immortalcrown:
Don't hurt yourself because someone hurt you.

Don't travel when you are not prepared for the journey.


What about your other (own) children?

Originalsly:
Why was your family against her? ... and why were you for her?

imagrg:
Two suggested options for you:
Forgive her and let other men with bigger preeks and stronger minds fvck her on your behalf and make children for you if you know your preek malfunctions like I believe your brain does.
Or..
My candid advise for you is that you divorce her, that's if you were legally married to her, and relocate to another place/house. And if you feel emotionally attached to the child and probably your wife, you can be sending them some stipends monthly for sustenance.
You could even get free fvcks sometimes from your whoring wife without emotional commitment.

slan87:
@OP, sorry to sat this you sound too weak. That's the more reason her family are suggesting you let the kids stay till end of the term.

Issues like this are treated heartless, cause for someone to make you raise a child that isn't yours for 6years is also heartless.

Go hard or go 6feet because of a LovePeddler, choose for yourself.

Namaster:




NOBODY can take your child away. Legally or illegally.


STOP TALKING TO HER FAMILY.

They threaten you and you sound scared. Don't entertain them. Don't let them intimidate you.

Apart from the bastard, how many other kids does she claim is yours?

Homeboiy:


You deserve a slap
Crying for what

Collect the children that is yours and send her packing


Well it’s obvious that you are a weak man
That’s why her family is daring you

Namaster:


Great.

Meantime, BLOCK all her family so that NONE of them manipulates you into letting her stay in your place.

Call members of your family IN FRONT of her and explain everything to them LOUDLY. Tell them you are sending her away TOMORROW. That way they can SHAME you if you decide to back down.

By the way, DON'T let her leave with kids that you think sre your own. Just her and her bastard.

Save up for DNA tests for the rest. You can do them one at a time. She may tell you they are yours BUT you obviously can't believe anything she says.

Namaster:


Your neighbours know. You married a WHOORE who shares her pussy like cabin biscuits at a kid's birthday. She's DEFINITELY shared it to some of your neighbours.

Also, you need to forget what people will say or think. And do the right thing by CHASING the WHOORE out of your house.

Your people-pleasing personality is why your wife and her family have ganged up against you. She has enployed her family to put pressure on you while you are ISOLATED because you want to keep her secret.

SCATTER EVERYWHERE!

Tell your family. They may insult you at first but they'll support you since they saw her TRUE COLOURS before you ever did. And you need ALL fhe support you can get.

Back to the neighbours you are worried:

What do you think will make them ridicule and laugh at you MORE?

Being a man who chased out a whoore IMMEDIATELY you discovered her infidelity?

Or

Being a man who continued to live with a WHOORE and her bastard after discovering her infidelity?

The first commands respect and sympathy. The second evokes disrespect and disgust.

Choose WISELY!

Namaster:
OBVIOUSLY you married into the wrong family.

The way the sister dismissed you and made it sound like cheating is not a big deal is a telltale sign that the family is a shitty one.

Imagine telling someone to adopt and take care of a BASTARD that resulted from your wife fucking another man while married to you.

BLOCK that sister for her stupidity. BLOCK the rest of her family as a matter of principle.

It is time to start respecting YOURSELF. No one in her family respects you. And that includes the one you call your wife.

Tell me she is NO LONGER in your house.

Namaster:


BLOCK her.

Namaster:


No. Talk here.

There is NOTHING to be embarrassed about. You'll get more opinion and support here.

Namaster:


NEVER negotiate with infidels.

Imagine sharing your personal space with someone who BETRAYED you in the worst way possible. Every time you enter your own house, you'll feel you're being STABBED in the heart with a flaming sword.

You NEED to kick her and her bastard out of your house THIS night.

Don't let her or anyone tell you to "take the high road", "be a bigger man", "be reasonable" or to "think of the children".

She wasn't thinking of any of that when she GOBBLED strange dick until she got pregnant. The. lied to you for almost a DECADE.

Right now, you need to be VICIOUS and SELFISH.

You don't respect yourself and peole don't respect you. That's why they can look you in the eyes and suggest that you continue to live with a CHEAT and a LIAR.

KICK HER OUT TONIGHT!

Anybody who thinks yiu are wrong can take her in.

Namaster:
You spoke to her siblings? What did you expect?

That they'll tell you their sister is an EVIL WHOORE?

No, siree! Family comes first. Even when they are a piece of shiit.

YOUR MOVE:

First of all, STOP crying like a little bitch. You married a WHOORE, deal with it. Part of it is your fault for NOT seeing the multitude of red flags she was wrapped it. Majority of it is she's just a WHOORE. Nothing you could have done.

NEXT, stop talking to her family. They will NEVER blame your wife for being a WHOORE. They already know. They probably laughed at you when you came to prostrate to marry the family WHOORE in the first place.

Nothing you can say will turn them against your wife. You're just publicising the fact that she made you a cuck. Setting yourself up for MORE ridicule and embarrassment.

NEXT, get a DNA test for any OTHER kid the WHOORE claims is yours. Ascertain paternity.

FINALLY, stop acting helpless. Get the bitch out of your house if she's still there. Keep the kids that ACTUALLY belongs to you. Kick her and her bastard(s) out.

If you live in her house, take your kids and get out.

If you must cry, cry in SECRET. Don't cry to her family. Don't cry to your family. Don't cry to your friends.

However, tell your family that they were right about the WHOORE. Let them chew her out and counteract her siblings' support.

Also, let your MUTUAL CHURCH friends know that you've kicked out the bitch for fucking around. But don't offer it up UNLESS they ask you about her.

Whatever you do, don't let the bittch see you sweat.

ALSO for fuuucks' sake, STOP referring to a roaming vagina as "my wife".

MrCork:


Is she lightskin?

immortalcrown:
After your discovery of the paternity fraud, have you tried to reconcile with your family?

If yes, what is the outcome?

If not, try it first. If your family is decent and you are not a serial betrayer to the family, the family will accept you and help you to recover.

HarunaWest:
Sorry for what you have been put through. Man up and move on. Kindly return her back to her parents house. She should go with the said child and initiate divorce proceedings. Just move on. Don't think too much about it if not you will get too depressed and it may hurt you more. Stay safe bro. Cheers.

007kjb:


That's true but in this case it is even the woman that wants to take the child to the real father...so this guy has no choice than to accept his loss

My advice is for him to send that lady away today

pointblank247:
Forgive her but let her go for the following reasons.
1, she love her ex more than she love you.
2, she didn't confess because she was remorseful but because her ex want her to.
3, she is a sceamer for not telling the pastor what actually happened. I thought she was supposed to tell the pastor the truth and beg him to beg you for forgiveness. You are very right sir, the Lord bless you...


She can do worse if you let her

Dizzyyish:
The first thing I would like you to understand is, she didn't come clean because of honesty or guilty conscience. She confessed because circumstances forced her. Remember that whenever she says "Please forgive me." If that circumstance didn't present itself another man's child and babymama would have inherited everything you've worked for when you passed away (on top all the suffering you're suffering for them now). Please, is there anyway i can chat you privately? I need someone to talk to and express myself with everything... Thanks

When some men are urged to understand female nature they yell "Just make money and women will come," and then trap themselves with sunk cost fallacy. It's the (heavy) investments you've made on woman's head that increases the pain of betrayal. A man aware of female nature might have already done DNA test earlier but what has happened has happened, hindsight is 20/20.

As the case stands, her highest priority right may be emotional manipulation/blackmail (maybe that's why she went to meet the pastor, so he'll join her begging). You said you want to send her away, so she's still living with you? If you forgive her that's when your troubles will TRULY begin.

muyico:
fiction story! just let her go?? bcus d loves isn't dere anymore

madridguy:
If your story is real and not fiction, take the child for DNA test first to be 100% sure of her claim.

The confused gender can be funny at times. She might be trying to use the same child to hook her ex probably that one don secure good job and she want to port.

Think with cool head bro.

westlius:
Omo if na my pikin, I will sue d school mgt ASSAP