@poster
The possibility of having children with sickle cell is high,, if u are both ready to deal with the issues of having sickle cell children, then marry her, but if u are not , please wish her well and let her be, i know its hard,
but its better to face reality now, than for both of u to go through a life of misery which u know u could have prevented.

i think its both

i was hooked up with my wife through her cousin
but before i meet her in person, we spent alot of time talking on the phone, and i feel in love with her personality before i met her,very easy going.
but when i saw her pic for the first time, i was shocked she is very gorgeous, i am not joking,, 10/10 ,but yet humble.
now i know why she hesitated to send me her pic at first, cos most guys come to her cos of her physical beauty.

@dyabman

Its ok to be upset!! cos u know its very true, or u are stiil to young to understand these things

@geolabious

what i mean is "most" guys will think " Na because we be agemate, thats why she dey talk to me anyhow, , if i had a younger girl she will not dare talk to me that way"
but in fairness to the lady she is just reacting just the same way some other girl will, but most commonly guys tend to interpret it different cos of the ego.

Men have Egos, which is very normal or expected, but it becomes negative when u are with someone ur age or older

Typical scenerio( Example)

when u have a younger girl, and u guys get into an arguement, and she says something that is quite insulting, u will most likely overlook it cos u would say "Na small pickin dey worry am". u will easily forgive her, and she will love u more cos, u understand that she is young and immature.

but when the girl is ur agemate or older in same situation, u will feel more insulted cos of our "Male Ego", and it will be difficult for u to deal with, then she will think " u are acting immature", and she knows if u were older, u will overlook it.women know these things, its very normal.

@dyabman

Not always true, check these two scenerios

Man(38), Woman(33)
Man(43), Woman(23)

i think the second scenerio will fit into ur steroetype, , most likely not the first one won't.

I meant avoid it, it may work for some, but for most folks it won't

I think there is more meat to the topic, anybody can marry anybody, but the true hidden question is " will the marriage work?", alot of folks have highlighted some factors, especially in our nigerian culture,  just to add some

1. Respect. this is very important in our Nigerian culture, (i have seen alot of Nigerian marriages that have failed due to this especially in the U.S)
2. Level of reasoning,
3. Level of exposure
4. Women want men they can look up to
5. Physical apearance( i hate to say this, but unfortunately its true), no woman wants to look older than her husband)

from my personal experience and experiences of people i know. i hope this helps,
word of advice dont get into a relationship with ur agemate and waste years before u realise that it will lead nowhere. nip in the bud! Good luck!!!

For Guys, when u marry a girl younger the chances of the marriage working is 50%/50%, but when u marry ur agemate then the chances of it working is 20%/80% with chances of failure been 80%.

I think we are all missing the point here,, these so called leaders are thieves, they care less about the suffering masses in nigeria, they live in big houses, drive fancy cars and shop in luxury places,, while the poor noble nigerians are struggling to make ends meet, no light, no water, no good roads,no job, they have brought shame to Nigeria, and deserve to be punished at any means, in my opinion, they deserve the death sentence in Texas!!Period!!!

the artist is simply very creative !!

requirements vary from school to school,and country to country, so u have to be more specific