dominique:


OMG these bloggers are something else! How on earth was that bragging for goodness sake?

I feel so bad for their kids

The kids would be fine. They won't be the first.

I do hope 1 of the SUVs is available to the estranged wife, and her and the kids maintain a good standard of living. This one it took a 2nd wife for him to be giving her money per second.

BlueRayDick:


In all of these, their innocent kids are the victims. Both the husband and wife have their faults

Indeed they do. The wife scored her own goal when she put Jarùs inside bottle. She played into his hands there.

GloriousGbola:
https://arbiterz.com/money-for-homes-interview-suraj-tunji-oyewale/

GenZ baddie go come live for the house.
Wahala for 1st wife o.😂😂😂😂😂

BlueRayDick:


No he didn't brag about it. His first post admitting it , he said it was in the middle of the night and the woman provoked him which made him lose his cool.

I didn't see where he bragged about it

"I beat her a couple of times".

"She sat on me once in the middle of the night".

"I have tried to be a good husband in the past 3 months"

The remaining times when she wasn't sitting on him, why did he beat her?

Has he been a bad husband for 13yrs and 9months?

TheSuperX:
So na wetin I talk pain you? Pele. 😂

You know what just install IPTV on your TV, that's if you can and subscribe to the monthly subscription, you can watch all DSTV channels with thousands of channels available, both foreign and local with just 2k plus per month, the channels on IPTV dosen't consume much data, 120GB will last you atleast for a month. Cheers.

I am not interested in your story. Have you finally agreed you know nothing about the subject matter and my TV indeed consumes that much data? Next time do not display the dumbness you hate. If topic pass you, sit it out.

BlueRayDick:


Bloggers always aim at destroying something while milking a trending issue 🤦‍♂️

Imagine the wicked caption ! They highlighted the fact that he is a popular real estate developer and then proceed to claim “he bragged “

They just set him for premium dragging

If you know Instablog, you will know they have the most useless captions.

Theflint1:
Crazy thing is it could even be a sponsored post.

I doubt it is. I just saw it on another page now. This is the kinda bad marriage news people like. So blogs just copy themselves for the traffic.

Oh No!!!

Instablog has the most indicting captions.

raumdeuter:


I am interested in this bold part. How does this work

Do you know any woman who is an expert at building men, I might need to see her for some mentorship

If Jarùs himself was once all over NL admitting to her influence and support in his growth, he would be in a better position to explain to you how it works and where to find such women.

GloriousGbola:


I believe am older than Jarus. Probably by two to three years. Jarus and Dayo should be same age group

He looks way older than you. I have seen the picture that started the drama and a 40yrs old man shouldn't even play polygamy that way. You don't see Ned jumping upandan Regina's comment section. Comport yourself!

GloriousGbola:


I was checking the girls thread and wondering about the prominent nose ring. So 21 tracks. But I weak sha. All these genz chicks just dey form. Like wtf does a 20 year old want with a 40 year old? What are they even going to talk about? No wonder madam dey vex.

Is Jarus 40? He looks almost 50.

Theflint1:
Lol, it was probably a waist bead from her waist, guess so Jarus is attracted to her waist and not the new wife's

Omo. This polygamy no easy o. This thing is painful, but she didn't have to go that far. Either you stay or you leave.

BlueRayDick:


It will be difficult for a man to trust a woman who put his name and his new wife's name inside a bottle with waist bead inside.

I'm not sure u saw the videos he posted before they were deleted. There were native soaps here and there, the bros was so scared he had to recite Quran verses while making videos of them.

Ah. Our senior wife went far o.😂😂
What is the significance of the waist bead? Make them no knack ni?

dominique:


J during his Facebook days was always gushing about now wife, her sound words advice which helped him make his best financial decisions, her impeccable homemaking and entrepreneurship skills etc. They were always posting lovely family photos. It's so sad that things could spiral down to this level. Polygamy brings about nothing but the worst in people and it tears families apart.

Yes, he always spoke good of her on Nairaland too and he posted their holiday pictures. I remember him for that more than his intellectual posts.

Polygamy indeed brings out the worst in people. Once a man cheats or gets a 2nd wife, your wife stops looking at you as a partner but an opponent. Her game plan is to outsmart you and the other woman for the good of her kids.

iamoyindamola:

And he sounded like it was a compulsory life and death mission in Islam
When he said he wants to exercise is islamic right by taking a second wife

Hahahaha. I read as him reminding us it is permissible in Islam.

GloriousGbola:


oh well . . the new wife does not look that hot to me
infact if anything she looks like an open eye chick

i am not really surprised at Jarus wife reaction. most educated women who grow up in polygamous settings actively seek out men who they believe will not be the same.

a woman who witnessed her mother being relegated to the background will not want the same fate for herself.

I have never seen a man that married a 2nd wife wey calm pass the first o. So I am not surprised she is an open eye chick. This is why I don't buy the peace of mind your brothers dey always claim. The 2nd is most times a baddie. She would do things the 1st would never have dared to do and get away with it because baba done calm by virtue of age and more funds.

BlueRayDick:


Let me just say the truth.

if the wife is my sister, I will explore every legal angle to make sure she get a cut of the wealth he has built within the past 14 years they were together. It is obvious the marriage has broken down and fences can't be mended anymore

I am surprised it is after 14yrs he is giving her money to buy land and mentioning the things he has done in bulk. The woman suppose vex na. 14yrs she has been playing the understanding wife game, all for one small girl to overtake. He shouldn't have allowed it get to this point. If the 1st wife was so bad, the 2nd won't find him desirable to marry.

He did what he had to do and I don't fault him for that. Their religion permits. He just needs more tact.

izzou:
But wetin Muslim woman see, wey make am leave Alfa, go find Cele Pastor?

Omoh!!!

Naija men fit turn atheist to deeper life prayer warrior. Una dey do strong things.😂😂

BlueRayDick:


The bold is the summary of what happened to that bros.

I perused his account of the whole event and I didn't see anywhere he mentioned she was a bad wife or that she had inadequacies that necessitated him getting a new wife. It just appears as though baba is financially capable and he decided to get a second wife.

The wife is hurt and decides to resist the move through diabolical means and baba catches her which led to the whole fight/domestic violence and he eventually sending her packing.

I remember reading one of his old interviews where he spoke about how his wife advised him to sell his range rover to complete his house that was under construction. It is only normal for such woman who believe she's part of ur success story to resist another woman coming into the picture.

This is where I agree with Izzòu that he is honest. He has made the case easier for both counsels . First he admitted to domestic violence, then he made us know she did nothing. That way we don't have to assume she wasn't giving him peace of mind. Baba did what he wanted to do.

That was how I knew him too o. I was shocked when I saw Jarùs on my feed. I was thinking it is another Jarùs. He was always speaking good of his wife. Her money and home management skills. E reach to go CELE o. He should sha not allow her leave. If he has to beg, he should keep begging.

GloriousGbola:


na - i have not seen his wife pic , but from is days on this platform and from others accounts the woman is HOT. Jarus has always said he would likely take another wife.

as an ilorin guy, it is actually more the norm.

I have seen the first wife. He was quite open with his life way back on NL. With all due respect, she wasn't "HOT". She looked like the average devout muslimah. Maybe the second is the HOT one.

izzou:


Well, true.

But after i read everything this morning, it didn't change anything.

All i saw was a honest man who had made mistakes.

In all, may marital issues that will reveal the beast hiding inside never come our way.

Nothing honest about beating your wife "a couple of times". That was a serious own goal. Also no woman would take polygamy lying low. Except she had/has her own plans from the beginning. I have a uni mate that went into polygamy fully prepared. She sef na agaracha and she clearly said she can't be with a monogamous man.

I do hope we can all agree that men (and women) grow into their taste of partners as they have more means. As a broke student, I was sure I didn't have a spec in men. It is foolhardy to assume one's husband cannot stray because she built with him.

GloriousGbola:
this is the REALITY of polygamy. not all the fantasies being bandied about that women will just accept it like that because you have money
the wife who has probably been a devout muslim to this point was so disturbed that she went to meet a CELE pastor.

TheSuperX:
This is what I was expecting and I wasn't disappointed, next you will say that I don't have a house too. this is how dumb faceless people on a faceless forum can be. 😂😂

You weren't dumb when you claimed I was lying over data usage. But you remember dumbness now you are given a taste of your medicine? Tell me the model of your TV that uses 2GB to stream 4k. Leave deflections.

Omoluabi16:
the second one with parking gel wey the cloth be like suspenders. It seemed like she was almost in tears. And then with that multitude there...Lagos aso ebi girls need to be calming down.

Hhaahahahahahahahaha! Oh my God!
It is not parking gel. I am choking here!
That is a frontal. A well laid one I must add.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

The fact that you know "parking gel". Who teaches you guys these things?😂😂😂😂

Truly she seems like the calmer one. I hope they made it in sha.

Twoclans:
This looks like a robbery ,but then is that an efcc crested jacket or are my eyes getting weak

The hotel should investigate and clear this up.

As in ehn. See the way they were scanning the room for valuables or something incriminating to pin on her. It is EFCC o. Operating like robbers.

Omoluabi16:
Like!! This thing no suppose move any guy again. Every turn bress bress bress everywhere. The coming generation must be taught to value their self esteem and work on their characters, inner/outer beauty without reminding the world kpe dem get am for chest. Very shameful.

Ps. I just watch and I felt quite sorry for them. Especially the second lady.

Hahaha. Which one of then is the second lady? I feel bad for both. They are both beautiful indeed and the dresses didn't help in anyway. They would have been classy with something decent.

Sterope:
50 years from now, we would be walking around naked and we are going to say it is freedom of choice.

And one knucklehead might ask what is wrong with it. Some people would call white black to counter who they don't like.

The time they spent at the entrance wasn't as shameful as the outfits they had on and the reactions it brought them. You could clearly see the aerola of the taller lady falling out.

How do you buy fabric and give a tailor to sew this? It doesn't look nice for a start.

TheSuperX:
You are irredeemable, village girl. 😂

That is not the subject.
Post the model of your 70 inches smart TV that streams 4k with 2GB.

TheSuperX:
It seems you know more about this thing, I might consider getting a smart box so that I can see the difference of what you are talking about, thank you for the information.

Also you know you can use IPTV on laptop right?

Of course he does. That is why you can clearly see him say it is possible to exhaust 120GB. While you are here saying it is a lie. You don't have any 4k TV. Sit it out next time.

ItisWell22:


Omooo… it’s well.

In other words, person gatz really work and walk with heightened instincts these days.

Everywhere dey red. 😢

If you are not someone that eats "bush meat" or those roasted, brown, dry and/or excessively thick ponmo, then you are safe. They will never pass it off as beef in the main market. But if you just walk up to them and say you want to buy, they will sell give you.

ItisWell22:
Snake??

Do they tell people buying it’s snake meat?

It is not sold by the regular butchers. Na mostly those women dey sell am. No, they don't tell you, but you go know say the meat no pure. Based on a near-experience in her sister state.

Farfalla:


I admire your optimism.

Lol! Strangely many Nigerians wish them well.

TheSuperX:
Look at this village girl? where did I claim that I streamed 4k with 2GB?

My problem with people like you is that you guys will never learn, just imagine someone that can't operate a smart TV telling me that I don't know the difference between screen size and resolution just because I said that I'm using a 70" smart TV, abi na wetin dey make you jealous? 😂😂

This question should be directed at you. Wetin dey make you jealous?

Captain__FM1:


He is using smart TV instead of smart box. Yes smart TV can consume that much within days...

This is another response to you. You are the one to learn as you obviously know nothing on how resolution can affect data consumption.

Mention that your TV model wey dey use 2GB stream 4k in a month.

TheSuperX:
Look at this village girl? where did I claim that I streamed 4k with 2GB?

My problem with people like you is that you guys will never learn, just imagine someone that can't operate a smart TV telling me that I don't know the difference between screen size and resolution just because I said that I'm using a 70" smart TV, abi na wetin dey make you jealous? 😂😂

You don't know. Take your L and rest.

j_maine:


You quoted a guy using GLO network that is renowned for being very slow and frustrating, except in places where they are good. A times, you can subscribe for 1GB plan and won't finish due to their lethargic network.

Now let me ask you a simple question. Did you bother to consider that the lady TV could be streaming above 1080P:60 FPS that is a data guzzler at a rate of 3GB per hour, if the TV has 4K quality we are talking in excess of 6GB/hour. If her said visitor watches TV (4K) in a 4 - 5-hour stretch, that's approximately a 24 -30GB data burn.

The challenge I usually have with some of you is that you think your reality is always the law. No, it isn't. Always have an open mindset. .

This was his post to you.

TheSuperX:
What if in his area GLO network is very strong? where I stay GLO is strong too but I do prefer AIRTEL network instead, I do subscribe for 240GB and 280GB in a month and they last me even when I download, steam and do every other things and my TV is a 70" smart TV.

This was your response. E say na my TV is 70 inches... Go and pick beans. You don't stream on a 4k.

Say the brand and model of your 70 inches 4k TV. Let me fact check how many GB it will use in an hour. Since you use 2GB for one month.

TheSuperX:
I guess that's the only thing you know, I know you can't operate a smart TV, don't lie.

at the bolded, I know the difference between screen resolution and size so the joke is on you. 😂

You know the difference and your response was "I have a 70 inches TV"?

Shebi na you dey operate this one for me? Different people are here teaching you resolution and data consumption, you still dey argue. Soon you will indeed claim to stream 4k without internet.

Which 4k are you streaming for 1 month with 2GB? Oniro oshi.