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Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Blastedholligan: 6:49am On Oct 06, 2021 |
maureensylvia:i ain't got time for fights. I only wanted you to feel empathy and not give any advice according to societal views. If you were in his shoes, what would be the first thought in your mind? Sometimes, it's not every post one should engage in, especially in sensitive issues that you have not experience or full knowledge on how to handle. Learn to sit somethings out. If you can't get it, you ciao. Let's talk about rice. You think I wanna joke with that? |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by ddeola: 6:50am On Oct 06, 2021 |
Father please in your mercy intervene and heal the dad and restore this family in Jesus name. |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by maureensylvia(f): 6:55am On Oct 06, 2021 |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Redoil: 7:01am On Oct 06, 2021 |
Richy4:lecturers in nigeria are very wicked and mostly sadist it seems you are not in nigeria or you attended a private university |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Spidermon: 7:02am On Oct 06, 2021 |
SportsHD: |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Krystalzkris(f): 7:03am On Oct 06, 2021 |
Go ahead... You don't have the resources to make him better. He's not going to get better without them. Just let him go and rest.. |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Redoil: 7:05am On Oct 06, 2021 |
KufreDavid:prophet or herbalist |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Enyimbamercedes: 7:12am On Oct 06, 2021 |
So you come to the social media to ask if you should murder your dad? Look in the mirror and ask yourself; it is for a selfless or selfish reason? Is it because he is in pains and suffering and doesn’t deserve to live a degraded quality of life or is it because you have spent so much or are spending so much and you feel that his presence in this world is a burden to you all. When you’ve done this, think again of the man who made sacrifices and worked to bring you to the stage that you are right now as you look in that mirror. When you’ve completed this task, ask yourself who really should be euthanized between the two of you |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Nobody: 7:13am On Oct 06, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:? Is a question mark |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Acidosis(m): 7:15am On Oct 06, 2021 |
You guys should brainstorm on how to get a nanny. Your mom should be encouraged 'cos marriage is "for better, for worse". It's unfortunate she had to deal with the worse but hey, that's marriage for you! It can go either ways and everyone going into marriage should actually prepare for the worse while hoping for the best. Letting him go after 12 years does not seem like a good idea. Like you have mentioned, the situation wasn't this bad until 4 years ago when he couldn't do certain things by himself. 4 years ago is 2017 bro! (i.e. beginning of Buhari's second tenure not even the first or GEJ era). You guys shouldn't give up. If you have to seek help online, from government, media houses, etc. please do. No one prays to be in this situation and to be fair you and your mom have done really well. |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by holusormi(m): 7:19am On Oct 06, 2021 |
ModelLook: Shebi it’s free na ? |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Nobody: 7:21am On Oct 06, 2021 |
Enyimbamercedes: Calling it murder is both unfair and wrong. People deserve to die with dignity. That is every mans dream! Do you think that was the state his father would want to be for 15 years if he was competent to make a decision? It's unfortunate how things turned out, but no one would ever want to be in a position where he cannot care for himself, socialize and cannot communicate. He is suffering and some one needs to make that decision for him |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by amNIGERIA: 7:22am On Oct 06, 2021 |
Do into others as you will others to do unto you. If you are sick like your dad, what will want him to dp to you? Sickness can befall any human, including you, what will want your children do to you? Omorotionmwann: |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by alizma: 7:23am On Oct 06, 2021 |
Obaxxx:The pain and agony that is bringing now is something you can control but a curse is one you or your children will likely not be able to control. He doesn't need to kill him, all he need to do now is limit his expenditure to what they can afford, if it means Robb and hot water only, that is fine till natural death comes. |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by YourFavorite21(m): 7:23am On Oct 06, 2021 |
Please get a Nanny or somebody, that will be taking care of him, so that you and your mum will have time to go to work, Don't kill the man, how will you live with that guilt "that you killed your father" pls don't do that, when he's time comes he will go, you and your mum have really tried. |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Misternas89(m): 7:34am On Oct 06, 2021 |
keeper303:Yes I’ve tried it on him, little improvement was observed. But I’ve stopped lately due to some financial constraints. Snails for where I dey now na gold+diamond put together. And guy man don over spent with zero account balance. All is well sha.....Thanks for the mention brotherly. |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by YourFavorite21(m): 7:35am On Oct 06, 2021 |
Richy4:oga, you never jam wicked lecturers that's why u dey type this thing, there are some lecturers that are competing with devil in terms of wickedness, especially lecturers in universities around South South and South East Region, they are pure devil's incarnate no excuse can change or soften their stony heart o,E no concern them. |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by JewelDiamond(f): 7:39am On Oct 06, 2021 |
Pray �. Ask God to heal or take him. That's the easiest way |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by MissEfe(f): 7:40am On Oct 06, 2021 |
Meditation and prayers.. Connect with your God and pour out your heart to him in prayers... Tell him everything in prayers.... And wait for his reply... Only him can help you out. May God give you the strength you need to hold still and overcome this temptation.... |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by wildikeman(m): 7:43am On Oct 06, 2021 |
Omorotionmwann: My little sister and I went through the same ordeal and nearly did the same thing that you are about to do. I was still trying to get into the University when this happened and I took insults from everyone including family members and cut short most of what I was supposed to do to tackle my moms illness. She had diabetes, she couldn't walk with athrital pains and had high no that metastases into a stroke. So she was bed ridden and she later had dementia. My mom had been sick since 2008. And we were tired. 2020 together with the hardship that came with it was our breaking point. No more money to even feed. We thought about that and my dear, we actually got sleeping drugs to admisnister on her so she overdose and go. But we couldn't go through with it. Eventually after 12 long years she passed on the 23rd. Then we were left with the thought that did we course this, are we responsible for her death. Everyone including my elder siblings abandoned her for us. We were angry at our mom and even thought she was faking it. Called her a whole lot of names. Just that and I'm hunted for life by that treatment alone. Don't do it. You will regret it afterwards. Believe me. Just manage it. And give him the best time of his life if you can. After he is gone. You will have a clear mind. Nothing kills a man than to be haunted. Even if I had taken care of my mom for years single handedly with my little sister, just that brief spell of breaking and letting our anger out is all we think about. DON'T DO IT!!! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Bakbillz44(m): 7:57am On Oct 06, 2021 |
Try making enquiries about nursing homes in your locality. May God sees you through |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by AdaAwka1: 7:57am On Oct 06, 2021 |
Stop spending money on drugs for him, try to get the unbranded versions of his drugs that way you get to spend less. Get a nurse for his to relieve ur mom of much burden. Most importantly try as much as u can to get a life for yourself. Leave the euthanizing for God it's not ur call. |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by FaithELEFAN(f): 8:22am On Oct 06, 2021 |
Nothing God can. Not do |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Calitoscassius(m): 8:31am On Oct 06, 2021 |
1Sharon:What a dumb question! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by DropsMic(m): 8:32am On Oct 06, 2021 |
duro4chang: That people are still excruciatingly stupid even in this jet age |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Drella(m): 8:35am On Oct 06, 2021 |
maureensylvia: Hmm you still look good ![]() But you look different oo.Like If not told,I won't know you still are the one ![]() ![]() |
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Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by duro4chang(m): 8:49am On Oct 06, 2021 |
DropsMic:Where your own wisdow stops is the beginning of some people's wisdom. |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by 321A4(m): 8:52am On Oct 06, 2021 |
In some countries abroad, he would have been placed on end of life care. At least he would die with some dignity and not continue to strain the family emotionally, financially and otherwise. Nigerians are not ready for this kind of mindset yet. That's why it's good for people to write an advanced directive |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by maureensylvia(f): 8:54am On Oct 06, 2021 |
Drella: Hehehe, for real ![]() |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Winneygirl(f): 9:24am On Oct 06, 2021 |
Omorotionmwann: Maybe look into getting a hospice nurse or a nursing home/facility. Euthanasia requires patient consent and I am not sure if it is legal in Nigeria. |
Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by Gmajor(m): 9:58am On Oct 06, 2021 |
no hospital in Nigeria does euthanasia. It's illegal in Nigeria SportsHD: |
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