Please send your phone no to me privately to discuss.

You are not divorced, your wife just packed out of your house to meet her parents. What you have is a quarrel which is very common at your stage of marriage and even at older marriages. It is good occasionally to have some space, it helps to appreciate what you are gaining from each other. I'm sure both of you are experiencing it now.

From your story, you have been married for just 7 years and you have 3 children, you are both under pressure managing the kids, works and finance especially in this economy. Before your wife packed out, you were no longer communicating. Majority of what she said to you were emotional driven and not necessarily rational. With patience, some leve.l of maturity from both of you, you would endure/manage this phase and thereafter enjoy your marriage. DM me personally and let's talk. Many people result to divorce at every little opportunity but this is wrong. Just like you have been thinking, you are unnecessarily exposing the lives of your innocent children by considering divorce.
For now, you can leave her for a week or 2 and thereafter call her. Maturity is dropping your pride to make things work.

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Myomy,

I just saw ur post yesterday because i'm not regular on this site. I understand your concern because i had been in the same situation before. If you are still willing to discuss you can email me on alabatan@yahoo.co.uk

I was at V/I Lagos shoprite (the one before the first toll gate) yesterday and I was given a small disc at the entrance to the car park which I was told I would use to pay for parking fee. I was told I have to pay if I stay longer than 30mins. I personally see this as unnecessary exploitation especially at this period when every average Nigerian is groaning over all a lot of burdens (bank charges, high forex, etc) already. It is wrong to expect customers to pay for parking. In all the places I know that parking fee is charge in a shopping mall, this is done to discourage people from leaving their cars parked for long and hence deny other users, hence they are usually charged when they stay long - like 2 or 3hours. 30mins is just too short - even getting a place to park takes about 10mins and paying takes another 10mins, walking down and security check will take another 5mins.

I guess we should resist this If at all they need money to maintain the place, this should be passed on to the shops though this might still be passed to the customers but it will save a lot of time being spent currently to pay and the unnecessary queue when leaving the place due to check for the receipt.

Just bought at normal price of N86/litre at Lekki. Essentially no queue - took me about 3-5 minutes.

A prayerless Christian is a powerless Christian. No excuse for prayerlessness - see verse 14 below, they were all there prayering.:

Acts 1:12-16King James Version (KJV)
12 Then returned they unto Jerusalem from the mount called Olivet, which is from Jerusalem a sabbath day's journey.

13 And when they were come in, they went up into an upper room, where abode both Peter, and James, and John, and Andrew, Philip, and Thomas, Bartholomew, and Matthew, James the son of Alphaeus, and Simon Zelotes, and Judas the brother of James.

14 These all continued with one accord in prayer and supplication, with the women, and Mary the mother of Jesus, and with his brethren.

Ajumobi has done a lot during his 4 years. He has constructed more roads than any civilian governor in the history of Oyo state. He has tried to introduce discipline in the state by clearing various under the bridge. He has bus for student - free as long as you are in uniform. Free bus for public servants. Public transportation at avoidable price. What do you people want? Lawlessness, bag of rice politics? Truly he is owning a lot of public servants and he apologised and explained to them the cause of this - PDP government at the centre deliberately starved non PDP states to paint them bad. We should not be selfish and close our eyes to all the good things he has done. The man is leading us somewhere. People who knew this and are objective enough voted for him.

That Obama took pain to address Nigerians directly shows the importance of this election to him. An average black feels pain when anything black is not doing well. It does not matter ones position or whether one is doing well or not. Intrinsically, most of us that deep feeling in us to see black doing well. This is the pain Obama is going through and this is why he has to address Nigerians directly. Remember he has come to Africa twice and both occasions he did not visit Nigeria simply because we did not impress him enough to attract a visit. As he said, we truly have a chance to make a change. Let us not miss this opportunity. Let's vote rightly without prejudice, let's vote based on issue, let's vote to move the country forward.

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Thanks for the information, can you please specify the locations of these estates.

I'm looking for a house to rent or buy in Lekki. I'm interested in a 3 bedroom for rent with a budget of about 1m and a duplex for buying.

please let me know if you have anything. I'm reachable on 08050786347

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