Chai!

Am sorry you are going through this, its heartrending. What can I say to you......My dear endure, its for better for worse. You must continue to love her; she is your wife and its for better for worse, since you have already chosen her as your wife above all others . Continue to show her love, respect her as your wife and perform all your husbandly duties to her; take care of her as a husband takes care of a wife. Ignore her excesses and focus on your daughter and doing things that make you happy. Have a heart to heart talk with her and tell her how much her actions are hurting you. Try not to let the current events make you not be intimate with her because it will push her farther away and into the other man's arms , just make sure you use condom to protect yourself from STD's. Just keep loving her, eventually she will change and see the folly of her ways.

Also check yourself to make sure there is nothing you are doing or not doing that is pushing her into another man's arms... are you faithful to her in all your trips, how is your sex life;do you satisfy her sexually, do you keep your self clean and look nice and attractive, do you take care of her financially or are you the stingy type? All these may sound like cliche but check your self to see if you are lacking in any of these .

Stay on your knees in prayers, that is the only way to win this battle( in all honesty)! Its a good thing you are financially ok, so take care of yourself and be happy, life is for the living....it is well

kk

Yes, it is a thing of the heart, if your mind is there, you will get it, however, do you involve in intimacy or lovemaking?, if it just intimacy, you may not, but if its lovemaking, and both of you explore all the "explorables" , you will definately get it.
May God help us all.

Thanks great lady,its a thing of the mind indeed and u need to participate too.I told her to try n clear her mind and be open to exploring.and also keep telling herself dat this is her husband, so she needs to let the goddess in her lose. Unlike when she was single were she can decide to keep tryin diff ones,her hubby na her last bus stop lol so if she is hell bent on achieveing she needs to work with wot she has!

A friend of mine who is married just told me she has never had heavnly feelings,even wit her hubby.(thinkin out loud #thethingswetakeforgranted#*!!

Anyway,she thinks she is weird becos of this as she enjoys intimacy still. I told its not uncommon and really nufin to worry about since she enjoys it all the same.

So ladies in d house,do you have heavenly feeling and if u do what will you advise her to do to achieve this.Shld she be worried??

Mods pls leave in the family as my friend wants constructive comments and I think she will get it here than d sexuality section.

And ladies lets be honest here and not claim multiple heavenlies when its nada

;DSo because you have a job and contribute to the household funds, you and your husband are now mates abi?!


Thats why you wont cook or clean the house abi?!

Thats why you cant run him a bath or do his laundry?!




What kind of life is this sef?!
^^^ sorry my dear but u can't eat ur cake and have it!
U can either eat it,enjoy it, Poo it out and forget about it or u don't have it @ all simples!!

[b][/b]he Apostles layed down these examples, Lets follow just that and not "MEN" invented traditions that have no value. I take it d apostles are not "men" but something else only u can define!

Your rants are childish and womanlike. I doubt if you are a 'HE' like you said on the other thread, just admit you are a woman and I'll stop arguing with you. @so serial ur sexist as well as anti catholic!good combo it fits u.

0P echoed my tots on soo many levels.I don't know why it shld be up to the wife alone to supervise or worry about birth control!!.these men want everythin made easy for dem.as for me am not havin any artificial stuff stuck up on me.if withdrawl no do us then let's us continue muiltiplyin until nature takes its course.no be pesin go tell u make u go vasecto sharp sharp!!!!nonsense!!!

Hi all,
My friend who is a credit controller in london wants to go into risk management career path.she is due to start the entry level course in risk managment( certificate in risk magt.)

She needs advice if this the right steps to take to break into risk magt.she is also concerned if there are oppoturnites in this field and how she can maximise her chances of getting a job as soon as she finishes this first certificate in risk magt.

Please any advice/info/tips she can get on career in risk magt will be highly appreciated.thanks in advance.

She have named and shamed totally by puting his surname too!goodwifey enduring his broomsticking with his poor endowent n he had d gall!Fo.o.lish men!!