Amigoss:


Pocohantas,how far

How far what, exactly?
You extracted a post from a thread where Annie Idibia, a senior virtuous woman was crying, to ask me how far on a day where her jnr colleague is going same path.

Are you trying to tell me that is the dividend of being virtuous? Tears and watching videos of your husband beg to put the tip? I am curious as to why you think this question eats.

folake4u:
Women that knowingly marry wandering preeks are trying. I don't envy them, they're God's strongest soldiers.

Why? You don't want to be picked by redpillers? You are missing o.

Proserpina:
The first part of his response caught my attention so I read till the end. And as usual it ended badly. Imagine! These are the same set of people who will encourage fellow men to marry again when they get out of bad marriages. Why don't they use the same logic that the next woman may be worst and remain with their bad partners.

The safety and emotional well-being of Nigerian women has never been the concern of most Nigerian men. As long as they can feed her it ends there for most of them. Do they even consider how women feel at all?

Help me ask oooo. They say we leave good men to follow bad men.

They don't care at all. Definitely not about the quality of the marriage. They just want to own the woman and enjoy the status of being married. How do you refuse to behave well, but want to remain "happily married" to an (obviously) unhappy woman?

Their logic is simply disguised wickedness and gaslighting.

Proserpina:
Are you saying all Nigerian men are promiscuous? You mean there are no men who loyal and sexually disciplined?

I was about to respond until I saw that part. Just knew say na them and ignored. If a woman says "all men cheat", they will ask "including your father?"

But when they want to blackmail women into staying in these marriages, they will suddenly remember the next might be worse. So who are these good men they claim we ignored for the bad guys?

HIV drugs are free at government hospitals I believe. As for your mum, early detection is key, abi how them dey talk am?

When they say women should endure like the mothers of old, I guess this is what they mean.

You are not earning in Naira.
You are earning in Pounds. Please stop converting and pay the money

dominique:


They're still praising Judy as Yul's "peace of mind" till shit hits the fan. Then they'll suddenly remember that she's an olosho that left her marriage to get pregnant by another woman's husband. Till then, she's a wise woman that is keeping her marriage unlike May that couldn't fight for her marriage to a serial cheat.

We know how it goes. Judy should better remain there and make it work.

hurryup123:
The were fighting inside the room and the said guy heat her something on the head.
According to neighbors in the guys residence

It is obvious she was beaten and "he" hit her on the head. Nothing concern food poisoning with those bruises on her body.

GloriousGbola:


The annoying thing is, it does not matter if she is wayward. The deaths of girls visiting guys is an indictmemt of men, not women. And if this is pursued to its logical conclusion it is men, not women that will find that it is impossible to get laid because women will be ultra paranoid about visiting them.

Soon olosho will also be putting caveat, we do not so business with Nigerian men.

That is why I don't trust NL on this kinda news. They deliberately twist facts to deviate attention from the crime.

Her friend sent this unfortunate event to a blog on behalf of the family and they know the guy. They knew she was with him because she told them she would go to his place from work and they come together to her parents house as they were set to marry. Food poisoning doesn't leave someone with scars, head bumbs and red flesh. If Charles didn't beat her, he should tell the police who did. There must have been history of violence that she hid from her family.

Either Punch twisted the story for traffic or to make her look like olosho like they always do when a young woman dies. Her family clearly said she is dating the young man and he is well known to them. The picture and video of her corpse shows battery and forceful impact to the head.

You guys should allow women rest in peace. Stop twisting the narrative to make every young woman who died in the hands of a man look wayward. Thank you!

dominique:
On today's episode of "let's cook up another story for people stupid enough to believe us"

A woman that has made up her mind to go through the lengthy EXPENSIVE process of divorce will not "cry out" that her husband remarried. Even if she does, she won't come online to social media to wail. In most cases, the one half of the couple that finds it hard to accept that the other half has moved on is most the men. They're the ones always stalking and harassing their ex wives who are more than relieved to be away from them. One most recent example is that Davido houseboy Israel or whatever his name is.

Alfa mails go back to your cooking pots and cook another story, this one no sweet at all.

They will support the second wife until she is the one goung through shege. They supported Precious until FFK started battering her. Then they remembered she should have stayed away given his history with women.

This is just another tale that never happened. I wouldn't know why they cook up these stories to subtly discourage women from leaving abusive marriages even when they claim marriage doesn't favour then. A man just married the second wife. So much for not benefitting from marriage.

Nazgul:

According to his story, he makes 55k weekly and he's looking for how to save that money in order to reduce the way he lavishes it.

55k weekly is peanuts in this Nigerian economy. Cos it's less than 300k in a month.

But that doesn't mean that if he saves it in dollar for a year he can't invest it in a side hustle, thus increasing his streams of income.

Look at it his way. $100 currently is about 136k. his 55k weekly would be about 220k (or more) every month.

If he saves $100 for 12 months, it would be about $1,200 with the current exchange rate it should give him about 1.6m. If naira depreciates more, he'll definitely have up to 2m by the end of one year.

If you ask me, I'd say that money can be put into good use. He can even set up a POS stand and be making good profit every week.

But wait o! Wetin carry Manu enter this matter, do you want to become a Manu fan? You're free to join us if you love the club that much. I'll even welcome you with one jersey when the season resumes by August.

I understand all this. But I was also wondering how 55k a week is living lavishly when a paint of garri is N4500. Maybe he doesn't pay rent and lavish is relative.

I mentioned ManU because I wanted to believe he is a footballer and the 55k weekly is not in Naira. Nothing personal as ManU is my first love.

Nazgul:
Open a dollar account in any of the commercial banks and transfer half of what you earn into it every week.

As the naira keeps tumbling, the value of the money you're saving in dollars would keep increasing without you having to break a sweat.

After a year, buy a land in your state capital and build a residential block of flats for rent.

Thank me later

Is the 55k he mentioned dollars?
Is he playing for ManU or what?

Ishilove:
I wonder why almost everyone is blaming the girls alone and absolving the son of the devil who was using social media to lure women to their deaths. For those saying these killers go into ritual murders to impress women, would you say the same thing about this Andrew individual, who, from all indications was just a sick, sadistic fvck and that sadism was his main motivation, not just money?

Stop the selective blame allocation. If you, as a man feel the only way to impress a woman is to start murdering and butchering your fellow human beings and selling their organs for money, then you deserve to be hanged and your corpse thrown into the evil forest.

Ritual killing is a choice so you people spewing rubbish about hook up girls are almost as bad as the killers.

Something the werey has been doing in the UK. E reach Nigeria turn, they are digging videos from first week of April. Weeks before she met Andrew. Information on IG is that a top politician signed the invitation that let him into the country because he was wanted in the UK. His friend said he is a psychopath, but trust NL logical people to defend anything.

Proserpina:
I don't know o . She's Saidaboj and stays in Agbor Delta but I've seen people address her as Saidat

Hahaha. Then it might be her name.
Lovely name though. Never expected the Agbor, Delta. Would have guessed Benin or Lagos.

Proserpina:
True that!

Most Nigerians value and celebrate mediocrity

But is her name really SAIDAT?
The 20m girl.

Proserpina:
We hardly see or hear of those achieving greatness but the likes of Saidat won't let us rest on soso media

Oh well, if the likes of Saidat are not being followed, they won't get publicity and traffic. This thread might not go beyond 2 pages and even if she has an IG account, she would struggle to get 100k followers.

saasala:


That shoe on your profile. Do you sell it?

Hahaha. Don't make me laugh abeg.
I don't sell it. You wanna buy for your wife?

Anonymous2024:
Everything written there is 100% genuine. Cheers

Okay Sir. Her conversations or moves with him are indeed suspicious. If you feel that is enough reason to divorce, by all means do. 🙏

Fiscus105:



Which wife would be having screenshot from her concubines on her phone at all time? Not even when the concubine is husband's friend.

The writeup is already a clue that this is another story to rile NLders up. No man with an adulterous wife would be on NL writing like Shakespeare. But if at all it is true and he wants to divorce, he should divorce. I can't beg any man not to leave his wife. Men don't benefit from marriage.

cococandy:


That’s what grinds my gores

Once someone says that, they belong in the trash bin in my opinion. Because they have absolutely no clue the myriads of things that can go wrong from the moment la leading up to and even days after giving birth

Exactly! It is how quickly things can go wrong and a life is lost. A very big trashbin to be specific.

And some people say a woman giving birth is akin to a goat doing same? Ah!

RIP to mother and child.
This is a painful loss.

Proserpina:
"What are you" that we would honour you with our pictures?

I am curious...

Seun362:


The man will need to change his stance someday, pikin na pikin o

He may not. Some men turn their back and it remains turned. What I don't understand is how the guy got to hate her so much. From the conversations she spilled, they had a relationship. I guess he felt she wanted to trap him with pregnancy.

Villa12:
poor old cargo
Your Ugliness no be here
Post your poor ugly children too na
Poor man like you wey dey live for 3rd world country
Your shame dey shame me

If he can repeat old hag and evening newspaper for 2 days while feeling like a champion, I see no reason you can't repeat ugly. Leave the kids out of it though. I hate when people insult children.

folake4u:


A man that talks too much is even a big RED FLAG. Red map sef.

He can talk all he wants if he were the victim. But no one mentioned this dude na. He jumped out of nowhere and made himself the main character. Ahnahn! 😂😂😂

Proserpina:
I'm not surprised sha with two passovers across his hairline it's obvious sense will definitely fly over his head without restraints. Plus people with face like draw soup no dey ever get sense. No offense

He said we are bullying him.... Lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 . Bully bawo?

No one bullied him. He is trying hard to make himself the victim, but he is not. He came for me with extreme insults and I handled him the best way a mad man can be handled. It is not that e pass me, but I recognise his ailment.

Nothing I saw in those pictures was humbling. Absolutely nothing. There are things that can pass my eyes, not his pictures and I respect my fellow woman enough not to drag her or insult her kids. Let's thank God ladies are civil not to cross certain lines in banter. If a woman was stupid to post her family pictures for the guys here. Hmmmm!

Twoclans:


That is eh .

Haba ,a man ohhh .

If I ever come across his type he will kill me within 2 days , because I can't stand this level of talking.

Hahahahaha
He wants to show us there are men that talk more than women. Like he hasn't been the one doing all the insulting and outburst.

Proserpina:
You dey mind him?
Lol imagine uploading his wife's pictures to make a point. I'm speechless.

Hahaha. Now he has switched to we claimed his wife is on NL. It is no more I said I am finer than her. One hell of a psycho. Still not rated.