It is sad that even the female folks here are saying she might have sent the text innocently. It is not possible. That woman has a motive.

Why will a married woman offer herself to come clean the house of another married man just because he helped her and her husband?
That is a gesture gone too far.

It might be safe if OP’s friend called or texted saying “they are coming over to pay him a visit so his wife can help him with house chores”.

@OP, RUNNNNNNNNNN

oloyedewaris:





You people need to understand that hijab isn't an attire, it's just a piece of cloth to complement your dressing, just like cap

You can wear a a suit, shirt, tip or any dressing and complement it with hijab


Stop making it seems like Muslims are violating any rule



All these tradition attire and robe are complete dressing and shouldn't be allowed

Thanks for your apt narrative. However you failed to admit that the argument for hijab wearing in court was on religious basis and not for fashion purpose as you have stated.

Nigeria’s constitution doesn’t recognize a specific religions and thus the freedom of association meaning “what is good for the goose is good for the gander”.

If Muslims can wear hijab freely, the traditionalists too can wear whatsoever as long as it doesn’t portray nudity.

Canvass:
Yes, they fought a good fight, mounting pressure until the North agreed with them along with some strong minded Southerners like Wike.
It would be even nobler for them to come together and tell us they too agree to go East. Imagine the respect they too would earn.
However, wishes are not horses. The mad politicking goes on.

To be honest, I agree with you that it is the turn of the SouthEast but you will also agree with me that the East are not United and have not shown any signs that they want power.

You just praised the West for being United and adamant that power must return.

Can you say same for the easterners?

Even in the recently concluded PDP presidential primaries, they couldn’t stay United to provide a formidable candidate.

It is a pity. They have had the opportunity to occupy the seat of the Senate presidency 5 times since post independence more than any other region and they still can’t make laws to favour themselves.

I love my Igbo brothers and I am a follower of OBI but when it comes to this game, they are learners.

Power can’t be given on a platter anywhere in the world. You must work for it.

Politics is a game of numbers and they must stay United, register for and collect their PVCs and also vote during elections if they want to have a say.

I am OBI-dient

PEXBlog:
In politics, loyalty is the key to scale up the ladder. Now, I understand why the late Abba Kyari is seen as an insensitive personality to the Nigerian citizens. He was a loyal servant who only danced to the tune of his master-Buhari. He never outshine his master. But Osinbajo case is different, he is a badstabber who is only going on a wild goose chase.

P. S: What am I saying self, who knows maybe this is a political abracadabra or an 'arrangee' between Tinubu or Osinbajo sef. Never trust Nigerian politicians and the Nigerian news media channels.

There is no morality in politics, that your god father is contesting doesn’t mean you shouldn’t contest. It defeats the concept of democracy.

Kindly check the transgression of the same law you quoted. It states :
Reversal
A time when it may be wise to go against this law would be if your superior is “weak”. If your “master” is falling out of position and he’s falling down the ranks of power. If your superiors a falling star, there’s nothing to fear from outshining him. Do not be merciful.

My bunkie that year back then at FGCD. God bless you bro.

@OP you have to man up. You are the head of the family and your decisions are bound. The thought of you wanting to run away ought not to have been conceived in the first instance if you stand your ground. It shows that you let her be in most situations when you ought to have stood your ground just because you don’t want her dramas. She has seen it as a weak point and she’s using it against you because she know you can do nothing.

Women are manipulative and if you know them well, they are predictable and you can use it to your advantage. Atimes, you have to stand your ground on some issues and atimes, you might just let go for your sanity. In other words, do not be predictable.

Kindly take out time to download the book “The Manipulated Man” by Esther Vilar.

You will thank me later.

Kindly ask her if she has an overdue loan with Branch International.
Branch international is a P2P lending company.

I still don't understand why the people in power keep saying the unity of this country is sacrosanct when actually we keep debating about our differences all the time.

Periodically, we keep debating if power should go to the North or South and it being a Christian/Muslim or Muslim/Christian ticket.

It shows there is no trust or unity in the first instance.

We need to trace the source and that is the Constitution being practiced. I still don't know why they fail to see the solution when it is glaring before all to see.

If the minister of petroleum Mr.B can spend #81B and makes a loss of over #70B, you can imagine how he runs the country. We don enter this one. The painful part is 2023 looks bleak for the youths.

This policy will stifle the growth of local automobile industries. However, I wonder on which roads these cars will be driven.

SilverNorGold:
Although I am an avid supporter of President Buhari cos of his many stellar achievements, honesty and integrity, it's things like this(his softness) that's making me not very happy with him. Why sit and watch wicked elements and fake news purveyors run this country aground? What's stopping him from declaring war on enemies of Nigeria and fake news merchants?

President Buhari is TOO SOFT for my liking.. If he were Obasanjo or Yaradua or Goodluck Jonathan, would criminal elements like Sowore, Aisha Yesufu and their cohorts dare attempt one quarter of the nonsense that he (President Mohammadu Buhari) has tolerated from them?

This is sad.. President Buhari should do something to nip this nonsense in the bud as quickly as possible before it gets out of hand!

And by the way, what happened to the Social Media regulation bill? Seriously, I am not happy with the way things are going.. I just hope Nigeria survive the wrath of these fake news vicars before PMB comes up with a decisive solution.

May God help Nigeria.

People like you are the problem of this country. After going through your profile, I realized you are operating a new NL account, I decided to say no more. You are a waste.

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Hello Nairalanders and Professional marketers in the house. My name is @Oniluuu. Recently i started a networking/online marketing business and to an extent i would say it has been sustaining me in terms of my upkeeps. The business seems to be interesting to me and I am starting to get passionate about MARKETING as a whole. Recently, I have been having this thought of enrolling for a professional marketing course with the aim of it improving my business.
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@Tfarrah, you are one of the few honest people i've met recently. Thank you for your dedicated efforts in ensuring that my lovely Sis is permanently cured of this ailment. I would have gotten back to you but i have been out of the country for a while . My sis called me to inform me that shes now whole. Thanks for your continous checkup on her. You are a GEM. Hope to meet you someday.

I have always wanted to visit the four ways of a university. Having written jamb and WAEC once, the thought of finally being free from their bondage was finally over. But most of all I wanted to experience the feeling of university life, independence and pursuit of academic excellence. That was why I enlisted the prestigious law into my jamb form with the hope of becoming a sound legal practitioner like Gani Fawehinmi, Femi Falana etc.
Well, my hopes were dashed as after the post Ume, my name was nowhere to be found in the law admission list. I was later informed that I had been granted political science to study as I didn’t meet the criteria to study my first choice of preference. Initially I had skepticisms about the course. I always wondered the opportunities the course presented in modern day Nigeria. I kept asking myself, will I be a politician after reading such a course? Politics wasn’t in any of my interest zone, but due to the desperation to seek admission, I accepted the course and decided to tread into the future blindfolded.
Now let’s fast forward to 6years after when I graduated from school with my B.sc degree (2.2). Am sure you are wondering why it took six years to read political science which originally should have been four years? Well the answer isn’t farfetched. ASUU strike did its havoc. So for two years and a missed NYSC batch, I could finally call myself a graduate. I was a young man ready to take on the challenges of the world. I could remember the day I finished my NYSC program I was beaming with smiles and eagerness to start fending for myself. I have often heard from other Corp members though that life was difficult on the outside, and there were no employment opportunities but that didn’t really faze me. I felt it couldn’t be that bad as the way these ‘lazy’ people were projecting it to be. I was in high spirit. I felt unconquerable, filled with burning energy to do exploit for my nation.
I decided to use my degree to seek employment in my field of study. I was shocked to learn that my course had absolutely no relevance in becoming or achieving any political appointment in this country. It was purely based on how much wealth and connection you had. I applied to virtually all governmental ministries but I wasn’t even called for an interview. Not a single one. I was bluntly told by recruitment agencies to bring the complementary cards or get my form endorsed by senior governmental figures in this country before I would even be considered. These were people I have never seen in reality but only on the pages of our dailies. Since it became obvious I couldn’t conjure such requirements I decided to re strategize.
I then decided to shift my attention to the military. At least the military would always appreciate a graduate right? I foolishly remember when my dad use to say back in his days the military do come begging for graduates to enlist. I had already wasted a year of my life applying for government administration jobs. Besides what other choice do I have? My family’s countenance had already started taking a different turn. I was being given the raised eyebrow look whenever I visited home. It was the behavior you would portray if you were expecting returns for your investments and you were not getting it. The heat was starting to burn me.
I first tried to enroll in the Navy. I wrote my test at Lagos Ojo barracks. When I got to the test centre, only the sight of applicants who also came to write the test just like me killed any hope I had in me. On investigations I found out we were about five thousand people who came for the recruitment exercise in Lagos alone. The recruitment was being zoned nationally with 10 people coming from each state. The shocker came when I overheard a naval officer telling his colleague that we were just wasting our time. In his words he said “see how dem just they do as if they wan die. Dem don choose who dem want for state government house. All this one na just formality.” With slouched shoulders and a shattered morale, I looked outside the examination hall and saw governmental convoys going into the naval quarters with fanciful car plate numbers. Anyway to cut the long story short, I didn’t make the supposed 10.
I decided to try the air force. The recruitment process was terrible. In fact it was the worse I have ever been to. The queue was so long It began to look as if we were about to be judged by our creator in heaven. We were exposed in the scorching sun for hours. Some of us were beaten and treated like animals during the exercise. Fragmented images still flash through my mind when I try to reminisce on that fateful day. I remember when my knees began to buckle. I could feel my intestines grabbing the four walls of my stomach in protest for food. I also remember the constant dodging of soldiers whip, the pushing and shoving, then off course how would I forget the multitudes of faces staring down at me with some holding on to pure water sachet. I was told I had fainted. Your guess is as good as mine. I didn’t make the list.
I shifted my gaze to the immigration service; still there was no luck in that. I was told in clear English language to get four hundred thousand naira as processing fee for my application to be considered. Did this people think I was stupid? If I had such an amount wouldn’t I start something of my own?
By now a year and six months had gone by. That was when I was introduced to insurance. I was told to sell different kinds of policies which would benefit our prospective clients. The job entails me to be placed on commission which means for every penny I bring into the company, I would be given a certain percentage. To get a good commission, I would walk round the city of Lagos begging strangers to invest in the scheme. It wasn’t a good form of business as people were acutely aware of the fraudulent nature of these insurance companies. Many of them don’t even pay claims as at when due. There were times I would go and see a very promising client only for me to get disappointed; I would become stranded without transport fare only for me to resort to agbero tactics just to get home. Eight months into the job and I had made nothing more than 40 thousand naira as commission fees. My brother I had to quit so as to save myself from serious health issues, insults and a degrading personality.
Now fast forward to four years after and here I am. As I write this piece I am a secondary school teacher. I earn fifteen thousand naira per month and still my employer feels she did me a favor. I am talked to and trampled upon at any time the management chooses. Most times I am not given my entitlements as I am always told “there are no physical chains binding you here. If you don’t like the system you can leave”. Did I hear you say leave? I can’t. My dilemma has been compounded with the fact I now have a beautiful baby girl who is a year and four months today. I need to play the fatherly role and also accept responsibility for my actions. It hasn’t been an easy ride because it is impossible to survive with that kind of pay so I resort to other forms of menial labor just to augment my peanut of a salary. So yes indeed, there is a physical chain binding me there. It is the chain of desperate survival and hopelessness.
To me it’s the psychological torture that I suffer the most. I am well over qualified but underpaid and disrespected which equally leads to frustration and lack of job satisfaction. I do the zombie walk every time I go to work in the morning. These days as a way to cool off, I transfer the aggression and frustration to the students on the slightest of provocation. The emptiness in me gets bigger everyday as I hear stories of my mates who are gainfully employed and doing well for themselves. To compound the problem, there is no dignity in the job these days. Many of us are given tasks that are belittling and degrading. Little wonder a parent called us ordinary WAEC holders during a PTA meeting.
I never imagined it would be this way. That I would be so irrelevant to my society and nation as a whole. Every single day that goes by I am faced with hopelessness and the future is looking bleak. I am already close to the non employable age bracket. These days I see outrageous job requirements e.g. not older than 25, master degrees with 8 years cognate experience etc. My hopes are waning. Desperate measures will soon be put into place.
So sitting here and looking back, I ask myself where did I get it all wrong? Was it a wrong idea to further my education in the university? Would I have been more successful if I had skipped university and done some form of apprenticeship? Who knows I might have been a proud owner of chains of businesses by now. What is the future of next generation of graduates? What if……..
Sadly I know I am not the only one in this predicament. There are others like me out there as well. I decided to write this as a way of raising serious questions about unemployment issues in Nigeria. Based on Nigeria Bureau of Statistics, 23.9 percent of Nigerians are currently unemployed. This means approximately more than 40million graduates (which is still rising as you read this piece) compared to Germany 7.8percent unemployment rate. I also read the US created 72,000 jobs only in December 2013. So why is ours different? Why is ours rising each year? And what is our government doing to tackle this menace?
The sooner government realizes this is a national threat the better as we have seen the concomitant effects of youth unemployment manifest itself in various forms across the country. Kidnapping, armed robbery and even militancy in the Niger delta and to some extent the Boko Haram menace could be identified as some of the negative outcome of unemployment.
Those that want to become entrepreneurs should be encouraged by the government. Readily accessible loans with reasonable interests should be given to graduates to enable them start up small scale businesses. Government should also set up skill acquisition programs right from our secondary schools so as to prepare the future generation to become independent. This acquired skill will open up a whole new innovative process whereby our graduates will begin to compete with the rest of the developed markets.
But most of all, jobs should be created whereby graduates can be placed into work environment where they can actually practicalize what they have learnt in school. The merit system should be re instated just like back in the days. This will enable successful applicants to carry themselves with pride, dignity and honor as remuneration wouldn’t be the core value for job seekers. It is often said if you do what you have a passion for, then you will effortlessly excel in it no matter the pay. This in turn will create maximum job satisfaction which leads to overall healthy and social life.
As for me, I have no choice but to keep my dreams alive. I must continue to tug and push until the doors of frustration finally breaks through. With continued determination, and prayers I can see the light at the end of the tunnel; or maybe it could also be the light of a train that would eventually crush me.
I am an aspiring writer. For comments and observations, I can be contacted via email- charlesobi13@ymail.com or via twitter handle @obicharles11

@ what age did she start dating him

I ain't against jungle justice.. it should be meant for the politicians and not the common man.

This man was on his own ... and some greedy THIEVES brought him to PDP... He self financed the party... paid all their outstanding debts of salaries and rents from his personal pocket.. and now they want to dump him just like that... PDP is gonna be a greater scam than APC..
mean while I encourage we Nairalanders to join the new party in town... YDP- Young Democratic Party.

The Coalition Against Corrupt Leaders (CACOL) on Friday, July 29, came up with the list of 21 senators who still receive pension as either former governors or former deputy governors.
It named Senate President Bukola Saraki and Godswill Akpabio as two of the former governors still milking their states. The implication is that while they receive their salaries and other allowances from the government as senators, they also get paid pension by their various states, many of which are currently financially distressed. Many Nigerians have continued to call for strict adherence to financial rules as well as reduce wastage, but analysts think there has been no political will on the side of those in authority.
Read CACOL’s statement: 21 senators currently receiving pensions from government as ex-governors and deputy governors.
The current senators who once served as governors are Bukola Saraki of Kwara, Rabiu Musa Kwankwaso of Kano, Kabiru Gaya of Kano, Godswill Akpabio of Akwa Ibom, Theodore Orji of Abia, Abdullahi Adamu of Nasarawa, Sam Egwu of Ebonyi, Shaaba Lafiagi of Kwara, Joshua Dariye of Plateau Jonah Jang of Plateau, Aliyu Magatakarda Wamakko of Sokoto, Ahmed Sani Yarima of Zamfara, Danjuma Goje of Gombe, Bukar Abba Ibrahim of Yobe, Adamu Aliero of Kebbi, George Akume of Benue and Isiaka Adeleke of Osun. The former deputy governors in the Senate are Ms Biodun Olujimi of Ekiti and Enyinaya Harcourt Abaribe of Abia. Danladi Abubakar Sani served as the acting governor of Taraba state. Many former governors are also in Buhari’s Cabinet as Ministers. This includes: Ngige, Fayemi, Amaechi and Fashola (SAN).).
In Akwa Ibom State, the law provides that ex governors and deputy governors receive pension equivalent to the salaries of the incumbent. The package also includes a new official car and a utility vehicle every four years; one personal aide; a cook, chauffeurs and security guards for the governor at a sum not exceeding N5 million per month and N2.5 million for his deputy governor.
In Rivers, the law provides 100 percent of annual basic salaries for the ex-governor and deputy, one residential house for the former governor “anywhere of his choice in Nigeria”; one residential house anywhere in Rivers for the deputy, three cars for the ex-governor every four years and two cars for the deputy every four years.
It is alledged that in Lagos, a former governor will get two houses, one in Lagos and another in Abuja, estimated at N500 million in Lagos and N700 million in Abuja. He also receives six new cars to be replaced every three years; a furniture allowance of 300 percent of annual salary to be paid every two years, and a N30 million pension annually for life.
This is the reality for all the 21 ex govenors and deputy governors who are currently serving as senators. This same is also true of ex governors who are now serving as Ministers.
NOW I ASK: How many years did these guys serve their states as governors and deputy governors? Is it more than 8years? Is that a reason to be entitled to pensions for life? Even if they are entitled to pension for life, must it be so outrageous? As if that is not enough: HOW on earth can any public servant with conscience collect salaries and allowances as a senator or minister, and still have the audacity to claim pensions equivalent to the salaries of a serving governor in Nigeria? IT ISN’T ROCKET SCIENCE…… Once you are elected a senator or appointed a minister, you must forfeit any pension accruing to you from government at any level until you vacate office. This should also apply to senators collecting military pensions like former Senate President David Mark.
Yet these senators are in the Senate that is inviting the current finance minister to discuss the recession of Nigeria’s economy. A senator pockets approximately 30 million naira monthly as salary and allowances. Our “honourables” are not interested to make laws that could restructure our country into economically autonomous federating States/Regions to save the country from sectional agitations that is threatening to destroy Nigeria.The sad and hopeless situation is that the rest of Nigerians are busy arguing based on party, ethnic and affiliations while these enemies of state continue to rape us.


Read more: https://www.naij.com/909238-exposed-21-senators-currently-getting-double-pay-govt.html

Just imagine what the stupid fellow said... immediately after a jumat service, what comes to your shallow mind is to go and STEAL... It means the tenets of Islam is still yet to sink in to their brains... no wonder they lack reasoning and a basic sense of decence... just a few however do..

Nairalanders.. how are we sure the fake statement isn't FAYOSE'S handwork?? Maybe just a means to bring down the bank along with him at all cost.?
My thought tho

cronsberg:
Is it just me or does the school look like a Gen pop (general population) area of a U.S penetentiary? I bet the money spent to built this glorified prison looking school with outside hallways can conviniently built a more dignified highschool like this

Whao even when you see something good... U still can't appreciate... Don't forget that this is a public school... I would appreciate if you at least show us the pictures of the school you attended... Or even the pictures of any public school that is as beautiful as this... Aregbe built a school u complain... PHCN gives u light for 12 hours.. U complain that its too much.... Let us appreciate the positives out of the many negatives... What a grouse?

Many at times at church. People come out to share testimonies may be for promotion at work, graduation from school, birthday etc. So my fellow nairalanders, I want to know if it is a sin not sharing testimonies at church...

It is appaulling that we as youths are not thinking... It is a slap on our face to keep on criticizing PMB destructively... We keep on talking about these old men in government.. Does it mean we can't do or perform better than them?... Hell yeah, we can when it comes to corruption... It is high time we started preparing ourselves rather than wailing over a spilt milk... As a youth corper, it pains me to see a president of an Anti corruption CDS group misappopriating the sum of 3000 naira. What an irony? .... I think we should let PMB do his thing and we as youth should think inwards... Anyone who knows about the civil service can't hide the truth that there Is change, No more laxity or going late to work... These are few ethics and morals that improves the economy of a nation and solidify the foundation of a nation... No matter what PMB does these nation can not be a place of our dreams if we do not change our mindset... It is high time we stopped wailing. Let us celebrate any positive out of the somany negatives... Thank you

The buruhaha dat surounds 100 days of mr pres in office needs to be critically look at. the questn i just want to ask is dat, how many of us have been able to solve d personal problem in our lives within 100 days not to talk about national problems highly plagued wit socio-economic problems? we've to be reasonable at time. as we know to destroy is simple, to build is complex. the betterment of this country is our corporate responsibility. #100DaysOfNewBeginnings

WailingWailer00:
Waiting for yellowbar and APC rats to come and derail this thread

I AM RECOMMENDING TO YABA LEFT... What a grouse

Nairalanders seem to comment without understanding... From what I just read... I don't see anything wrong in what he has done... I only know that they are hypocrites..