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Technology Market / Re: Post Your Scrap/dead/faulty Phones For Sale Here by olamoses75(m): 10:50pm On Jul 25
Samsung a10 2/32fb with crack on the screen but working perfectly for sale 35k firm

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Romance / Re: In My Current Relationship, my guy and I retaliate a lot by olamoses75(m): 8:38pm On Jul 24
MeghaneMorgane:
I’m currently in a relationship where both my guy and I are very petty. If my guy does something I don’t like, I tell him the first time, if he does the same thing the second time, I don’t talk too much and I just give him the exact taste of the same medicine. It works every time and he adjusts immediately. Same for him when he tells me he doesn’t like something if I don’t adjust, he will give me the exact taste of my medicine. So far, it’s been working for both of us because we both adjust accordingly.
My question is that I hope this petty behaviour from my guy and I is not a toxic one?
If it is not toxic that’s good. But at what point does this behaviour become toxic?
NB: So far, this petty behaviour has been working well for the both of us.

I’ll give an example of our petty behaviour. My boyfriend went to visit his mum. 24 hours after being at his mum’s place, he didn’t pick my call and he didn’t call me either, and he didn’t respond to the numerous messages I left on his phone. I was so worried, I had to call his mum and told his mum to give him the phone. His mum gave him the phone. His mum also confirmed to me that my boyfriend had arrived 24 hours before I called her so it wasn’t a case of him playing games with me. Obviously I was very angry and I asked him why he wasn’t picking my calls. His response was that he is busy. That he will call me when he is done with the job he was doing. I said ok. I didn’t call him again until he called me. He called me a day and half after speaking with him on his mum’s phone. All the while I was lamenting to his mum how her son has refused to call me or pick my calls. His mum kept consoling me that he will call me immediately he finished what was doing. Guess what?, when I went to visit my own parents, I did exactly the same thing to him. He was so angry. Since then he hasn’t tried that rubbish again. Then we had to promise each other to always pick each other’s call even if we are very busy. Since then we’ve been picking each other’s calls.
get married and have a child first, then you'll know if it's toxic or not. In my own case; I was also in a relationship with a lady that behaves exactly like you. She's now my ex. "Kì obinrin to ato rin, ki okunrin to atorin, kawo eniti yio lomi leyin ese ju ara won lo "
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Strictly for singles ready for something serious & Marriage by olamoses75(m): 6:15am On Jul 24
Prettyjane234:
08140257623 Add me pls
I’m Joy by name
From Akwa ibom but base in Abuja mpape

I bid you've joined already?
Technology Market / Re: Post Your Scrap/dead/faulty Phones For Sale Here by olamoses75(m): 4:58pm On Jul 22
Microsoft Surface Go 4/64gb SSD with faulty screen available for sale keyboard and original charger included at 45k

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Technology Market / Re: Post Your Scrap/dead/faulty Phones For Sale Here by olamoses75(m): 9:33am On Jul 20
Samsung A10 screen needed
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by olamoses75(m): 2:50pm On Jul 19
Hypergamy will ruin that gender

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by olamoses75(m): 11:41am On Jul 19
When CR7 mother turned 60, he threw a birthday bash for her and his girlfriend Irina Shayk refused to attend the party. Ronaldo withdrew his commitment and ended things afterwards.

It was reported that Irina was uncomfortable with Ronaldo's closed ties with his family particularly his mom. Ronaldo knew that committing to her may cause friction in his closed knitted family and he did the needful.

After their relationship ended, Irina claimed that she was ugly and insecure in the relationship. He further urged her followers to unfollow her on IG if they were following her because of Ronaldo. The model reportedly lost 11 million followers in 24 hours.

Irina dated American actor Bradley Cooper and they had a daughter together before ending things.

Irina is currently shopping for a boyfriend now🤣🤣🤣.

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Sports / Re: Spain Vs England: Euro 2024 Finals (2 - 1) On 14th July 2024 by olamoses75(m): 9:45pm On Jul 14
Reason why Cole Palmer is always benched by Southgate is the reason why Southgate should spend time in prison. I'm a Barcelona fan and rooting for Spain, but Palmer remains one of England's wonderkid.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Strictly for singles ready for something serious & Marriage by olamoses75(m): 6:47pm On Jul 12
007spartan:
RELATIONSHIP REQUEST

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Age :34
Marital status: Single
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Genotype : AA
State of origin : Anambra state
Level of education : O level
No of kids: none

partner preference :
Description : just be caring and committed.
Age range : any
Location: anywhere
Religion : Christian
Tribe :any tribe
gotten anyone yet? I've a lady who's interested.
Religion / Re: Can Christian Couples Have Sex After Traditional Wedding? by olamoses75(m): 3:12pm On Jul 07
There's no white/church wedding recorded in the bible. Marriage is strictly between the both families of the man and the woman. Though a pastor may visit to be a witness, just as Jesus and his deciple did in the book of John, but going to church in white wedding gown or suit is not scriptural, it's the white man's custom.
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by olamoses75(m): 10:09pm On Jul 03
A finished man and more who is deceiving himself thinking he has finally won.

A full grown loser.

Let me tell you the game the lady played here....

She came back to him after she has been used, reused, brutalized, vandalized and punctualized by the bad boys who dumped her and didn't find her worthy for keep.

She deosnt love him, she has never loved him and she don't and won't love him, she's with him now because all the men she wanted didn't want her back.

Nice guys always end up eating the left over.. they eat the crumbs, they settle for the nice guy because he is their retirement plan after they have been damaged.

The truth is that any woman playing this hard to get is not in love with you, she's not interested.

If she accept you out of pity you will suffer in that relationship, you will pity your own selve in that relationship.

Such women will cheat on you with men that they feel very attracted to and never feel any remorse.

After all, you begged and force them to accept you, they didn't do it with their free will.

Be smart brotherly.❤️

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by olamoses75(m): 9:57pm On Jul 02
You see what Simping will do to you? I don't expect her to be this honest though.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Good Evening Guys,i Got This Mail From Jumia Applie For Jumia Warehouse Officer by olamoses75(m): 1:30pm On Jul 01
ellanno:


Apply with Link Below - /job123a or
https://forms.gle/jHzKZKPDDDtrhpw98
this is jiji recruitment, not jumia
Education / Re: Unilag Postgraduate Information Thread 2023/2024 Session-buzor by olamoses75(m): 5:36am On Jun 29
orlahtohbadt:
Send me a PM. I will be sending it for free.
I need MBA past questions, if you've it, sir.
Education / Re: 2023/2024 UNILAG Msc & Postgraduate Info Thread - All You Need To Know by olamoses75(m): 12:42am On Jun 27
Does anyone have the course materials for Unilag MBA program? Kindly mention me. Thanks
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Strictly for singles ready for something serious & Marriage by olamoses75(m): 11:48pm On Jun 26
Join today
Technology Market / Re: Google Pixel 5 150k - Advert Closed. by olamoses75(m): 10:46am On Jun 14
chibatov:
I got a clean one for you
for swapping?
Phone/Internet Market / Re: If You Have Any Phone For Sale, Post It Here. Meet Your Buyers Here by olamoses75(m): 10:05am On Jun 14
Redmi 10 6/128gb for sale 100k or swap with a durable device.

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Technology Market / Re: **PHONE SWAP CENTRE**SWAP IT NOW!!! pin:265DA560 or 08033923897 by olamoses75(m): 10:02am On Jun 14
Redmi 10 6/128gb for sale 100k or swap with a durable device.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by olamoses75(m): 9:56am On Jun 14
Rukevwe999:

Perhaps she played on his ego. But for a man to send 30k to a woman on a whim just to prove a point in this economy is a sign that he's probably loaded and would recover back in a short while. Some guys spend more than that daily on useless ventures like gambling.
I would rather spend millions on gambling than using my money to prove a point to a leeche

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by olamoses75(m): 12:49am On Jun 14
luminouz:

I have heard men talk like this!!!

I also shake my head in shame for them. So he shocked her with 30k?🤣🤣🤣.

Her insults entered the werey and he sent his monthly allawee.

At the end of the month, he will be the one in premium shock!!
very fuulish boy

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by olamoses75(m): 11:24pm On Jun 13
Sending money to a banny that doesn't offer any service just to prove a point. Would he have sent the money if it was his fellow guy? Don't be like this, fuul....

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by olamoses75(m): 11:36pm On Jun 11
heartofcity12:


(1) This was uni days, I spent most of my pocket money to take her and her sister for shopping, in fact my brother joined me in the money spree just to please this girl so she could date me, she collected it all yet she didn’t agree to date me grin

(2) I bought her chicken, yoghurt and other provisions, and drove all the way to her campus to deliver them to her, that one too didn’t date me. She just chop and clean mouth, all she ever did was just say “hi” once in a while.. I learned the hard way since then 😆
thank God you've learnt your lesson. Wvvmen don't and will never like nice guys

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by olamoses75(m): 11:34pm On Jun 11
luminouz:

I can't relate!!!

I no dey give shishi....not clothes, or phones or wig, school fees, or rent. I sacrificed sleepless nights on xtracool those days sha.

1. Some years back, I was dating this spoilt brat(only child stuff) and I wanted us to celebrate Xmas oh for ibadan...I made 20k from home lessons and I wanted us to go shopping for ShopRite and Ventura!!! We reached Ventura first and I saw my niggas and was talking to them and she said she would just go in and get ice cream. I gave her the 20k to keep.

15mins later, banny came out with one yeye chain and said babe, you like this and I said yeah and she said she used my money to buy it. I asked her why...she said 'how much is 20k, please grow up'.

Instantly, I changed am for the geh like 'Are you mad, Na your papa dash me the money? If you don't go collect my shiit back now, I go craze!!! I hustled her back to the shop and asked for my shiit back. She quickly transferred my money back to my account and I left her there, looking after me, like lucozade. That was the end of that relationship. Her mom begged me taya but I said nope. The uselessness that made her daughter manless was her entitlement and bad character. She has a car, good job and all that. But for my socalled gf to brokeshame on top my money? Nah nigga!!! I ain't for that shiit. That would have been my first time to spend 10k on a girl.


2. Then, one girl came invited and saw my one bedroom crib and was advising me to move out to a better place because I should be preparing to get married, as unmarried men are not responsible. Then, she proceeded to carry soup wey I manage cook and pour my palm oil inside polybag to carry home. I let her reach gate and call bike, I came out and snatched my palm oil away and poured the soup inside gutter right in front of her. Then I asked the bike man to carry her home.

No mercy for leeches!!!
nigga, I don laugh tire. So she was telling you to "grow up" ontop your money. Mad fellow. And the mumu one advising that you move to a bigger apartment, yet hunger made her to carry soup and palm oil. It's the audacity for me.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by olamoses75(m): 9:31pm On Jun 11
Oya guys, come out and share your experiences. Let's laugh a bit

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Strictly for singles ready for something serious & Marriage by olamoses75(m): 12:17pm On Jun 11
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Strictly for singles ready for something serious & Marriage by olamoses75(m): 12:16pm On Jun 11
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Technology Market / Re: Google Pixel 5 150k - Advert Closed. by olamoses75(m): 6:33pm On Jun 10
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available for swapping?
Romance / Re: Lady Blocks A Guy Who Didn't Send Her Money For Hair But Wanted Her To Visit Him by olamoses75(m): 7:15pm On Jun 02
Fcold:
She blocked a guy who asked her to come see him but couldn't afford to send her money to make her hair.

What are your thoughts on this?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yEU16WYuFYQ?si=ksIIMMq_qz0H5W1f
the guy that requested her to come visit supposed to be jailed or sent to a psychiatrist hospital. Like wtf?

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by olamoses75(m): 12:44pm On Jun 01
"No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert A. Glover is a self-help book that addresses the "Nice Guy Syndrome," where men often prioritize others' needs over their own, leading to dissatisfaction and unfulfilled lives.

Here are eight insightful lessons from the book:

1. Recognize and Address Nice Guy Syndrome: The first step is to understand and acknowledge the existence of Nice Guy Syndrome. Nice Guys often suppress their own needs and desires in an attempt to gain approval and avoid conflict. Recognizing this pattern is crucial for change.

2. Embrace Your True Self: Glover emphasizes the importance of authenticity. Nice Guys often hide their true selves to be what they think others want them to be. Learning to express your true feelings, needs, and desires is essential for building genuine relationships.

3. Set Boundaries: Nice Guys struggle with setting boundaries because they fear rejection or disapproval. However, setting healthy boundaries is crucial for self-respect and mutual respect in relationships. It involves saying "no" when necessary and not overcommitting to others at the expense of your own well-being.

4. Take Responsibility for Your Needs: Instead of expecting others to meet your needs, take responsibility for fulfilling them yourself. This involves understanding what you want, expressing it clearly, and taking proactive steps to achieve it.

5. Learn to Accept Rejection: Fear of rejection often drives Nice Guy behaviors. Learning to accept and handle rejection is vital. It’s a normal part of life and personal growth, and it doesn't define your worth.

6. Develop Healthy Masculinity: Glover encourages men to embrace a healthy form of masculinity, which includes being assertive, confident, and responsible. It’s about balancing strength with vulnerability and being true to oneself.

7. Improve Communication Skills: Effective communication is crucial for healthy relationships. This includes being honest, direct, and assertive in expressing your needs and feelings. Learning to listen and understand others' perspectives is equally important.

8. Build Support Systems: Nice Guys often isolate themselves emotionally. Building a network of supportive friends, mentors, or a therapist can provide the encouragement and guidance needed to overcome Nice Guy tendencies and foster personal growth.

These lessons aim to help individuals break free from the limiting behaviors of Nice Guy Syndrome and lead more fulfilling, authentic lives.

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Technology Market / Re: .... by olamoses75(m): 10:09pm On May 31
Na the He-goat be dis. He never knew that I screenshot his profile before I even start messaging him. Immediately I told him we can't deal on a cracked phone without network signal, he removed his picture from WhatsApp DP lol

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