a big tnk u to u all.bt i dnt knw,coz he is sick presently,undergoin treatments,n he has been beging me nt to leav him nw,dat he nids me nw.if i should leav him dat means i dont lov him.so i should plz tink of a possible way dat wil get him out of d mess he got himself into.
So nw u see my dilema

hmmmmmmmm i have a pressing issue @ hand,i would realy lov if u can help me.it goes like dis.
My boyfriend was dating a particular gal b4 he met me,n wen we met d gal was on her 1 year IT,he told me al about d gal,n he explaind dat she is a very violent gal n troublesome,n he also told me he disvirgined her,bt wen she went 4 dis IT dey were nt communicating wit each other,n he said he was goin to break up with her,so i said ok,coz i was also dating a guy who was giving me hell of problems n he stood by me until i was able to break up wit d guy.so we started dating,den like a month bak she cald him dat she was bak in town, dat he should com n c her,so i asked him to go n here wat she has to say,wen he got bak he told me,dat sshe was like if he is dating any1 he should beta break it up,bcoz she is bak 4 him n any gal dat stands in her way she wil harm n d gal m he shouldnt 4get he was d 1 dat disvirgined her.so i asked him is it me he wants or her n he said me,bt nw he is lookin 4 a way to quit wit her peacfuly bcoz she is very hot headed n violent,n she is also using d fact dat he disvirgined her against him,n i asked him if he forced her to have sex he said no dat she gave it willingly.
Now she is bak to skul in d same town wit us,plz wat do we do coz we r both confused,we dont hve any strong plan on ground dat we can use to tel her its over peacfuly
Plz help plz

there is notin wrng wit u helpin out,dis days dere is no man who is ready to marry a gal who hasnt cooked 4 him b4 @ least 4 once,even if u go to his house every day doesnt mean dere is always laundry to do,play ur part he wil play his own,wen u cant show u r a wife material he wont show he is a husband material either,so d fact dat u help out wit chores doesnt make u a house girl except if ur relationship aint defined,n it aint headin anywere.u ask him 4 tins he gives u,bt u feel it a big deal to help out wit d chores once in a while

i hve given a guy.6k wen he nided my help,n he isnt my boyfwnd,just a close fwnd

proudlyAfrica: but guys joke apart...these things seemed to confirm what i saw in the dream two months ago...i dat dream GEJ said he would not contest rather propped-up a Northerner as the president also in another development, i saw the Gov. Of Kano been assesinated blood all over the place,,,mmmh may God protect us all!

it z well,may God keep we his people 4rm every impendin crises 2 com 4 in knw 4 sure dere wil b blood shed,bt we His people are exempted

macof: Whether na Adebiyi or Adeboye.

Pastors are all liars and going to hell
None follow the example of Jesus as stated in their mythical stories

dnt incure judgment n curse upon urself n ur genaration by speakin odd words again pastors

xtophy: hmmmmm....ALABI ABIOLA GLORY... i can NEVER forget her...

abi i can neva 4get akin tunde abdul

rokiatu: Gentleness, kindness and love.

The rest is secondary.

yeap dat ryt,bt also jst been urself n tryin 2 b some1 else,u dnt hve 2 pretend,humility matters a lot,simplicity,kindness greatest of al love,a mans pocket z secondary 2 me,coz wen dere z unity,lov n understandin we can creat a greater world for ourselves

190: most girls of that age dont have respect
they cheat
they dont have focus
dey are lead by material tins

always interested in ashawo don get uniform oooooh kinda clothes
THE MOST CAPABLE ONES ARE THOSE DONE WITH NYSC and more focused in life and
seem to know what they want!!

hey maturity is nt in age dere r some gals dat r below 20 n yet r matured than those in dier late 20s,some galz in late 20s,tends 2 hide thier trueself y bcoz dey r in a hurry 2 gett married so dey pretend so dat dey can b suitable 4 d guy bt d moment dey get married dey begin 2 reveal thier true nature,so my dear jst calm down dnt b in a haste 2 get married bcoz marriage iz an institution were u collect d cerrtificate b4 u even start it,u cant barge in2 marriage if nt u wil barge out,jst take ur tym 2 search n let God direct ur path 2 ur ordainded life partner

coolzeal: Bunch of pineless paedophiles suggesting he should face his education. Common peeps I had my first date when I was 13 and she was 14. And let me simply add that it did not discourage or distract me all through my education days but rather gained experience and knowledge about dating. I'm merely remarking upon the paradox of asking him to face his education when he is doing so. Stop paedophile and date girls your age.

dat kul

topygel: Guy try to work smart and harder and get dough, money rules nigerian girls, once u have ur money, u can date girl of any age, moreso, package ursef. My brother 17yrs who has just finished WAEC is dating a girl of 300L student, I asked d girl whether she doesn't knw that he has just finished waec, she said she knew, so guy package ursef and wisen up. All what girls need is packaging. But wait o, can u manage relationship, well, all u need is packaging.

not every nigerian gal can b ruled by money,mayb d greedy once can b ruled by money

blink6: Am also like u br0v!!!
but u know Wat;
get a tight swag, be smart,, careless (b nonchalant)... and see Wat happens.

wudve loved to tell a story bout a friend's( a girl) life with em older guys...

TIP: to em girls; I know some teens can be so immature, while most are more mature than d so-called older guys...
if u dont want to cry over heart breaks often, a teen is ur sure bet... since love abounds.

infact, suit urselves.

for me o! Am not ready for this... already told some girls I know.
I dnt want to go after any girl... I want it to b even( she loves me n so I her), or girls coming for me... ryt now, setting a great foundation for my future, is my drive.

A girl already told me that Am emotionless n nonchalant... eh! I agree.

wen am ready for gf n bf thing, I will do great... trust me.

thank you!!!


#just saying.

9c 1 dear ori ti iwo kpe baje achieve ur dreams n attain a great height in life n gals will com running after u like tap water,be smart

blink6: Am also like u br0v!!!
but u know Wat;
get a tight swag, be smart,, careless (b nonchalant)... and see Wat happens.

wudve loved to tell a story bout a friend's( a girl) life with em older guys...

TIP: to em girls; I know some teens can be so immature, while most are more mature than d so-called older guys...
if u dont want to cry over heart breaks often, a teen is ur sure bet... since love abounds.

infact, suit urselves.

for me o! Am not ready for this... already told some girls I know.
I dnt want to go after any girl... I want it to b even( she loves me n so I her), or girls coming for me... ryt now, setting a great foundation for my future, is my drive.

A girl already told me that Am emotionless n nonchalant... eh! I agree.

wen am ready for gf n bf thing, I will do great... trust me.

thank you!!!


#just saying.

9c 1 dear ori ti iwo kpe baje achieve ur dreams n attain a great height in life n gals will com running after u like tap water,be smart

wiilly02: Lwkm its true sha...its so hard to find ur age mate thats single that you can build a relationship with...i hav witnessed situations where a 31yr old man will have a 17yr old girl as his gf...tel me is it fair??

nop it aint fair @ all it ssooo bad,4 crying out loud dat man can give birth 2 her,bt i dnt blame d man on a second thought,i blame d gal 4 acceptin,mayb d guys z rich so she decides 2 follow hm even if he z old enough 2 b her father,urrr so disgustin

wiilly02: Lwkm its true sha...its so hard to find ur age mate thats single that you can build a relationship with...i hav witnessed situations where a 31yr old man will have a 17yr old girl as his gf...tel me is it fair??

nop it aint fair @ all it ssooo bad,4 crying out loud dat man can give birth 2 her,bt i dnt blame d man on a second thought,i blame d gal 4 acceptin,mayb d guys z rich so she decides 2 follow hm even if he z old enough 2 b her father,urrr so disgustin

njaluv: Hmmm sum just ain't happy with one.once a cheat......

always a cheat

4llerbuntu: you always get what u deserve!!! simples really

you folks always whine and complain, but a lot of pple i know who always go the "victim" route simply are people who dont truly deserve the great people.

for instance, u meet people who know that deep down they do not connect with anybody, lack that human ability to connect on many levels, simply cannot go out of their way to be really nice to folks around them (always having this "im gonna be taken for granted" mentality)

thing is most folks can sense things about others, but may just not be able to express their intuitions

waiting for Mr/mrs perfect is quite alright but how close are you to perfect anyway?
you expect someone to come into your life to simply fall in love with you so much that he/she will simply accept EVERY wart and pockmark in you physically, emotionally etc.

have u even tried to smoothen the potholes in your own personality? TRIED TO BE TRULY BEAUTIFUL INSIDE?

U GET WHAT YOU DESERVE!!! PERIOD

y always waitin 4 mr or miss perfect,it so funny,u r waitin 4 a guy 2 b perfect 4 u,hve u eva sat down and ask urself if u are also perfect 4 any guy dat wil com knocking,u dnt knw if he also z lookin 4 miss perfect

nonsoyoungprof: my dear dnt allow dem to cripple or confuse u with dis there blabla talk ....tell d guy to go and get a ring even though na #100 naira own....it means a lot.....wen a guy says it doesn't mean....l guess something must be smelling fishy

of course,even if it z 50 naira own it signifys alot 2 thoes wu believe in it,wen people see dat ring it gives dem a clear appearance dat u belong 2 some1 already

Luvdbyursista: Daniel is the man for me.Pls can i get it on dvd?its really difficult tryin 2 catch up @ such tym...By the way, wer r u guys? Can u give a synopsis of the last episode?

yeap u can,am even watchin mine on dvd not on ait

Kennito90: So inspiring.

,yeap it z very inspiring,i am also aspiring 4 dat,i pray God gives me d grace 2 maintain my purity until d day i get married,i i pray God gives me a man,dat wil help actualise dis dream