and Aids yes and Aids kills

Thanks guys she read this and she is happy thanks to all the good answers and to all that find fault in everytyhing oh well

what is confusing dear

My friend met this Igbo guy as he arrived in South Africa and then she was having problems with her then boyfriend then she dated the nigerian guy for two months then sortedthings out with her then boyfriend then now 4yrs later she met up with the Igbo guy and she is single and the guy invited her to his house and keeps on inviting her every weekend sometimes even during the week.......then oneday she asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said yes but wanted to be with my friend cause he loves her then my friend said ok but now she feel like the guy will be using her cause she broke up with him once.

Guys please help a sister thanks.

I have come across love it is patient, it is kind, it takes its time to understand you and to make you believe in love yet again. Love makes you see that you can be the best woman/man you can be without it being proud with it pushing you........you find yourself give into love and feel the love......love makes you realise that you even with your past your faults and all your baggage love is love and it loves you nomatter what and it finds you when you least expecting and you have to let love be love........thank you love for loving me

My friend is dating a very nice (he loves and cares for her) Igbo man but the problem is that whenever they have a problem this guy just shut down for days and not talk to her not answer her calls and simply ignore her.........is this normal with Igbo guys and what is even confusing is that he called them back in Nigeria to tell them about her but he just ignore her and this makes her feel unhappy @ times........is this normal with Igbo man

find.it.ng:
Women and their visiting fish brain cells err now and then....patiently look through your past relationship and the present.....the differences are in the core of the personality not in generalities like having an argument or misunderstandings....i particularly said if he cheated(trust issues and emotional violation) or physically abused you then free...but if otherwise, you all are jonzers and the new guy is just packaging you..perhaps he has an idea of ur past relationship...and just playing along...the true nature will come fort later...guys can patiently wait long tym to f**k u up like a leopard...open ur head and stop jumping the gun.

.......in the 5 yrs I was with him I forgave him with so many ladies and I am not the type to pry but he made sure I found out………..once he even asked his friend to take a picture of him and a lady and send it to me he even showed me a picture once and said this is the girl I want to marry and that they had a bright future together.........then the other year my birthday is on the 19th July and he didn’t even call to say happy birthday but on the 20th had a huge party for the girl he was seeing.........then I found him sleeping with a lady once and he woke up called the cops to come and tell me to leave...........so I would call this emotional abuse and oh for the record I am not seeing any one so I don’t believe that my decision is based on confusion I am single @ the moment……now he says he has changed and that he is sorry and that he has changed and want to make me happy……do ppl change

I would just like to know what qualities make up a husband and let's say he has some of those qualities and still cheats what would you do marry him and hope he would change or just move on...........do people really change or some habits can never change

DigitalSignal:
Don't just say that, I want you to experience the sweetness!

...........ha ha ha ha haha i am happy alone dear

DigitalSignal:
No dear, it's not just sex I promise you, but also the most beautiful love that can't be found within the bounds of the earth! You know a marriage without the two in proportionate measure is doomed to crash!

....... ha ha ha hahaha you just finish me with laughter but you are so sweet

Knowing that tomorrow is a new day and will be better than today, I was formed in my mother's womb and my days were known by God because he will never let me go thru what he cannot deliver me from, I don't have to fear cause he knew that in all that I face there is an exit strategy and that is trusting him..............God is the source of my life

DigitalSignal:
Oh dear, I know you still feel something for me and if you're willing to come back I'll give you a second chance! We can start all over again and this time, I promise you, I'll be true to you; you'll grow wings and soar like the eagle, never getting weary of the beautiful love I have for you which can find its match only in the moon! Beyond the horizon of the earth, high up in the moon, we shall lie and I'll sing you a lullaby and when you've surrendered to the overwhelming power of sleep, I'll break into your 'private world' and you'll experience the man in me in exploration of your 'private world' to its depth! You'll wake up and say ''Yeah baby, you're the man; I love you more than even my own life''! And then, I'll pop the one big question that I had wanted to ask you on your birthday!

.........no my dear Digital I am not looking for sex but for real love

Yoshiyuki: Please marry Tyche or Digital so we can all have a happy ending to this story, come for your wedding in S.A, eat rice and party till the sun comes up.

.........Yoshiyuki ha ha hahahaha you so funny I dont even know any of these ppl they could be ladies anyway at the right time God will dispose and the right man will propose......ha ha ha ha

lola.luv:


Abeg, let's hear word. That is how you people blackmail ladies into staying in the wrong relationships. Like the guy is the only one on earth or something. Or she is so hopeless she wouldn't get someone else to love her!

Two years back, I also had to take a bold step and leave a bad relationship.
I am loved up now with an amazing guy who is 100% better.
Guess who has been begging to come back, telling me he's changed? The ex.

But who will go back to all that drama and uncertainty when I have it so good with my current guy who loves and appreciates a woman like me?

Good riddance to bad rubbish!

........thank you dear this is so what i neede someone who has walked this road

xyoung:
Waist !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Please stop attending night school

...........thank you do you feel better now

kntrovasial mi:

i understand wat you're going through. just hang in there, it's only a matter of time and you'll be fine. i'll advice you engage yourself with activities so as to get your mind off the he-goat cos he doesn't deserve you.

.......thank you dear I will hang in there

dulaman: It seems there is a part of you that stil like him. Do you work or do something to make you forget him?

...... I work and I think I am just used to being with him than being inlove with him.....now i believe it when they say emotional abuse is worse than physical abuse........its painful so painful

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Tyche:

I think we need a more secured environment to talk.

What do you think.

...... come to SA

Tyche:

Yes she is oooooo

.......how can i marry someone i have never seen

DigitalSignal:
You're getting married so soon?

......no dear not yet.....i can not marry someone i have never seen

Today I woke up feeling like I made a mistake by letting you go but I know I did it for my betterment and for the best. I feel I need you and know I don't need your treatment you claim you have changed but how can a leopard change its spots. all these years you have given me misery and now all of a sudden you claim you can give me sunshine......I love to cuddle, you say you don't play lovie lovie, I like sex and you say you cannot have it with me but I have forgiven you have it with 8 girls....... and now you say I am that girl you always knew you wanted to marry......pleaseeeee......I am strong I will get over this time heals all wounds......you were my all I loved you to bit but now you are just a reminder of all the scars you caused me...... all I needed was respect,love and your time you could not give now all of a sudden you have changed in a day cause I say I am leaving you.......I am also human I have mistakes but I have never made you feel unloved unappreciated and so small and made you a laughing stock..... I will get thru this I just need to be strong

Tyche:

Is that a yes?

...... how can i marry someone i dont know

Tyche:

To the house ofcourse.

Infact, I hereby tender my application.

Will you marry me?

......ha ha ha hahahha

k2039: @ oratileb I have waited this long to find thee, I joined nairaland all because of you. At a point I lost hope and thought I won't find you, Alas I was so close, I never knew.
oratileb I love you.

Yours Lovely,
K2039.

......9ija showing so much love wow thanks hey

DigitalSignal:
None! Just did it to satisfy a curious mind and it's common knowledge!

......thank you sweetheart and now I know what garri is you are the best Digitalsignal you are sweet oooo.....thanks

Tyche:

An insightful answer.

Maybe you should declare that formally.

.......pls elaborate on this........declare to whom

Sijo01:

No garri in SA?

.....no our food is very diffrent

find.it.ng:


Mtscheww...girls?...you'll get tired...go out and have fun....when you're tired you'll realize all dis groove is overated and den you'll run back home..looking for love but it'll be too late and your waist would have fallen and your arse sagged praying in redemption camp @38 looking for husband...you cannot forgive like you're perfect Bettera dnt go into another relationship if you can't forgive...if he cheated or really abused you physically, free. But if it's arguments etc and he's begging and saying sorry and you're fronting then you are a jonzer...try dating jesus.....the funny thing is your friends will also be in your head advising you wrongly and often leading you destruction..."your waist, your time" how shallow can you get...

.....this guy cheated on me with 12 girls in the 5 yrs we have been together and he didn't even hide them from me I found hi in bed with woman twice

DigitalSignal:
Garri inside romance, wow! Anyway, I'll tell you!

........food can be romantic

Sijo01: Whats your Nationality?

south african

I would like to know what is Garri and how is it cooked and eaten.........please help