bobowaja:
She even treats u like an option.
Greatresearcher... Come and add this one to your mumu boys list. These SIMPs will learn the hard way.

2special:
Guy,, you're irritating and weak

funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

Sixfeetbelle:


If your mother steps out of the line, you should caution her. Because she's your mother doesn't put her above mistakes.

xdunamis:
I was reading this post as a guest. I had to login because I couldn't resist the urge to insult this young man. You are a disgrace to your family. You get small money, but common sense u no get. You are too dumb and childish. Your stupidity is raised to power 2. Your family members refused to attack that bitxch probably because u are supporting them financially. They do not want to upset your childish self. Deep down in their heart they are ashamed of you as a brother, especially your mother and your sisters. How can you talk back at your mother because of one street girl? U even had the guts to scold your mother, FOOLISH CHILD!

How can you be sponsoring a girl of 22 through school? You are not even ashamed to say that you have spent more than her father, mehn u too dull. Stupidity in men is getting worse by the day. You think she loves u? fool. That girl will immediately forget about her "anger issues" when she meets a real man, the same way she will forget about you.

At 22, Nigerian girls are completely senseless, self centered, egoistic, and brainless. At this stage, they only know how to fish out the most stupid rich guys, extort them as much as they can while deceiving with relationship, dump them for another man at the slightest opportunity...same story goes on and on. Our girls can only start picking up sense when they clock 25 26, at this stage they have ruined the lives of stupid guys like you in their past. Majority of them will still get married, you will just be there wallowing in regret. I pity u sha.

Rawhumper:
Are you in Imo?

Am in Abuja but may come down to the east to sort some important stuffs out....

Thanks for following me dear,I appreciate hun


Sent you a mail










quote author=adadike post=89681349] thanks dear

Rawhumper:


Btw...... I like your representation dear and I guess East is cool.

Am not back from my biz,just passing by,wil ve back lera tonight.

Nne m oma iwu nwa eji eme onu.....
Biko lezie Anya.

adadike:
no problem. Thanks dear

Dpharisee:
Una say this 25 years pikin well so?

Scolding his mum who has suffered to raise him from cradle because of a mannerless ingrate.
You need to go back and seek forgiveness from your mum with a special gift and end that relationship, take all you have done for her as sacrifice. Let her go back to her family, you are not her father, bros you go cry for future.
I have a toxic hot tempered wife and I have not had it easy for many years now, your own go worse
My wife hid her own till after marriage, if I had noticed like you, perhaps we won't be married and I wouldnt have passed through what I have seen in her hands

poweredcom:


Go ask @womenareapes and he will reveal to you that most naija gals are not worth it

That is the reason I don trust any of them

But Bros at 25 what do you wanna use marriage for to boast you are now married

Hahaha our papa n mama times and now no be the same o marriage as an institution has been bastardized

So this 22 years with no idea of life marriage na u wan put for house oga this gal go kill you...

Again try be a player o cos many gals go use u play if you are too gentle

womenareapes:
the moderators banned me just for speaking the truth!


I will always speak the truth! Naija women ain't worth it.

Rawhumper:
My rare breed how do you fare over there?


Just came back from work, though nothing much going on over there so I decided to check on you to wish you a blissful nightrest.

Sleep well.
I care






quote author=adadike post=89719901] okay, I will check it up

Rawhumper:
A well-wisher is not one who meets U alwaz or talks 2U everyday.Well-wisher is one who may or may not meet U often but alwaz prays 4ur hapiness.I miss real d beauty in u and I pray for your sound health and safety because you now mean alot to me.

Hugs and kisses Amen darling and you as well









quote author=adadike post=89742304] aw! That's sweet . Thanks a lot

Rawhumper:
my lady guess you woke up on the right side of your bed.

Its nice to see ur post as I go thru the hustles of today....the smiles such puts on me knows no bounds.

Good morning sunshine....shine shine like d sun

pansophist:
Men by nature are enforcers and the behaviors of your associates (in this case, your fiancee) is a direct reflection of what you are willing to tolerate. Your expectation from her in terms of ethics is really low, and the build-up of her bad attitudes which you tolerate has given her the guts to flare up on your mum, and as usual, you tolerate it and scolded your mum.

This is really bad, and I can say authoritatively that your mum will be really disappointed in you. You should start defining boundaries and stick with them. Your boundaries should have consequences and be enforced, and if it will cost you your relationship, be willing to leave, because otherwise will be a life of servitude, and far worse.

Skepticus:


Most fools in love barely take advice.

I hope they both get married so that we can get entertained by the impending disaster.

pansophist:


We've all being there bros. If I begin discuss my mumu periods to you eh? You go plank my head But I learnt, and those times are over, my mumu don do.

If this thread will make him smarter and stop being a walk over, then it fulfilled its purpose.

abimic:
Scold your mother for a girlfriend? That's a wrong thing to do, you really need to apologize to your mom. Discuss things with your babe, when you're sharing a nice time, tell her about her anger, how you can help her, and see a way you can manage her when ever she's angry. If things don't get better, bro, just leave her, she would meet who can match her anger for anger, I have some friends like that, they don't take shit, both people in a relationship should be responsible, ready to compromise for peace sake, no one is to take unnecessary shit because of Love, that's where maturity comes in. You and your girlfriend aren't ready for a serious relationship. You scolded your mother, and you have a babe with anger issue, don't be unfortunate in choices biko, it's not just the anger that's the issue, words are golden, if she can't control her tongue, it would burn you and her together sooner or later.

bobowaja:

Most mothers raised their male child weak. His mother is reaping the seed of a weak man she sowed.

Never hit a woman, never shout on her, treat her like a Queen.... Na wetin deh end am be this. Full grown simpletons!

oluwamae:
chief