| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Stankovic22: 2:00pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Mtchwwwwww u no get sense... Shey na she tell u not to have money to flirt... Abeg get out |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by samonak(m): 2:00pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
funshint:
Is she still living that kind of lifestyle? Is she not fulfilling her duties to you as a wife? So why do you want to set your house and future on fire because of a past that bears no correlation with your present? We are not destined to live thesame life pattern. This "revenge" you want to take; you'll only end up hurting yourself because it has no basis. What has happened in the past belong to the past nothing can change it. Accept this and have peace! Baba, You're blessed with the wisdom of king Solomon, in fact: 1 Like 
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| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by rakabuba001(m): 2:01pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
OP all I have to say to you is to imagine God punishing you for your past mistakes..cause you sef no holy pass biko. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by hardbody: 2:01pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
You are not asking for any suggestion or advice. You just wrote there in bold what you want to do, go ahead and make yourself happy. Just note that there are consequences, even thouh you said you do not care about those. All the best. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by pedrilo: 2:02pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
U r not mature
U r immature
U r not ripe for marriage
U no suppose marry because u nor get sense 2 Likes |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Brite02(m): 2:02pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
IbrahimSkiba:
What is this rubbish that I just read?!
What is now your anger? That you were raised in poverty and your wife wasn't raised the same way that you were raised? As in I'm not getting the whole point here... I no just understand the trash wey you just typed.. you want vengeance on your wife, as in mumu, I am really not understanding you.. you dey find excuse to cheat and fvck another pussy, how that one come take concern the way of life your wife lived while she was in school? Who's this concentrated illiterate sef this early morning... OP abeg go and sleep... You really don't have any reasonable thing to say, we have more pressing issues in Nigeria than to be bothered about how you and your wife lived your lives while you were schooling You have said it all |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by juniorstar(m): 2:02pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
Op...you have said nothing!!! You mentioned your wives was partying,dating and all..what did she really do? I guess you feel you were doing your wife to be a favour when u kept yourself while labouring..you were actually doing yourself a favour..u might not have been focused to get to where you are presently. If the life your wive lived is terrible..how then do you see it as an oppurtunity now..that you are now considering living such life. Until I know her real crime I cant advise you have children outside..has she infected you with HIV? |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Depressed101: 2:02pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
you are a foolish man. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Prechgold1180(m): 2:03pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
Unah go sit down Dey find wetyn go break unah marriage Do to flex and date guys for campus again NAh bad thing Swear say u nur date and Bleep girls for college back then I thought u had something reasonable to say Nur be say the girl even do hook up or something Ogbeni leave that girl Go campus now mk u see girls wey Dey do hookup as normal thing |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by chloride6: 2:03pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
What a stupid troll.. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Saintmary(f): 2:03pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
I allowed the feeling of I've-been-cheated mentality to take over me.
I shouldn't have allowed it in the first place. This is why I tell ladies not to assume anything. So, for your wife's mind now, she thinks she's got a husband forever? 1 Like |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by ubee(m): 2:03pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Our youth now have veered into the point of no return where they just go online to post any imaginary story that comes to their head so as just to trend.
Seeing the comments, likes, shares etc, is like a shot of highness directly to their body via their vein.
Smh |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Blackfriday: 2:03pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
You have made no single sense, with what you wrote up there. Your problem is , she had a life, you couldn't have, dated the best of guys on campus, lived her youthful life, the best way she can, while you had work your way up to where you are, all by yourself. All this are your problem right now?. Is she focused in life now? Does she party away her life now? Is she faithful and supportive to you now? Does she have respect for you and the family now? Y're an as*hole man. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by NoSentiment: 2:03pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
This is why the upper and middle class folks hate marrying children of peasant class like you. You think typical of the child of the peasantry that you are. Haba, have some dignity to forget anything in the past. We're u a virgin when u married her? 2 Likes |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by almarthins(m): 2:04pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
I feel ur pain but there is nothing worth doing at this point because you would end up setting urself on fire that will eventually destroy you. You beta forge ahead by forgiven ur wife, you those styles and position wey she dey give na from the blues she master am. Look! For the sake of peace and ur sanity, you beta not jump out to have fun because it would ruin you. You go just die before ur time. Many yamayam disease full outside |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by papae1(m): 2:04pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
You most be a foolish young or old lad. Go blame your parents for not being able to provide the necessary things you need. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Sterope(f): 2:05pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
What a stupid post! |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by henzolucci: 2:05pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Seriously? How old are you? Cos I can't fathom how you will use the above as an excuse to begin philandering... Just say you want to enjoy life that you missed out on. Not use your wife as an excuse! Mtchew LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
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| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by BRATISLAVA: 2:06pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Lastmankc:
Why can't you comment without dragging men into it?If men start now,you will still be part of the people that we be saying that Nairaland guys are so toxic. It's no longer catching cruise this way around? The post happens to be made by a man, and we've seen so much toxic misogyny that it behooves one to point out a noticeable trend. It is good we call out the wickedness and manipulative nature of men for all to see. That way they can stop pointing fingers at women and put out the fire in their own houses. The post you quoted happens to be true. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Nobody: 2:06pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
mikigen:
@opThis is of the main reason it's difficult trying to stop men from cheating.
You will be struggling as a single man while your wife to be will be enjoying herself as a single lady jumping from one relationship to another even if she was from a poor background she would still have a better single life than you so u see? Just when u start getting some money to live your life as you wanted marriage conditions will come and hold you down. Abegi this life na nonesence and unfair to men. Don't envy women. They have a different life from us. Ladies go after men that are ready financially , not men that are struggling. They are not born to suffer . Until you put your house in order a woman cannot come in . It's normal. A lady from a poor background can always live a better life always if she wants to utilise her opportunities. God created man to provide for the family and the woman helper of the man, every other extra thing or suffering that a man is passing through is because of his fellow men. Men prefer to help ladies be causes of yansh that to render help to their fellow men who have been serving them for 10 years. I have been in establishment where my boss would rather give #1m to a lady he just met that to give me #20 who has been with him for 6 years. Men are the problem of their fellow men 2 Likes |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by daddynasa: 2:06pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
It is now obvious you are not mature. So you want your wife's past become your future? She didn't even know u existed then. Or better still just come out and tell us the main story because this one u just told us no b am. 1 Like |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by lanrefront1(m): 2:06pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Op no explain himself well. If she that she just had good plain old fun, perhaps some boyfriends, or is that she was prostituting herself during her univeristy days....... which one is it
.... cause I don't get your anger and the need for revenge angle........
If u wanna play around, who's stopping you, just remember everything has consequence, don't ruin your marriage, better take lessons from some pros b4 u |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by dominique(f): 2:06pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
All I see is inferiority complex and sheer envy exhibited by poverty ridden people, that's why they should be avoided by all means. This one is about to use his own hands to scatter his marriage. If his wife leaves him now, she will be blamed for being unable to keep a marriage. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by fery72: 2:07pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Remember!!! If you really want to be my friend, you have to forget about my past. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by lanrefront1(m): 2:08pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Op no explain himself well. If she that she just had good plain old fun, perhaps some boyfriends, or is that she was prostituting herself during her univeristy days....... which one is it
.... cause I don't get your anger and the need for revenge angle........
If u wanna play around, who's stopping you, just remember everything has consequence, don't ruin your marriage, better take lessons from some pros b4 u |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by marsup: 2:08pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
You are suffering from vindictiveness, bitterness and inferiority complex. It will only lead you to a path of destruction. You better change this reckless mindset of yours, if not the consequences of your actions will be damning. |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by nedekid: 2:09pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
thanks for the advice,
But Dad joined his ancestors when I was still in elementary school owing to diabetes, Mom single handedly trained me and my siblings through out elementary, and secondary school till the burden became much on her to carry alone, it wasn't their fault in any way.
I've not done any of what I stated. But all your misfortune growing up is not your wife's fault naa  Hmm, this is part of the reasons those days while we were growing up, you see well to do parents not wanting their kids to mix with lower people. You wonder why. When you visit your upper-class friends, the first thing the parent ask you is who are you? Who is your father before the ask what you do. With benefit of hindsight, you see they just want to protect their kids from emotionally damaged people. Does it work for them, I don't know. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Crunchyg2: 2:09pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
How old are you again? 3 Likes 1 Share 
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| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by akaahs(m): 2:09pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
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| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by DissTroy(m): 2:09pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
frozen70:
To be honest, you are just fighting yourself and it looks like you finds it difficult to forgive
I was thinking your wife is messing up while married to you, I never knew that you are talking about the life style she lived while in school
You can go ahead and live the knd of life that you want, without any hindrances or permission, after all it's your life This is complete gaslighting. If she were open about her past while dating, maybe he wouldn't have married her. He's giving hints you are all ignoring. She was a nightcrawler, screwing multiple guys and clubing all over. She probably even aborted. In school I didn't go wild or did drugs or had wild parties and órgies banging RANDOM women or knock up a woman then got her to get an abortion. I still haven't done any of these things and I'm probably one of the least religious persons on Nairaland. Stating that, I'd consider it cheating if I find out my partner was screwing around in her past, probably abusing substances too and/or did abortions. I've always been upfront with the females in my life over the years about these things. Some think they are smart and can hide their past but when I find out, I call it off. And you'd never know I've called it off until months later. I'm not expecting she should be a saint but don't go banging random dudes, aborting and abusing substances then think I'd accept you because it's your past. No! Actions have consequences and I'm not going to spend the rest of my life dealing with the consequences of your juvenile delinquency. Never. I don't care if you have been canonised now. Let people choose who they want to be with. 12 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by Osek(m): 2:09pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me
hello nairalanders,
Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.
Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.
Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.
Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.
this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.
What I don't understand is this? So bcs u are poor like u say u were, she shouldn't enjoy her life... What I don't really understand is this? Is she living the way she used to while in campus now that she is married if she is not? Then I don't see any reason why you are angry 1 Like |
| Re: I Just Discovered My Wife's Past, How She Lived Her Life While On Campus by excel101(m): 2:09pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
My bro from your post you made us to know that because of your extreme poverty you could not socialise and play around with ladies while on campus, and now that you have the cash you want to do those things you missed, to me it doesn't sound as a revenge or getting back at your wife. |
