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Travel / Re: General German Work And Family Re-union Visa Enquiries by missrational: 11:21am On Feb 18, 2021
tempuser2:
I benefited from this thread a lot while trying to figure things out myself so, I decided I'd help with some info of my own.


I'm a software engineer and recently got an employment offer from a german company. I already knew the wait time for the appointment was insane so even before the interview process concluded, I was already looking for alternatives. I came across the fast track process for skilled workers during my search. https://www.make-it-in-germany.com/en/looking-for-foreign-professionals/targeted-recruitment/entering-working-in-germany/the-fast-track-procedure-for-skilled-workers/

Then when I got the employment offer, I informed the employer about the crazy wait times and the ability to fast track. Thankfully they were already aware of the fast track process so they were happy to go that route.

They requested that my degree certificate be certified and I did that at the Ministry of Foreign affairs in Abuja. After they had this and other documents (reference letter from past employers, passport data page, mawista health insurance), they applied for the pre-approval from their end. I can't say exactly how long this took because I don't know when they applied but, I sent the final document they needed on October 15, 2020. They also sent me a bunch of documents I had to sign and get back to them.


The company informed me they got the pre-approval on November 2, 2020 and I applied for an appointment same day using the WITH Approval link. I got a response for an appointment same day as well for November 20, 2020. Went for the appointment with all my documents and some extras that the company sent me to submit along.

At the appointment, I made a mistake by not photocopying the extra documents the company sent me. I assumed they'd take it as-is and tried to explain the company asked me to just submit this alongside the application. But the man that attended to me was very agitated by this because according to him, they're not "original documents" and I needed to have copies. It was all a lot of documents and making two copies of all made no sense to me (I didn't tell him this lol, I just stopped talking because he started saying I was arguing even though I was just trying to explain).

Long story short, I only gave him the documents I had copies for and he added those to a docket/file and gave me to take in. But I still went in with the other documents. At the appointment the lady asked questions about why you want to go, how you got the job, future plans etc. Then she specifically asked for a document which wasn't in the docket, she said if I had it, it would be an instant visa approval and she kept repeating the German name of the document. I looked for it in the documents the company sent and I found it thankfully, it was the Federal Employment Agency approval (not to be confused with Vorabzustimmung or the "pre-approval" ).

She also complained about me not having copies of that Federal Employment Agency approval document but she took it. I used the opportunity to submit some other documents the company sent that I thought would help, like university degree recognition stuff.

On November 25, I got the approval mail and was asked to submit health insurance plus travel dates. Submitted the documents by November 26. The consulate sent back my documents by December 2, 2020 but DHL delayed and I got it all by December 4, 2020.

Hello tempuser2

I have a couple of questions about the references from past employers
1.) Do the references have to come from the company's HR or they can come from a supervisor or colleague?
2.) Do you need a reference from every company you worked at?
3.) Is there a template for the references?
Travel / Re: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 4 by missrational: 2:29pm On Sep 23, 2019
missrational:
Hello House

Please for those who used self service at tls VI, do I upload my document checklist on the website before I go for my appointment or do I take it along with me to the appointment?

I'm asking because it says on the form that I shouldn't sign it before my appointment but on the appointment confirmation email sent to me by TLS the checklist is not listed as one of the documents I should bring along for TLS

Thanks for your help

Hello all

Please does anyone have an answer to this?
Travel / Re: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 4 by missrational: 3:12pm On Sep 21, 2019
MadameW:
Yes I used self service and the documents I submitted are:
Employment: work ID, letter of introduction, 6 months payslips
Financial: bank statements (salary and savings)
Family: marriage certificate , child’ Birth certificate and passport data page
Accommodation: evidence of my house address a stated in my application (I used title document)
Travel and residency: passport data page
Others: letter of invitation from my sister in law, her passport bio data page
My Cover letter
Sponsor evidence:Husband’s property documents, payslips and employment documents






Hello MadameW, please did you also upload your checklist?
Travel / Re: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 4 by missrational: 12:08pm On Sep 21, 2019
Hello House

Please for those who used self service at tls VI, do I upload my document checklist on the website before I go for my appointment or do I take it along with me to the appointment?

I'm asking because it says on the form that I shouldn't sign it before my appointment but on the appointment confirmation email sent to me by TLS the checklist is not listed as one of the documents I should bring along for TLS

Thanks for your help
Family / Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by missrational: 9:59am On Aug 01, 2017
tomi87014:
Hello Nairalanders.

I have been married for a year and half. I thought hubby and i have been living happily and i would've swore he was faithful. A few days ago i saw that a random lady messaged him on Facebook and they got talking. I was shocked at first to see that he was chatting her up. Fast forward to yesterday I checked his phone and saw that himself and the lady had more conversation and what started as facebook chat had progressed from phone calls to whatsapp chat. The content of their chat seems they were eventually planning to hook up.

I confronted hubby but he wasn't remorseful and told me he doesn't owe me faithfulness and went on to sleep in the other room. Hubby and I pray together and are looking towards a very bright future together, this is not something i really saw coming from him. I am very troubled in my heart and pregnant for our first baby. He dozent feel any atom of pity that the whole issue might cause me problems and I have been wondering what has come over him. I am 100 percent faithful to my hubby and want the union to work out. I am at work typing and holding back tears. Please i need advise from mature people in the house, how do i deal with the situation. I am in my late 20s, he is in his late 30s.

I find it hard to believe there were absolutely no signs that your husband thought this way before you got married. I also feel like you're telling this story in such a way that it provokes sympathy for you. It's either you're exaggerating things or you've been ignoring red flags.

In any case, assuming all that you have said is accurate, you either learn to live with unfaithfulness or get out of the marriage.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: PwC Nigeria Graduate Recruitment 2017 by missrational: 8:58am On Jul 25, 2017
ednut1:
don't forget to sow ur first salary with my ministry grin.

What's the salary range after tax sef? For non-chartered
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: PwC Nigeria Graduate Recruitment 2017 by missrational: 9:32pm On Jul 24, 2017
PhilipGallagher:
I got a regret mail, honestly I was shocked cause I thought I did well (I mean okay). .
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.Abeg did any engineering grad get this job?

Yes
Family / Re: Has My Wife Been Taking Me For Granted? by missrational: 12:56pm On Jul 13, 2017
lisbonabdulahi:
Hello Nairalanders, please I need you advice before I finally end this marriage.
I know I was at fault at the beginning for not stamping my authority , I showed her so much love, because she is a product of a broken home, I wanted her to know there is much more to life, now she has turned my love to foolishness, I do not want my kids to grow up without a father. That is why I have been very patient, but now … please read on.

I have been married for 11 years, with 4 kids. The truth is that we have never had really peace in the home for these years, everything is trouble, from the way I talk, eat, dress, use the toilet and sleep, just name them. The situation has been bad from the beginning, but the last three years has been hell for me and the kids, my wife shouts and complain over everything, she cannot go one full day with Joy, there is always one thing that annoys her, she has to be right on all issues, The very sad part is that whenever she does anything wrong and I ask her, there will be trouble, she will refuse to speak with me for as long as she like. We can go for weeks without really speaking with each other she enjoys it, she does not just bother at all. Each time these things happen, I am always the one that try to initiate peace.

I will like to give only one example to summarise everything going on in my home: two years ago, she will just leave the home without telling me, I called her and told her it is not right, she replied me promptly that it is her life, I can’t control her, and it is my life as well, I should do whatever I like with it. well I thought it was anger, however, I never mind, anytime I want to leave, I make sure I tell her till one day she called me and tell me that even if I keep informing her about my movements, that she is not going to change, she is not under any obligation to tell me where she is going to. My people, for two years counting now, that is how we have been doing it, we just leave without telling each other. BUT OCCASSIONALLY FOR SOME REASONS I DON’T KNOW, SHE WILL JUST TELL ME SHE IS GOING OUT TO XYZ.

She always insults me and even the kids, for any mistake they make and she never fails to tell them that they did not inherit their bad character from her, that they inherited their character from me, she says this consistently even when I am there. There is no insult she has not poured on me, I have had to explain to her mother severally but the woman is simply helpless, her mother is dead scared of her. She exhibited some of these characters during our two years of courtship, but her mother and some brethren advised that she will change after marriage. She is always complaining of being tired, meanwhile, I do the dishes, do the vacuuming (sweeping), cleaning and other domestic duties, even when she cooks, I have to cut the ingredients and all that, in short she rarely cooks. We sleep in different rooms for 4 years counting now, occasionally I try to go to her room to initiate sex, but 99% of cases she chase me away, sometime she locks her door. She stopped me from sleeping in same room with her, when I asked why, shy did not say anything but after 4 months she said it was because I was snoring at night. Trust me anytime I am opportune to make love to her I make sure she climaxes…

It is so bad that even her sisters sometimes rebuke her in my presence, presently, she is not in talking terms with any of her siblings, and this has been on for the past three years. I am stuck with this lady, her mother cannot talk to her, no family member she respects. She is a loner.
To the extent that she makes friends and they always break up, she has no real close friends, even if they are close, trust me, before 6 months the relationship has gone sour.

Dear OP, here are my 2 cents.

Your wife has very serious mental issues and is probably going through much more pain than you can even begin to fathom. If these were the early stages of your relationship, I would have advised you to continue to show her love and insist that she goes through therapy.

But by now it's too late, you have taken on her issues and now they are almost destroying you. I'm also worried about your kids. I think the best course of action for all involved is separation or divorce. Otherwise the less resilient of your kids may end up scarred for life.

Maybe leaving her will force her to get help, maybe it won't. but at this point I think it's fair to say you have done your part for her. As for you, separation from her will also bring you peace. You could still support her from afar, but you have to keep your sanity. This is not a dress rehearsal, you have only one life to live.

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Investment / Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by missrational: 12:20am On Jul 02, 2017
inze:


. . . DiamondBank accepts 100k as minimum

So with 100k I can invest in the one for 1 year? Just confirming that it applies to all three tenures
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 2017 KPMG Graduate Trainee Recruitment Thread by missrational: 9:08am On Jun 23, 2017
dapyd1:
Hi guys,

A whatsapp group has been created for those who have passed the KPMG Assessment Centre (AC) regardless of unit.

Please any enquiry about test, essay, documentation and AC can be answered by the previous pages of this thread, or better still the 2015 thread here. https://www.nairaland.com/2097634/kpmg-graduate-trainee-aptitude-test

You can also post further questions on the thread, it will be answered.

Thanks as we comply.

To join the group, please quote this message and drop your number.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 2017 KPMG Graduate Trainee Recruitment Thread by missrational: 12:29pm On Jun 19, 2017
amydealeb:
Did my second pi about 3 weeks ago. Not heard anything since then. Still hopeful



okay, thanks

did my first PI in march and been benchmarked since then
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 2017 KPMG Graduate Trainee Recruitment Thread by missrational: 11:37am On Jun 19, 2017
amydealeb:
I have met the head of Audit post PI. Anything u wanna know?







Hi
Please when did you do your PI? And have you received an offer after the interview with the head of Audit?
Thanks
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: 2024!! Marriages For Working Class: Drop Your Contact And Get Your Spouse Now. by missrational: 11:03pm On Jun 15, 2017
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Religion / Re: Gullibility Of Nigerian Christians - A Case Of Despair by missrational: 4:33pm On May 24, 2017
felixomor:


Please where is the research or study u conducted?
To back this claim

Most of the richest pastors in the world are Nigerian pastors
https://www.wealthresult.com/entrepreneurship/top-10-richest-pastors-in-world
Romance / Re: HELP!!! MY FIANCEE IS DENYING ME SEX AFTER AN ACTIVE SEXUAL LIFE by missrational: 10:19pm On May 10, 2017
illuminated93:
I felt this calm reading your texts. You sound cool and I love your choice of words(Puritanism). I'd LYK to be ur friend, u sound intelligent.

Thanks smiley

I've replied your email.
Romance / Re: HELP!!! MY FIANCEE IS DENYING ME SEX AFTER AN ACTIVE SEXUAL LIFE by missrational: 6:22pm On May 10, 2017
illuminated93:
How did you end it with her?
U guys still talk?

I'm female, and I went through the phase where I thought my boyfriend was keeping me from God. I've since realised that puritanism is an effort in futility.

I told him I had to leave him to face God, this was over 6 years ago. We still chat occasionally and he's doing well. He has been with his current girlfriend for over 5 years and is getting married soon. So don't worry about losing her, you'll find the right woman for you.

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Romance / Re: HELP!!! MY FIANCEE IS DENYING ME SEX AFTER AN ACTIVE SEXUAL LIFE by missrational: 4:09pm On May 10, 2017
daylyt:
Leave her NOW! 
Not only will you have to go without sex but you'll also be stuck with a religious nut for the rest of your life. And they only get more delusional as they get older. 
My guess, your relationship won't last that long.

Lobatan grin...



Luminouz aka kunlery cheesy

I agree with this because I've been through that stage. If she's the kind of person who is susceptible to religious guilt then there will be no end to the issues that will come up because she feels she is sinning.

Sadly, there's very little you can do for her right now. This is something she has to work out personally. Any opinions that come from you will be seen as coming from the devil himself. I don't see how this relationship will survive because I won't advise you to give into religious demands.
Romance / Re: Virgins Have Nothing To Offer Except Their Tight Private Part – Nigerian Girl by missrational: 3:19pm On May 10, 2017
The hymen is about as useful as the appendix or the foreskin.

Women should focus on being productive adults of good character.

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