First off, you are what Igbo people call "Oluku" transliterated as "fool" in English. She is not your girlfriend and she does not love you, if love still means an unwavering devotion to an individual regardless of his circumstance. You guys are part of the reasons why Nigeria has gone to the dogs. It is only in Nigeria and amongst black men that someone will go and acquire a liability in the name of girl friend or wife. You just graduated and you are not seeing all the hardworking, financially independent girls that litter Nigeria to get one of them as a girlfriend. Instead you went and bought yourself a liability.
Run from that girl right now and find a girl who, even if she also does not have a job like yourself, is willing to be with you without expecting you to buy her pants or any other thing. Any woman who does not have anything to bring to the table except her kitten is not worth the time let alone the attention of a real man. You guys have turned most Nigerian ladies into liabilities because they now believe it is their right and your duty to take care of their basic and other needs. Here in the UK, there are more women in the workforce than there are men. These are women who are pulling more than their weight at home financially and otherwise. By the way, you don't love that girl. If you do, you will not tolerate her behaviour and you would have walked away the very first time it happened.
Run from that girl now while you still have a window of opportuntiy. I don't want you to come back here in ten years time crying that your children from her are not your own.

Ezendimmuo:
My girlfriend likes food a lot...
Sometimes what she wants might be above my budget
I just graduated...no job yet ..
She can call guys on the phone in my presence and beg them for money...
There is this "married" man she sees and has actually spent the night with him and she swears that nothing happened between them...
I can't provide for her needs....
I can't also stop her from getting them...
I love this girl so much
She loves me too..
Anytime I think about this...
It makes me sad
I wanna end everything...
But I can't...
What do I do

What kind of male do we have this days, I don't understand o, somebody should explain to me o.

Mikeeytools:
even if them marry he go broke the girl would sleep with their landlord to pay rent. Such a senseless simp.

Lol...another future problem...or sleep with his friends for daily meal.

Ajo Nwaanyi..

You still dey call that one girlfriend?

Bloody simp!

Ezendimmuo:
My girlfriend likes food a lot...
Sometimes what she wants might be above my budget
I just graduated...no job yet ..
She can call guys on the phone in my presence and beg them for money...
There is this "married" man she sees and has actually spent the night with him and she swears that nothing happened between them...
I can't provide for her needs....
I can't also stop her from getting them...
I love this girl so much
She loves me too..
Anytime I think about this...
It makes me sad
I wanna end everything...
But I can't...
What do I do

I understand how you feel, I have been there. See even if a girl likes you, sometimes she might need something, and if you can’t help, you won’t even be happy because na person u love. just keep enjoying her

Instead of you to thank God for providing you with free daily bread, you are here complaining that you are not the sole owner of the bakery! Count your blessings and stop being ungrateful man

Na waoo
So people still dey do bf/gf for this Nigeria?

Give her the degree as a collateral ??

Candidlady:


stingy goat
roflmfao

Stingy GREATEST OF ALL TIME, oh Yea

iLoveYouToo:



You’re wise. The only proven way to make most girls loyal in relationships is to make them invest more than you in the relationship. Let them be the ones struggling to make things work out

WISE WORDS FROM A SMART MAN....


Truer words like the gospel, preach it

Baba you nor get girlfriend, na f**k maye una two be. Just kill that ur useless immature emotions thats giving you problem were theirs non. Keep on f**king nonsense out of her stupid brain since u are jobless for now. Once things change for you, look for another sensible girl thats far better than her just like she they hustle other guys now to give her things you cant afford now due to ur joblessness....complain less and keep on sampling the toto till ur F**king rent expires...so that when u finally leave her, she go get plenty memories of how you use to hold her toto ransome for hrs.

And you still call her ur girlfriend?
Go and hustle, you will hv plenty girls soon as you smell success.

Hmmm

Ezendimmuo:
My girlfriend likes food a lot...
Sometimes what she wants might be above my budget
I just graduated...no job yet ..
She can call guys on the phone in my presence and beg them for money...
There is this "married" man she sees and has actually spent the night with him and she swears that nothing happened between them...
I can't provide for her needs....
I can't also stop her from getting them...
I love this girl so much
She loves me too..
Anytime I think about this...
It makes me sad
I wanna end everything...
But I can't...
What do I do

Leave love for one side. Become a better person first...and I can assure you that you will meet the most courteous woman to marry. Make light your burden

Just play around ,.

Ezendimmuo:
My girlfriend likes food a lot...
Sometimes what she wants might be above my budget
I just graduated...no job yet ..
She can call guys on the phone in my presence and beg them for money...
There is this "married" man she sees and has actually spent the night with him and she swears that nothing happened between them...
I can't provide for her needs....
I can't also stop her from getting them...
I love this girl so much
She loves me too..
Anytime I think about this...
It makes me sad
I wanna end everything...
But I can't...
What do I do

How much is Séun paying you to come up with this cóck-and-bull story for traffic?

No one is this dumb I swear.

bigpicture001:
Know it today... Women don't love anyone.. they only love anyone that have money...

Aside money, girls love no one!

How did the men in Makoko get their wives? Some even have side-chicks sef.

How does that boy in the 2nd year of his university course have girls fighting over him?

Ezendimmuo
Jesus sad "Dont throw pearls before swine".

Do you agree with Jesus or not? If yes, you know what to do.

You need someone for better for worse. She sees you as a naive guy and she's taking advantage of you. It's not possible for her to sleep in a man's house and sex does not occur.

I'm a lot like you. You therefore need the opinions of others to make the right choice. You may already know what it is. To be sure you're right, seek advice and if it matches what you already desire to do,

You don't need a girlfriend. All you need is a job

Oga she is OUR girlfriend. If you love her & don’t mind sharing her, continue to hang in there like the maga that you are. Just always wear a condom when you have sex & do regular STD test incase the condom slips or breaks.
Even when you start making money, you won’t be able to stop her from seeing other men because you have condoned it from the beginning.

Ezendimmuo:
My girlfriend likes food a lot...
Sometimes what she wants might be above my budget
I just graduated...no job yet ..
She can call guys on the phone in my presence and beg them for money...
There is this "married" man she sees and has actually spent the night with him and she swears that nothing happened between them...
I can't provide for her needs....
I can't also stop her from getting them...
I love this girl so much
She loves me too..
Anytime I think about this...
It makes me sad
I wanna end everything...
But I can't...
What do I do

Pussy nigga

Ezendimmuo:
My girlfriend likes food a lot...
Sometimes what she wants might be above my budget
I just graduated...no job yet ..
She can call guys on the phone in my presence and beg them for money...
There is this "married" man she sees and has actually spent the night with him and she swears that nothing happened between them...
I can't provide for her needs....
I can't also stop her from getting them...
I love this girl so much
She loves me too..
Anytime I think about this...
It makes me sad
I wanna end everything...
But I can't...
What do I do

Laeroy:


I've passed the night with two married men before and nothing happened between us in the night, first was a top soldier in the army and the second a business man, both men were very understanding and mature, when the first man wanted to touch me at night, I told him I just saw my period and he let me be, the other one I was calling him daddy and I was very serious about it, and he still let me be as well, when you come across very matured and understanding men, theyll understand what you need is money and let things slide.....

My husband is aware of every of my single past and wonders how I pull through all of those stunts and still be a virgin until marriage...

There's no formula for living life...
What works for a may not work for b....

The question is, were you in a relationship When you passed the night with those men? Plus what on earth was wrong with you? That prompt you to even pass the night with married men? This are questions that needs answers, Only then I can answer you

It’s a good thing she’s your girlfriend and not wife. She’s around for the time being. Soon a better individual will replace her.

Leave this girls matter and concentrate on ur life and finding a good thing doing.. Better things still dey ahead

Olumighty123:


The question is, were you in a relationship When you passed the night with those men? Plus what on earth was wrong with you? That prompt you to even pass the night with married men? This are questions that needs answers, Only then I can answer you

I was in a relationship.
Nothing was wrong,I needed money like every other girl.
I was invited.
I feigned menstruation visitation .
I got what I wanted and checked out.

Laeroy:


I was in a relationship.
Nothing was wrong,I needed money like every other girl.
I was invited.
I feigned menstruation visitation .
I got what I wanted and checked out.

Omoh, which kind girls dey this life like this? The only way you could raise money was to sleep with married men? just know I'm not buying this your story of not making out with those men even at that, you went there knowing your intensions may backfire and you get bleeped, you certainly don't mind whatever comes off it. I cannot comprehend

Sapa na bastard

Ezendimmuo:
My girlfriend likes food a lot...
Sometimes what she wants might be above my budget
I just graduated...no job yet ..
She can call guys on the phone in my presence and beg them for money...
There is this "married" man she sees and has actually spent the night with him and she swears that nothing happened between them...
I can't provide for her needs....
I can't also stop her from getting them...
I love this girl so much
She loves me too..
Anytime I think about this...
It makes me sad
I wanna end everything...
But I can't...
What do I do

Is that one a girlfriend? Correction, community girlfriend. Someone sold his birthright because of food & it sounds like your so called girlfriend can even sell her kidney for food. Why can’t you end things with her? I don’t understand. Yet you are complaining. Na by force to date her? Carry your own cross since you know what do do but don’t wanna do it. How exactly do you want Nairalanders to help you?

Prettyclown:
Am a girl

Pardon me. Oh

You love her too she also loves you back "self consolation kpele" how you take know sey she love you back?? Seer o.p

Ezendimmuo:
My girlfriend likes food a lot...
Sometimes what she wants might be above my budget
I just graduated...no job yet ..
She can call guys on the phone in my presence and beg them for money...
There is this "married" man she sees and has actually spent the night with him and she swears that nothing happened between them...
I can't provide for her needs....
I can't also stop her from getting them...
I love this girl so much
She loves me too..
Anytime I think about this...
It makes me sad
I wanna end everything...
But I can't...
What do I do

What are you doing with this girl
I mean why are you still keeping her

How does your love work?
She has just revealed to u her nature and maybe she wants you to be her pi*p. A lady who is not contented with whatever she has will never be contented even if you walk on your head.
Guide and guard your heart and protect your body also.