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Crime / Re: Woman Kills Husband By Squeezing His Manhood In Edo State by phexx: 10:46pm On Nov 27, 2019
Hmmm

Women

Hmmm

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Romance / Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by phexx: 10:02pm On Nov 25, 2019
Hmmmm

What A Word?


franchasng:
The only things that should make a man cry are:

1.) Death of his mother
2.) Death of his loving father
3.) Loss of crucial investment or business
4.) Loss of a child
5.) If diagnosed with a terminal illness



Real men don't cry for women or love in 2019, Romeo, Jack, etc were all foolish men that died for nothing out of their stupidity.


Love is a total fallacy, what we call love is selfish interests.


The only true love that exist is that between a mother and child, don't be deceived, if you die now, that your so called loving wife will be opening her pussy wide open for another man and she will forget about you in highest 2 years
Romance / Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by phexx: 9:52pm On Nov 25, 2019
nna u mean oh


franchasng:
Only a mad man will agree to date any lady in 2019 without sex.


Guys once any girl or lady tell u no sex and u agree just for agreeing sake and let's say 2 months later she insist no sex, pls dump her!


And again any girl that tell u no sex, pls don't ever spend a dime on her. In fact whenever u want to call her, flash her or use any free call mobile app and call her for free. Don't ever spend on any girl that said no sex till marriage, let her also wait till marriage before u guys can start spending anything.


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Health / Re: PERMANENT Non Medical Method Of Curing MOUTH ODOUR.!!!! by phexx: 7:48pm On Nov 24, 2019
Say it here
Politics / Re: Kogi Decides - Apc, Pdp React To Kogi Elections; Will There Be A Revolution? by phexx: 11:59am On Nov 18, 2019
Continue reading where?

Finish everything here.

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Politics / Re: Kogi Governorship Election 2019: Updates, Results, Reports And Live Monitoring by phexx: 5:52pm On Nov 17, 2019
I have said it that the solution to credible election is Electronic voting.

Why is it not in place till now?

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Politics / Re: Kogi East Guber Poll Results by phexx: 7:55am On Nov 17, 2019
Tell us where u got your information.

Source pls

SAYEDADAMADAMS:
Ankpa: APC = 2,034 PDP = 125, 989. Dekina: APC = 1,094 PDP = 118, 878 ENGR MUSA WADA'S LGA. Omala: APC = 8,074 PDP = 15, 648. Idah: APC = 5,122 PDP = 21, 896. Olamaboro: APC = 10, 003 PDP = 13, 997. Igalamela: APC = 1,034 PDP = 11,963. Ofu:APC = 4,097 PDP = 11,879. Bassa:APC = 6,047 PDP = 9,031
Politics / Re: Kogi East Guber Poll Results by phexx: 7:29am On Nov 17, 2019
Does this correspond with results from Premium Times!

Or Is this officially from Inec?

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Politics / Re: Dino Melaye Vs Smart Adeyemi - Kogi West Senatorial Battle (result) by phexx: 12:21am On Nov 17, 2019
See more 4 where?

Finish your message here.

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Politics / Re: Kogi Governorship Election 2019: Updates, Results, Reports And Live Monitoring by phexx: 8:35pm On Nov 16, 2019
Oga ooo

Warisdis?


abujaafar18:
[11/16, 18:52] : Opulega Ankpa -Kogi state.
PDP - 318
APC - 94
[11/16, 18:52] : polling unit
GRA Ankpa
APC=0
PDP=1000
[11/16, 18:52] : Odagba ejufu polling unit
PDP 154
APC 56
SDP 03
Egula polling unit
PDP 339
APC 76
SDP 10
Emabu atte
PDP 216
APC 24
SDP 16
Emabu ogane polling unit
PDP 126
APC 48
SDP 0
Ukpaja emabu polling unit
PDP 226
APC 71
SDP 0
Okobo atte polling unit
PDP 134
APC 69
Okobo okpiko polling unit
PDP 50
APC 40
Anedu polling unit
PDP 366
APC 25
SDP 2
Otakpa enjema polling unit
PDP 325
APC 26
Details shortly ma
[11/16, 18:52] : ODU Ogboyaka
PDP 1223
APC 16
SDP 0

ODU Okpakili Ate

PDP 546
APC 10
SDP 0

Odu Ajaruwa eke

PDP 600
APC 2
SDP 11

Odu Okpakili Ogane

PDP 335
APC 03
SDP 0

Odu ikaka

PDP 690
APC 02
SDP 0

Odu Adekpa

PDP 610
APC 06
SDP 0

Odu Okpaloto

PDP 980
APC 10
SDP 6

Odu Ajakagwu
PDP 640
APC 11
SDP 4
[11/16, 18:52] : Senator Dino Melaye's WINS Polling Unit

Unit 007/ Aiyetoro ward 1

#Governorship
PDP=207
APC=69

#SENATE
PDP=221
APC=61

Unit 002 ward B behind open university.
#Governorship
APC 170
PDP 363

#Senate
APC 164
PDP 362.
[11/16, 18:52] : Confirmed result
.
Polling units.
1. Agala Ate in Anyigba.
PDP =243
APC=23
SDp=4
.
2. Owele Primary school Ankpa.
PDP= 336
APC=66
.
3. Polling unit 007 ojokwu ward 3, Ankpa.
PDP= 161
APC=54
.
4. Olampolling unit behind Stadium, Ankpa.
PDP=336
APC=66
.
5. Agala Ate.
PDP=63
APC=16
.
6. Ajobaje Abocho polling unit.
PDP=231
APC=32
.
7. Omewe Opada(Austin Okai's village).
PDP=206
APC=44
SDP=13
INVALID=19
[11/16, 18:52] : Angwa Hausawa Polling Unit,Ogane Geri in Ankpa LG..Kogi State

Results
PDP : 318
APC : 46
Reliable Source!
[11/16, 18:52]: AJAOKUTA LGA,GANAJA POLLING UNIT
Result
PDP 2230
APC 69
[11/16, 18:52] : Odu ogbayga pdp is 1,223 and APC 15 sdp 7
[11/16, 18:52] : My poliunit, Agala _Ate in anyigba world.
PDP - 243
APC - 23
SDP - 4
NPC -1
AD - 1
[11/16, 18:52] : My PU okete Aje in idah that I attach palace APC 70 pdp249 upc 1 apm 1 anrp 1 ad 2 sdp 2
[11/16, 18:52] : Igalaogba Omepa LGEA Idah primary school polling Unit 008
APC: 40
PDP 362
[11/16, 18:52] : IGALAMELA CSS AJAKA
INEC EC 30 A

Invalid -7
Sdp- 3
Ppa- 2
APC- 44
PDP -175
Romance / Re: Handsome Male Nairalanders. by phexx: 7:09pm On Nov 13, 2019
I just took this pics with ma phone.
Politics / Re: INEC Restricts Military Participation In Bayelsa, Kogi Gov Elections To Patrol by phexx: 9:20am On Nov 12, 2019
Hmmmm

What more can I say.
U have echoed it all


To convince us that he belongs to nobody but to everybody (Nigerians),let him please sign the electoral amended bill.

The solution to our electoral problems.


clarocuzioo:
Sometimes I wonder if PMB is out to ruin this nation.

There's a bill permitting the use of electronic voting which is on his table, prior to the elections, he gave an excuse that there is no time to implement the bill if signed because the elections are close.

The bill should have been signed into law immediately he won the elections, so that there won't be any need to involve the military in elections anymore.

But unfortunately till now, he is yet to append just his signature on a bill that affects the progress of this national most.

Now we are having series of elections, and it's going to be another round of chaos, loss of lives and property, thugs invasion and carrying of ballot boxes, often aided by security agencies, which at the end truncates the will of the people, and thus makes a total mess of our democracy.

If Buhari is truly a good leader as he claims, that bill should have been the first thing to sign immediately he won his election.

And to think recently they took a bill to him in London to sign, yet he did not ask them to bring the one permitting electronic voting for him to sign as well proves that it's a delibrate act.

One begins to wonder, is PMB against the peace,progress and development of Nigeria?

Honestly speakying, PMB should be held responsible for any chaos arising from this elections as the solution to avoid such is already on his table, but for whatsoever reason, he ignored it.
Romance / Re: Date The Guy Who Puts In ‘too Much Effort’ by phexx: 12:41pm On Nov 11, 2019
Click 4 where?

Go joor
Romance / Re: Should I Be Suspicious Of My Girl? by phexx: 11:37pm On Nov 10, 2019
What!


sylvez:
You are actually stupid my guy...
I was once this stupid...
I experienced exactly the same thing you are experiencing now....
When i confronted her about one of the guys, she said how will i be asking her weda she is seeing a married man, that the man is a married man na!!!

To cut long story short, i love my woman but sometimes love is not just enough...

We didn't break up, three weeks ago she told me she will travel for a cousin's wedding...i didn't know she traveled for her traditional wedding....she sent me the pictures today and informed me that her white wedding is next weekend.

We never broke up!!!

All the while i was dating myself...It's so painful but you just have to let go....

She did all these to me when i needed her support for my professional exam coming up next tomorrow.

I loved her but see my life now



Romance / Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Female Source Code. by phexx: 10:34pm On Nov 10, 2019
Gerar here

Your cock not 4 puna?

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
grin grin grin
Romance / Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: On Shît Testing. by phexx: 9:45pm On Nov 10, 2019
Words on marble:

No primitive deity has ever demanded a malr virgin as a sacrifice.

Hmmm and hmmm

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Romance / Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: The Female Source Code. by phexx: 2:20pm On Nov 10, 2019
ubunja:
What makes women tick at the most basic level.

FRIENDSHIP.
Let's say two Laws are passed: one banning sex between men and women; And another banning friendship between men and women. What will happen?

Riots and mayhem that's what.

Men and women will riot and burn the country. But it is important to understand which gender will riot against which law.

Women will riot against the banning of FRIENDSHIP between men and women. Men will riot against the banning of SEX.

Men can not live without Sex, Women can not live without Friendship with men.

Friendship with a man is the only relationship that a woman can have with a man that allows her to get money and stuff from him WITHOUT giving him sex. That's a secret hidden from men.

For women, a man's friendship is more important than a man's love. And more important than a man's dick. Because with male friends, a woman can get ANYTHING without giving back ANYTHING.

A woman's guy friends don't mind helping her move, checking her car, fixing her place, helping her out with money, keeping her safe etc - for FREE. If the woman gets all that from a BF she has to PAY with sex. But with guy friends it's free.

ATTENTION AND VALIDATION.
If all the men in Nigeria ignore all the women, and instead focus on 1 woman - every man adoring and worshiping her - that woman, receiving that infinite attention, will feel her need to have sex diminish to almost zero

There's a level of Attention and Validation that if a woman gets from men it cancels out her need for Sex. The female sex drive differs from the male sex drive in this aspect. While the male sex drive is a physical hunger like the hunger for food or the thirst for water, The female sex drive is VALIDATIONAL in nature.

The more important you make a woman feel the less she needs to impress you. (You're impressed already) And the less she needs to sleep with you to feel important (she's important already to you)

The more valued a woman feels the weaker her sex drive is because the less she has to use her sexuality to get Validation. And in the opposite way, the less valued a woman feels the stronger her sex drive is because the more she has to use her sexuality to get Validation. Or to feel valued.

A man can date a woman who seems to enjoy sex, But as soon as he marries her, give her comfort, security and peace of mind her pussy turn dry. Too many men are confused why the happier they make their women the less their women want sex. It's because these women are content and secure. And that has a chilling effect on their sex drive. It slows it down. To reignite the passion the men have to subtract the things that are making the women content and secure.

If your woman has lost interest in sex, bring in drama, uncertainty and confusion. Start acting funny. Have suspicious phone calls. Have female friends visit etc - Make your woman think she's about to be replaced. She'll stress, process a lot mentally and question her value to you, and in the process her legs will snap open. And pussy juices will flow.

THE SOURCE CODE.
Here are the codes to female sexuality:

When a woman gives the least amount of sex for the most amount of money It's about money

When a woman gives the most amount of sex for the least amount of money it's about Validation

Women who participate in 3sums and gangbangs don't speak too much about enjoying multiple dick but speak more about enjoying being THE CENTRE OF ATTENTION. Because it is about seeking Validation not seeking Pleasure. A woman can pleasure herself better than any man can and no man can pleasure a woman better than a intimacy gadget can. Strictly speaking a woman doesn't NEED a man for pleasure. So when a woman chases men for sex it has more to do with Validation than pleasure. She feels valuable when she's valuable to men.

Most girls who do gang bangs do them free. And the most hardened sluts will be offended if you offered them money for sex. I once related the story of a Bleep addicted slut who, after we offered her money, told us she can do it free if we go hardcore enough on her. I had told her we were about 7 guys. Shît is crazy.

SELF-ESTEEM.
A woman's sex drive is opposite her self-esteem.

The reason treating a woman like trash pays in sex is because it erodes a woman's self-esteem that she then seeks to replenish by opening her legs. The more worthless a woman feels on the inside the more she seeks worth through sex. The sex compensates for the inadequacies. It's the reason disrespectful men get a lot of sex from women. It's the same with men and money. The more worthless a man feels on the inside the more he seeks worth through money. The money compensates for the inadequacies. And a man with zero self-esteem will pay the most amount of money for the least amount of sex. Even paying for NO sex. And still feel good. A man's spending habits with women are opposite his self-esteem.

In women, things like sex addiction are more a symptom of deeper underlying issues than mere love of dick:
Let's say a boy and a girl are going through problems at home. They will both act out. But in different ways. The boy will turn to petty crime. While the girl will turn to sexual promiscuity.
Sex is how women deal with issues. Antisocial behavior is how men deal with issues. That's why in Society's eyes a man at his worst is a criminal. And a woman at her worst a whôré. And both whôré and criminal live side by side on the street because where there are prostitutes, criminals will be there. They understand each other because they're going through the same shît but expressing it differently.

The weaker a woman's self esteem is, the easier she becomes a slut. And Pîmps know low self-esteem women make the best prostitutes. While sexologists know the first step in treating female sexual addiction is raising the woman's self-esteem. Meanwhile to get the best sex from a woman you destroy her self-esteem. Everything with female sexuality hinges on Self-esteem. Everything with male spending habits on women hinges on Self-esteem.

When a woman loses her self-esteem - when she feels worthless on the inside - her Inner Self seeks to regenerate the lost Worth the quickest way it knows how: BY MAKING THE WOMAN OPEN HER LEGS. Because what's between her legs is the most wanted thing in the World guaranteed to generate the attention she needs to feel like a somebody.

The woman's Inner Self points to men's lust for the woman and says to her: "See, all these men want to fvck you. And you make them cum nicely. You're not totally worthless!"

As a young boy I remember two prostitutes from the neighborhood pub fighting and one shouting in vernacular, "ayisikho uthanda amadoda" (that's why you love men), and I remember the other throwing her ass in the air and defiantly shouting back, "Bayangithanda ngoba ngimnandi" (They love me because I'm sweet).
Everyone burst out laughing at the shamlessness of the reply. I never forgot that incident.

She loved men because men loved how sweet her pussy was.

CHASING VALIDATION.
Ever noticed this on Social Media?
A girl posts a picture, and she gets a hundred nice comments. Then an asshole of a guy comes online disses the picture calling the girl fat and ugly.
Then the magic happens: The girl ignores the 100 sweet comments and fixates on the 1 bitter comment. She engages the hater while the supporters look on feeling neglected.

It's a natural law.

We all fear rejection and a even 1 hater in a sea of supporters gets our Attention. We chase the Hater's approval wishing for him to be AGREEABLE. And as long as we're chasing the Hater's approval he has power over us.

If a woman meets 99 guys who compliment her but 1 guy spits in disgust, What will stress the woman that night?

The 99 compliments or the 1 spit?

That 1 spit of course:
"Why did that guy spit? Am I not pretty enough in his eyes? I will show him". Then over the following weeks the girl will dress and act TO IMPRESS THAT 1 GUY WHO SPIT. She then LIVES FOR HIS VALIDATION. And once the girl does that, as far as that guy is concerned, with that guy, the girl is dealing from a position of weakness. She's chasing that validation. And as long as she's chasing, that guy has tremendous power over her. Power even to fvck her.

There is no sweeter girl than a girl that's chasing your Approval and Validation. Its how you deal with women from a position of Power.

DEALING WITH WOMEN FROM A POSITION OF POWER.
A woman can size you up by your choice of words. There's a superior way of talking to women. And there's an inferior way of talking to women. Learn the difference:

Nice Guy: I know how to fvck.
Bad Boy: Do you know how to fvck?

Nice Guy: I feel so lucky to have you.
Bad Boy: You should feel lucky to have me.

See the difference?

Back in my 2go days (about 9 yrs ago), I had a very different approach to getting girls than most dudes. In the chatrooms most guys would post: "I want a girl who wants me to lick her and I'll do everything she wants".
But because I always opposed everyone, just for the hell of it, I would post: "I want a girl to suck me and do everything I want her to do".

I made everything about ME.

While just 1 or 2 girls responded, It was interesting dealing with those girls. They came to me with the mindset of PROVING themselves to me. The same mindset the majority of men came to women with. It was a power trip having a girl try to convince me of her sex skills all the while I'm trying hard to hide my thirst.

When you present yourself to a woman as someone ready to serve you lessen your value. You're chasing her validation. But when you present yourself as someone ready to be served you increase your value and have the woman chasing YOUR validation. It's a fun ride. The sex the woman will give you is sex to prove herself. The best sex a woman can give a man.

And it's not even that hard to set a woman on that road.

It's as simple as chatting with a 19 yr old girl and in an unimpressed tone, remark, "You're too young. What do you know!". And boom!!!! She wanna prove herself to you and show you she's grown.

It's as simple as chatting with an older woman in her 30s or 40s and remarking, "Is that pussy still good or you just saying these things?". And boom!!! She's telling herself, "I'll show this motherfvcker!"

Just like that you have women chase your Validation. Eager to PROVE something to you. While other men compete to prove themselves to women promising to fvck their brains out and lying about Dick sizes and the rounds of sex they can go, you have women doing the same to YOU.

The key here is to play on women's fears, envies and jealousies.

A younger woman envies the older woman for her Sex Skills and her greatest fear is never being taken seriously. The older woman envies the younger woman for her fresh body and her greatest fear is that she's past her time. A line that has delivered for me with teenage girls is: "I promise to fvck you like a grown woman!". Delivered in raw vernacular. It works wonders.

MAKE A GIRL WANT TO IMPRESS YOU.
Girls start having sex earlier than boys and go on to have sex with more people than boys ever will. You can benefit from this extensive experience if you approach the situation right.

Like this: Next time, instead of boasting of your own sexual abilities to a girl, boast about how you're so hard to impress that even women with amazing sexual abilities have a hard time pleasing you. Make it about YOU. Come across as someone very hard to please. Bring the girl to a position where SHE is the one boasting of her sexual abilities. Where SHE is the one making promises to blow your mind. Even then, raise the stakes by remarking how women who boast about their sexual prowess turn out to be so-so when the time for sex comes.

That's how the fun begins for you. For when she comes to you, that girl is bringing along her entire sexual repertoire and may God have mercy on your sceptical soul.

#TheRedPill
#MGTOW



To reignite the passion,men have to subtract the things making women secure and content.


This is massive
Thank u teacher.

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Romance / Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: No Green Lights, No Approach. by phexx: 1:32pm On Nov 10, 2019
Waisgoinon

Where are the ladies?

On holidays?

Maybe...

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Romance / Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Chosen. by phexx: 10:35am On Nov 10, 2019
Wow this wow!!!

Shout out to Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW).

It's rainning
It's buzzling



quote author=ubunja post=83890777]How To Get A Girl To Put You On A Pedestal.

PROLOGUE.
You have seen it before in your hood. A pretty girl has all the men hitting on her and trying to impress her with money and things. She ignores them. Or plays them. Because she's got her eye on some insignificant nonentity of a Guy. As hard to get as the girl is for other men, this nobody of a Guy gets her attention easy. He makes her laugh easy. He impresses her easy. Much to the anger and confusion of all the other men who know they are better by far than the Guy.

Now, what does the Guy have that all the other men don't have that has cast a spell on the girl?

nothing.

The guy is simply chosen.

MOYO MUTI UNOMERA PAUNODA.
In the Zimbabwean Shona language we have a saying: "Moyo muti unomera paunoda" - The heart is like a tree that grows where it chooses.

We can't predict where a plant will grow. A plant will grow in the most favorable places like river banks and rain forests. But it will also grow in the least favorable places like deserts and cracks on a pavement and against all odds thrive.

Same with love.

Love is emotions and emotions are Unpredictable. Like the Unpredictable growth of plants.
Love flourishes in the most favorable places but it will also flourish in the least favorable places. "Moyo muti unomera paunoda" - The heart is like a tree that grows where it chooses. In other words, "The heart wants what the heart wants". And whom the heart wants is the Prize.

GET A GIRL TO RESPECT YOU.
So much has been said about how women no longer respect men. How women no longer submit and put men in their rightful place as the Head.

Women were born to follow. Men were born to lead. But, remember followers choose the leader. Not the other way round. We vote for our leaders. Our leaders don't vote for us.

It's the same with women and respect.

If your girl doesn't respect you there's precious little you can do to make her respect you. You played the game backwards. You were supposed to find a girl who respected you already then make her your girl. But instead you found a girl, made her your GF then tried to make her respect you. It doesn't work that way.

You don't make a girl respect you. That's impossible. Girls respect whoever they think is worthy of respect. What you do is You find a girl who respects you already and make her your girl. This way there's no struggle to earn anything because everything is already given. Just like how God loved us before we were born and there's nothing we did to earn His love. God loves us because He CHOSE us. That is true love. A girl must love you because she chose you. Not because you did anything to earn her love. Love must not be earned.

Same with respect.

If a girl already thinks you're respectable then you're a thousand steps ahead of every other guy trying to earn her respect because in love NOTHING must be earned.

Men do many things backwards... A man will meet a Scantily Dressed girl, fall in love then try to make her wear long dresses. It won't work. She'll tell you it was the miniskirts and minidresses that made you love her, why must she now change. What you must do is find a decently dressed girl if you want a decently dressed wife. Anyways, it will be far easier to make a decent girl dress sexy than to make a ho dress decently. You can't turn a ho into a housewife but you can turn a housewife into a ho. Remember every girl is looking for a guy she can be bad for.

MY STORY.
I found my babymama a virgin at about 23.

She was strict and many guys had tried their luck with her and failed. But when she met me she practically handed herself to me. Winning her heart was so effortless. And she's still the easiest girl I ever fvcked. And I fvcked her so much that within months she gave me a baby.

One day a friend visited us and was shocked to see my GF kneel down to serve me food. (God is my Witness) When we were alone my friend said I must be hitting my GF that's why she served me food kneeling. I was offended. Because I never asked anyone to kneel for me. And I explained this to him but I could see he was not convinced.

Two years after breaking up I met my babymama and I wanted to check something on her phone but there was a password (she never used to put passwords). I asked for the password and she replied "it's your name". I didn't believe it but typed it anyways. And the phone unlocked!!!. I was surprised.

A few months ago this year, I went to see her because I missed my daughter and she (my babymama) said, "Whatever you're doing, when you get tired of it, I will be waiting for you". I didn't reply. Then she told me our daughter was grown and she needed a brother. Guess what? I will give her another baby soonest!

We have an inside joke where I tell her she can't move on cause I cast a spell on her. She laughs hard at it.

Why am I telling you all this??

I'm telling you this Because I did NOTHING to get this girl to fall so deep in love with me. I didn't campaign. I didn't spend a cent. I didn't buy her anything. Not even. What happened is one simple thing that was beyond even my control: I FITTED THE DESCRIPTION OF THE TYPE OF GUY SHE WANTED. Simple.

Whatever this girl saw in me she liked it. I didn't put any effort to make her like me. She just liked me. I was her type. Was she my type? No. She was from the wrong tribe. And was too reserved for my liking. BUT I WAS HER TYPE. That was what mattered. And I ran with that. I didn't even know she was a virgin. She kept it a secret until the moment I took out my dick.

The moral of the story is this:
If a girl loves you first you are the Prize. If a woman likes you first you are the Trophy. And there's very little you can do wrong in her eyes. She'll always excuse your behavior. Someone who likes you without you doing anything to impress them, is someone who'll find it hard to stop liking you when you do something to disappoint them. If your actions didn't create the love, your actions can't destroy the love. Because it's never about your actions, but about YOU.

UNDERSTANDING WHAT IT MEANS TO BE THE PRIZE OR TROPHY.
Any guy can be the Prize or the Trophy to a girl. But there's a very particular way of going about it. You have to play the game right.

There are three things that make a trophy a trophy:

1. A Trophy Is Perfect As Is.

This is the most important thing. The less you do yet the more you impress a girl, a girl you impress the most by doing the least to the point that you impress her TOTALLY by doing TOTALLY NOTHING is the girl with whom you have a realistic chance of being the Prize.

The only girl you should give a chance
is that girl so breathtaken, so infatuated with you that she thinks you are the Prize, for simply breathing. And nothing more. The way a trophy is seen perfect AS IS. So also a girl must see you perfect AS IS. That way there's no spending, pretending, lying and campaigning to earn her affection.

In love NOTHING must be earned.

2. A Trophy Doesn't Choose Who Wins It.

Take for example a football trophy. It doesn't choose what quality of teams get to compete for it. Or what quality of team will take it home. The only way the trophy can get itself won by a decent level team is to be a trophy of a decent football league.
A minor league trophy will be won by minor league teams unless it becomes a major league trophy then it will be won by a major league team.

As a trophy you attract your level. If you don't like the level of women you're attracting then improve and elevate to a higher level. Then higher level women you'll attract.

3. A Trophy Loves No One.

A trophy or a prize may be dreamed of and fantasized about by many, but itself it fantasizes and dreams of no one. A trophy doesn't compete for anyone. It is competed for. A trophy doesn't love anyone. It is loved.

In love, the one who loves less is the trophy.

In all my dealings with women, the breakups that have hurt the most and made me cry the longest were with those women I myself chose, pursued and won. I was too invested. I begged the most and accommodated the greatest. I was the trophy holder. And when the trophy left - as all trophies do when a better competitor appears - I was left devastated.

Look back at all your Exes and you'll see a pattern: The girls you were hurt the most to breakup with were the ones you chased and pursued the hardest. While the girls who brought themselves to you, it was easy not only to get them but also to breakup with them, because YOU were the prize.

UNDERSTAND YOU ARE THE PREY.
The greatest reason guys don't become trophies is guys have made themselves the Hunters.

A hunter can never be a trophy.

Do you know something called Trophy Hunting? (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trophy_hunting) It is the hunting of animals for sport . And the ANIMALS that are hunted and shot are the trophies. Not the hunters. The Prey is the Trophy.

The Lion is king of the Jungle but who hunts? The Female lion. The hunter is not the King. The hunter is the chaser and the chaser has no value.

WHO'S THE TROPHY?
It's always easy to see who's the trophy and who's the hunter in any couple.

Who is more "needy"? On the streets, In photos who is always grabbing the other? Who always has their hand or arm around the other person? That's the hunter. The hunter has no value.

Look at any pictures of rich men or male celebs and stars and you'll see the WOMAN is always the one grabbing the man. Because the woman is the hunter and the man is the trophy.

Whereas pictures of ordinary couples have the MAN grabbing the woman, because the man is the hunter and the woman is the trophy.

WOMEN ARE THE PREDATORS.
The easiest way to get that girl who will worship and put you on a pedestal is for you to understand Women are the Hunters. Not men.

Girls are the Predators and boys are the Prey. God brought Eve to Adam. Eve was the hunter. Adam the prey.

Also Women have the pussy and the Womb. Lovemaking and babymaking are their jurisdiction. Weak as they are it is they who ultimately decide who gets to have sex and who gets to be born.

As a man understand and allow for that.

THE PREY IS THE PRIZE.
Seek and you shall find. And that which you'll find is the Prize. Not you. You are not the Prize. People go looking for treasure. Treasure doesn't go looking for people. We compete for a trophy, the trophy doesn't compete for us.

Whatever you seek/search for/look for, is the Prize. Whether that's a job, a place, an item or a person. It's the Prize. It's more important than you. And you can lose it to a better person than you.

Once you search, once you hunt, once you seek, the other person becomes the Prey. And the Prey is the Prize.

Remember the Prey can live without the Predator but the Predator needs the Prey to survive. The lion needs the gazelle and the kudus or it perishes. The gazelle and the kudus just need grass. So what's valuable? The prey or the predator? The Prey. The Prey is the Prize.

LET GIRLS CHOOSE.
We all have a "type". Or a "kind". Of a person who always catches our eye. We know what turns us on when we see it. That image of what turns us on is what we fantasize about and even masturbate to. Especially women. Women daydream a lot about love.

As a man, your security and longevity with a girl depends on how closely you fit the "type" and kind" of the guy she fantasizes about. The closer you align to her desire, the nearer you are to what she daydreams about, the smoother things will be for you because the more satisfied she'll be with you and the less inclined she'll be to cheat.

But you can't read minds and you don't know what a girl's fantasy is. You can't read hearts and you've no clue as to her desire. So how do you achieve the impossible and match a girl's fantasy and desire?

It's simple: YOU WAIT TO BE CHOSEN.

Wait for the girl whose fantasy matches what you are. Wait for the woman who desires a man like you. Wait for her to choose you. This way you are chosen AS YOU ARE. Without any need to do anything to impress anyone.

VIDEO.
The Pastor in the video below knows and understands the game. He knows women must choose. Watch and see how things must be done. See how much easier it is for men when women do the choosing:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tbuquJHtTuY

That's how things must be done.

The attention and affection of a woman must never be earned, bought, paid for, fought for or struggled for. It must come freely WITHOUT you doing anything but breathing.

VIDEO ANALYSIS.
Now, on the video above, WHO IS THE PRIZE? The women who did the choosing or the men who waited to be chosen? Its the men of course. The men are the Prize because they are the women's fantasy. By choosing, the women got their fantasy. But by choosing they lost their power. The women lost their power because they are the ones who are in love. Not the men.

When you love someone, that person automatically has power over you. Because when you love someone you can lie, steal, pay, toil, slave, kill or kill yourself for that person. That's the power they hold over you.

In love, you are either the Hunter who identifies, pursues and acquires your Fantasy, or you're the Fantasy identified, pursued and acquired by the Hunter. The Hunter chases and possesses the fantasy ("she's the girl of my dreams and I finally won her heart" / "he's the guy of my dreams and I finally won his heart" ). But the Hunter who gets the fantasy has LESS power because he/she is the one infatuated, in lust and in love. Not the fantasy.

The fantasy, the person you call your dream guy or dream girl, while you can't live without them, they can live without you because you are not their dream anything.

The guys in the video above, they have more power because they are chosen. The women have less power because they chose. In quarrels the women will always be reminded, "You chose me. I didn't choose you!" - The most disempowering words you can say to anyone.
But the power each man holds over his woman comes at a cost to the man: By being someone else's fantasy you deny yourself your own fantasy. Each side of the equation has its good and bad.

THE CHOSEN IS THE PRIZE.
You have power over anyone to whom you're a fantasy. And you can only be a fantasy if you're chosen.

But how do you know a woman is choosing you? Green Lights of course. No Green lights no approach.

#TheRedPill
#MGTOW [/quote]

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Romance / Re: How I’m Stylishly Getting Into My New Neighbors Pant (photo) by phexx: 8:47pm On Nov 09, 2019
Channel that energy into something ploductive

Waisrong wit u?

stupidity:
So this two working class ladies recently moved into the estate. They live together as friends and share bills. Immediately they moved in, I went to do amebor, I educated them on all what they need to know in and out the estate, showed them my house and exchanged contacts. My second visit to their home I saw a Samsung smart 4k TV with which they watch DSTV. So I tuned the TV, connected my WiFi device to the TV(my WiFi device can be used anywhere in the estate if logged in) then I set up a Netflix account on the TV.


That’s how they started watching movies burning my data day and night, they work different hours so the TV is on repeat.


So last night, I used style to chuk one of the girls pin. Told her I’d want to sample the puss. She’s not talking well at the moment.


If I don’t get to sample at least one of the girls, I’m changing my WiFi device password and as well my Netflix account password. angry angry

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Romance / Re: 10 Points To Know If A Girl Is Secretly In Love With You by phexx: 8:24am On Nov 09, 2019
Where are the points?

Business man
Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Still Call Back Those They Ignored B4? by phexx: 8:21am On Nov 09, 2019
Have u heard of MGTOW?

Men Going Their Own Way

The in thing now

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Romance / Re: 7 Ways To Improve Your Manpower Naturally by phexx: 9:00pm On Nov 08, 2019
Why should I click for full article when u are already here?

Park well joor
Romance / Re: Nilairaland Has Made Me Smart,wise & Prudent by phexx: 8:20pm On Nov 08, 2019
Finally delivered from these leeches,parasites,manipulators,deceits,pretenders,slay queens,tax collectors,ATM mentality.

The list goes on...

Politics / Re: Kyari, SGF In Shouting March As Osinbajo Turns Down Sack Of Aides by phexx: 6:17pm On Nov 07, 2019
Fake news abii
Ok


Mariory:
Fake News!

Politics / Re: Names Of Osinbajo’s Aides Fired By Buhari by phexx: 6:11pm On Nov 07, 2019
What!!!


benkk015:
Why would a VP have over 99 aides?? In an under developed country like nigeria,Buhari pls fire more.

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Romance / Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by phexx: 7:50pm On Nov 06, 2019
What A Word

"When somebody takes u as an option, never take that person as a priority"

Wow


tetralogyfallot:
Unrequited love is the most painful thing in this world. Yes, i have been in a "situationship" where the girl diverts all my love to another person and the saddest aspect is that the guy doest even love her. The more i press further to love her the more she hates me, my guys i have to go spiritual before God finally relieved me of her love. Shes now begging me pants down to consider her but God has given me a better n loving girl. When somebody takes u as an option, never take that person as a priority.
Politics / Re: See New Social Media Bill Introduced By The Senate by phexx: 11:08am On Nov 06, 2019
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