Family / Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Patomoney(m): 11:40am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter: I understand that most parents want the best for their children but at the same time, they should understand certain things that are beyond one's control.
My parents, relatives even family friends won't stop troubling me about marriage. I can't have healthy conversations with my people without them bringing up the marriage topic and worse off in a controversial manner. They always accuse me of being too selective and other talks like that, making me feel awful.
I desire to get married someday even though I don't see it as a "do or die" thing. I've been in relationships that didn't work out and I'm being blamed for it or asked why I didn't just manage. My God!
I've been thinking of how to get away from all these talk, maybe leaving home or changing my line. I really don't know what to do. I'm someone people know as happy and bubbly outside but when I'm with my people, it's the complete opposite, minimal joy because they won't stop stressing me. For now, I've stopped attending family events since they'll be gathered there and I don't want anyone messing with my mental health.
I'm fed up, I need advice from matured minds please. If your really need advice not on social media my dear Call on someone u know that’s matured enough u can talk to Not on social media cause all u will get here from some people are all insults |
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Business / Re: My Bank Just Overpaid Me By 32k by Patomoney(m): 11:03pm On Mar 02, 2022 |
Emmayorejoice: I needed to withdraw 35k this morning in order to attend to some urgent cash needs and since I didn't want only N1000 notes I decided to enter the banking hall. To avoid issues I arrived before 8 am and was one of the first to be attended to. The cashier paid me with N20k bundle and counted 15k with the counting machine twice and gave me my bundle. I didnt bother to do another count as I saw her use the machine twice. Only for me to get back home and realise I had an extra N32k. I counted and recounted but it was an excess.
Truth be told times could be much better Covid and Buhari did not help matters but as a Christian I know not to keep what is not mine. God knows it could have solved a lot of problems but its best to wait for what is mine so i had to go back to the bank and wait to see the Teller. Looking at her interact with her colleagues one could tell she was not happy. When it was my turn she asked what kind of transaction I wanted and I just handed her the N32k. The relief and joy on her face could not be hidden. She had already told her colleague beside her that she was short so they both joined in telling me thank you.
As usual some may say I was foolish for returning the money but either a young lady could have lost her job in these terrible times or at least the money would be removed from her salary which is still bad enough. My only prayer is God should consider this and remember me for good. God bless n favor u Amen � 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by Patomoney(m): 11:50pm On Jul 04, 2021 |
BonPatrick: Good morning guys I leave alone and I don't know how to cook soup but can cook stew and others so I called my ex girlfriend yesterday and she is married last year so she came we went to market and buy food stuffs and she cooked for me. I want to know if is wrong for a married lady to do that? U are a mad man �� |
Romance / Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Patomoney(m): 11:21pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
DaddyRochie1642: Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him He will never do that so stop asking him that 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by Patomoney(m): 5:36pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
iamyemiakins: Have you ever dated someone who desperately wanted to get married when you were not ready?
How was the experience? No experience �✌� |
Romance / Re: I Am In Love With My Employee by Patomoney(m): 12:37pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Ishitinyourlife: I live in the west, I'm single and in my late thirties, I work independently I have a store/cybercafe/gamehouse where I sell electronics like home sound system, games, pads, phone accessories, mobile phones etc and I also have a cyber cafe and a game house in the same building.
I have about 6 workers that run the place with me cos I can't be everywhere at all time and the shop is a little big. Among my workers is a very beautiful 22 year old undergraduate that works for me when she gets off school and during holidays. I like all my workers and I treat them right but I'm not really a guy that gets personal with people so they know I have boundaries, but this girl is exceptional. She takes her work diligently makes even more sales than me in the shop most of the time cos she is good with people.
This girl is very attractive and she dresses nice too. She doesn't wear revealing clothes. She's modest, all calm. I used to buy food from restaurants to eat in the shop before because I don't really like cooking but she told me I don't need to do that, she can make my food and bring it over to the shop for me. Like she will bring me food in the morning before school and afternoon and she refused to collect a dime from me.
People are starting to feel a certain vibe among us cos she smiles whenever she looks at me and even my workers do call her oga's wife jokingly.
In truth I like the girl but I don't know if asking her out might cause a problem to my business.
Advise me please. If you truly like her n u want to get along with her Talk to her Show her u truly wanna b with her and let her not think u wanna play with her heart she will understand |
Romance / Re: The April Fool Message I Sent To My Girlfriend. by Patomoney(m): 8:59am On Apr 01, 2020 |
DoubleEngine007: I thought it was only me that saw that... Only April fool,the dude is writing a book already... And babe was busy sleeping.. Nigga was busy composing a text book ,that babe will answer with just one word.. Op below.. Nawa oooo 1 Like |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Barcelona Vs Athletico Madrid: Spanish Super Cup (2 - 3) On 9th January 2020 by Patomoney(m): 9:56pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
ghettokid1:
if GOAT no play who go come play? Goat or no goat Barca must loss |
Politics / Re: Minimum Wage: Details Of Lawan, NLC Meeting Over Nationwide Strike by Patomoney(m): 7:04am On Jul 04, 2019 |
This country is not it at all just to pay 30000 they can't |
Celebrities / Re: Regina Daniels, Naira Marley, Broda Shagi, And Others Party Inside Ned Nwoko Jet by Patomoney(m): 12:10am On Jun 24, 2019 |
What happened to it? ] |
Sports / Re: Vincent Kompany Leaves Man City After 11 Years To Join Anderlecht by Patomoney(m): 6:46am On May 20, 2019 |
Surest captain We love u so much May God bless u |
Sports / Re: John Obi Mikel Celebrates His 32nd Birthday Today by Patomoney(m): 2:18pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Happy birthday Mikel obi |
Crime / Re: Anambra Man Commits Suicide By Hanging Himself On A Tree With Rope(photos) by Patomoney(m): 5:39am On Apr 04, 2019 |
: iTearHerToto: That stool is supposed to be down if he really hung himself. that's bad |
Sports / Re: Neymar Blasts Referees, VAR After PSG's UCL Exit (Photos) by Patomoney(m): 12:51pm On Mar 07, 2019 |
It was never a penalty ooo I support u jnr LuciferPastor: That was never a penalty. His arm kept moving away from the ball. Man Utd players didn't even protest because they knew it wasn't a penalty.
I really pity PSG cuz every season they get robbed by UEFA. First Barca, now Man Utd.
Maybe its because they have an Arab / Muslim owner. That's the only explanation because if it were against Man Utd, that referee would never consider a penalty.
Shame.
*spits |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Crystal Palace Vs Manchester United (1 - 3) On 27th February 2019 by Patomoney(m): 7:32pm On Feb 27, 2019 |
Scores will be Crystal palace 2 vs manchester united 1 |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Chelsea Vs Tottenham Hotspur (2 - 0) On 27th February 2019 by Patomoney(m): 7:29pm On Feb 27, 2019 |
Tottenham all the way 1 Like |
Politics / Re: We Won’t Recognise Buhari As President Beyond May 29 – Opposition Parties by Patomoney(m): 7:28pm On Feb 27, 2019 |
Buhari is not my president period |
Politics / Re: I Wait For INEC's Final Results - Buhari by Patomoney(m): 3:15pm On Feb 25, 2019 |
You will loss with big margin don't worry Atikulated all the way |
Politics / Re: You Must Accept Defeat. PDP To Buhari. by Patomoney(m): 6:47am On Feb 24, 2019 |
Samade7: Is PDP really winning? j Yes 1 Like |