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newoffer:That's harsh o ![]() ![]() It's been over three years. We are just friends now. And he really is a good friend. |
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Mine was my uni lover. We dated for four years. It wasn't an official engagement kinda thing but there was marriage plans for after our NYSC. He is my first. We were practically an inseparable couple. He has cheated on me severally but I caught him just once, the others were suspicions he later verified after we broke up. He was a sex addict or should I say he had a very high libido. It was so bad that the days l resist, he forces himself in. I had to accept that he was this way and make myself mentally and emotionally ready for sex when I'm with him otherwise, when forced, I'll have to bear pains for days. To cope with the guilt of fornication, I also had to see him as my husband. The deal breaker for me was during our convocation, I was so sick, yet all he wanted was sex and with me all feverish and running temperature, it didn't stop him, he pushed in and did his thing. I was disgusted but didn't break up. We went to our respective states after convocation and an issue came up with my younger brother, police case, so I called my supposed boyfriend to help out that I'll cover the cost of transportation and all. Where he stays is an hour away from the police station but I was 5 hours away. He refused, I was mad and finally ended it. He would have rushed to come if it was for sex. The level of selfishness was appalling and since I already had breakup in mind, I utilized the opportunity. He didn't protest the breakup. Probably because I was now far away. Few months later, we were posted to same states for NYSC, so we met again. He was already in another relationship and they were intimate. He lied about the latter to lure me. He's married now. Before he did, he begged me severally that I'm his choice up to two weeks to the wedding. That he will call if all off if I accept him. I declined and told him to go ahead that he has my blessings. We are still friends till date. Sometimes in his moments of weakness, he regrets and blames me for pushing him to her. I just laugh it off. He also says I'm his only ex that can make him cheat on his wife. I know I'm not the only one. Okafor's law never happened with us to his own surprise and disappointment. He has a super D that his exes find irresistible......... ![]() ![]() 10 Likes 2 Shares |
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ottiz:Don't doubt that. A woman with a 24 days cycle is in her fertile window from the 6th day of her period. Then imagine someone with less than 24 days. I don't know if it applies to him but I'm saying it is possible. |
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Amya: At least you are being realistic now. They would have left it for others that need it. But don't ever doubt the possibility of earning a healthy six figures and still want an extra 30k a month. The process was pretty easy and these are smart guys so it's not like they needed to read or something. You initially stated that the six figures is low hence the pursuit. It's the combination from various sources that increases income. The person I initially replied said it's impossible as if it's not same Nigeria we are talking about. Some invest for 30k a month returns or even less so what are we saying? I'll gladly jump on a legit extra 30k a month that will not disrupt my job. It is not strange or weird or impractical. People do it. My issue was with the source not the amount. Their justification when I voiced my displeasure was that they were doing it to benefit one of their dependents. Bottom line, don't underestimate anyone's means of livelihood. You have succeeded in diverting from the initial bone of contention. The person I quoted said one has to be wretched to apply for a state's teaching job. I am only stating that it is very possible to earn 6 figures and still want all that. In this Nigeria, some people combine both private and government jobs. I know some even. ![]() 3 Likes |
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Sweetpink:At least I have a healthy brain that can apply for and get a 6 figure paying salary while you possess a vacant one. By the way, happy world mental health day. Sorry it's coming late. ![]() 5 Likes |
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Amya:Do you realize that some people have responsibilities while others will never forego anything free or an extra income that will not affect their daily jobs. Both of you are obviously living on the internet and have no idea of reality. The process was quite simple, online exams, they all got above 80% and were all selected. That money can take care of one responsibility for a month. Even a family of four earning over a million are not rich let alone six figures. I can't be your reasoning capacity so shift. The only reason I didn't join them was because it's against my moral ethics. And if you two know anything about money, you'd know it's the little thousands that multiplies or accumulates to plenty. Can you easily dash someone 30k? Mtcheeew. 5 Likes |
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Amya:The entry level salary for my company exceeds that so try another method. 6 figures as in a well fed six figures and that's excluding shift allowances and other bonuses. This jibe of yours is very weak. Try harder. And I fail to see the reason for this your post aside utter show of ignorance that most of you "hand me downs" exhibit here. Someone that works for his or her own money should not belittle the efforts and handwork of others. Tueh! 4 Likes |
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Gbegirsoup: Biko stop capping. All my colleagues applied N power and yes, they earn 6 figures. Seemed like I am the only one that didn't apply the way the thing was flying around. And they all got. I know you just want to troll and don't believe what you have been typing. I know teachers that are millionaires and went ahead to even build their own schools. So reduce the noise of your foolishness ![]() 6 Likes |
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47 f****ing percent. Who dey.......!! Omo.......... |
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Fairdamsel: ![]() You are doing well. My votes are already locked down for him o. God no go shame us. Enjoy the rest of your day beautiful one. ![]() 9 Likes |
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Fairdamsel: The comments here about that guy are really appalling to say the least. How can one hate a human being because he's nice? How can one troll someone because he tries to live in peace with all men including those he clearly doesn't like. People antagonising love and charity. That's why as a country, we are in this sorry state. Selfishness and bitterness is the new "real". They need healing. I have met his type so I can relate. Those ones can keep up with their bitterness. They seem to me like people with no friends and sense of true humanity. I'll choose fakeness a thousand times over if being a sadist and a bitter soul is the new "real" 17 Likes |
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I have a feeling they just want to rile up the fan bases of these two. Cause traffic. Both are safe. But he said there will be only one winner. I pray he changes his mind. It's unfair. 1 Like |
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It's a joke ooo. Lol |
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Jesus! Pere? |
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You can't talk about peace without talking about personal wars, traumas, obstacles and then what helped you pull through such situations. The calm in the storm. My favorite tonight was Saga, his brought tears to my eyes. He talked about how despite all the hustle and bustle of helping his mum in her restaurant, her voice and smile and a name she calls him brought him peace. I really enjoyed his presentation. Most times, speeches are not all about big grammar but saying something relatable. WM was doing well till he lost his composure. Angel was very organized and did great but I wasn't really captivated probably because I have heard her speak many times. All the wins were well deserved to me. 8 Likes |
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callmemakaveli: Ouch..... Did I strike a nerve so badly that you want me gone? Gosh....I need to stop. At least your pain is that an unknown person analysed your fake of a fav so well that you had to throw this weak comeback. I know you can't help it but face front. And then intensify your prayers so that hopefully, he makes it this Sunday and leaves shamefully on day 90 with something way lesser than the 14% you guys pulled for him the last time. ![]() ![]() 11 Likes 1 Share |
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See them masturbating over the fact that their fav has a gf outside. She ought to dump his sorry ass. Shamelessly licking the vag juice of a woman you just met. It's his type that infect his wife and kids with unknown disease. If dirtiness was a man. Topped it with the senselessness and childishness of telling the world about it. At this rate he'll soon need another round of teeth whitening and disinfection. Tueh! 13 Likes |
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FIGARO00:AMEN! with my two hands up and knees on the ground. 2 Likes |
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FIGARO00: Borrowed bitter envious haters. They only know how to body shame, no substance, empty comebacks. 4 Likes |
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ethicallyright:Sorry, I must have skipped your name. Lemme check. Oh, you ain't worth my time that's why. Better luck next time. No hard feelings bro. ![]() 4 Likes |
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Piscof2000: We are just doing the Lord's job. His Kingdom has suffered too much violence. Let's violently take it back. I sight you amiable comrade. ![]() 2 Likes |
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callmemakaveli:And for the successful people around me, you just reminded me to pray for more success to fall on them. For all successful people and struggling people around me and far from me, you are blessed and highly favored, the Lord will increase you in every way, the works of your hands shall experience great breakthroughs, haters shall become fans, your greatness shall shine so bright that it will be blinding. Amen! Thank you and God bless you for this. ![]() ![]() 5 Likes |
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scondy:I was taught not to talk back at elders. Good evening Grannie. ![]() 3 Likes |
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callmemakaveli:You sound pained. And see who's talking about envy, manipulation. Okay I get, you are trying to describe you and your fav. At least he succeeded in bleaching his skin according to you, I can only imagine how much your fav tried to bleach but failed. He had to console himself with just teeth whitening as his brownish rotting teeth couldn't help him get laid. The chemicals used must have reached his brains and wiped off his senses. Reason why when he was showing his nasty side, his friends outside were confused and said that's not the Pere they know. Talk about fakeness and a manipulator ![]() ![]() 12 Likes 1 Share |
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PatientVulture:Ok. Let me be realistic, have you lot created a "GoFundMe" account for your favs? I heard one of you is an expert in that. Hopefully the money wouldn't get diverted this time around. 14 Likes 1 Share |
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callmemakaveli:Bring it on! Depression? Lol. From who exactly? We already know those suffering from depression. 13 and 14% gang. Una no reach. Stop being too emotional. So many children here.....Phew! ![]() 11 Likes 1 Share |
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A quick one, can Pere afford a BQ at lekki now? Or we should tip WM to advise him to consider Ikorodu or Iyana-Ipaja? Please let's be our brother's keeper. He has been a good servant to his lord(WM) lately. ![]() 18 Likes 1 Share |
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FIGARO00: A ghost reader forced to speak out as the poisonous haters were becoming to loud. Needed to remind them of the emptiness of their favs. Well, empty barrels make the loudest noise so what did I even expect? You are doing great comrade. Respect! 11 Likes |
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callmemakaveli:Tears of joy need not be wiped off. Keep the tissue and buckets for the 90th day when while I'm shedding tears of joy, you'll wail in pain, anguish and bitterness. So you need it more. ![]() 10 Likes 1 Share |
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Expert17:The more you mention me, the more obvious your comprehension deficiency. It's your type that will ass-lick a human simply because they are fine. Are you that bad looking? Beg God your creator for mercy. He will upgrade you. In the meantime, we stan a man with a great personality, his looks is an additional tantalizing flavour. Choke on that fact. 7 Likes 1 Share |
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