free will is the concept of choice being independent of things which we can not control,

its a concept the bible talks of

it contradicts cause and effect as if there is free will there is no cause behind each of our actions.

thank you so much for that website,

i feel connected to black people everywhere as well. i hope that we can grow as a people and wonder what i can do to help,
this website is very nice.

i find myself lately very confused about race and heritage.

i dont know what exactly to think of myself as, and i wish somehow that there were less classifications between us. but i cant change the past and the reality that i was born into ,

thank you all for answering

the answers meant a lot to me

@jammin

im in jamaica as well

are you nigerian and in kingston

i go to school here
i go to uwi


i wonder if we know each other??
i hope you see this,




@poster,

at least tell the girl, you dont have to say the guy is racist just say you dont think he is a good person and that she needs to be careful ,

@jammin

im in jamaica as well

are you nigerian and in kingston

i go to school here
i go to uwi


i wonder if we know each other??
i hope you see this,

@jammin

im in jamaica as well

are you nigerian and in kingston??

i go to school here
i go to uwi


i wonder if we know each other??
i hope you see this,

@sisterwoman

oh wow thanks, i am now reading up on it, i had no idea it was a health risk before

for me


after a few nights of sleeping next to the person, you get used to it

then when they arent there you miss the snoring like crazy, you cant even sleep without it

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Congrads, may you two be blessed greatly.

I'm sorry he said that. I guess I know how you feel. I am really bad at cooking , esp the things that my husband likes and I do remember days of spending hours cooking just only for him to taste it and then spit it out and say 'ummm can we order out?'

I think at the end of it all, he would like to have liked the food, but well it may not be what he is used to.
Think of it like food that someone made for you that just taste odd to you.

Well I hope that you'll can talk about it, I think you will see that he did not mean it in a bad way if you talk to him,


Maximum respect <3

lol helmet you are so right.

please keep the baby please!

i am not even kidding if it is at all possible i would even adopt your child if you'll can not care for him or her,
and i do not mean that as in insult.

its just i have trouble conceiving so far

and i want to have a family.

please believe me, having children is a gift, take care of your child for however long you are allowed to, no matter what. cherish the gift life has given you.

please have your child.

lol my hubby is balding badly.

yes it can be passed on to your kids.
dont worry about it though, some bald guys look good.


and who the person is on the inside is wayyy more important than if they got hair on their heads,

go for the guy if thats your only consern.

of the slave trade who live in the caribbean and the united states of america and brazil , e.t.c,

how connected do you'll feel to them, do you feel as connected to them as you would to other african nations?

i ask since I go to school in Jamaica and have Caribbean heritage and I feel connected to you'll so is it the same for you'll or not at all?

helovesme


i believe strongly that what you say is TRuE!

why would you go through all this trouble if it was not true? I am very sorry you got hurt by what we were saying, maybe I was just being evil; so sorry.

i am also sorry my post seemed to imply that I thought you were lying, what I was trying to say is that you seem to be lying since your way of writing highlights , what in my mind is not what someone would normally highlight.

but everyone is different.
Now i see you are true.


I hope you'll do have a wonderful family and great life together. Tell him that you love him everyday and just do what you think is right.
He loves you, so just be you!

If you are the Husband, What will you do?

try to be a good father to the child, and to my other children, tell my wife sorry, and that i will always be there for her, but i would move out of 'our' house, fearing the poison lol.

If you are the Wife, What will you do?

I'd be very sad, leave my husband, and support my sister in having the child. At first I would hate my sister, but blood is thick, and i believe it can over come even this. (actually i have an aunt is this SAME situation, she stayed with her husband and took care of her younger sisters child as if it was her own).


If you are the pregnant sister, What will you do?

Have the child, apologize to my sister, take care of the child.

lol too funny

I am a female NOT a male.

and i will say she sounds like she is lying as well.
no offense to you poster.

i have a husband who also works for an oil company in europe, and is european , and when we were dating he did way more for me than you describe.

He never bought me clothes and all that nonsense but the things that he has done did and still do have meaning.

Why you seem to be lying is not because of what he has done. YES men do these things and so much more for the women that they love, but the women that they love do not see the things which you choose to highlight as important.

For all the visa money, and plane tickets, and computers and bills and whatever other material thing (as our relationship like your was long distance) my husband gave to me, what I saw as important was not a plane ticket or phone; it was the fact that he CARED! And I could not imagine coming on here and saying,

'he bought me this and that and got the most expensive one, how can I thank him'

More likely than not, I would come on here and say , 'I am with a really sweet guy, who cares for me, and is always concerned about my feelings, and my welfare, and he makes me smile so much everyday , i didnt even think it was possible to be this much in love, what can I do to show him that I love him this much and that I appreciate his companionship'

How would your boyfriend feel to come on here and see what you have posted? If I were him I would feel like the only things that you bothered to notice is me throwing money at you and pleasuring you in bed. People are supposed to mean more than that to each other when in love.

But hey; life is not that serious. So enjoy him, and enjoy life.
Maximum respect poster.

i think that in life a lot of what we see is cause and effect.

i think that there are reasons that we all do the thinks that we do.
there are even reasons why some people steal and kill others.

i hurts my heart so badly when i hear people talk negatively about african nations. because i believe that there are reasons for everything and that people just like animals and rocks and trees all respond to the causes around us.

i believe that every one of our actions is a response.

my question to you is do you believe in cause and effect or do you think that humans have free will?

if you do believe in free will please explain it to me

it will work

my parents are the exact combination and have been happily married for over 30 years. =)