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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Kobojunkie: 9:55pm On Nov 12, 2021
adewaleadeyemi8:
Imagine a lady going through school for years only for her to decide she wants to be a full blown house wife. Op honestly your wife needs a mind reset because she's not really focused on the things that lies ahead, and it is your responsibility to let her know and contribute her quota.
Life is unpredictable, people saying it's because she's pregnant so she should sit at down, what a shame. I have seen many pregnant women who work even with their conditions
My own wife must work and assist me o, i can't come and kee myself cz i want to form man
If OP had wanted a working wife, shouldn't he have gotten one before marriage or her getting pregnant? undecided

I do agree that pregnancy shouldn't stop a serous woman from getting a job but it seems there maybe more to this tale than what OP has so far revealed. undecided

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by MPESA(m): 12:57am On Nov 13, 2021
amnesty7:
Someone taking care of your home, your meals and her pregnancy and you still think she is doing nothing?

Since when women taking care of her home become an occupation and if unforseen circumstances come happen nko Such as man lost his job or death na you go come dey feed her and her kids abi.

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by MPESA(m): 1:00am On Nov 13, 2021
Odoogu:
Hmmm....
You will also need to make sacrifice.

My opinion is that you both relocate to the east so that her schooling can be easier.

This has nothing do with "am the husband"and she is "the wife" and so must do as I say.

Things not as complicated as this breaks home.

Wish you the best and pray you both God's wisdom.
And what if he's not working from home nko, you will advise him to resign from his current job or Close down his shop to follow her lazy wife to East in the name of love or keeping the family...

P.s
Don't encourage laziness jare.

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Double0h7(f): 1:03am On Nov 13, 2021
Are we ignoring the fact that this woman is pregnant or is that not enough work anymore? She must carry a baby and do a masters on top? Being pregnant is now staying at home doing nothing? What have women done to you guys? cry

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Kobojunkie: 3:38am On Nov 13, 2021
Double0h7:
Are we ignoring the fact that this woman is pregnant or is that not enough work anymore? She must carry a baby and do a masters on top? Being pregnant is now staying at home doing nothing? What have women done to you guys? cry
Her own pregnancy better pass the pregnancy of all those hawkers and market women out there? undecided

Pregnancy is not a sickness neither is it a valid reason for a woman to remain unemployed. You insult billions of pregnant women out there working hard while pregnant when you suggest pregnancy a reason to do nothing. undecided

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Fiscus105(m): 3:38am On Nov 13, 2021
Fredamanda:
Please guys ignore the grammar, I need urgent advice because I am dying slowly towards my wife altitude. I am a young guy working from home and I try all my best to make my wife happy always but there is one altitude in her which I am not comfortable with and I don't know how else to explain to her after I have tried so much for her to start up something. She is a graduate with good result but she does not want to do anything rather she prefers staying at home maybe because I am working from home. My problem now is that she is pregnant and she got admission for her masters in one of the Eastern Universities while we live in lagos which she does not want to go and owning to the fact that she is not doing anything in the house and she is not working, I really want her to go for that masters and is causing big issues between two of us. Please kindly advice me on what to do.


Nairalanders are ur parents or in-laws you are supposed to report her to?
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Kobojunkie: 3:39am On Nov 13, 2021
Fiscus105:
Nairalanders are ur parents or in-laws you are supposed to report her to?
Why must he report her to his parents or her inlaws? undecided

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Mrscarter(f): 4:20am On Nov 13, 2021
amnesty7:
Someone taking care of your home, your meals and her pregnancy and you still think she is doing nothing?

Pregnancy isnt a disability lol. Towards the last cpl of months you need take it easier but earlier on u can still do everything. U can still do everything thru all ur pregnancy.

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Edyice: 4:51am On Nov 13, 2021
Fredamanda me and you know it’s not easy to get or look for job in Nigeria, allow your wife give birth first. Things will fall into places with time. If she doesn’t have a job after that, you have no choice but to open a shop for her . Peace

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Kobojunkie: 4:57am On Nov 13, 2021
Edyice:
Fredamanda me and you know it’s not easy to get or look for job in Nigeria, allow your wife give birth first. Things will fall into places with time. If she doesn’t have a job after that, you have no choice but to open a shop for her . Peace
It is hard to get a job in Nigeria so do nothing and things will fall into place? You sure say power dey on up there at all? undecided

So, if he opens up a shop with money he ought instead use in investing in the child's future, and that store goes down the gutter because his wife cannot manage a store too, then what? undecided

By the way, why does she even need a college degree if at the end na story she go run at the end of it all? undecided

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by IkpuMmadu: 5:12am On Nov 13, 2021
Fredamanda:
Please guys ignore the grammar, I need urgent advice because I am dying slowly towards my wife altitude. I am a young guy working from home and I try all my best to make my wife happy always but there is one altitude in her which I am not comfortable with and I don't know how else to explain to her after I have tried so much for her to start up something. She is a graduate with good result but she does not want to do anything rather she prefers staying at home maybe because I am working from home. My problem now is that she is pregnant and she got admission for her masters in one of the Eastern Universities while we live in lagos which she does not want to go and owning to the fact that she is not doing anything in the house and she is not working, I really want her to go for that masters and is causing big issues between two of us. Please kindly advice me on what to do.

Why are people stupid. I have no she is... You don't have experience with degree you head to do masters
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Qatar2022: 5:22am On Nov 13, 2021
KiNg0G:


Your mumu noe be here.


With normal bsc, she'nor won work.

You still want force her to do masters make she carry the paper put for house.


You nor just get Sense at all
He should leave his business and relocate to East? You're not serious

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Qatar2022: 5:25am On Nov 13, 2021
olabrinks:
How do you expect her to do her masters when she’s pregnant? Are you alright?
Nigeria women and their sense of judgment. She is lazy even before she got pregnant, you people always find away to blame men for your laziness

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by SenecaTheYonger: 5:35am On Nov 13, 2021
Get her a work-from-home job. Ladies be loving that shit.

Fredamanda:
Please guys ignore the grammar, I need urgent advice because I am dying slowly towards my wife altitude. I am a young guy working from home and I try all my best to make my wife happy always but there is one altitude in her which I am not comfortable with and I don't know how else to explain to her after I have tried so much for her to start up something. She is a graduate with good result but she does not want to do anything rather she prefers staying at home maybe because I am working from home. My problem now is that she is pregnant and she got admission for her masters in one of the Eastern Universities while we live in lagos which she does not want to go and owning to the fact that she is not doing anything in the house and she is not working, I really want her to go for that masters and is causing big issues between two of us. Please kindly advice me on what to do.

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Nobody: 5:51am On Nov 13, 2021
She's an introvert. Let her put to bed first, then take it from there

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by ActuaRise696969: 6:16am On Nov 13, 2021
Most female students are now facing the reality of life after sexing their way to graduation without the discipline and hard work that prepares one for life.

While the husband is scratching the internet for dollars the woman is basically hoping dollars will flow so she can demonstrate on ticktock and Instagram how well she is doing. She probably will encourage the OP to escalate into yahoo yahoo, the new digital robbery. grin

I feel for the men who think marriage is a about love, skintones and sexing.

Una eye go clear.

As for the OP, your own Don be. Open boutique for her, Na their way

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Nobody: 6:33am On Nov 13, 2021
You never talk why you want her out of the house at all cost while you sit at home everyday cool.
I guess she too doesn't want to go because she suspects foul play.

Maybe try going out. At least, lead by example maybe that would encourage her to go out too.

Marriage and headache.

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Fiscus105(m): 6:39am On Nov 13, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Why must he report her to his parents or her inlaws? undecided


Because you are in best position to intervene nah.
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Odoogu(m): 6:58am On Nov 13, 2021
MPESA:

And what if he's not working from home nko, you will advise her to resign from him current job or Close down his shop to follow her lazy wife to East in the name of love or keeping the family...

P.s
Don't encourage laziness jare.


cheesycheesy
Well as we could all read and understand, that isn't the situation, that is, I gave my opinion based on present situation.

Stay safe brov.
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Kobojunkie: 7:10am On Nov 13, 2021
Fiscus105:
Because you are in best position to intervene nah.
Says who? Have they finished fixing their own marriage issues for them to be considered best as far as intervention is concerned in affairs of the marital kind? undecided

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by MPESA(m): 8:16am On Nov 13, 2021
Odoogu:



cheesycheesy
Well as we could all read and understand, that isn't the situation, that is, I gave my opinion based on present situation.

Stay safe brov.


You too brotherman,Peace.

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Fiscus105(m): 8:17am On Nov 13, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Says who? Have they finished fixing their own marriage issues for them to be considered best as far as intervention is concerned in affairs of the marital kind? undecided


Go back to ur first comment on my comment, align it with your second comment and see absurd in ur reasoning........ anyway many of you guys here are confusinist. Bye. But make sure you fix ur life as quick as possible.

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Kobojunkie: 8:21am On Nov 13, 2021
Fiscus105:
Go back to ur first comment on my comment, align it with your second comment and see absurd in ur reasoning........ anyway many of you guys here are confusinist. Bye. But make sure you fix ur life as quick as possible.
Have those your call parents and in-laws finished properly resolving the issues in their own marriage for you to then consider then the best as far as marital intervention is concerned? undecided

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by meobizy(f): 8:30am On Nov 13, 2021
Since you work from home both of you should relocate to the East for the duration of her masters program. If based in the same state as the university she won’t have any excuse not to start the program. The cheaper living standard would help your pockets immensely.

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Ikea81: 8:32am On Nov 13, 2021
Fredamanda:
Please guys ignore the grammar, I need urgent advice because I am dying slowly towards my wife altitude. I am a young guy working from home and I try all my best to make my wife happy always but there is one altitude in her which I am not comfortable with and I don't know how else to explain to her after I have tried so much for her to start up something. She is a graduate with good result but she does not want to do anything rather she prefers staying at home maybe because I am working from home. My problem now is that she is pregnant and she got admission for her masters in one of the Eastern Universities while we live in lagos which she does not want to go and owning to the fact that she is not doing anything in the house and she is not working, I really want her to go for that masters and is causing big issues between two of us. Please kindly advice me on what to do.

Oga why don't you desperately want your wife around? What's the real issue..going to the east with a pregnancy for masters...why? Ahmadu bello offers convenient distant learning master abeg. Also find out her strength and what she can do and support her..don't create that distance you crave. You not used to being a family man already

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by peacettw: 9:09am On Nov 13, 2021
Fredamanda:
Please guys ignore the grammar, I need urgent advice because I am dying slowly towards my wife altitude.

I am a young guy working from home and I try all my best to make my wife happy always but there is one attitude in her which I am not comfortable with and I don't know how else to explain to her after I have tried so much for her to start up something.

She is a graduate with good result but she does not want to do anything rather she prefers staying at home maybe because I am working from home. My problem now is that she is pregnant and she got admission for her masters in one of the Eastern Universities while we live in lagos which she does not want to go and owning to the fact that she is not doing anything in the house and she is not working, I really want her to go for that masters and is causing big issues between two of us.

Please kindly advice me on what to do.

She is currently pregnant and you want her to relocate to another state to continue her education, in this critical moment that she needs your support and love.

Why not wait till the baby is 6 months at the very least before telling her to embark on this exercise? Better still, find a school nearer home to make it easier for her to cope or register her for an online masters course

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by cardoctor(m): 9:09am On Nov 13, 2021
Same here o. We need to form club or association.
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by mbahdi(m): 9:10am On Nov 13, 2021
It's their way
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Ransom23(m): 9:10am On Nov 13, 2021
Enlighten her the implications of her choice now that it's still early[b]Wise saying[/b][i][/i]
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by seyz91(m): 9:11am On Nov 13, 2021
cheesy
PlayMaker14:
I believe you guys dated for some few months before you decided to tie the knot.... Now, she has turned into a full blown house wife who is now a Zee World specialist because you failed to define the marital responsibilities.

Talk with her one more time, and if she refuse to do anything to support her home, bring it to the notice of her parents and possibly, her “Daddy” in the Lord.


Now, on a lighter note; It may seem as though you really want her to go out for some hours so you can import some young blood to keep you company.... grin
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by ayenale1(m): 9:11am On Nov 13, 2021
I want to believe as well that her picture was sent to u through vision and dreams...carry your cross my brother...were we invited when u guys are enjoying yourselves...

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