My guy don’t even try it ooo! And when I say don’t try it I’m speaking from experience ooo

They are going to so use you, enslave you, and when they finish draining you, they will say you are not performing any longer and then they will fire you!

I know getting this job may seem like a good idea to you right now but please don’t be desperate cos better offer will surely come as long as you are persistent and God will crown all your effort with success.

I just like the fact that they are allowing ivy to be a child and dress like a child unlike what kim is doing wit north

NwaUnubi:
I think say down syndrome people na imbe

No, they are not. Please read it up on google

Ayade is working scam governor

IamD18:
The best way to handle heartbreak is to avoid heartbreak, and the best way to avoid heartbreak is by not letting anyone be in charge of your heart.

What do I mean? Have it in mind that LOVE does not exist in relationships of this generation, it's all about self and personal interest of both partners. Nothing more.

Be wise! You can't love and be wise at the same time, so choose wisdom over love.

Na dem! Heartbreakers!

innobarca:


She does not need your advice, The man tolerated your imperfections too.

Move on and stop trying to make the lady feel uncomfortable.
The man must have dated another girl before meeting you.
If it did not work between you and the man, it does not mean it won't work with another person.

She is not getting into anything worse than what many men and women see everyday both here in Nigeria and in other countries.

Why are you so dumb like this? If she made her private life public by seeking advice from strangers then she needs my advice.
And for everytime he messed up when we were dating he always apologized promising to be better and cos I'm someone who believes no human is perfect i always took him back, stop saying shit u know nothing about

All I'm trying to say is she should love him with his imperfections just like i did and stop complaining cos trust me, being with that man is draining! She will need all this energy for her unborn child

And trust me when i say i'v moved on cos imagine if i was married to this man, i'll be the one coming here to ask for advice from frustrated humans like you. Jesus loves me!

Sparkle777:


Nne, u came here asking ooh. Now u see answers, ur mouth don loud. Yet to see u answer the guys ex, abi u no see her reply?
Since u know u and ur hubby are one of a kind,then why come here to wail? Apparently u knew, married and got pregnant all in less than 5months...love indeed. Anyway, since u feel he is ur soul mate....Enjoy. I can't be arguing wit women like u biko.

Leave her, d thing neva clear her first.
She still dey washing and setting mood.

innobarca:



Many people actually got married after 3 months of meeting each other and they are happy.

The person claiming the ex stayed for 4 years despite knowing the man is a womanizer? And she still wants the man back... Something must be good about the man.

He is chatting girls far away from him, probably old friends.

It is very good to be concerned when your lover or spouse is chatting more women or men.

In everything, respect the feelings of your husband or wife.

Point of correction, i don't want him or will ever want another woman's husband.
Ofcos, no human is entirely bad as no one is perfect but choosing the imperfections you can live wit in a spouse is very important.
Obviously I'm emotionally stronger than her to have tolerated him for 4 years.

She came on here to seek advice and i introduced myself and advised her by trying to let her know what she is getting/gotten into.

Please read well before u say nonsense.

GrabHisBalls:
What did you achieve now?

She asked for advice, i introduced myself and adviced advised her.

Oh Hi Roxy! Im sure Victor introduced you to this forum cos he introduced me too.
First of all I'm going to say congratulations on your pregnancy, i hope it's a boy cos Victor would like his first child to be a boy!

Secondly, this is what you get when you meet and marry a man under 5months (cos we were still talking in December), you didn't even bother to ask questions, you just jumped into it,
did he tell u how we both suffered, prayed and fasted for him to get his visa?
Did he tell u the sleepless nights i had because of him?
Did he tell you how much i cried because of him?
Did he also tell u i almost took my life because of him?
And plus we almost got married.

Im not even going to attribute this to karma

Oh yes I'm his ex from Nigeria tho he didn't even bother to break up with me cos he was probably still contemplating between me and you but its okay darling, he choose u over me

Now my dear Roxy, i and Victor dated for 4 years, yes 4 solid years until decided he needed to marry u because of the 'stay' according to him 'to stabilize' and i can comfortably tell you that Victor is womanizer (sorry boo) but I'm not a bitter ex cos I'm trying to move on.

Don't get this wrong, Victor is best man any woman would ever pray for; loving, caring,gentle,goodlooking
etc.
I'm really sorry to read what you are going through but the only advice i can give u is that you leave him to do whatever he likes and continue to pray for him and love him like that because no matter what u try to do it won't change him, trust me i'v been with him for 4 years remember? I'v had girls threatened me because of him.
He will and can never change!

My only pray for you is that he doesn't leave you like he left me when he saw a better life.

And lastly please take really good care of urself cos ur baby needs u more.

Cheers!

All i just want to say is...this is what happens When God fight your battle and vindicate you, Dammy is a good woman but was unfortunate to marry a Gold digger and a selfish man.

Be calm! Surely God will vindicate you.

TissuePaper:
The question is why would a girl like her be depressed

You think because she is curvy or beautiful everything will fall into place for her? Well my dear a lot of things go wrong wit we curvy girls.

SIMPLYkush:
Yahoo boy...
drug addict..
cos acting a low budget ipob movie can't even build u a hut talkmore of a house

You see those low budget, Aba movies? They are the real deal! cos only few people goes to the cinema and a larger population depend on this 'low budget' Aba movies even pirated copies of this cinema movies are selling more than the originals.

Jesu!!!! If i'm Linda eh! This is the best time to call Stella and beg for forgiveness ooo because the way i'm looking at things if Stella begin to open her month Linda is in for some real trouble I tell you!

Don't play with a friend turned enemy!!!

This story was aired on NTA Calabar few months ago
It's so pathetic I wept when I heard the story
It's still happening as we speak in cross river state, somewhere in Obudu LGA
The saddest part is that the current governor of cross river state is from that LGA and I don't think he is doing anything about it
I pray international organisations come to the aid of this people very fast because this is Morden day slavery.

amaniro:
Duke has been talking gibberishly just to gain little popularity

I tell you everything he is saying is the honest truth
Almost everything now in cross river state is just not right.

femi4:
Rich people sickness

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Are you for real?

Pls which Calabar? If you tell me it is the Calabar of 10years age i'll agree wit you but now? Nah! because Calabar is now living in it pass glory.
I'v lived in Calabar for more than 15 years so let me tell you...Now i'm not the type to bad mouth things but Calabar is gradually falling apart, first off the roads in Calabar main town are bad, pot holes everywhere, no jobs, most of the tourist attractions mentioned are falling apart cos no one is maintaining them especially that slave trade museum which I love so much, and don't even tell me their women can cook cos most of them can't!, businesses are folding up cos the state is dry no money and therefore low patronage.
Now the one that saddens me because I have been victim is the state of insecurity in the state almost every night you will hear shooting everywhere people are been robbed off their sweat, if you live in Calabar south you should be in your house by 7 or 8 pm otherwise you are on your own, people are being kidnapped every other day, and you know the sad part of it is that Gov Ayade is not doing much about it because is sleeps very well at night and he is busy campaigning for next team and most of citizens can't oppose him because most of them are under his payroll.
So Calabar is just at a stand still, nothing moves unless Ayade says otherwise.

Over hyped state!

omocalabar:
Social Worker, and Philanthropist indeed,I remember attending an interview at his company, and they boastfully offered to pay me 25000naira as salary, and i was to work at Calabar. When i asked about accommodation, the man said i should look for a church and be sleeping........philantropist indeed

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I was waiting for a comment like this, so here is it....this man is not kind to his workers at all, the way he uses them ehhh... and the pay nko? It's nothing to write home abt, and u'll pay for the slightest mistake to the last penny not even minding that u are taking nothing home and when u see him u'll think u'v seen a saint (better person).

Ifakiland:

Dey got married few weeks after meeting at her family house....so she was never a gf.
Ur foolishness is actually designed in California and assembled in China.....it's original like the apple products....dumb biatch!

Ohh is that what they told you? Ok continue fooling urself...but E pain you sha! Lolz

Hmmm some guys will not make heaven sha...just because one or two gurls broke ur heart u now came up wit dis dumb ass write up? Ok let me ask you, if your mother was not a GF to ur father Biko would he marry her? Unless u r trying to say ur mother is a hoe
#dumb ass!

Well, sadly I feel this are the kind of girls that some guys deserve, because when they meet a good girl who doesn't portray all or some of this characteristics listed they treat her badly or make her feel less.

When I saw d description of Aunty B, I was like chai!! See me ooo! I sacrifice too much yet get little or nothing in return.
Anyways am trying to live without him now, I pray someone better walks into my life otherwise na rev sister things oo lolz I canor come and go and kill myself
I don tire jare

But why? Selfie and accident na wah o, instead of him to help save other people he is busy snaping

Really, I feel u guys were arguing and in d process u hurt each other's feelings (am sure u must have hurt hers too) that was why she said those words to hurt u more she might not even mean them, but pls if know u can't take her back wholeheartedly pls let her go,