It starts with the little things people see as "normal" in Nigeria:

- You drink sachet "pure" water and dump the sachet on the road like a retard.

- You crack boiled groundnuts along the road, chewing and leaving a groundnut shell trail like a bush animal.

- You cross the express running like a confused chicken when there's an overhead pedestrian bridge few metres away from you.

- You bring out your wa.nker and piss in the nearest gutter like a baboon when you're pressed...

- And many more.

It's not magic - We are the streets.

Unlimited22:

Guys.
I've been published in a literary journal ọ.


Small me. Ah.

https://figwortlit.com/mirror/

Big ups, senior man.

pocohantas:


Yesterday my sister was telling me of a colleague that was telling another man whose wife resigned a stressful job that he can't take any rubbish from woman let alone the one not earning. They were together at work when his wife called him to buy Knorr cubes and he should stop somewhere to buy Xpression hair extension for their daughter. The wife is jobless. He immediately started making excuses for his wife. That she is building her career at home.

Hahahaha. Knorr specifically.

Lmao 😂

Eunoiaa:


Oh, and I remember this. While ideally, one should be open and comfortable with their partner, and shouldn't put off having difficult discussions, because they are scared of their response or "punishment", cheating has entered the picture here and so, thrown everything off balance. So by all means, employ a cost-benefit analysis or whatever business technique you need to protect yourself. Cheating itself is already an aberration in a monogamous relationship jointly sworn to. If they can cheat, they can do anything else.

I can understand why you feel this way. But trust me, nobody is a robot. Everyone is really tough when it comes to other people's stories...but there's a reason it's called a curve ball... just hope that it never comes at you...'cause, you'd think you've got it all figured out and boom, it slips through.

We can agree to disagree though - but it's easy to have mapped out strategies and this I-expect-the-worst-from-anybody attitude, so can never be you.

But it can be you.

Eunoiaa:


Maybe, or perhaps I used a bad example. What I am referring to is like situation where she has to stand for you to get some financial benefit, that you may not even be able to repay in a short-term or monthly basis.

But anyway, do you.

People have rode out unpleasant (co-)dependency situations, and will continue todo so or pipe low until they are able cut themselves off without any consequences. It's just the sensible thing to do.

You go and be calling people out when you're in situations like that sha. 👍

I think this applies to a job, a business deal or even a regular friendship...where you tend to be analytical and try to be on your toes while doing your cost-benefit assessment.

In a relationship (not necessarily, marriage), what you naturally expect when you catch/confront a cheating partner is denials, apologies or a tearful break. You don't expect that your partner will go a step further to decommission you totally.

It's like finding out that, say, your mother has been telling your friends some bad stuff about you... you confront her and she kicks you off her house...and people blame you and say you should have gotten your own apartment before confronting your mom.

The truth is, you never see that coming. It's a cruel curve ball.

nihilistjnr:


It is therefore an injustice, to demand or expect justice, in a completely lawless,Godless, and unjust society like Nigeria.

Factos. Self injustice.

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This yahoo of a thing is a NORM in Nigeria.
A beautiful girl walked up to me somewhere in Ikoyi after I'd finished a work meeting at one of the pizzerias there and boldly asked me if I was a gee boy.
Apparently, someone on a Mac speaking English on a weekday - just has to be a Yahoo boy. She wanted my number so she can "help me make calls and talk to clients".

Very young girl of 25 max... asking if I be yahoo boy like say na professional courtesy before giving an elevator pitch.

Make I no even talk about how very foolish, legit hustlers are looking. Even if you're banking 1M per month (top 5%, at the very best, for legit hustlers), and you compare with your mate splurging millions on a daily, e go look like you dey play.

Not to mention the really smart scammers (I happen to know a few) who are investing in real estate, fancy restaurants, salons and car stands - wey be say you no fit even talk say dem dey scam, lest you be seen as an envious snake.


The matter long abeg. I stand with Plato.

pansophist:

A wealthy ritualist will get the best of girls than a hardworking uber driver that is a church choir.

You be senior man.

Woulda dismissed this story as 100% untrue, but weirder things have happened in this country where it's normal to see soldiers using plank to flog traffic wardens...

OP's title of "Should I forgive her?" after using cane to physically abuse a lady who admitted to cheating on him (while conveniently skipping his own morality status during the tenure of the relationship) is either a serious case of Messiah complex & delusion grandeur or simply, clickbait.

Then again, relationship dynamics is weird. Kolanut and wooden cane is just the low budget version of 50 shades of grey - where the billionaire flogs & "punishes" his love interest - a movie I found very weird, especially since many ladies I've met actually loved it.

Whether a typical woman will chop cane inside one small room at Idiroko,without calling boys to give you serious mending; while she'll enjoy the kinky fetish of koboko flogging in a very comfortable house, is a matter for redpill men to extrapolate on.

tensazangetsu20:


Africans are at the bottom of the human race. You can't even compare the most developed country in Africa to even Peru. We don't know how finished we are. We don't even have roads. What did Nigeria do with the first 20 years of independence. No roads o.

Tensa abeg no kee me 😂

folake4u:


For real? I hate this drink with my whole life.

Lol. One man's meat is truly poison to another.

Vitamilk, Hebron yoghurt and Cedar are my top favourite drinks.

I've got an unhealthy crave for vitamilk soya too

Natbrowny:


I agree 👍.

Watched a documentary where a Tiger killed an antelope. Ripped it open and found a baby inside.
Tiger leapt back and was looking at the dead for hours.
Finally Tiger dug a ground and buried both dead mama and child.

Camera wey dem use na die. See zoom functions.

I'd appreciate if you share the link to the bolded.

Where are the heavily edited pictures of 001, entourage, helicopter and kingly doings?


There's this sadistic joy I get from seeing them littered on this thread.