Kdiva:

he should pick the one he wants.. that would end or reduce this drama..

he is already with the girl he wants to be with at this present time, what else can he possibly do. he has already taken her to mama to show he is serious. d gold digger should go dig somewhere else.

Kdiva:
he should pick the one he wants.. that would end or reduce this drama..

he is already with the girl he wants to be with at this pres

Kdiva:
I think the sister who didn't pose deserves him , but why isn't the guy saying anything about it?

what do you expect him to say? the younger sister should go and sleep. her time don pass.

op, don't mind all these people telling you to prove the allegations. you can never catch a girl cheating except you saw her chat, you caught her red handed(and both parties must be in bed together or it can still be denied) or she tells you, and a girl will never admit except you are the side guy. if you're waiting for proof, might as well wait for Christ

female head = 90/3 = 30 double head = (230 - 30) / 2 = 100 singlemale head = 210 - (30 + 100) = 80 amswer = 100 - 30 + 80 = 70 + 80 = 150

am pretty sure it's 150

queencalipso:
Romanceland is definitely the wrong place to seek r/ship advice imagine the comments!

How can you just conclude she has a strong connection with whatever name you saw without talking to her about it?

Agreed you saw 'ME' which according to you is her ex then so what!! Does that conclude anything?

She came to your house, you gave her attitude without telling her what she did/ what u saw; she went home confused, wondering what she must have done wrong. She called to confirm, you dropped the call on her again without telling what the problem is

what were you expecting? For her to make a call that will be dropped or come to your place to get an attitude. She gave you the space that your attitude demanded.

When you are ready to tell her what she did and talk things through, you know where to find her. Until then, don't conclude that your thinking/imaginations of her are true.

Acting based on your thoughts/imaginations is the worst mistake any1 can make bcz in the end, it may turn out to be wrong.

aunty, forget that rubbish of talking things through. it doesn't take rocket science to understand what is going on here. imagine that your boyfriend used BUGS BUNNY to store your Number, how would you feel. things like this always have ulterior motives, be it a guy or a girl. the best the guy is going to get is a sweet lie that would confuse him further. BABA, she ain't worth it

i would do absolutely nothing. better that than with some guy

complete waste of time if you ask me, except the test is once every two weeks

SmellingAnus:
OP I feel so touched by this your story.... Your babe still has a strong connection with her ex, it could either be financially or sexual connection.... How do I open my mouth to tell you to let go when I know from experience that it's one of the most difficult things to do... But op if you don't let go, it's a sure way to high blood pressure.... If you die today, she will still fuckkk her ex the same day you died to console herself.... But if I were in your shoes, I may continue to play the fool and try to bring her back (but within me , I know it's a dead relationship... I will act so nice.... And let the relationship die a natural death ... By that , the chances of me having a heart break is reduced... Oh I forgot to say.... I will source for another serious relationship with patience... Anyway it's the devil in me speaking now) .... Just call her and make up with her, but know that you are only delaying d evil day that she will finally dump you or you finally dump her....
CC: exlover

one problem with this advice is that the guy might end up getting his hopes high again. just walk away now. the more time you spend with someone, the greater the bond. i have been there, done that and never doing it again. most Nigerian girls are simply incapable of loving a guy, so i don't bother myself with relationship nor invest more time into having one.

girls would say guys have no right to judge them except God yet they think guys have the right to forgive them. babe go meet God, after He forgive you, bring proof then we'll reconcile

If you call her or even worse apologize as well, you will forever regret it. if you're as emotional as i perceive, you better walk away now. i can tell you with 80% percent certainty that there wont be a happy ending. i know it is hard but as each morning passes, the pain would be less and less. spend time with people that make you smile, don't jump into another relationship early, have fun and most importantly, focus on making money. i bet you that the feeling of love you feel for her would become sympathy.

Antina:


Sign and cross ke? Why naa?

because i didn't know that committing abortion have become so widely accepted by the ladies in our society. i find it difficult to look at blood, not to talk about the thought of killing a potential human being like me. haaaaaa

haaaaa. c d way girls dey react to abortion as if na akara nylon wey person dey troway. i don do sign of cross like 7 times reading comments here. God, abeg o

chenor:


Mister must you react this way. Obviously you have no sympathy. She admitted her mistake and came clean. Probably she didn't want to remain guilty for ever.

If you are a Muslim or Christian. What happened to the do not condemn part?

People make mistakes. Other than bashing her why don't you drop a word of advice.

What of if someone else you know is in her shoes and needs advice. Is this what you will do.

If you are not married. What of if the girl you get married too has deep secrets, even if you are married. How are you sure she doesn't have secrets that can throw you off balance.??.

Your moniker says HardMirror right?. Are youno really cold blooded in life. From the way you are acting.

She didn't type the whole gist so you can't conclude and say stuffs.
Well we will never know what others are going through till we pass through it or someone dear to us does.

Just not impressed with your words

chill! it is not everyone that can handle such secrets. i know i can't wake up to see a woman who once killed her child. can't blame him. she should have told him from the start. there's no need hiding such as medical examinations can also confirm abortions

who girlfriend help. olosho is the best for a heart attack free satisfaction. it is cheaper with little or no obligations.

what is this obsession with nigerians and marriage. getting married does not mean that you're gonna stay married. at the end of the day, the hoe eventually comes out in the marriage

villareal15:
Ahah,my niggar
Seriously, he's a jerk. Just drop him asap(if you can't keep up).




Sent from my aging iPhone 6s, soon to be 7.

but i thought girls love bad boys. lol

my friend, just accept your fate cos you're going nowhere

yes o, you are very normal. Atleast until you realise that marriage is a life sentence without parole. not to mention the panic attacks you might have during the dating period. it is all overrated

thecatch:
I need a guy BTW 27-35 Working Independent Knows how to sex Good looking Loves to catch fun Not too religious For a nice dating

chill, Jesus is coming soon

KevMitnick:
This exposes a fundamental flaw in the female folk. Terrible experiences of physical and emotional abuse, serial exploitations and raging emotions has left these ladies with chronic cases of low self-esteem.
Unable to accurately identify and differentiate between genuine kindness and it's opposite, they opt for the cowardly option of praying for a 'nice guy' but expecting a bad guy (they dream about transforming a bad guy to a good guy... Sic) . I guess it's easier to bear being treated with disdain than being treated with respect.
If you worry about a 'nice guy' kindness, time will tell about its genuineness. It's sad that girls would rather have a guy abuse them than treat them well.
So guys, if you're a 'nice guy' and you meet any girl that cringes at your niceness, please run in the opposite direction. She's got a lot of baggage she's carrying, unresolved emotional issues, low self esteem, trust issues, daddy issues... She'll drag you down to her level and pull you in the mud. It's not your duty to save or enlighten her.
I have dated girls who responded well to my, permit me to use this phrase; show of niceness. So the good news is that not all girls are walking wrecks.

hmmmmmm. no comment. just lot of sense

only nice guys without goals complain of being Friend zoned. the bitches will come in a millions when i finally arrive and i won't even have to say please

that's a fact. that's why i made a rule. am a good guy and i cant help. so as a good guy, if i ask you out once and you say no, you would forever be in the friend's zone even when you realise your mistake

2dice01:
random hoes huh
Guess you will be satisfy other girls calling you a hoe too

fact is a girl considers other girls that aren't related hoes because they are potential competitors

being nice isn't being stupid. if i have to be a jerk for girls to like me, then i prefer to be celibate.most girls would date the bad boys, but at the end of the day would want to settle down with the nice guy. so being nice is it's own reward

awesome guys, been looking for info about ips and y'all have been a great help. when is the admission exam usually scheduled to take place?

oboy, this thread reminds me of one babe. when her birthday reach, i go buy her present, when my b.day reach, i go still buy her present. nobody tell me b4 i learn. hardly got respect for girls who aint related these days. just focused on achieving my goals, then i go settle down chop better kpekuses

well, you cant compare a london used car to a tear rubber

so, we still have 25 year old virgins. hmmmm, finally there's hope. make i go find my future wife jooor

Is there a medical way or method to determine if a woman has aborted before. Because there is only room for one crack head in my family and that's me n I am not even a crackhead

Jesu, pls God, don't let such girls cross my path. I know say I bad small o n i no be saint but I can't live with a murderer.