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When People Don't Speak With Family by Nobody: 1:02pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
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Re: When People Don't Speak With Family by Alexjohn2020(m): 1:11pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Check if them adopt you 3 Likes |
Re: When People Don't Speak With Family by SportsHD: 1:15pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Eehyah. Family could be burden sometimes. |
Re: When People Don't Speak With Family by Ocholu: 1:18pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Let's connect on WhatsApp dear, I'll love us to be friends. |
Re: When People Don't Speak With Family by Nobody: 1:21pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
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Re: When People Don't Speak With Family by thesicilian: 1:24pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Some family members are representatives of the devil himself. But there's nothing I wouldn't do for every one in my family. 1 Like |
Re: When People Don't Speak With Family by cooooooks(m): 1:40pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Legally, an adult can get married. You do not need your family to get married. You really become an adult when you take ownership of your life. Mary18656: |
Re: When People Don't Speak With Family by Nobody: 1:48pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
cooooooks:I wish I knew that earlier. I wish I had deserted, and not speak with them since, but I'm just naturally a soft person and couldn't take the decision. |
Re: When People Don't Speak With Family by helinues: 2:24pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Re: When People Don't Speak With Family by Chisave: 4:57am On Oct 12, 2021 |
Some Family members are actually hindrance. The worst is that is this part of the world "Africa", or may be Nigeria, some are still under family control even till 40. That is part of the reasons we hardly make much inventions unlike in the west when someone has taken charge of their life by 21. The Igbo have an adage that translate, When someone wakes up is his own morning [ mgbe onye jiri tete na ura, o buru ututu ya]. Now that you have realized, kindly do the needful, if not cutting them off for now, keep them at arms length for now. If you are still in the family house, just keep cool, make preparations and set a target for yourself and prepare to move without anybody knowing. |
Re: When People Don't Speak With Family by Chisave: 4:57am On Oct 12, 2021 |
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Re: When People Don't Speak With Family by frozen70(f): 7:20pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Mary18656: Don't allow depression eat you up Get a friend and this time, if he wants to marry you, get pregnant for him and move on if your parents refuse his proposal, do t argue with them Just follow him and remain loyal to him and his family Your parents feels that your other siblings are better off but they are not God, to decide who you will be |
Re: When People Don't Speak With Family by pansophist(m): 10:28pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
When people think about criminals, ritualists, enemies of progress, and all kinds of disgusting people, they always assume it to be the ''others'', but actually those people can be your parents, siblings, family relations, and more. I know many disgusting folks, and a few of them are family relations. Also, being an adult means that you do not let people lord over you. Normalize telling people to fork off, if they do not serve you anymore. If someone will in good conscience make your life a living hell, why stay there? and yes, that includes youe parents. 2 Likes |
Re: When People Don't Speak With Family by pansophist(m): 10:28pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
When people think about criminals, ritualists, enemies of progress, and all kinds of disgusting people, they always assume it to be the ''others'', but actually those people can be your parents, siblings, family relations, and more. I know many disgusting folks, and a few of them are family relations. Also, being an adult means that you do not let people lord over you. Normalize telling people to fork off, if they do not serve you anymore. If someone will in good conscience make your life a living hell, why stay there? and yes, that includes your parents. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When People Don't Speak With Family by Nobody: 3:13am On Oct 13, 2021 |
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Re: When People Don't Speak With Family by Nobody: 3:16am On Oct 13, 2021 |
pansophist:Thanks I have already decided that non of my family members will attend my wedding,if I do any. And I have vowed not to invite them in my house, and when I'm finally rich, God knows I will tell the story over and over again to the world how they destroyed my early life, from 20-30 , when everyone was enjoying,I was suffering, and how they gave me depression 1 Like |
Re: When People Don't Speak With Family by Freelane33(m): 2:35pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
TAKE IT EASY DEAR , THERE IS ALWAYS LIGHT AT THE END OF EVERY TUNNELS .GOD WILL SEE YOU THROUGH Mary18656: |
Re: When People Don't Speak With Family by dan9ice(m): 3:03pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
The day I'll summon courage and write what I went through my dad's hand eh, will go pity me.. The man literally make me a wanderer with no vision.. Most of our problems are from out families A person that doesn't knows me from Adam will never wish me bad. But you see those ones that gave birth to us, they're devil in disguise People say Pharaoh is the most wicked person, I often oppose it.. Pharaoh heart was harden by God I'm just like "son of man" moving from one place to another. In nigeria someone will be 28,29,30-35 No certificates No work No skills No babe No phone No money Nothing nothing The title he has is his age bracket |
Re: When People Don't Speak With Family by Perfectman91: 4:54pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Mary18656: Come out of the boat and find yourself walking on water |
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