I'm going to be 23 in less than three weeks. There are a lot of things I don't understand. Will be going for NYSC is less than a month. I badly want to learn a school but I'm stranded of both cash and ideas. .

MisterRuk:

Negativity feeds upon a previous negativity to grow
Hatred feeds on hatred
Mediocrity feeds on mediocrity
Like fire, evil needs evil to justify itself to grow
It's a cyclical thing
Modern day feminism won't be this strong today if there weren't men falling hands, raping women, cheating on their wives or girlfriends, domestically abusing their wives, inability to control themselves in public when they see a woman, and not chasing after greater causes but embracing mediocrity.
After the saga of the gospel singer who was battered to death by her husband many "empowered women" have now come out online to condemn marriages and encourage women to stop being submissive to their husbands.
It's the same with the redpill, if there weren't manipulative and wicked women
who suck men's money and emotion, or even 4th wave feminists out there this thread might not have existed.
So to your question:
As long as you're an adult, male or female, take responsibility for your actions first. From your waking up to your going to bed. Be watchful of your actions and reactions especially in times of pain and negativity. If women are putting up a lot of nasty behaviors around, make we no follow do our own in retaliation, think first, mind your actions. You might end up turning an innocent woman nearby into a bad person, or worse, give a already bad woman the opportunity and excuse to wreck society.

This post is SPECIAL.

Emotionss:
90% of men are just surviving life instead of living and enjoying it.

The picture below illustrates what most men pass through on a weekly/monthly basis. And we wonder why the mortality rate of men between the age of 30- 65 years is very high.

Some men impose these pressures on themselves. They want to prove to the world that they're mature and responsible (by marrying?). In Makurdi, a guy borrowed #400,000 for wedding. Months down the line, he couldn't pay back as he was trying to survive and he had little. His neighbor, who he borrowed the money from, got fed up and had him locked up. . I left Makurdi not to long after so I don't even know how they later settled the wahala. It is not by force to marry. It is not by force to give birth. . But as usual, people no go hear word.

iamphenomenal:
Today's Redpill doses are too hot. In fact, I think I overdosed today

Thanks to our masters Ubunja and CaveAdullam, seriously you guys should consider some of your students by dressing your nuggets in some cosmetics (joking)

It got to a time as I was reading the Rational Male when I had to angrily close the book. The contents are way too bitter to survive. In fact, I almost angrily deleted the book (well, Rollo warns in the foreword that we should brace for the impact). Right now, I'm still scared to open that book

Seriously, like I've always told my friends: the men that existed in the past generations were very lucky. Our fathers were very lucky to have picked wives in that era. Even those that got married 10 years ago can't imagine how lucky they were

It is well
Let's stay redpilled

Today is not fun at all

I laughed out loud reading this. . The truth is bitter. . Walai Talai Sunmobilai nazeem

If you want to commit suicide, commit. Which one is snake farm Tori oloun?

Lightway:

I don't understand why you're shocked. It's like you've never been through a Nigerian University

I was about to type this.

Emmynator:

You see that's where you are getting it wrong, you think we are saying a man just sits and say i am going to become successful for pussy (sure a few men do that), and you most likely think women plan their lives in a particular fashion, or that there's a sisterhood somewhere telling women how to get the best out if men. The truth is that women dont sit to plan, neither is there an organized sisterhood. The seemingly existence of the sisterhood, and the female propensity to do certain things is motivated by evolutionary instincts, and it is more important than you think.
For millennias, for a man to successfully reproduce, he must first have a territory and the ability to protect it, creating the best possible environment for his offsprings thrive. This means he gets exclusive access to a woman or women and by extension sex, those who are deemed weak do not enjoy this luxury, as women who are attached to weak men, while lose on the long run, since they will not be protected from danger. In event of a territorial war, where the weak men are killed off, and their wives pawned off to strong men.
As a consequence of this women developed the instincts to want strong men, and men developed the instincts to be strong as a consequence. Man want to continue his legacy and women want to procreate under the best circumstances, and this formed the basis of our intersexual dynamics till this day, men get sex and offsprings in exchange for protection and territory, when the world evolved and being strong was a prerequisite for provision "Alpha fvcks, Beta bvcks" came into being.
Not just evolutionary instincts but also social learning, a child sees the benefit that is accrued to strong men, his evolutionary instincts to be strong is triggered and enhanced too.
Now reducing this to "all men don't say i am going to get rich because of sex", is denying the power of evolutionary instincts and even the redpill by extension, i mean how many times have we pointed to evolutionary instincts when describing female nature. Except you think evolutionary instincts have no effects on men, while it has all the effects on women, which would be false.
Finally, ask yourself why testosterone is the major success driving tool for men, if any if the above statements is false. Do your research on testosterone as a success motivator. Testosterone the same hormones that drives us sexually, also drives us to success, do the maths bro, It's simple, sex and all it's components (procreation and pleasure) are the major motivation for men.

Walai Talai sunmobilai nazeem, This is GOLD.

abercrombie:
I finished from Public Administration,2021 Set.....Great NAPAS!!
Waiting to serve bro.... it's not easy

I finished from Religious Studies. February 2021. Waiting to serve too. . .

Remmedy:
I left this thread for just two weeks and I was already simping ….. Buying flowers and cash to a girl who doesn’t give a Bleep about me …. I came back last night after updating myself with all I missed I was so ashamed of myself…. I promise not to leave even for an hour again

This comment had me laughing out loud.
Generally, one thing I've observed is that as human beings, we quickly forget.
No matter how much we think we know something, once we take time off, we start to forget.
Hence the need to ALWAYS feed our minds with the truth. We need to ALWAYS remind ourselves.
ALWAYS. .

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THE FØØL WIPED OUT HIS FAMILY 'CUS OF AN INTERNET GIRL HE NEVER MET.

I HAPPENED TO CHECK INTO TĮKTOK YESTERDAY FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER AND I LANDED IN THE GREATEST CLOWNERY. WIGGLY-JIGGLY GĮRLS AND FINISHED MEN DOMINATE THAT APP. NEARLY EVERY WXMAN THERE IS WRIGGLING TO THE LIKES AND NONSENSE COMMENTS OF IDĮOTIC MEN WHO IN NO DISTANT TIME MAY START TO BEHAVE LIKE THESE WHITE DUDES THAT DONATE THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS TO THØTS JUST TO BE ALLOWED TO MĄSTURBATE TO STAINED PANTIES, OR SOME SHĮT. OH WAIT, FOLKS HERE ALREADY PAY FOR VOICE CALL SEX AND "PREMIUM" SNAPCHAT BREAST PICTURES. IMAGINE SENDING A GĮRL MONEY JUST TO LISTEN TO HER MOAN FOR 5 SECONDS OR FINGER HERSELF OVER WHATSAPP. THEY EVEN SEND GĮRLS CASH JUST SO THE LADĮES CAN REPLY THEIR NUMEROUS UNREAD MESSAGES LMAO
I WONDER WHAT TO EXPECT NEXT, BECAUSE TRULY, THE BAR OF STUPĮDITY ONLY EVER KEEPS RISING.

LMFAO. It is both funny and pathetic. Some people are unbelievably stupid.

abercrombie:
He really did a good job there....my academic calendar at Kogi state University was seemless and uninterrupted,I give him kudos in that aspect



But he ain't fits to rule this country yet

What department did you finish from?
it's nice to meet a fellow nairaland who is from KSU.

Righteousness2:
Olamide, I Have a message for you.

Listen! Time is almost up! It is time for you to come out from path of Darkness to the path of Life.

It is time for you to Denounce Evil and Embrace JESUS Christ.
Time is up!

This is a Message from the throne of Heaven to you.

If you Have Ears to Hear, you should Hear!

Olamide is already a Christian.

How on Earth is this man still alive? Tori oloun, How?

Laeroy:
Someone once said that doing rituals doesn't give actual money but it does deaden the conscience of the ritualist which inturn makes him do anything doable to make the said money...

HONESTLY.

ubunja:
remember read and apply.

TAKEN BOSS.

ubunja:

On the issue of greenlights and noticing them fast and acting quick, let me share how I used to cheat on my babymama while we were together...

Let me begin with this one event concerning our phones....

So me and her at one time we had the same exact Samsung phone, the model number down to the color and the color of the covers/pouch. One morning we were running behind time and in her rush to get to work she picked up MY phone and went with it to work. Myself I didn't see until I got a call and it was her boss asking my babymama where she was and why she was running late. I realized it was babymama's phone!!!! Not mine.

So we each spent the whole day with each other's phones. Myself I was not worried because no suspect calls were going to come in anyways. Well no calls came on her phone either and I didn't see any suspicious activity on her phone. Not that I was too worried. And not that I thought she was perfect. I didn't care too much.
Now it's not that myself I was well behaved,, cause I was cheating a lot at that time. But here's the thing,, I never took down any numbers or gave anyone my number. What I did was wherever I went, I was just alert for girls who were down - to-fucc (dtf).

Like this other woman a co-worker was seeing who came to work on a day he was absent. They had a communication breakdown and she turned up on the wrong day. I had always fancied her. And she was in a receptive mood. So I escalated until I took her back to my place and hit. No numbers. No second hookup. Just a 1 hit wonder.
Then there were two sisters I knew from before and one day I met the younger one who happened to be in a receptive mood and we talked until we went somewhere and I hit. Again, no numbers exchanged. No second hookup. Just a 1 hit wonder.

That was my method of operation for a long time. I didn't have a steady girl I was cheating with. But I was always alert for opportunities. My phone stayed clean. I could leave it at home no worries.

As guys we need to cultivate that ability to spot women who are in the mood for some D. Even a 10 minute romp that won't ever happen again. There are plenty of such situations out there.

I have friends who were even far better than me at this "same day pussy" thing. Who could meet a girl now, and in a few hours be screwing in some hotel. My own conquests were not as good as theirs, admittedly. Still, I got my share.
If you meet a girl, and she's not turning you down, keep pushing to see how far you can go with her. Take it as a challenge. Remember women are trains, they start slow, but when they get in the mood and the hormones are moving, you have to finish what you started. TODAY. Not tomorrow. As long as she's still listening keep seducing and suggest she come with you somewhere private. You'll be surprised how the least suspect women will let you hit. Only keep pushing. Don't have the mind of "this girl is nice and we're vibing, let me go home I'll finish talking with her on whatsapp and meet her another day. BIG MISTAKE. By the time you whatsapp her she'll be cold and ignore you. By tomorrow she'd be back to her senses.
That same day that she's listening keep pressing and you just might hit. If you see a guy and girl kissing in the park and romancing each other and they part ways,,, always know that the girl is going to pass somewhere to have another guy finish what the first guy started. And you yourself if your girl visits you at your place,, as long as you don't intend to fucc her, don't touch her. Don't press her buttons. Don't romance her. Cause once her hormones are moving and you don't give her the D, she's passing somewhere else to get the job that you started finished.

You, Martinez, Caveadullam, Ambitious and many people here - You people have taught what even University professors do not know. Realism over Intellectuality anytime, anyday. I'm forever grateful. Still have a lot to read though.

BURNA BOY!!!

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Soon we are going to discuss about how men sacrifice their health, time, youth, labour and money to cater for their children, wife and oftentimes the wife's family; but the children grow up detached from their father and connected to their mother.

Oftentimes, their mother maybe a very low income earner, or a high income earner who would rather use her salaries to buy wrappers, head-tie, gold jewelries and others.
Yet when the children start earning they take care of their mother, bring her overseas while they buy dry gin and leather sandals for their father.

The man's wife out of Serpentine greed will poison the children's heart in order to remove their father from the equation, and become the sole beneficiary of the children's gifts and care.
We are going to change that narrative and put our father on equal salaries and gifts.
Never Again!
A man is not saved until he begins to apply the truth to his immediate family. #SaveNigerianMen

-AllahKaduna Nzeogwu via Facebook. January 2 at 7:13 PM ·

Two ways baba. I have seen cases where the man was very wicked and irresponsible. So wicked that well-meaning neighbors advised the wife to run away with the kids. The kids are growing now and he's been sick for a while. You need to see how much anger and hatred they melt out on him daily. So, many times, It isn't the wife poisoning their hearts, it is what they grew up seeing DAILY.

Thank God for him.
Lemme not lie, I expected the pastor that gave him money for the surgery to heal him instead. Just a word from a man of God would have saved his family the cost. I'm a Christian, but recently I haven't been able to shake this question off my mind; Why do pastors who claim to possess the power of God fail when victims are in dire need of a miracle? Why is there ALWAYS an excuse when it is time to deliver?

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SIMPS ARE TERRIBLE PEOPLE, AND THIS TRUE STORY IS ONE OF THE BIGGEST REASONS WHY I DETEST THEM ALL.
I'D HAVE DIED A LONG TIME AGO BECAUSE A SIMP'S GIRL HAD A HUGE CRUSH ONE ME. THIS SMALL BOY ARRANGED HIS CULT FRIENDS TO COME PICK ME TO BE WASTED SOMEWHERE IN THE BUSH BECAUSE HIS GIRLFRIEND OPENLY EXPRESSED HER FEELINGS FOR ME, TO HIM, AT A TIME WHEN I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW THE SAID GIRL'S NAME OR CARE FOR WHAT SHE LOOKS LIKE. HE TALKED ABOUT ME WITH HER A LOT AND PROBABLY BECAUSE SHE DISCOVERED THROUGH HIM THAT I WAS FINANCING HIS NONSENSE MUSIC CAREER AND ALSO THEIR OUTINGS (I WAS PLAYING BIG DADDY), SHE STARTED DEVELOPING INTEREST FOR ME AND THEIR RELATIONSHIP STARTED SHAKING. TO SOLVE THIS PROBLEM, THE SIMP OPTED TO ASSASSINATE ME.

I WAS ALREADY BUNDLED, GUN LOADED. I'VE COLLECTED SEVERAL SLAPS ALREADY SEF BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE. FORTUNE WAS ON MY SIDE, BUTCHER (ABI EXECUTIONER) WAS MY BOY. IT TOOK A WHILE AND THEY LET ME GO. IMAGINE I HADN'T BEEN GOOD TO THOSE BOYS IN MY SCHOOL. A 20-YEAR-OLD 200-LEVEL SIMP WOULD HAVE KILLED A 500-LEVEL ME BECAUSE HIS GIRLFRIEND WAS IN LOVE WITH ME. A MAN IN LOVE IS INDEED A STUPID MAN. EMBRACE HIM AT YOUR OWN EXPENSE.

This gave me chills bro. So an innocent man would have been killed because of somebody's insecurity? I am 100% sure the girl is no longer with him. DEATH TO SIMPS.

Vinnie2000:


This Burnaboy ain't Wise at all!

because he got muscles, he think say everything na GraGra!

He has successfully fallen into the Trap of Attention-Seeking, Useless Shatta Wale!

Dat's why WizzyBaba's Silent mode is always the Best!
Don't Talk or Reply to people too Much, hence they start to Misbehave!

100% TRUE. Shatta Wale set a trap, and Burna Boy fell right into it. Common Sense and Intelligence should go hand in hand with ruggedity. That is if there should be ruggedity at all. Burna is one of the best musicians in the world Currently. This alone should have made him careful enough to ignore certain things. . Odogwu no try for this one at all.

Uptheante:
But the hate is mutual. I mean prostitutes also hate non-prostitutes. What is the explanation for that?

I think it is because they see the non-prostitute as pretenders.

Uptheante:
But the hate is mutual. I mean prostitutes also hate non-prostitutes. What is the explanation for that?

I think it is because they see the non-prostitute as pretenders.

Uptheante:
But the hate is mutual. I mean prostitutes also hate non-prostitutes. What is the explanation for that?

I think it is because they see the non-prostitute as pretenders.

Omijin:
I learned that the universe is designed in a way that nobody have full understanding of how it works.. That is why I find it difficult to advice people on path to follow.

THIS!

NwaAmaikpe:




I don't know which is easier to spot; a cum soaked panty, a person with a body odour or a child who has been brought up by an evil mom not to see any good in their father.

The fact that the first paragraph of your woe tale defends your mom and aims to minimize her influence on you betrays her.

I have seen plenty of your kind, fortunately for me, some of these scums are in my family, so that affords me the privilege of sniffing out the influence of long-time, manipulations momipulations once they start to complain.

The truth is,
No father is totally good, neither is there any who is totally bad. Some dads are write-offs no doubt, but it only takes a write-off of a child to write to the world of their own dad as a write-off even when pointers tell otherwise.

Some of our moms are horrible cooks, but how many times do we tell our friends that our mom's cooking was the reason most of us spent our growing years in hospitals?

It's one thing to have a brain and another to have a discerning brain.

From what I deduce,
Your dad is apparently an upright man, who would not side evil irrespective of who commits it so it's strange to your mom that he'd take sides with strangers rather than support the wrongs of his kids.

I also see you expect your dad to pick fights with people because your quarrelsome mom isn't cool with them. That's whack, infantile and shows how much you think like your mom.

The fact that he appreciates very little gifts from strangers shows he is appreciative too.

In my early twenties, I wasn't living in the family house playing referee while my parents fought, I already had a good job, a decent car and getting my preek wet most of the time in preparation for marriage.
So I relate to your dad's disappointment.

It is only unfortunate that his kids are not living up to his expectations and he is reminded of this each time he sees other kids who are and ends up voicing out his unfulfillment.

That's one of his flaws but the fact that you are alive is a testament that he was good enough to ejaculate into your mom's hollow chamber rather than allow her die childless.

I have now come to learn that the worst thing that can happen to a man is not to have a wife who spreads her legs for any Thumb, Preek and Harry but the worst thing that can happen to a man is to have a wife who spreads his flaws to not just any Tom, Dick and Harry but also to his kids.

But if you've concluded that your father is as useless as your mom has made you believe he is. Help her become a widow so you can marry her and make her taste what true love is or you can continue to hate him with every blood in your vein; but that won't stop him from being your father. Would it?

Till then, wait till you become a father with bunch of useless kids who have been completely turned against you by their troublesome mom and let's see if you won't make your dad look like a learner at cursing.

Mkpi Awada.

This is a VERY FOOLISH write-up. Some fathers are ACTUALLY evil.

maureensylvia:
Hmmmm

It's high time you left his home and go stay in another house, even if it's one room face me I face you.. it's manageable

For peace sake
For your sanity sake

Parental curses are real, try as much as possible to avoid it which starts from you leaving the house

How I so dislike cursers!!!
Get independent dude
When he doesn't see you two, three years and you coming back in a big way.. I'm sure he will regret his actions

Mothers can be manipulative too, just use your no. 6

Parental curse can NEVER be to ANY effect if the child is not at fault. If it is to ANY effect AT ALL.

In a world full of this much people, I cannot find someone better than you? If the matter no be my fault, Get the phuck out!

TeeKings:
In whatever you do, never go into fraud. Rather learn a skill either digital or not, work your way up the ladder


I can introduce you to affiliate marketing with a little start up capital

I'm interested baba.

Show Dem Camp ft Ogranya, Moss and Alpha Ojini --- Streets .

How do you gruesomely murder a person for stealing? what's the logic?