judging from a guy perspective. as a guy can boldly tell you that the love the guy has for you is depreciating and it will surely get to a stage you become a stress to him ie disturbance.
for the money and gift.....this is like a payment to clear his conscience because he know deep down in his heart you have not wrong him in any way to deserve such treatment(pushing you a way just like that)
conclusion...right now you are the one forcing the relationship . that dude is planing a way to qiut the relationship without hurting you

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xdunamis:
I was reading this post as a guest. I had to login because I couldn't resist the urge to insult this young man. You are a disgrace to your family. You get small money, but common sense u no get. You are too dumb and childish. Your stupidity is raised to power 2. Your family members refused to attack that bitxch probably because u are supporting them financially. They do not want to upset your childish self. Deep down in their heart they are ashamed of you as a brother, especially your mother and your sisters. How can you talk back at your mother because of one street girl? U even had the guts to scold your mother, FOOLISH CHILD!

How can you be sponsoring a girl of 22 through school? You are not even ashamed to say that you have spent more than her father, mehn u too dull. Stupidity in men is getting worse by the day. You think she loves u? fool. That girl will immediately forget about her "anger issues" when she meets a real man, the same way she will forget about you.

At 22, Nigerian girls are completely senseless, self centered, egoistic, and brainless. At this stage, they only know how to fish out the most stupid rich guys, extort them as much as they can while deceiving with relationship, dump them for another man at the slightest opportunity...same story goes on and on. Our girls can only start picking up sense when they clock 25 26, at this stage they have ruined the lives of stupid guys like you in their past. Majority of them will still get married, you will just be there wallowing in regret. I pity u sha.

you will live long to see your children children.....God will surly bless you for such write up....

Do you actually mean your real mother or step mother .
the length of anger this your story make me feel lead to make this declaration .
infact you deserve to die .
you are a very useless person
you will never have sense again in life.
you are a disgarce to the womb that gives birth to u.
that girl will kil you because she know that you deserve to die.
what esle you want from a girl you feed if not royalty .
you are a pussy go and die

Ikpeabujo:
HE IS GOOD AS DEATH.
MY REASON.
You dont judge a child or childern with the circumstances behind their birth.
what makes you a man if you cant keep and uphold you family in any situation.
if he think his wife is promiscuous in nature why transfer the hatred to childern that have no say to the past life of their mother.
for crying out loud this children calls and believe in you as their father if you think they are not part of your life why keep them for so long the same rooof.
there is better way to correct the wrong doing of children.
why will someone who is clueless about family and challenge start a family
the man is just a sadist and will continue to make life miserable for the wife and childern
NB. from your story and findings, the man is of no use to the family So you guys needs to do the needful.....send the idiot to hell

mr man you can make a good judge. what ever attitude of your children and children display should not be a good reason to destroy your home as a man. there are better way to harmonise your home

Zeal0000007:
Guys ur thought on this, my guy and his girl have been together on a relationship for the past two years now, infact ever they've been dating, two years now they've been staying together. unfortunately this guy has been on one menial job to another just for both of them to survive, he didn't complete his university education because of some setbacks. Thus, the gal in question could be so demanding almost every time not minding the unemployed status of this guy. Though they really love each other.

Right now how they're both surviving is that those facebook admirers and other guys around who are willing to put any cash just for the gal to sleep with them, the gal scam them and collect money from them and that's what they have been doing just to survive.
It's worrisome hearing that my gal is seeing some sort of man at an eatery let alone allowing her to be seeing men.
And I keep on asking myself to what point could this gal in question maintain this without going afterwards and be sleeping with this guys.
As I know there's a point a man will shower a woman love and financial favour and the gal might loosened it irrespective if she's in a serious relationship or not, cos some could be funny, and I see that really happening soon .
I can't even imagine that in my relationship, a relationship as serious as mine. psychologically it will disturb me let alone granting her permission to meet them in an eatery, what happens after then no one knows, one will still argue that she's not having sex with them but who knows.
Pals my fears is that I see this my guy's gal leaving my guy for a richer guy with time If he continues permitting her do this cheating will be inevitable in her part her, and I don't know how to advise him without putting pressure on him or making him feel bad.

the girl in question is already cheating.
take it or leave it

21cents:
no, no, and no!!.

a man was designed to weather storms and if merely securing a place of shelter for himself before marrying is a problem, how is he going to handle the cumbersome challenges in marriage?

PS: I'm no female but I'd never support my sister getting married to someone wey no fit hustle rent apartment. e get why! I even trust my popsy sef on that matter.

ndi popsy .you are just a kid and never face with hard circumstances of life.
back to the topic . why will i spend unnecessary money for rent for another man house knowing well that i have a home and enough space to entertain me and wife for the time beem

how comes you spend 150k for Church? Hahaha wetin happen?[/quote]
concerning that church stuff i can relate very well.
mostly happens when you want to be more Catholic than pope. those pastor go chop you tire