DKNY_truth ,i think you are just been sentimental about issues here and also i think you actually dont know the company you are dealing with,so why dont you get informed.
you might have not been satisfied by their services especially during this reccession period but you can always get to complain at any of their branch in and outside lagos.Little facts about Aims Asset Management Limited for you.
1)IT IS A DULY REGISTERED FUND/PORTFOLIO MANAGEMENT LIMITED WITH THE SECURITIES AND EXCHANGE COMMISSION OF NIGERIA(Check their website to confirm)


2)IT IS DULY REGISTERED WITH NIGERIA STOCK EXCHANGE COMMISSION.AS A STOCKBROKER(Check the nigeria stock exchange commission site to prove this).

3)HAS 31 BRANCHES ACROSS NIGERIA ALONE.

4)AS REAL AS CBN OR ANY OTHER BEST BANKS AROUND NIGERIA.

5)OVER 8 YEARS OF EXISTENCE, AND SO ON

So it cant certainly be a fraud, it might be that you had a misconception of the company you are dealing with,

Mail me on this e-mail address i have a surprise for you.sweetprime@yahoo.com

It cant certa

what has class of degree gotten to do with marriage ?

Quite a number of them are so rough, to be sincere.
Some are just like that they believe that it makes them gain control,but not all of them ,some still have good measure of respect especially for women,it is based on individuals.

i dont want to believe its that bad, or could it be?
God have mercy.

TWICE, Normally before i leave 4 work and when i want to go to bed, except during hot seasons.

i prefer the crib beside mama's bed @ 6months before they are transfer to their room,its safer

No need to travel sir,afterall she is not battering you,hmm REAL MEN DOES NOT RUN AWAY FROM CHALLENGES ,THEY STAY TO DEVISE SOLUTION TO THE PROBLEM..
God will help you.

Hmm Hmm so sorry for your predicament, i believe you 100% cos it has happen to somebody very close to me while i was very young,i mean b4 my 20th birthday there was this far cousin of mine who got married(a society wedding)but unfortunately 6 months AFTER, lo and behold my cousin was returned by the husband with this same complain, he left a messagewith the guard for my dad( her uncle )which goes thus:sorry for the embarrassment i couldnt just cope with her,i love her dearly but i think she needs a little more time with you, looking forward to receive her back better than now.
WHAT A SHAME!!!
THAT NIGHT MY FATHER CALLED ME INSIDE HIS BEDROOM ,HE TOLD ME THAT I MUST BE READY TO BE A GOOD WIFE TO ANY MAN THAT WILL MARRY ME AND THUS THE JOURNEY BEGAN WITH THIIS MY COUSIN,ALL THE HOUSEMAIDS WERE DISCHARGED(I NEVER WASHED CLOTHS TILL I WAS 18,DOESNT ENTER THE KITCHEN AND THE LIKES B4 THEN)MY FATHER TRAINED US WITH THE HUSBAND AS CO-TEACHER .TODAY THEY ARE VERY HAPPY COS WHILE MY FATHER TAUGHT ME,HE TAUGHT HIS WIFE,AFTER 3MTHS THE BRO TOOK HIS WIFE BACK HAPPILY B4 WE CAME BACK FROM SCHOOLD BRO PLS TEACH HER IN LOVE

Thanks so much for all the contributions, am so grateful.I decided to follow homosapien's idea cos i had actually tried every other advices aforetime.
It invovled a lot of travelling which i did, met with all the elders they called the young man questioned him so many other things.To my surprise everyone of them were pleased and the wedding preparation is now on, so so grateful to you all and i think am proud of nairaland(my unseen advisers)INDEED THE VOICE OF GOD IS WITHIN THE VOICE OF THE MULTITUDE SOMETIMES

26 AND 30 RESPECTIVELY with 5years of courtship,they actually expect me to mary a society person like them,but he is a federal worker and to them he can never be able to take care of me and they dont want him to disgrace them, they want a man who can afford a one in town wedding and that can afford a trip to swizerland for honeymoon,he dont have much,but i love him with the little he has,THEIR ONLY REASON IS THAT HE IS A PAUPER

@JJYOU It may just be a small matter this bobo is already telling his friends about.  he has his friends to talk to but the lady talking to her mum is a no no.  God help the family

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no, no,i dont mean that she should talk to her mum not that, but she needs to actually know how to please her husby(her sole responsibility, cos if she does her husband will respect her) without hurting her mother.well marriage will work the way u lay the foundation,its very important,i dont hide any of my feelings from my husband neither does he ,we are very VERY OPEN ABOUT OUR FEELINGS,AND IT HELPS GREATLY.ISTEAD OF SPREADING THE NEWS THE FRIEND SHOULD SORT IT OUT WITH HIS WIFE.WISF THEM SUCCESS.

Well,your friend wont tell me that he has not seen the traces of that habit in his wife before they got married.
Not too late sha,all he needs do is to talk it out with his wify,it is either her mother or her husby i.e you.am a woman and right from my courting days we have made it an abomination to get a third party,such agreements helps ,let your friend confront his wife with love on this issue,i bliv she will want to keep her home,dont rush do it in love.

Sorry for diverting you attention,can anyone in the house link me up with kenya?