C2H5OH:

I don't give a shit if she earns more. The more the merrier. So long as she doesn't grow a pair of balls because of it.

LMAO! What's your definition of 'growing a pair of balls'?

Yes I will but only under those conditions you've mentioned and he obviously have to fit into my perception of someone I will like to spend the rest of my live with. A guy's level education doesn't really count for much these days. You'll be surprised as to how many graduates and other well educated people that's carrying an empty head about lol.

This is got to be the,  most ridiculous post I've ever read! No offence intended

Hi people,

I'm looking for a friend. Her name is Bukky Oladapo. I heard she's studying at University of Ilorin but I don't know what she's studying. Sometimes she goes by Eniola, Enny or Islamiyah. At the time I knew her, she was living in Ibadan and she went to Unity school Ejigbo. She has a brother called Bode. If anyone knows her or someone that do, please tell them about this page. Thanks.

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! wait a min,  I'm still laughing,

Right, serious time

I have always wondered abt the same thing. I agree wit the girls.  The worst part is that they feel quite confident abt their shit n dat makes me laugh even more.  I just think;
gosh! u shuld cover ur face with a paper bag if u realise hw much a fool u just made of urself!

Some of them just think being romantic means 'flowers, cards and chocolate'. Ones that are not challenged in that way, av a bad sense of timing.

Sometimes I feel sorry for them and I feel like asking them if they haven't realised this is the 21st century.




Guys?? How many times I don call u (count the question marks lol  )

U dey hear me so??

Abeg make u no blame poverty ooooooooooo. Dat made u sound even more lame. Poverty hasn't rubbed you of ur sense of romance. Or has it??


@ oko-omoge

If she isn't fmiliar with the word 'romance',  she wudn't av bothered abt the post.
You can't blame her if some of the girls u've been with are not up to ur taste in bed . U need to keep trying

"When romance or love is mentioned Nigeria ladies should stay clear" -  Ermm,  did i detect chauvinism here?? Discrimination against Beautiful, Intelligent, Harworking,  (d list goes on) Nigerian women Agbedo!!!

"A typical Nigeria lady would settle for benjis, mr charming,yahoo boys, drug barons,armed robbers,money doublers e.t.c" Damn! U sound bitter! It meant to be a fun post. Cheer up! Are u by any chance jealous of dem people??

You are just lecturing sum1 abt judgin all n9ja guys by just 1 guy (which probably isn't true, cos if u know d level wey n9ja guys dey yeye demself, u no go talk like that) and u r doing the same

(by way, i didn't mean to pick on u)


@ tukur2002n

Dat was funny! How much do u charge? i myt as well send sum business ur way LMAO!

@ Tsuki

Gosh! Dat was awful! Did u give him sum change to buy food cos he must av been very hugry. lol

@opokonwa

Gosh! Dat was so funny! Good brotherly advice!

@ chunky

Opokonwa's brotherly advice shuld work for u since it's now difficult to distinguish btw genuine people n frauds.

Goodluck!

@ veracious and romeo

Can you two possibly be nice to each other They call it a forum because you both have a right to personal opinions.

This forum is big enough for both of you.


@ romeo

stop taking things to far. 

"would prefer to kiss a pig to kissin' her if she is the person in her profile"

Whoever it is on her profile, it is disrepectful

it'll only take a couple of words to follow knzguru's advice 

@

ariblaze

You don't get the emphasis on the word, do u? Imagine talking abt designers with ur mates and one of them goes I love Gucci but i looooooove D&G. Meaning, he/she prefer and wud rather buy D&G.

Its about maturity and not the age.


So, yes I will but only about 2yrs younger though.

Of course. I don't wanna marry sum1 a lot older than i am. I do agree with the age is just a number thing but for me it's got limit (not sum1 as old as my father)

djcrucifix:

why should you take the gift you bought for her back?, it will just comfirm you to be an immature loser.

Thank u. Just wht I was thinking.

Fair enough if he wants them back. If not, it's a bit silly.

Shinatu:

@Poster


A girl slapping a guy is only permitted in the Western world.
A man can give his wife occasional beating in this part of the world and call it discipline.
The day the wife raises her hand to strike the man, she must buy
a goat to appease the gods!

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

@ Ifyalways

"i would smartly dogde it and fire him GBOSA with the strenght of a woman"

Cool!!!

"the one wey we dey use push out pikin"

LMAO!!! Tht one be BIG strength.

"i have other options now, walk out on him,go to policce,arrange boys to deal with you"

Nice options!

niceuzor:

@Seun- . . . .lol anymore comment from her plz give her a dirty slap? _{"you what i mean na"}

Very funny!

Seun:

Don't mind her. Why should all these tiny, weightless girls be thinking of slapping hefty men?

Have u considered the option that hefty men might just deserve it?


I honestly won't put myself in a situation where a guy will slap me. If it happens, I'll slap him back and if I aint tall enough, I'll kick him where it hurts  How abt that

niceuzor:

nikkylolly - hummmm So have you see Seun before? lets assume he slap you? what will you do?

I haven't seen him but if he does, i'll slap him bk! Obvious isn't it??

Seun:

It's very wrong for a girl to slap a guy. If this happens, feel free to slap her back, but nothing more. She deserves it.

Lol! It isn't very wrong. If a guy deserves it, give it to him. That's my opinion. A girl obviously won't go around slapping every guy.

samuelk:

u be mugun.ow u go allow girl slap your wowo face

LMAO!! How do u know he is wowo Maybe he is just very understanding.lol

It is wrong because it's the norm! It's one of them things you've grown to accept and find in self, several reasons as to why it's wrong without anyone sitting you down to tell you.

I s'pose guys are kind of expected to exhibit some patience/ maturity when there is a problem.

@choco4life

"No man, i repeat no man wants to mortage holding the friut(s) of his loins for love, might sound so crude but this is the bitter truth and it has to be told"

You will be surprise as to how many men are willing to do just that!


@ Easybaby

"I disagreed with you . . . No happy marriage without a child/children"

Of course there is! They could have decided not to have children

Gone are those days when marriage is all about child bearing. It is now abt LOVE and companionship.

@ Veracious

"Children are blesings in a marriage, but at the same time does not gurrantee marital happiness"

I love this. SO TRUE!!!

lol

nice to me, just means ok. niiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiicccccccccccccccceeeeeeeeeeeee (lol) means very hot!!!! LMAO


I can't stand dumb guys!! I'm sorry but they annoy the sh** out of me!!

it's been funny reading everyone's opinion. but sum are shocking!

Sum guys actually do, do things without thinking about SEX in return. It's bit of an insult to u but except u can proof that it is more than a gift there is nothing u can do. Just leave it. Act mature 

Van is so HAWT!!!!!!!!!!!

I can understand him being compared to Nonso Diobi but Muna Please.

Muna is aite but can't be compared to Van

HELL 2 D NO!!!!!!!

I'll be the one to spend the rest of my life with him. Why do they get to choose for me

say NO to domestic abuse!!!

if u give him one chance, b4 u realise it, he will be using his 30th chance. When do u say no?

NOW!!!!!!!!!!!

Any guy dat raises his hands to hit a lady is simply IRRESPONSIBLE

True love is neither possessive nor obsessive

Find ur own love. Goodluck!

ima1:

why would other guys be calling u n why would u have love messages on your phone, he has every right to be pissed off, n im sure u will be if it was the other way around, doesn't really have anything to do with self confidence when its right in front of you that your partner might be cheating on you,

i don't think he has a right to be pissed off, u r not married to him, yet. other guys can call u, u do av a life outside that relationship


.

almondjoy:

85% GBAM!


I may not like it, but I do not go around hiding my phone because I cannot do that all the time even when I have a lock code on it. As for my e-mails--lai lai! I can never share those. Those are my "private" matters and has nothing to do with any body. Not a matter of trust. Everyone is entitled to some amount of privacy. Not curious about what is in anybody's phone or email. I am very capable of entertaining myself so no more external dramas! To each his own.

Like you said who will cheat will cheat and no amount of domestic policing can help at that stage. Just like my privacy sometimes--my own fantasy world---no what I mean?

Besides no one is worth the stress--if im wan go make im go--no wahala na!

true talk!!

nnnnnnnnnnniiiiiiiiiiiiiiiicccccccccccceeeeeee

hmmmmmmmmmmmm, Can I get 4??

Hot!!!! - to me it's 70% about being seen wit sum1 nnnniiiiiiiccccccccccccceeeeeeeeee lol

Intelligent - I honestly don't do dumb guys (no offence)

Loving - If sum1 is hot n intelligent, every1 wants them, so he needs to love ME dearly. That way i know he isn't going away anytime soon lol

Mystique:

Of course you can, but personally, i feel it makes you look a little Silly

Except of course, ure a Megastar (like Beckham)

u don't av to be a megastar to have the look u want! Evry1 deserves the right to look gorgeous!!

joeblaze:

its going to make you look GAY!!!!
Better stick wit your skin cut

not necessarily. Only if it doesn't suit u. Sum head shapes aint made for braids lol

DaHitler:

Male + braided hair = Riff raft.

I can't beleive sum1 said this. Sum girls actually find guys wit braided hair more attractive. I do!!!!!!!


U can do, whateva u want. Just make sure it's going to suit u! U myt be beta of without braids, u'll neva know. If u eventuall get it done, pls take care of it. Cos its looks awful on sum guys - like they've lost their map to hairdressers!!

I'm a big fan. Predictable or not, she's good at wht she does.

nferyn:

You need to define necessity here. You positions can mean a lot of things.
There was very little else to do in that time but believe. In face of the existence evidence at that time, it was a reasonable position to take. Most leading scientists nowadays are atheist or deists. There are very few theist scientists. This is only natural, as our knowledge increases, the gaps the God-of-the-gaps can hide in are getting smaller and smaller.

Depends on where u think your own beleive comes in.

nferyn:

I do not see any necessity for religious beliefs. The only place where there could be place for it - of course in my opinion, don't take it for gospel - is in giving meaning to life. Science can and will tell you how, but it does not deal with the why question.

U just dealt with the necessity question. "Science can and will tell u how but it does not deal with the why question".

nferyn:

Mind you, by taking that position, you are behaving irrational. This is exactly what many Christian scientists do and in most cases it doesn't cause any problems because their field of expertise does not overlap the domain of their God belief.

And that was what I mean by;

I think best thing to do is; offer our scientific believe when it's necessary n vice versa.

nferyn:

Actually, there are many scientists that do believe in God, ask our friend chrisd. Both are not mutually exclusive, but it does mean that their beliefs cannot be of the literalist fire-and-brimstone kind. If you are open, tolerant and look for meaning and context rather than obedience and blind faith, both can certainly co-exist.

"both can co exist". Of course they do. In some healing lines like dramatherapy, they work together. But no matter how much they co-exist, you still don't get somethings when u think about it. Think about ways in which science n religion is similar, try to use both to answer some question you've been dying to get answers (e.g. some religion teaches, there would be day of reckoning- heaven n hell. Use both to answer this question"what happen after we all die? What happen to the entire universe? Did both provide an answer?) U might get some answers for the first few mins but afterwards, u sort of get confused n u just decided not to think about it anymore.

Of course, many scientist believe in God n also using it to answer their scientific questions by comparing their religious teachings with scientific researches. Take Galileo Galilei for example. He was a great scientist, trying to find some answers, trying to prove the co-existence of science n religion n he was also a devout catholic. People then, (leaders of church)think he shouldn't be using the church to prove his researches. They think he was underestimating God. So, he was given house arrest for the rest of his life n was banned from publishing further books.

I think when we think about science n religion, we just tend to ignore it because it took us too far in thinking. I think best thing to do is; offer our scientific believe when it's necessary n vice versa.

nicetohave:

some scientists, not most.............[/b]nferyn's last comment is rather impressive i must say.

[b]Most scientist here, means leading scientists like Galileo, Alexandre, Newton and so.on and scientist that believe in their works n those ffg their footsteps.