Actually, life is all about change.

If my spouse can turn me round for better, then what's wrong about it?

I once wore a bushy beards, but my baby said it doesnt fit me. At first I resisted the idea, but when I tried wearing a clean shave, the whole world arround me began pouring compliments on me

On her part, she  wears moderate make-ups when we met, but since I prefer a natural beauty to any artificial painting, she stoped it and we are happy.

It all depends on the approach addopted beacuse some styles of correction can be counter productive.

Summarily, being open and willingness to make ammends, enhances compartibility afterall what is Love without sacrifice?

do you agree?

nossycheek:

lol David, don't forget to add me in your list. I am after three, still waxing strong.

@nossycheek,

Are u after 3 in courtship or after 3 kids?

ThiefOfHearts:

Sarcasm just flies over your heads doesnt it?

@ ThiefOfHearts,

Sarcasm?   Far from it but inference.

babyosisi:

There are men who don't treat their mothers right so I wouldn't necessarily want a man to treat me like his mother.

@ babyosisi ,

It is a generally accepted  norm, religiously and socially, that children (men inclusive) aught to honour their parents (mothers inclusive.)

Therefore, I believe mothers should be honoured without any exception hence treating a wife like one's mother is not undesirable.

Are not husbands "babies" to their wives?

all babes qiut, Break in transmission, Up NEPA

ThiefOfHearts:

So you want someone who would have no problem with sleeping with someone he views as "his mother"?

@ThiefofHearts


I believe @mcube implies some one who respects and honours her as his own mother not the other way round.

Pls mcube update your post and clear the air.

If you are faced by this situation , what will u do?

Comment.

fellow nairalanders, can we identify the cause of this?

Nairaland guys and gals, my mouth is sealed watching and waiting for the last post hear b/4 i post my oppinion on this thread 

It will be a world where a tension cannot be doused.

This is a very serious and contentious issue.

Where are the cousellors and Doctors in the House?

Please your response is highly needed here.

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The spate of marriage failures in the society is increasing by the day.
Nairalanders, what 3 special qualities should one look for in a prospective wife/ husband.

ozoneflake:

Oreofemi pleeeeaaasseee! The guy said they agreed to get married. Therefore only a fool will be blind to read the clear hand writing on the wall. Bros you are a man. ONE GOOD SLEEP DESERVES ANOTHER. If she goes about sleeping with poeple when you have already told her your intention to marry her, just quit. She will not change.

, Good advice.

thumbs up for all the contributors in this thread.

I believe that ladies should study their hussy in order to identify his soft spots.

Giving your hussy the strongest assurance that he is the only sunshine in your(wife) life turns him on. Not only in words but also in deed.

Ladies should equally be willing to study the sexual drive of their hussy, and give him the very assurance that he is performing, if he is not doing too good, you let him know it with a deep felt love that gives him the strength to do more, and above all boosts his ego as a man

this i believe spices up the marriage the more.