Ravenna:

Are you this slow?
Can't you comphrend?!
Where did i called somebody an eediot?!!
You must be a zombie cos you've got attributed valliany that simply result from stvpidity.

Clap for yourself......you have spoken oyinbo....you now feel good for those abusive lines you just learnt? I advise you stop insulting me

Ravenna:

Youre paranoid bro, to generalize is to be an eediot.
I've see some good rich women who doesnt kill their husbands, e.g Alakija, NOI, madueke, Hillary, Oprah, Beyonce etc. merkel

Can you see you just exhibited the woeman in you by calling someone you don't know an eediot. Showcasing the slogan of peak milk.

Tolatutu:


In any human being Ego is a flaw. Rich people have egos no matter the sex. It's okay for you to kick your wife out and say thinks like don't bring that woman into my house for maybe her friends you don't like abi yet you think it's strange when a woman does the same? Many , many women have better brains than you and that's a fact of life

Kilagbe kileju woeman

Izen:


Even if she is respectful you will still see the slightest thing she does as her being disrespectful. Something you wouldn't care about if it was your house. And what helpmate has got to do with building house is what I don't get. Men and their ego.

Ego and Men dey follow from bible so na normal thing

knackz:
if a woman did some thing stupid in respect to the house issue, you will know the difference btw wasup and hw far

Correct talk knackz

Ravenna:

Na poverty and ego dey worry those men weh no wan better thing for their wife.
Smh.

It's not about not wanting a better life/world for your wife. Note- no matter how humble a woman is, she would still exhibit the woeman in her in one way or the other. They are naturally wired to act so.

menix:


The only time she will turn a dictator is if the man ain't providing basic need with exemption to the housing..

If after providing, she still flaunts her Ego, for fork sake marriage ain't a do or die affair..

I am very very sure you are still a single man. Get married, know women and their ways and comment later

Take the 2nd job and continue your search for a better paying law related job. You can in the interim start doing a volunteer job with a law firm so as not to loose track on experience.

slap1:
The way you asked for it was rude.

By the way, should he prostrate to ask or what...Is the salary not a contractual agreement. At this point, the salary is his right or are you one of those peeps low self esteem

I would advise you stay in Ibadan. You have time to do your thing(very paramount). Cost of living (very paramount). Don't forget you will be waking up by 5am in Lagos. Lagos can make you crazy I swear. On a light note-REMEMBER Heineken is 250 naira in Ibadan but 500 naira in Lagos. Think twice

daretodiffer:


Actually that isn't true.

You are experiencing what it is called gender bais. It happens when you think a female boss/female employee (salary negotiation) is trying too hard when in reality they are not.

It's not gender bias my dear. I swear to God your thots would change if you ever find yourself in that situation. I so much hate the woman to the extend that I develop immediate hatred for people who bear the same name with her. I feel sad whenever I hear people call her name. She made me stereotype her name. God will frustrate her the way she frustrated me

missKiffy:

Care to share?

I had a very very abusive female boss likewise my wife at her place of work. She was getting so much heat that she had to resign even when she was earning 250k(anybody wey don pass thru am go no say money no matter). I was enduring as a man but was documenting all the nonsense she does to me at work. A HR manager that sees nothing wrong in saying subordinates are crazy, mad, daft and all sorts. I visited pastors for prayers because of this mad woman cos I always cry at work( I guess she's always frustrated cos she's not married at 39 and no man will marry that kind of plaque and put in the house) and I intensified my job search thruout the 2yrs I spent with the asshole and eventually got one and left. God will always help me punish the woman wherever she is because she nearly made me loose my confidence and have low self esteem

Xploits2204:
[Qquote author=missKiffy post=43095399]This job has made me realise that truly we women are the problem of this world. I started this job on the 2nd of November last year and the Manager who happens to be a lady is everybody's problem in that office.

While working there its been one issue or the other, this lady in question is repulsive, cranky, rude, very proud, talks to people anyhow including an elderly man who happens to be the driver, never takes blame for her mistakes but never fails to magnify every other persons mistake. My mind has left the place since the day I found out that she was looking for a replacement for my position, that was late last month, I had initially decided to leave after collecting my salary for that month before I later changed my mind, as at now I don't know if she still intends to find someone else but my mind is just not there anymore, there is nobody they haven't threatened with a sack in that office, in fact a guy was once sacked just a week after he started work. It's just a small organisation with about six staffs including the boss, she's actually in a relationship with the boss and if they do decide to get married I don't even want to be there by then cos if she can be behaving like this when they are only dating i wonder how she will behave when they get married.

I know a lot of people would say it's best to leave your job only when you've gotten another place but you might not understand what's it's like when your mind is not just there anymore. What do you guys think? Do you think I should quit?


Please stick to the job till you get something better ... My wife was in this exact situation in 2014 and went the way of quiting without another job...though she's happy for resigning but no job yet since then till now...

I have the same experience

kilokeys:
@ op Whats ur target? What ur plan?

I had the worst boss ever... If we 5 pple like her in the world... There would be world War 3.


Why is it always "hers"?

Experience is needed.. I endured for the 2 years.. Tendered my resignation. Writing a professional course now.

I dey suffer o.. But with pride... No amount of money is worth receiving curses everyday..

Working 8 to 8, mon to Saturday.. Get home and still monitor two webmails.. Tsk tsk..

I hope to leave this hell hole of a country and earn like my mates globally

Truly women bosses are the worst

I guess your current woman boss has the same attributes as my former supervisor. I was reading your mail and I felt like you were referring to my former supposed supervisor. Please intensify effort with your job search and I pray you get one soon. Bosses like that are only good at making one worthless and useless. Always pray(even if it involves fasting), be extra careful when doing your job, read your mails over and over before you send them, document all her abuses towards you in the event of litigation in future.

Most importantly......Pray and intensify your job search. May God help you

Dump her now so that you can save your future. God forbid bad thing, this kind of girl will forsake you if you become unfortunate. Free yourself from the ogbanje aka Karishika

Does she have Siblings? If yes, how does she react when you do things for them or you dont at all?
If you want a good home for your immediate family and you have noticed this bad attitude in your wife, do not carry her along when doing things for your family any longer.(the calm way).

What i will do is that i will stand my ground in the house as the man, if she does not like the way am helping my family, she should go to blazes. In as much as you are providing for her needs and shes not lacking anything, God elevated you to be able to help the needy. She is mannerless and not a cultured wife for her to have the gut to call your brother. I pray God continues to bless you and table does not turn for you. Your kind of lady can run you down with sharp tongue and leave you.

Advise- Stand your ground as the man in the house and give freely without regrets.

Have you guys picked a date for your wedding? Has he introduced you to his parents as his wife to be (bad guys self fit twist matter someday). MY ADVISE- Flee from the ineffectual Buffon or he will send you away after turning your pekus into a borehole.

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OP.....i feel so bad reading what you went through in the hands of that wicked woman.I called her wicked because I went through the same thing that happened to you,only that I left before I was sacked. In my own case...the heartless woman insults me anyhow,tells me am crazy, says to me that I will not last in the company. I was a head of department in my former company before a took a position as a subordinate to her. I pray you get another job soon..GIVE YOUR APPOINTMENT LETTER to a lawyer for honest advise. Wake up every morning and curse the he'll out of that woman till you get tired even if it will take you 15years

Op is just a bastard and a confirmed oloriburuku for that matter. The receipt only has soft drink price on it....Na you be the demon wey dem send to spoil another man market...thunder fry your balls..attention seeker

ttplove:
Where do you see yourself in your present company in 5years time, and where would you be in 5years time if you are to take this new job. Money isnt everything, but career growth is vital. If your job description at the new place is more advance than the present and you see the chances of starting a new life in a new location, go for it. But above all, pray about it. God still speak to us, shut down all noisy speakers around and listen to God. #kapish

Well said

sseunth:
i dont know much about the two jobs. but if i am in ur shoes, i would look into the future, see the one that might likely fold up, i will figure out which one that can mk me mre successful. sometimes, it is not about the money. are u happy with ur current job? will u be happy with ur new job? which one will give you time for ur family?

My current affords me time for my family,am also happy on the job.being happy on the new job is not what I can say for now. I currently work in a recruitment firm and it's unlikely to fold up.

sseunth:
Why do you wanna leave ur old job?

Am just trying to figure out if it is advisable to leave my old job because the new job is a multinational(kpmg). What would you do if you find yourself in my shoes?

I got a job in one of the big 4 accounting firms in Nigeria. As an experienced hire,i was being offered 167,000 net per month plus other cash benefit of 593k in a year. I work in a one man company that recently increased my salary to 235k per month plus cash benefit of 110k in a year. My present company is close to my house and I enjoy free ride to work daily but will wake up early and solely spend on transport if am to go for the new job. Please advise. No insults o

Maybe the owner of the car pardoned him and took it as one of those things in life

A job well done.....All she has been doing could be termed CONTINUITY but the day her husband borrowed himself brain, she witnessed CHANGE.

Omo i feel for the guy man...Dogs can be crazy...My Rott alone pursue petty thief comot my compound around 4am for mormor until vigilante later catch the tif

Devil's incarnate...She even get BIG BOOBS self.....

To all the people condemning Ajimobi in Oyo State,i really need to ask if you guys know Oyo State very well before Ajimobi was elected as Governor. Ibadan was once the dirtiest state in Africa, most volatile state(violence) in Nigeria. All these have been put behind. Even as we all know that the IGR(internally generated revenue) in Oyo State was nothing to write home about before Ajimobi's assumption. Companies are beginning to troop into Ibadan because of the peace and stability in the state. e.g Dominos, Shoprite and some other new companies(atleast for the level of the state for now). Some would say he did not pay civil servants(will he pay outside the allocation of the state) but he gave them free shuttle to and fro their work places. To say the least, illiterates in Oyo State are not happy, meet the elites, industrialist in the state, they will tell you they have enabling environment. Ajimobi is facing the same predicament Fayemi faced in Ekiti.