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Computers / Re: What Is Wrong With Mtn 3g Internet? by lovelyS(m): 7:18pm On Oct 02, 2009
@Everyone,please someone just dashed me this 3G usb internet Con. My question is that how much can i load more so can i load 200?

Please treat as urgent.
Crime / Re: Accused Hacker Freed On Bail In $1.8m Theft Case by lovelyS(m): 11:04am On Sep 03, 2009
He's good but not criminal minded like us nigerians.
Politics / Re: Nigerians Battled Police In China by lovelyS(m): 1:48pm On Sep 01, 2009
Thats crazy,i cant believe people can be so ruthless.Well,its i cant blame the chine,i blame our govt for failure to provide for their citizen.so sad.

I believe those nigerians that travelled to china are scared of Poverty(hunger and i understand them cos i have experienced hunger and i know what poverty feels like.

Believe me, majority of detained nigerians are willing to come home but the china authority will want them to pay their outstanding dues before they could be released.that means if you dont have the money you will rotten is jail.Its sad.
Computers / Re: How Can We Make A Cybercafe Gain More Money by lovelyS(m): 1:14pm On Jan 23, 2009
I think the following will make it works.
Start doing international Calls/internet calls services

Sell Recharge cards,Jamb scratch cards

Introduce the sale of cold/chilled drinks (soft, yogurt,beverages etc)

Still thinking,
Phones / Re: Nokia Announces N97 Touchscreen Phone! by lovelyS(m): 3:44pm On Dec 04, 2008
Its Kinda cute but I love my N95 phone,its really searving me and i'm enjoying all the functions.LOVEY PHONE cheesy grin

Cheers grin
Family / Re: "Sweetheart, I Don't Love You Anymore!" by lovelyS(m): 1:30pm On Nov 28, 2008
I wil ask her why and try to talk to her about it. . .If she insist then i will try and ask people to talk to her and if she insists then i move on and get me a new lover.

After. . .

It will never happen!!!
Family / Re: Whats Your Pet Name For Your Spouse? by lovelyS(m): 1:14pm On Nov 28, 2008
And She calls me

ENDLESSLOVE


or. . .

MY LOVE

Sometimes. . .

ENDLESS
Family / Re: Whats Your Pet Name For Your Spouse? by lovelyS(m): 1:10pm On Nov 28, 2008
BEAUTIFUL

Cos she's so pretty, cool cheesy
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Arsenal Fan Thread: For Gunners Only by lovelyS(m): 9:14am On Nov 20, 2008
My People please dont panic,Its been like this for the likes of Chelsea,Liverpool,ManUtd and they get over it. . I HOPE WE GET OVER IT

GUNNERS TILL I GO HEAVEN

Islam for Muslims / Read The Holy Quran Online! by lovelyS(m): 10:30am On Sep 10, 2008
Sallam Alleikum to You'all

I just discovered a website where you can read the HOLY QURAN in English, Yoruba,Hausa,Igbo and other foreign Languages online.You don't need to wait until you get a HOLY QURAN of your own.I hope you all have a blessed Ramadan Month As You read.(Ameen).Click the website below and start reading

http://www.alketab.com/quran_display.asp
Islam for Muslims / Re: Ramadan Kareem To Every Muslim by lovelyS(m): 3:49pm On Sep 02, 2008
AS THE CRESCENT MOON IS SITED

AND THE HOLY MONTH OF RAMADAM BEGINS,

MAY BLESSINGS OF ALMIGHTY ALLAH SHOWER ON YOU ALL
Foreign Affairs / Killings Of Africans In South Africa (who Is To Blame ?) by lovelyS(m): 6:24pm On Jun 09, 2008
The violence launched against foreigners in South Africa has led to at least one group of Somalis threatening to drown themselves if the government doesn’t resettled them from a camp set up outside Cape Town.

  It was just last month that a wave of violent attacks against foreigners swept through Johannesburg and across the country that left 50 dead and more than 70,000 displaced.

After the violence several camps were set up for foreigners yet conditions were poor leading many to return to their country. A group of Somalis became distressed with the lack of help being provided and began a hunger strike and then began making threats of suicide.
At least one man was pulled from the sea after reportedly wishing to die due to the stress of the situation. Several more Somalis in the camp have made similar threats.

Despite the threats the government has said they have uncovered no attempts by foreigners to take their own life in the sea.



Violence spreads in Johannesburg 




Scenes of violence on the streets of Johannesburg
At least 12 people have been killed in the South African city of Johannesburg since Friday in a wave of violence directed at immigrants, police say.

Police have used tear gas and rubber bullets to try to stop gangs of armed youths from attacking foreigners and looting and burning their property.

Five people were killed overnight in the area of Cleveland. Two of them were burned and the others beaten to death.

More than 50 were taken to hospitals with gunshot and stab wounds.

During the day, a church where about 1,000 Zimbabweans have been taking refuge was attacked.

 


In pictures: Johannesburg violence

Bishop Paul Veryn of the Central Methodist Church which was attacked told SABC radio: "We consider that the situation is getting so serious that the police can no longer control it."

As night fell, immigrants were streaming into one police station near downtown Johannesburg carrying whatever belongings they could, reports Caroline Hawley.

Many now fear for their lives, she reports. One Zimbabwean woman told the BBC she would flee back home rather than risk losing her two children to the mobs.

Social problems


Foreigners have been trying to flee the violence

The trouble began a week ago in the sprawling township of Alexandra. Immigrants from neighbouring African countries were set upon by men with guns and iron bars chanting "kick the foreigners out".

Terrified Zimbabweans, Mozambicans and Malawians fled to the safety of the local police station and to another township, Diepsloot.

They were then attacked there as well - shacks were burnt down and shops looted. The violence has since spread to other areas.

Since the end of apartheid, millions of African immigrants have poured into South Africa seeking jobs and sanctuary. But they have become scapegoats for many of the country's social problems - its high rate of unemployment, a shortage of housing and one of the worst levels of crime in the world.


Police have been trying to restore order in Diepsloot township

The South African Red Cross is now providing food and blankets to hundreds of frightened immigrants forced from their homes.

President Thabo Mbeki said he would set up a panel of experts to investigate the violence.

The leader of the governing African National Congress, Jacob Zuma, condemned the attacks.

"We cannot allow South Africa to be famous for xenophobia," he told a conference in Pretoria.



When i read this i was so sad because i can't imagine an African killing his brother because of worldly resoursec that will ends one day.Plus, i don't know who to blame on this. . . . . Is it the Imigrant that leave there country to fine a greener pasture or laziness of the citizen/youth of SOUTH AFRICA. . .Can anyone put light on this pleas?

Religion / Re: Post Your Favourite Hadith Ih Here by lovelyS(m): 4:55pm On Jan 09, 2008
@Olabowale

Someone sent it to me through email


Try the link
http://www.wahabs.com/hadith/hadith_e/hadith_e.htm



Here are more,


Volume 1, Book 3, Number 56:

Narrated Abu Huraira:

While the Prophet was saying something in a gathering, a Bedouin came and asked him, "When would the Hour (Doomsday) take place?" Allah's Apostle continued his talk, so some people said that Allah's Apostle had heard the question, but did not like what that Bedouin had asked. Some of them said that Alllah's Apostle had not heard it. When the Prophet finished his speech, he said, "Where is the questioner, who enquired about the Hour (Doomsday)?" The Bedouin said, "I am here, O Allah's Apostle ." Then the Prophet said, "When honesty is lost, then wait for the Hour (Doomsday)." The Bedouin said, "How will that be lost?" The Prophet said, "When the power or authority comes in the hands of unfit persons, then wait for the Hour (Doomsday.)"



Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Amr:

Once the Prophet remained behind us in a journey. He joined us while we were performing ablution for the prayer which was over-due. We were just passing wet hands over our feet (and not washing them properly) so the Prophet addressed us in a loud voice and said twice or thrice: "Save your heels from the fire."

Narrated Ibn 'Umar:

Allah's Apostle said, "Amongst the trees, there is a tree, the leaves of which do not fall and is like a Muslim. Tell me the name of that tree." Everybody started thinking about the trees of the desert areas. And I thought of the date-palm tree but felt shy to answer the others then asked, "What is that tree, O Allah's Apostle ?" He replied, "It is the date-palm tree."





Volume 1, Book 3, Number 59:

Narrated Ibn 'Umar:

The Prophet said, "Amongst the trees, there is a tree, the leaves of which do not fall and is like a Muslim. Tell me the name of that tree." Everybody started thinking about the trees of the desert areas. And I thought of the date-palm tree. The others then asked, "Please inform us what is that tree, O Allah's Apostle?" He replied, "It is the date-palm tree."





Ma Sallam
Religion / Re: Post Your Favourite Hadith Ih Here by lovelyS(m): 5:01pm On Jan 07, 2008
My Favourite HADITH as follows

A traveler once came to the mosque to see the prophet. After greeting the prophet he was asked where he was from. The traveler replied that he came from very far just to get a few questions answered. Following is the
dialogue between the traveler and the prophet.

Traveler: I do not want azaab to be written in my account.
Prophet : behave well with your parents

Traveler: I want to be known amongst people as an intelligent person.
Prophet : fear Allah always.

Traveler: I want to be counted amongst Allah's favorites.
Prophet : recite quran every morning and evening.

Traveler: I want my heart to always be enlightened. ( roshan and munawer)
Prophet: never forget death

Traveler: I never want to be away from Allah's blessing.
Prophet: always treat fellow creatures well.

Traveler: I never want to be harmed by my enemies.
Prophet : always have faith in only Allah.

Traveler: I never want to be humiliated.
Prophet: be careful of your actions.

Traveler: I wish to live long.
Prophet: always do sile rahm. ( goodness towards blood relations)

Traveler: I want my sustenance to increase.
Prophet : always be in wudhoo.

Traveler: I wish to stay free of adhaab in the grave.
Prophet : always wear pure (paak) clothes.

Traveler: I never want to burn in hell.
Prophet : control your eyes and tongue.

Traveler: how do I get my sins forgiven.
Prophet: always ask forgiveness from Allah with a lot of humility.

Traveler: I want people to respect me always.
Prophet : never extend your hands of need at people.

Traveler: I want to always be honored.
Prophet : never humiliate or put down anyone.

Traveler: I don't want to be squeezed by fishare qabr.
( squeezing in the grave)
Prophet: recite sura e mulk often.

Traveler: I want my wealth to increase.
Prophet: recite sura e waqia every night.

Traveler: I want to be safe and at peace on day of judgement.
Prophet: do zikr of Allah from dusk to night.

Traveler: I want to be in full attention and concentration during namaaz.
Prophet : always do wudhoo with concentration and attention

please pass to all of your Relatives and Friends, Jaza Kum ALLAH'hai Khairan Kaseera
Religion / Post Your Favourite Hadith Ih Here by lovelyS(m): 3:35pm On Jan 07, 2008
Hello my muslim brothers and sisters,i'm in love with HADITH of Prophet Mohammed (SAW) and i will love to view more of your HADITHS. . .So,Post as many as you'all can it gonna be FUN,religious and Allah will be proud of us all.

God Bless as you post !!!
Travel / Re: HELP!! Info on The Cost Of Living In Ghana by lovelyS(m): 1:51pm On Dec 27, 2007
hamlak:

Ghana is very peaceful. I see some Oyibos walking alone in the middle of the night here and
I laugh. Just reminds me of Lagos. Left Nigeria in 2004. Use to see Oyibos around Apapa,
VI, Ikoyi, and similar places only. In Ghana, things are quite cool.

In your desire to relocate to Ghana, the most important thing to think about is the business
you will be doing. Import Business will bring you the best returns here. Things are quite
differnet from Nigeria. Like I said earlier, here it is the cool life.

The people are quiet laid back in their approach, unlike in Nigeria where people like to try
new things.

You can visit first, especially during the ACN in January, 2008.

PM if you are coming. Will like to show you around.




Yea i will like to come by january. . . cheesy

Well,I dont ask you to compare Ghana with nigeria. . .

So, What is ACN and what is happening in january?


olrotimi:

as a nigerian, ghana is not a challenge to you

How you mean. . .Meaning Nigeria and Ghana have things in common or what ??
Romance / Re: Got A Plum Job: Now She Wants Me Back! by lovelyS(m): 1:22pm On Dec 27, 2007
Ask her to give you TEN GOOD reasons why she left you for another MAN.
And at least 5 of her reasons must be on.

1. You were broke

2. You didnt care about me

3. I was scared you might not marry me.

4. I was seeing another person that promised me an alter (wedding).

5. You are not confidence

6. I was pushed by my friends to dunped you.

7. Our love life was boring.

8. I was confused in choosing between you and the other man.

9. My parent doesnt liked you.

10. You weren't looking good.

Maybe you can consider her if she should give you some reasons of the list cos they are the reasons why ladies run away from you.

OTHERWISE, She's not worthy to be ur lover and go for a high class,good looking lady (not career lady) that will appreciate your wealth not some DIRTY ASS BI@TCH looking for quick money.
Politics / Re: Darfur: Shame On Black Great Ones! by lovelyS(m): 1:02pm On Dec 13, 2007
Mariory:

@lovely_S
You forgot to add the part of the Qur’an that actively encourages people to kill unbelievers. What was the 36 year old European, Leon Zippo Hayes' or as you now call him Khalilur Rahmans' take on that?

Why should i add verses when you dont even understand the real meaning behind the verse.

If i start explaining what the verses really is non of you'all will remain in your present religion.

Mario, can i ask you something ?. . Have you not ever met an Islam-practising muslim brother with bearded chin,3 quarter trousers and Cap on his head that is not voilence or Wicked?. . .

Answer the question and i will know what is it you know about a Terrorist and a Muslim
Travel / Re: HELP!! Info on The Cost Of Living In Ghana by lovelyS(m): 12:42pm On Dec 13, 2007
Dis Guy:

why don't you visit the country for a week or two

Thanks,but visiting will not do me any good than wasting of money and time.Even if i stay for a month that will not make any different to me like to know more about business in the country.

PLEASE MORE ADVICE !!!

Cheers
Travel / HELP!! Info on The Cost Of Living In Ghana by lovelyS(m): 3:49pm On Dec 12, 2007
Hello everyone,I'm thinking of moving to settle down in Ghana due to the harsh condition of this lovely country, NIGERIA.
So, can someone give me a full details of cost living in Ghana plus how business is being done over there.

Thanks everyone. smiley smiley smiley

Love y'all smiley smiley wink
Politics / Re: Darfur: Shame On Black Great Ones! by lovelyS(m): 3:04pm On Dec 12, 2007
Peace and Justice

One great problem for Muslims is that peace does not necessarily guarantee them justice. This has caused Muslims to become violent and to neglect opportunities for dawah. In modern times Muslims want a peace which brings them justice. But according to the law of nature, this kind of peace can never be achieved, that is why Muslims the world over are in a state of physical and mental unrest. Distressed in their minds, they have become violent in their thinking and in their actions.

The truth is that peace does not automatically produce justice. Peace in actual fact simply opens up opportunities for the achievement of justice. At the time of Hudaybiya the Prophet of Islam had not found justice. He had achieved peace but only by delinking it from justice. The Prophet had made this peace not to exact justice but to receive the opportunities. And great opportunities for dawah action did open up with the establishment of peace. The Prophet exploited these opportunities in full measure. Therefore, in just a few years’ time the Prophet not only ensured justice, but set Islam upon a much more solid footing.

The Muslims of the present day have to understand this secret of nature. Only then will it be possible for them first to find peace, then ultimately their desired goal of justice.

Conclusion
In October 1997, I met a 36-year old European, Leon Zippo Hayes, who was born in the city of Christchurch in New Zealand. After having studied Islam, he has changed his religion. His Islamic name is Khalilur Rahman. Passing through Muslim countries he is going to perform Hajj by land.

During the conversation he said that in modern times Muslims are engaged in bloody war at many places, at some places with others and at other places among themselves. This had led him (like many others) to conclude that perhaps Islam was a religion of violence. Later, he studied the Qur’an with the help of translations, and when he reached this verse in the Qur’an: ‘Whoever killed a human being should be looked upon as though he had killed all mankind (5:32),’ he said that he was so moved that he could not believe that it was in the Qur’an.This incident is broadly indicative of the thinking of non-Muslims on Islam. On seeing the actions of Muslims, people today find it hard to believe that Islam may be a religion of peace. But if Muslims stop engaging in violent activities and give people the opportunity to appreciate Islam in its original form, then certainly a great number of people would realise as they never had before that Islam was a peaceful religion and they would rush to it, saying that it was exactly the religion which their souls had been seeking all along.
Politics / Re: Darfur: Shame On Black Great Ones! by lovelyS(m): 3:01pm On Dec 12, 2007
No one, not even you will confess to enjoy being told what to believe when the evidence shows something contrary. You can make all the claims you want and post all the articles you want to, but until you address issues as they are and deal with them from there, all this is fluff and is of null effect.


What evidence are u talking about ??

Is it the evidence of killing,raping and brutalizing the non-muslims or bombing a place consisting of over a thousand people .

I think it's high time we let this case rest because we are all humans being and we all know what human do. . .They judge themselves with what they believe its right (even if its not and they know it is not right). . .What am trying to say is that there's no religion that does have its own bad side (am i right ?,if i am not let me know). . .And when a man is doing a wrong thing no matter how bad it is he will find a way or theory to back it up.So, thats the case at hand. . .ok ?

Peace be upon you
Politics / Re: Darfur: Shame On Black Great Ones! by lovelyS(m): 2:59pm On Dec 12, 2007
Peace and Justice

One great problem for Muslims is that peace does not necessarily guarantee them justice. This has caused Muslims to become violent and to neglect opportunities for dawah. In modern times Muslims want a peace which brings them justice. But according to the law of nature, this kind of peace can never be achieved, that is why Muslims the world over are in a state of physical and mental unrest. Distressed in their minds, they have become violent in their thinking and in their actions.

The truth is that peace does not automatically produce justice. Peace in actual fact simply opens up opportunities for the achievement of justice. At the time of Hudaybiya the Prophet of Islam had not found justice. He had achieved peace but only by delinking it from justice. The Prophet had made this peace not to exact justice but to receive the opportunities. And great opportunities for dawah action did open up with the establishment of peace. The Prophet exploited these opportunities in full measure. Therefore, in just a few years’ time the Prophet not only ensured justice, but set Islam upon a much more solid footing.

The Muslims of the present day have to understand this secret of nature. Only then will it be possible for them first to find peace, then ultimately their desired goal of justice.

Conclusion


In October 1997, I met a 36-year old European, Leon Zippo Hayes, who was born in the city of Christchurch in New Zealand. After having studied Islam, he has changed his religion. His Islamic name is Khalilur Rahman. Passing through Muslim countries he is going to perform Hajj by land.

During the conversation he said that in modern times Muslims are engaged in bloody war at many places, at some places with others and at other places among themselves. This had led him (like many others) to conclude that perhaps Islam was a religion of violence. Later, he studied the Qur’an with the help of translations, and when he reached this verse in the Qur’an: ‘Whoever killed a human being should be looked upon as though he had killed all mankind (5:32),’ he said that he was so moved that he could not believe that it was in the Qur’an.This incident is broadly indicative of the thinking of non-Muslims on Islam. On seeing the actions of Muslims, people today find it hard to believe that Islam may be a religion of peace. But if Muslims stop engaging in violent activities and give people the opportunity to appreciate Islam in its original form, then certainly a great number of people would realise as they never had before that Islam was a peaceful religion and they would rush to it, saying that it was exactly the religion which their souls had been seeking all along.
Politics / Re: Darfur: Shame On Black Great Ones! by lovelyS(m): 2:46pm On Dec 12, 2007
The Command of War in Islam

It is a fact that certain verses in the Qur’an convey the command to do battle (qital) (22:39). What the special circumstances are which justify the issuance of and compliance with this command we learn from our study of the Qur’an.

The first point to be noted is that aggression or the launching of an offensive by the believers is not totally forbidden. It is permissible, but with certain provisos. We are clearly commanded in the Qur’an: Fight for the sake of God those that fight against you, but do not be aggressive. (2:190)
Only defensive war is permitted in Islam. Such a war is one in which aggression is committed by some other party so that the believers have to fight in self-defense. Initiating hostility is not permitted for Muslims. The Qur’an says: "They were the first to attack you." (9:13)
Furthermore, even in the case of the offensive being launched by an opposing group, the believers are not supposed to retaliate immediately. Rather in the beginning all efforts are to be made to avert war, and only when avoidance has become impossible is battle to be resorted to inevitably in defense.

3. According to the Qur’an there was one form of war which was time- bound strictly in relation to its purpose. This was to put an end to fitna ‘Fight against them until fitna is no more.’ (2:193) In this verse fitna signifies that coercive system which had reached the extremes of religious persecution. In ancient times this coercive political system prevailed all over the world. This absolutism had closed all the doors of progress, both spiritual and material. At that time God commanded the believers to break this coercive system in order to usher in freedom, so that all doors of spiritual and material progress might be opened to man.

This mission was undertaken and brought to a successful conclusion at the internal level within Arabia during the life of the Prophet. Later, during the pious caliphate, the Sasanid and Byzantine empires were dismantled with special divine succor. Consequently, intellectual oppression at the international level was replaced by intellectual freedom.

In this connection those traditions are worth noting which are enshrined in Sahih al-Bukhari. When, after the fourth caliph Ali ibn Abi Talib, political conflict ensued between Abdullah ibn Zubayr and the Umayyads, Abdullah ibn Umar, the seniormost companion of the Prophet held himself aloof from the battle. People approached him and, quoting the verse of qital-e-fitna, asked him why he was not joining in the battle. Abdullah ibn Umar replied that ‘fitna’ as mentioned in the Qur’an did not refer to political infighting, but rather to the religious coercive system, that had already been put to an end by them. (Fathul Bari, 8/60)

From this we learn that the war against fitna was a war of limited duration, meant to be engaged in only until its specific purpose had been served.

Invoking the Quranic exhortation to do battle against fitna in order to validate acts of war which had quite other aims was improper. This verse could be cited only if the same state of affairs as existed at the time of its revelation, were to prevail once again.

The biographers of the Prophet of Islam have put the number of Ghazwa (battle) at more than 80. This gives the impression that the Prophet of Islam in his 23-year prophetic career waged about four battles in a year. But this impression is entirely baseless. The truth is that the Prophet of Islam in his entire prophetic life, engaged in war only on three occasions. All the other incidents described as Ghazwa were in actual fact examples of avoidance of war and not instances of involvement in battle.

For instance, in the books of seerah, the incident of Al-Ahzab is called a Ghazwa (battle), whereas the truth is that on this occasion the armed tribes of Arabia, twelve thousand in number, reached the borders of Medina with all intentions of waging war, but the Prophet and his companions dug a deep trench between them, thus successfully preventing a battle from taking place. The same is the case with all the other incidents called Ghazwa. The opponents of the Prophet repeatedly tried to get him embroiled in war, but on all such occasions, he managed to resort to some such strategy as averted the war, thus defusing the situation.

There were only three instances of Muslims really entering the field of battle—Badr, Uhud and Hunayn. But the events tell us that on all these occasions, war had become inevitable, so that the Prophet was compelled to encounter the aggressors in self-defense. Furthermore, these battles lasted only for half a day, each beginning from noon and ending with the setting of the sun. Thus it would be proper to say that the Prophet in his entire life span had actively engaged in war for a total of a day and a half. That is to say, the Prophet had observed the principle of non-violence throughout his 23-year prophetic career, except for one and a half days.

The Islamic method, being based totally on the principle of non-violence, it is unlawful for believers to initiate hostilities. Except in cases where self-defense has become inevitable, the Qur’an in no circumstance gives permission for violence.
Politics / Re: Darfur: Shame On Black Great Ones! by lovelyS(m): 2:44pm On Dec 12, 2007
Politics / Re: Darfur: Shame On Black Great Ones! by lovelyS(m): 2:40pm On Dec 12, 2007
ISLAM IS A RELIGION OF PEACE
Maulana Wahiduddin Khan

Non-violence should never be confused with inaction or passivity. Non-violence is action in the full sense of the word. Rather it is more forceful an action than that of violence. It is a fact that non-violent activism is more powerful and effective than violent activism.

Non-violent activism is not limited in its sphere. It is a course of action which may be followed in all matters.

Whenever individuals, groups or communities are faced with a problem, one way to solve it is by resorting to violence. The better way is to attempt to solve the problem by peaceful means, avoiding violence and confrontation. Peaceful means may take various forms. In fact, it is the nature of the problem which will determine which of these peaceful methods is applicable to the given situation.

Islam is a religion which teaches non-violence. According to the Qur’an, God does not love fasad, violence. What is meant here by fasad is clearly expressed in verse 205 of the second Surah. Basically, fasad is that action which results in disruption of the social system, causing huge losses in terms of lives and property.

Conversely, we can say with certainty that God loves non-violence. He abhors violent activity being indulged in human society, as a result of which people have to pay the price with their possessions and lives. This is supported by other statements in the Qur’an. For instance, we are told in the Qur’an that peace is one of God’s names (59:23). Those who seek to please God are assured by verse 5 of the sixteenth surah that they will be guided by Him to "the paths of peace." Paradise, which is the final destination of the society of God’s choice, is referred to in the Qur’an as "the home of peace" (89:30), etc.

The entire spirit of the Qur’an is in consonance with this concept. For instance, the Qur’an attaches great importance to patience. In fact, patience is set above all other Islamic virtues with the exceptional promise of reward beyond measure. (39:10)

Patience implies a peaceful response or reaction, whereas impatience implies a violent response. The word Sabr exactly expresses the notion of non-violence as it is understood in modern times. That patient action is non-violent action has been clearly expressed in the Qur’an. According to one tradition, the Prophet of Islam observed: God grants to rifq (gentleness) what he does not grant to unf (violence). (Sunan, Abu Dawood, 4/255)

The word rifq has been used in this hadith as an antithesis to unf. These terms convey exactly what is meant by violence and non-violence in present times. This hadith clearly indicates the superiority of the non-violent method.

God grants on non-violence what He does not grant to violence is no simple matter. It has very wide and deep implications. It embodies an eternal law of nature. By the very law of nature all bad things are associated with violence, while all good things are associated with non-violence.

Violent activities breed hatred in society, while non-violent activities elicit love. Violence is the way of destruction while non-violence is the way of construction. In an atmosphere of violence, it is enmity which flourishes, while in an atmosphere of non-violence, it is friendship which flourishes. The method of violence gives way to negative values while the method of non-violence is marked by positive values. The method of violence embroils people in problems, while the method of non-violence leads people to the exploiting of opportunities. In short, violence is death, non-violence is life.

Both the Qur’an and the hadith have attached great importance to jihad. What is jihad? Jihad means struggle, to struggle one’s utmost. It must be appreciated at the outset that this word is used for non-violent struggle as opposed to violent struggle. One clear proof of this is the verse of the Qur’an (25:52) which says: Perform jihad with this (i.e. the word of the Qur’an) most strenuously.

The Qur’an is not a sword or a gun. It is a book of ideology. In such a case performing jihad with the Qur’an would mean an ideological struggle to conquer peoples’ hearts and minds through Islam’s superior philosophy.

In the light of this verse of the Qur’an, jihad in actual fact is another name for peaceful activism or non-violent activism. Where qital is violent activism, jihad is non-violent activism.

Peaceful Beginning

When the Qur’an began to be revealed, the first verse of the revelation conveyed the injunction: ‘Read!’ (Iqra) (96:1). By perusing this verse we learn about the initiation of Islamic action. It begins from the point where there is hope of continuing the movement along peaceful lines, and not from that point where there are chances of its being marred by violence.

When the command of ‘Iqra’ was revealed, there were many options available in Mecca as starting points for a movement. For instance, one possible starting point was to launch a movement to purify the Kabah of the 360 idols installed in it. But, by pursuing such a course the Islamic movement would certainly have had to face a violent reaction from the Quraysh. An alternative starting point could have been an attempt to secure a seat in the Dar-al-Nadwa (Mecca’s parliament). At that time almost the whole of Arabia was under the direct or indirect influence of the Roman and Sasanid empires. If the freeing of Arabia from this influence had been made the starting point, this would also have been met with an immediate violent reaction on the part of the Quraysh.

Leaving aside these options, the path followed was that of reading the Qur’an, an activity that could be with certainty continued along peaceful lines: no violent reaction would ensue from engaging in such an activity.

The Prophet of Islam followed this principle throughout his life. His policy was that of adopting non-violent methods in preference to violent methods. It is this policy which was referred to by Aishah, the Prophet’s wife, in these words: Whenever the Prophet had to opt for one of two ways, he almost always opted for the easier one. (Fathul Bari 6/654)

What are the advantages of non-violent activism over violent activism? They are briefly stated as under:

According to the Qur’an there are two faculties in every human being which are mutually antipathetic. One is the ego, and the other is the conscience called respectively nafs ammara and nafs lawwama. (The Qur’an, 12:53; 75:26) What the violent method invariably does is to awaken the ego which necessarily results in a breakdown of social equilibrium. On the other hand, non-violent activism awakens the conscience. From this results an awakening in people of introspection and self-appraisal. And according to the Qur’an, the miraculous outcome of this is that "he who is your enemy will become your dearest friend." (41:34)
A great advantage of the non-violent method is that, by following it, no part of one’s time is wasted. The opportunities available in any given situation may then be exploited to the fullest extent—as happened after the no-war pact of Hudaybiya. This peace treaty enabled the energies of the believers to be utilized in peaceful constructive activities instead of being dissipated in a futile armed encounter. One great harm done by violent activism is the breaking of social traditions in the launching of militant movements. Conversely, the great benefit that accrues from non-violent activism is that it can be initiated and prolonged with no damage to tradition.
Generally speaking, attempts to improve or replace existing systems by violent activism are counter-productive. One coup d’état is often the signal for a series of coups and counter-coups, none of which benefit the common man. The truly desirable revolution is that which permits gradual and beneficial changes. And this can be achieved only on the basis of non-violence.

Success Through the Non-violence Method

All the great successes of the first phase of Islam as well as the succeeding periods were achieved by non-violent methods. Listed below are some examples of these successes.

Of the 23 year period of prophethood, the initial 13 years were spent by the Prophet in Mecca. The Prophet fully adopted the way of pacifism or non-violence during this time. There were many such issues in Mecca at that time which could have been the subject of clash and confrontation. But, sedulously avoiding all such issues, the Prophet of Islam strictly limited his sphere to peaceful propagation of the word of God. This resulted in Dawah work being performed in full force throughout this period. One of the great gains during these 13 years of dawah work was the entry into the Islamic fold of men of the highest moral caliber who were responsible for forming the history of Islam, for instance, Abu Bakr, Umar, Usman and Ali, etc.
In Mecca when the Quraysh leaders were set to wage war against the Prophet, even then, instead of opting for the way of reaction and retaliation, what the Prophet did was to secretly migrate to Medina.
Migration, by its very nature, was a clear example of non-violent activism. This peaceful strategy enabled the Prophet and his followers, about two hundred in number, to form a powerful center of Islam in Medina. Had they adopted the path of confrontation instead of peaceful migration, the history of Islam might have been buried right there in Mecca shortly after its inception.

After the emigration, his antagonists took the unilateral decision to wage war against him. Consequently such bloody encounters as those of Badr and Uhud took place. Then the Prophet made a 10-year peace treaty known in history as Sulh al-Hudaybiya, by accepting all the conditions of his opponents. This has been called a ‘clear victory’ in the Qur’an. It is this peace treaty, paving the way for peaceful constructive activities which ultimately made possible the conquest of Mecca and the whole of Arabia.
By the end of the pious caliphate, a bloody encounter took place between the Banu Hashim and the Banu Umayya. This stopped the advance of Islam for a period of ten years. What set this process in motion once again was the voluntary withdrawal of Hasan ibn Ali (d. 50 A.H.) from the battlefield. This was undeniably a practical form of non-violent activism. This peaceful move on the part of Hasan ibn Ali re-opened to Islam the locked doors of progress.
During the last days of the Abbasid caliphate Mongol tribes attacked the Muslim world and right from Samarkand to Aleppo destroyed the entire Muslim world. The history of Islam had apparently come to a standstill. At that moment the spirit of dawah work was born within the Muslims. As a result, the majority of the Mongols converted to Islam. And that miracle took place which has been described by an orientalist in these words: "The religion of Muslims has conquered where their arms had failed."
Islamic history took a crucial turn when, in the years succeeding the pious caliphate, rot had set in the system of the government, and the caliphate had turned into monarchy. At that juncture, many factors emerged which would result in clash and confrontation between the ruler and the ruled. But, following the guidance of the Prophet, the Muslims totally avoided political confrontation. This history beginning with the Umayyad caliphate, continued for several centuries. This was possible because the tabieen (companions of the Prophet’s companions) and their succeeding generations, consisting of traditionalists, jurists, ulema, Sufis and other great religious scholars, all scrupulously avoided any clash or confrontation with the rulers.
It was during this period that peaceful dawah work was started in various countries and the disciplines of hadith, fiqh and other Islamic sciences came into existence on a large scale after a long period of great ideological struggle. All the precious books which adorn our libraries, all the classical literature of Islam are the result of these peaceful activities.

For instance, the hadith as a source of shariah is second only to the Qur’an in Islam. These traditions now exist in the form of printed books. These books are so precious that, without them, it would not have been possible to develop Islam into a complete system as it exists today. During the Umayyads and Abbasids, when the political system had begun to deteriorate, where were these tens of thousands of traditions. All of them existed in the memory of the religious scholars, whose names are mentioned in the books as chains in the link of authorities who have handed this legacy down to us. Had they adopted the principle of violent activism and clashed with the ‘oppressive’ rulers, they would all have been slaughtered by them and the entire legacy of traditions instead of finding a place on the pages of books, would have been buried along with them in the graveyards. It is by the miracle of having adopted non-violence instead of violence that the precious sources of our traditions have survived in book form and, till today, adorn our libraries.
Romance / Re: Nigerian Ladies And Nigerian Movies by lovelyS(m): 5:29pm On Nov 27, 2007
D-reloaded:

um who cares about who you slept with? The hell does that have to do with the discussion at hand?

Who cares what u think about my post. . .Why cant you tell us why u ladies give anything out just to watch HOME VIDEOs shocked sad angry ?

@Echidime

Thats another experience
grin cheesy wink smiley
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Kogites In Da Hauz by lovelyS(m): 5:06pm On Nov 27, 2007
Sup Ya'all KOGITES. . .
I aint from Kogi but i like ladies from Kogi they r freaking beautiful. . .and
I'm gonna getta Kogite Chick soon
Love ya'all.
Romance / Re: Nigerian Ladies And Nigerian Movies by lovelyS(m): 3:18pm On Nov 27, 2007
I never knew that NIGERIA MOVIES are loved by Most ladies until now (I thought it was only in my building). . .Believe me or not I had banged like 3 different ladies (including my former landlord's daughter) through Home Videos.Pardon me,It's not intentional they'll pushed me to it.

For me i never like watching Home video cos i believe they'all based on the same stories that will end up nonesensing your precious brain at the end of the day.So,I will rather go for American (Action,Romance,Crime etc) and related movies and have fun and gain more in Technology used in the movies.

What really amused me was the issue of this girls (Mostly neighbours) coming to my room and asking me why I've chosen to watch only American Movies that they dont really make or teach sense but full of lies and film tricks.And i wunt 4get to tell you'll that they have there own TVs in there Apartment but they just felt like to introduced NIGERIAN MOVIES to me(Like say i just come back from NewYork after 40 years sad shocked.).

To cut the story short,I started watching with them, we started cheering the ideas and the real teaching in the movies and they started turning my room into film house.Believe it or not,This experience make me know more about ladies.

Time goes on,competition arises,they wanted free ticket to my room.They wanted to have the key to my room when am off to work,each of them wanted to show others how the game is played.They started seducing me,like coming to my room in late hours when everybody's asleep.like faking to be asleep.Like pretending as if they have forgotten that my room is not theres.

So that was when i started intervening (sleeping with them one by one) Without giving them my key or my heart.



This is a story of 2 years back. . . 2005.                                                                                    AM BORN AGA
Culture / Re: Nnunu Ebe: The Mysterious Tree by lovelyS(m): 1:39pm On Sep 06, 2007
Shaunscot:

Tell me about it.I'm not from Ota but I live there.Oju-Ore happens to be the HEART of Ota and there is no such tree.
If you could be more precise,id help u out.

Cant believe you live in Ota and you dont know this story. . .Anyway,I schooled in OTA (Iganmode Grammar School) and i have a friend lived in Oke-Ide and His house is just minutes trek from the tree.

Do you know anything about Koto-Otun?. . .They have been dumping a hell of refuse in this ealy days well but till tommorow its not been fill up.

Ara Ile Waja (Neighbour comes to market). . .Pls Holla Back
Islam for Muslims / Re: Ramadan Is Knocking by lovelyS(m): 12:59pm On Sep 06, 2007
Glory be to ALAH the beneficient the merciful.

Rahmadan is here and i pray that almighty Allah will give us the Strength,Money and Faith to go through the HOLY MONTH. . .AMIN.

Saheed O

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