal age, anytin wey im do, im go dey responsible for it.

6 months/male/in my mother's womb

I read all the comments here and wonder why you all forgot the fact that this guy is from PDP(People Destroy People) and also he stole ballot boxes with the aid of millitants now wey millitants don drop arms im body dey peper am too much.
   I no like to dey curse person i for say "Thunder go fire am and any body wey support am for that act,na slap im slap person,na gun dem go shoot am,may all his daughters(if he has any) be raped by mad men,as from this day on-ward may his eye sight start to fail him such that he would not see far distance when somebody dey touch im wife for public."

But since i no like to curse I would say may God purnish for this action!!! 

I am in the same need as this Guy, Please Some one educate us,

Marriage is a whole new ball Game not like normal dating.It would be nice if some one could just give some positive words.

Please I would really appreciate it if any one has CBT for 290 and 291

I MUST SAY THANK OU TO ALL OF YOU WHO HAVE CONTRIBUTED TO THIS THRED FROM THE POSTER TO GENTLELADY AND EVERYONE HERE,

I NEVER KNEW ALL THESE BEFORE, PLEASE KEEP THIS TYPE OF TREAD COMING