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| She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by KoladeChris24(m): 7:11am On Nov 07, 2021 |
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church. I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church. She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore. 38 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Sonnobax15(m): 7:13am On Nov 07, 2021 |
 So the jesus wey dey your catholic church dey different from the jesus wey dey her own church? Leave her alone.....Make she dey over selective on her choice of husband materials because of their different churches.By the time when meno-stop go don dey knock on her door stylishly,dem no go tell her....By then,she no go even say No to any mallam Kabiru wey come from Kebbi state  676 Likes 25 Shares
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| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Mood11: 7:17am On Nov 07, 2021 |
Oga if you start living your life by her dictates even before the marriage just know that you must continue with it and never stop else any day you do otherwise from her bidding the marriage will scatter  Let her join you in your church, it's the same God everywhere... Na this type go say make you forget about your family After the marriage wetin you go dey hear na "my pastor says, my pastor said, pastor said, pastor will, I will ask pastor" 664 Likes 34 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Nobody: 7:19am On Nov 07, 2021 |
Let her go ... 265 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Bigredmachine: 7:21am On Nov 07, 2021 |
She's the type that respect her pastor and dis respect her husband... I won't be surprised if it's her pastor that is behind all the these... Oga you better think straight and take the right step 401 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by WoundedLamb: 7:22am On Nov 07, 2021 |
I don't see why you should leave your church for her. I'm not trying to invalidate her desire to have a family that has the same denomination, but if you're not willing to make that move (which you are not obliged to) she has to decide if it's a deal breaker and move on if so. Our happiness as individuals is very important and it's fine if marrying a catholic is what will make her happy. But you shouldn't sacrifice your own happiness too. Y'all should approach the subject logically without sentiment and should be ready to love each other enough to end the relationship if any compromise at the stage would lead to issues later. It's good you're even being honest with each other. Some men would simply agree to her demands just to take her to the alter and then remind her who's the head of the family afterwards. These are the kind of subjects we should be discussing during the dating phase when things aren't serious yet. That's basically why we date. 170 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by advanceDNA: 7:25am On Nov 07, 2021 |
KoladeChris24: Obviously u have different beliefs...she’s afraid u will later make her and her children attend your church.....if you both can’t compromise for each other over church matter make una dey go una seperate ways...it’s just church Abeg ... 71 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by chiommy123(f): 7:26am On Nov 07, 2021 |
I understand her sha. Some of us do not feel very comfortable in some churches 53 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by BigBelleControl(m): 7:34am On Nov 07, 2021 |
I have a Catholic friend who ended up in Redeem because of his fiancee. His other reason was that he always miss morning mass because the Catholic Church he attended was far from his house. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by louken(m): 7:35am On Nov 07, 2021 |
I was once in your shoes. I saw that as a red flag and decided to part ways. It may seem difficult now but in a few months, you will look back and laugh 284 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Mleeperbother: 7:44am On Nov 07, 2021 |
KoladeChris24:Cut her off. Control freak. 133 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by federal9: 7:44am On Nov 07, 2021 |
KoladeChris24: Don't be blinded by love. She is not meant for you. A woman who loves a man will stand by him no matter what. Listen if you have ears!!! 180 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by dingbang(m): 7:45am On Nov 07, 2021 |
Difficult to marry in this generation 59 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by toujurs: 7:47am On Nov 07, 2021 |
dingbang:I swear, you can imagine the condition, as if she is the one to fund the wedding. 184 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Nobody: 7:50am On Nov 07, 2021 |
Then stop going to Catholic church, its that simple 11 Likes 11 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by RoyalBoutique(m): 7:51am On Nov 07, 2021 |
Religion; the bane of progress in Nigeria. My wife goes to mountain of fire. I'm a traditional worshipper. I can never set foot in church. She knows that. That's why we only did court marriage and traditional marriage. No church. I can't let religion dictate my life. 131 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by house10s: 7:52am On Nov 07, 2021 |
when she begin fuk her pastor no shock. better tell d bitch to fuk off, love ko love ni. simp 68 Likes |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by 2ndchildhood(m): 7:52am On Nov 07, 2021 |
So as husband scarce reach, women still the give conditions? 218 Likes 8 Shares
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| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Nobody: 7:55am On Nov 07, 2021 |
KoladeChris24:You better leave her before you marry! As a man, your wife is supposed to join you and not the other way round except you are about to leave the Catholic church on your own Accord. Never let a girlfriend dictate to you before marriage. She will increase it by � times if you condole such now. Again, don't be a mumu sorry a SIMP. 114 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Myer(m): 7:56am On Nov 07, 2021 |
KoladeChris24: Which denomination does she attend. Usually non-Catholics believe Catholic Church is into idolatry. So I guess that's her fear. 25 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by 2ndchildhood(m): 7:59am On Nov 07, 2021 |
Iyaebe: 106 Likes
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| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by mrdharkchild(m): 8:09am On Nov 07, 2021 |
It is written, that a women would leave her family, her God and all that shit and accept her husbands shit and all. Abi Bible Don become irrelevant? It's not the other way round, simp. 55 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Nobody: 8:20am On Nov 07, 2021 |
Na so she go say make u cut off association with your siblings and parents to show love for her.. when una don marry 43 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Truvelisback(m): 8:35am On Nov 07, 2021 |
KoladeChris24:Don't marry that girl. She will be a disaster to u. She wants to control u like a television remute, to her desire television stations. Bro, wise up. 42 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by CaveAdullam: 8:44am On Nov 07, 2021 |
1. You're a grown man, you do the leading and she follows. Inasmuch that you're in the right lane, don't take her opinion except otherwise. 2. It is better you start looking out for other women because probably, you might not end up with her long term. She's your first and only love, too bad for you! Certainly, from your writeup you've invested much on her and the relationship so far. 3. The moment you start jettisoning your own desires for hers, making her share in leadership role, dictating how you will live your life and how the relationship should go is an indication that the foundation of the union is standing on a quagmire. 4. Perhaps, she got other options and just looking for a more rational way to dump you. And the first medium is to raise up religious and church issues. Braze up bro, it is either you manage the relationship with the love of your life, a boring one it will eventually be where you would have to please her till the end of day. Or, you take hold of your life and refuse the love of your life with her baggage of manipulations. As they always say, 'the ball is in your court'. Have a nice day. 80 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by siofra(f): 9:00am On Nov 07, 2021 |
So people still do this kind of thing  11 Likes |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Vinnie2000(m): 9:01am On Nov 07, 2021 |
OP No servant can serve Two Masters at the same time..You Must love one and Hate the other! In dis case, you MUST CHOOSE BETWEEN Catholic Church and Your Girlfriend.. You love the Catholic Church too Much! She loves her Pentecostal Church same way! I will advice you forget about dis young lady! The Two of You Cannot Mix!  Look around the Catholic Church nah! Statistics show dat We have the Finest, Freshest and morally disciplined Babes amongst all Churches   71 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Vinnie2000(m): 9:10am On Nov 07, 2021 |
[ quote author=Sonnobax15 =107396840] :-XSo the jesus wey dey her catholic church dey different from the jesus wey dey your own church?Leave her alone.....Make she dey over selective on her choice of husband materials because of their different churches.By the time when meno-stop go don dey knock on her door stylishly,dem no go tell her....By then,she no go even say No to any mallam Kabiru wey come from Kebbi state [/quote]Lolss.. See my ever Funny Delta Guy! Pls Read d Post again..  3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Vinnie2000(m): 9:17am On Nov 07, 2021 |
CaveAdullam: The young lady seems a Bossy individual or Control freak! The OP Must use his Head really! Ur comments made so much sense! 26 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Newboss(m): 9:22am On Nov 07, 2021 |
KoladeChris24: Delete her number. Stop being a bloody simp. If you can't do that, then get her pregnant. That's always the last resort in cases like this 21 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: She Wants Me To Leave Catholic Church Before She Can Marry Me by Judybash93(m): 9:28am On Nov 07, 2021 |
RoyalBoutique: 2 Likes 1 Share
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