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Should I Be This Sad by Nobody: 3:45am On Apr 04, 2021 |
introvertlady: |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by Pointblank09(m): 3:53am On Apr 04, 2021 |
Dear poster, pick yourself up and do what you desire to do you will be happy at the end |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by Nobody: 3:53am On Apr 04, 2021 |
People would mock me ok n everything I endured just to be better in the future, and I'm still backward. I ask myself if I was wasting my years but i keep looking back and seeing how I have spent every month working tirelessly. Everyone would mock me for not achieving anything |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by Nobody: 3:57am On Apr 04, 2021 |
Pointblank09:I'm depressed,I don't have energy to do anything these days. Everyone mocks me, they will tell me how I should have been going to parties, enjoying myself etc. These are families People would ask what University,I will either tell them I don't go to university or I'm in 100level. I look very young and pretty,so they like to ask me that question alot. Everyone reminds me how I wasted time doing bsc and msc |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by ipobarecriminals: 5:35am On Apr 04, 2021 |
![]() and fall.Does that mean the child will not stand/walk again? Ask Men/women that make it in life.Some didn't just wake up and pluck money on the tree.They struggle, stumbled many times untill dey shine.By the way,where is Ur location introvertlady: |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by lilvicky68(m): 5:51am On Apr 04, 2021 |
Motivate yourself..that's the best motivation 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by Twittyt: 7:20am On Apr 04, 2021 |
@OP be yourself, satisfied, happy, don't always look at what people around you are saying, If you think in your mind you are doing what is expected of you, why do you want to be sad? My dear, when you are happy and fulfilled, kill all bad and negative comment around you because it's suck and will continue to weigh you down and be depressed. Finally, always look happy, be motivated and stay positive . 1 Like |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by Karleb(m): 7:24am On Apr 04, 2021 |
I know it's hard but start trying to enjoy life. |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by VicM6: 7:45am On Apr 04, 2021 |
who knows mayb na guy dey use woman format for us here..... Anyway, you aren't depressed, you are jst weak to stand up and fight for what belongs to u...... it might be spiritual battles or more. |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by Macchiavelli(m): 11:06am On Apr 04, 2021 |
No matter where you are in this life,e get person wey dey struggle to attain your feat..in other words 'there is someone out there trying to be like you' ..better know that.. |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by obinna58(m): 11:21am On Apr 04, 2021 |
If I can attribute/match your story in a real life experience then you're the cause of your problems. You finished uni Attained masters That's people's dream, you're just mentally poor and doesn't know how to spend money. Rebuild your life. |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by FanOfMyself: 11:49am On Apr 04, 2021 |
Have you considered learning computer programming/software development? I can teach you if you are serious |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by Nobody: 11:57am On Apr 04, 2021 |
Introvertlady, never give up keep climbing, don't soil your hand or conscience like those u said. I believe if you work hard and smart, keeping God in the Big Picture tins wld work out. |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by Nobody: 11:59am On Apr 04, 2021 |
FanOfMyself:pls sir/ma can u teach me, what will it cost pls can I give u a dm?? |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by FanOfMyself: 12:01pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
smart1204:090 74191 547 chat me up on whtsapp |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by Nobody: 12:02pm On Apr 04, 2021 |
FanOfMyself:ok I'm doing it right away |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by Nobody: 5:49am On Apr 08, 2021 |
Twittyt:Thanks |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by Drsnives(m): 10:11am On Apr 08, 2021 |
Op pm me let's talk |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by healthbing(f): 10:24am On Apr 08, 2021 |
I understand how you feel.. I can sew,bake,weave do many things but i haven't been able to use any of those skills a learnt to make money because of the capital and time.. But at every stage of my life I have come to realize that no knowledge is ever a waste.. Again it's important as a lady or guy to look good.. Looking good doesn't actually mean you're not well-behaved or loose.. Just be decent and dress well. You don't have to wear rags or look tattered because you're pursing a dream or you want to be different.. cleanliness is next to godliness they say.. My dear you should be proud of yourself because you're great and there is only one you which is you.. I understand at a point in life we feel depressed when things are not going the way it is supposed but in everything we keep moving. Life is a risk Life is a lesson Life is a story Life is a process Life is a journey Life is a step Don't be in a rush.. You can't go round the whole world in a day the same with life .You can't make it in a day. The foundation of a building determines how strong it will be. The foundation of your life determines how long you will go.. Take it a step at a time and don't be in a rush . Take risk where necessary. Follow the story and process..learn the lesson and continue with the journey. The most important thing is never give up on the way.. Just take things easy and don't over work yourself.. One-day it will pay just a matter of time. Just understand one thing 'do what makes you happy and don't try to impress anybody'.. I pray God sees you through 1 Like |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by SeunDobo(m): 7:51am On Apr 09, 2021 |
I know how you feel and i understand , firstly you have to learn the work that you are passionately about forget if you don't have all the tools right away but believe me you gat all the necessary tools soon ! life is gradually by gradually .. If you really like the tailoring job stalk with it and look for where you can learn it more and be professional about it .. Learning different job make you as nuisance , and unserious type of person which mean your Determination is failing you .. you need to believe in yourself and the future and do the work that you are passionate about only and I believe that's open way for your dream ! More over you can still look for teaching work now to Carter for your need ok ! look for boyfriend that plan future with you , if you never found one , you rather stay single to balance yourself Always be yourself and don't copy anyone ... Less I forget Am introvert Guy but am trying to be mingle with people's now little by littles because it's help alot Hope you dont masturbate ? because it cause set back in someone life and make you depressed and make you feel like you cant make it anymore ... If you don't masturbate Good ! but if you dey do please stop today thanks!!! |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by Pointblank09(m): 10:51pm On Apr 10, 2021 |
[quote] I'm depressed,I don't have energy to do anything these days. Everyone mocks me, they will tell me how I should have been going to parties, enjoying myself etc. These are families People would ask what University,I will either tell them I don't go to university or I'm in 100level. I look very young and pretty,so they like to ask me that question alot. Everyone reminds me how I wasted time doing bsc and msc[/qu Enjoy yourself. Turn the mockery to point of strength and move on. Don't abandon your good friends and make new ones. Also reach out to we NL friends. We make you happy and laugh again. Life is worth living please. |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by NobleDeSage001: 12:30am On Apr 11, 2021 |
From your story, your are now your own problem, not the people around you, because you have accepted defeat. This is the worst thing that can happen to a man. You are an A-list graduate, your results alone could have fetched you jobs. Go on LinkedIn, set up your profile and apply for jobs like a hungry lion. Get a job, start working and rearrange your life. Send me an email or drop your WhatsApp contact for me. All you need is encouragement. The people around have not helped your matter. And you have allowed their opinion shape your thoughts about your life. Let's talk... |
Re: Should I Be This Sad by Tintedsino: 6:08pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Where do u live ![]() |
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