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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by athenswonders: 8:08pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Spiritualizt: In our local music- I still tip D’banjs Oliver Twist as a red pill song...... All those banky W songs better run from them... Then foreign music we have quite a lot but I’m always buzzing my ears with Eminem’s songs and Chris brown song ft lilwayne- Loyal Listen to Sam smith song. At your peril! 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Winnerly: 9:49pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
athenswonders: Hahhaha @ run from Bankyw. Those guys contributed soo much to the simp culture in Nigeria. Psquare, 2face etc that we all celebrate actually contributed alot towards destroying the masculinity in Nigeria 10 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 10:24pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
I am pleased with this lady, I hope she isn't faking it until she officially becomes his wife though. Why the bleep will you kneel down to ask for a woman's hand in marriage when you are the one doing her a favour? All her problems become yours while all your problems are still yours, yet you kneel down to propose? 23 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Seandisputed(m): 10:42pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
sajmark:Lol. Good gesture from her. But he should have it have it at the back of his mind that it's not a guarantee for a blissful marriage. For all i care, she could have her moves calculated, and this could just be one of them to win his trust completely, thereby lowering his guards. Well, what do I know? I pray it doesn't end up how I imagined it. I wish them a happy married life. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dvkot(m): 10:43pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Raalsalghul:yea i don't like such advice too it's like the women are the star price and you making it is what you gotta pay for the price. Make money for yourself and be happy not because you want a girl to come 11 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 10:50pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Seandisputed:I like the way you and sajmark are demonstrating wisdom on this issue. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 3:22am On Feb 01, 2022 |
Words of wisdom Infact in top financial success magazines like forbes, Bloomberg , men overwhelmingly outnumber women even if such men are rare and outliers 26 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 3:28am On Feb 01, 2022 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Calibrator: 5:12am On Feb 01, 2022 |
Presently watching CBS Reality and they are showing Judge "Joe Brown" Season 4 Episode 168. Fear women and the sisterhood ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 5:38am On Feb 01, 2022 |
Lolz The future will be epic 11 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 5:39am On Feb 01, 2022 |
Never forget this Love and affection especially to most mordern women that is not worth it or did not earn comes at a great cost Don't be blinded by her beauty Don't let her charm and feminine wiles fool you 19 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 5:47am On Feb 01, 2022 |
Martinez39s:This thread is full of wise men, I guess it rubbed off on me. 6 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Klchnjoku: 6:41am On Feb 01, 2022 |
Skepticus: Over the weekend an hostel mate brought one of his female friends.. they were gisting outside the hostel verandah which is close to my own room so I could hear their discussion from my window. The lady was telling the guy about one of her female friends that she (her friend) doesn't want a boyfriend because her parents are rich. The guy who she was telling didn't read any meaning to it from his response but me that have understood female nature to a greater extent I picked up a meaning and confirmation of the redpill from her statement. Here is the meaning Women only view men as a tool to be used to cater for their needs and foot their bills. If a woman has other means of getting those provisions.. she won't give a damn about having any man in her life. Women only see men as a tool to be used for their own satisfaction. That is why when one man can no longer give them the satisfaction they crave, they don't hesitate to jump to the next available man who can. Women don't value men like men believe, in fact the society in general doesn't value men. They only see us as slaves that can used for their own satisfaction or gains any time they want. That is why every man reading this must create value only for himself and perhaps his immediate family. Every man must make himself a PRIORTY not one daughter of eve. 46 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 7:33am On Feb 01, 2022 |
CaveAdullam:yes, cold approaching isn't totally bad all the time. To add my own: In a perfect world we cold approach for sex and hot approach for love. Meaning the girls we salivate for, who are the Spec and who make us go "damn!!" - we don't wait for choosing signals but go in direct cause what does it matter they've no real genuine desire for us, we just wanna hit and run. Nothing big. Problem here is that where we desire and like, we're eager to SPEND. And a lot of the times spending is the shortcut to success. Which then works against us because we start to get invested the more we spend to succeed, and in no time what was meant to be temporary we end up forcing to be permanent because we've invested a lot into that situation. Let's say you like a girl and she lives far and requires a considerable amount of money to come to you, that money once you spend it, you won't want just 1 night with the girl. You'll want a whole weekend. Which will lead you to spend even more. Then after that weekend you've spent so much you wanna see her again soon cause you feel the sex you got was not equal to the money you spent. Especially if she limited the sex. When you see her again you once more spend and ask for more from her. In the end you're entangled with this girl because you've been spending and it's hard to let go cause there's this nagging feeling that you haven't got your total money's worth from her. You're invested. Sunk Cost Fallacy has kicked in. You feel you've spent too much on her to just hit and run. SO YOU ASK FOR A RELATIONSHIP. And now you're dating a girl you were meant to pump and dump. You date for 2 or 3 years continuously spending on the chick cause you love her, and what do you know!!! After time passes you calculate you could have bought a car by now with all the cash you've channelled to this girl. And now you feel even more invested. She's now too valuable to lose. You've simply spent too much on her to lose her to some other guy. SO YOU PROPOSE. And just like that your life is joined with a woman who never loved you. Welcome to hell. It's how many troubled marriages originate. How men get stuck in loveless marriages. It's why I personally don't talk a lot about cold approaching. Cause so much bad can result from it. You were smart enough to deduce the game and refuse to put in that initial investment of 20K. Nice. Modified: I talk about this extensively, but from a woman's perspective, in this MISEDUCA$HION: https://www.nairaland.com/5521642/ubunjas-miseduca-hin-pleasures-cash 44 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Raalsalghul: 7:39am On Feb 01, 2022 |
Klchnjoku: Even your immediate family sees you as a slave and tool, but theirs is more tolerable because you share the same DNA and maybe they could have your back when chips are down. ![]() I've come to that level where I don't see exception to these things: family or not. 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Princepioneer(m): 7:44am On Feb 01, 2022 |
ubunja:Wowwww, you are a really gifted Wise man... 8 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Winnerly: 8:22am On Feb 01, 2022 |
ubunja: Spot on. Personally i believe cold approaching is dead and belongs to the 90’s but i still do it because it was how i was raised. I don’t know nothing else lol. 1. Women are different now. An average lady walks around with an overbloated sense of self, thus they are mostly rude and ill mannered especially to strangers. Even worse when she is pretty. The fact that an average girl can get a super hot dude also contributes to distorting their sense of self. 2. Women are more receptive to people they have been seeing around and have had the chance to guage with their hypergamic lenses. She will punish you for taking her unawares without giving her the opportunity to assess your lifestyle first. The only option she is left with is on the spot mental assessment which can be misleading. The agony of not knowing whether you may or may not be a catch will bolster her anger towards you. 3. You demarket yourself when you approach as a stranger. Think about it, would dangote cold approach a random woman? She would think herself better than you automatically especially if you donot descend on her with the full weight of hypergamy ( nice car which she better see you coming out from, nice perfume, nice outfit, nice looks, well spoken, etc). Truth is, all these take so much work and most times alot of guys prefer to appear plain even when rich. 4. The onus lies on you to get the convo going, and as such, you are likely to ask questions that would pedestalise her. 5. You end up exaggerating her value and ego which you and another guy will pay for. 6. You can easily fall prey to professional gold diggers (which most of them are) especially if you appear flashy. The exception is if you master the art of luring them in with wealth and then making sure she never gets a bite. Why would anyone even want to be with someone who treats them like there’s a price on their head? Who the hell is she lol. 7. Cold approaching is laced with too many uncertainties for any form of stats to work. She could be having a bad day, her moral upbringing may limit her from sharing her contact with strangers, she may be intimidated by your looks, etc. The variables are just too many. In closing, i still cold approach and I’m also in the field too but my candid advice to guys is to evolve to transcend petty emotional needs whilst armed with the red pill, stoicism and meditation. 40 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 8:27am On Feb 01, 2022 |
Raalsalghul:GOD bless you bro. Nothing more to add. 12 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 8:44am On Feb 01, 2022 |
Winnerly:Like seriously? Cold approaching ladies is more addictive than sex itself. I kid you not.. and this is coming from a sex addict of sorts. Once you hit the 80% success mark you become unstoppable.. and I hit and surpassed that over 7 years ago. It becomes so bad it literally begins to control you just like any other addiction. The success comes not just by your personality and confidence garnered over years of experience but also by knowing intuitively if, when, where and how to approach a lady. How else do people get pvssy to fvck if I may ask? Neighbors? Churchmates? Workmates? Classmates? Naah! For me, I see what I like, I go for it. Never compromised on specs. Believe me when I say this, cold approaching chicks is way more addictive than sex. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 8:49am On Feb 01, 2022 |
CaveAdullam:Lol. Oga Cave no follow them do mob action jungle justice o ![]() The way askari dey look for money now to offset Xmas expenses na everybody in sight dem dey round up ![]() E go better. 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Klchnjoku: 8:54am On Feb 01, 2022 |
Raalsalghul:Exactly, including ones kids if one has plan to have them. 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 9:00am On Feb 01, 2022 |
Winnerly:@bolded,,,, this is one of the greatest weaknesses of cold approaching. You don't know a woman's state of mind at that point. A perfectly suitable girl who could have welcomed your advances on any given day may be having a hell of a day she'll coldly shoot you down. Hence cold approaching rarely gets you quick sex (unless you're outrightly paying) the most you can come out with is just phone numbers, and you continue the work later on via chatting. Amazingly these variables that incapacitate cold approaching turn out to be Chosen's greatest strength. The girl who is otherwise not available to you because of social class, religion, financial bracket, marital status etc, on that one day, at that one hour, just cause she's going through something, or has experienced something - she can be in a mood for a little fun or to be a bad girl. And choose you. A lot of the sexual successes of Chosen is being at the right place at the right time. That's why sex via Chosen can be easily same day and free with NO PHONE NUMBERS EXCHANGED. There'll not be a more superior game. While cold approaching requires you to search for those girls that catch your eye, hot approaching (Chosen), requires you to keep a watchful eye for those girls looking like they're down to fucc. Cold Approaching is about getting a woman to want you. Hot Approaching is about finding that woman who already wants you. 31 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 9:27am On Feb 01, 2022 |
Tonnyray:I don't usually quote you cause you're more blue pill than red pill, but I'll stop you right there and call bs on that 80% blue lie. Dude even women themselves don't hit 80%, don't come here with that bs man. We're not kids here. Even di Caprio himself with all his looks and status and money, if he approaches 10 girls I bet you he will not get all of them to say yes,, and even getting 8 (which is the 80% mark) isn't guaranteed. hypergamy itself isn't as straightforward as many guys think. Many times it misfires because women are first of all emotional. Ask yourself, If hypergamy was as ironclad as it supposedly is, why are many women married in poverty. But that's not why I'm responding to you,, that 80% lie is what I can't countenance. I could have ignored. The more realistic stat that has been shared is "approach 100 women for sex and 1 will say Yes". Of course You may get more than 1. But to tell us that for every 10 chicks you cold approach 8 will say YES is bullshiit on top of bullshiit because even women themselves don't hit those numbers. Anyways, you've said it yourself that cold approaching is addictive more than sex. No wonder. Cause I doubt there's a lot of actual sex there. 51 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 9:29am On Feb 01, 2022 |
sajmark:I was impressed by it too. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Winnerly: 9:43am On Feb 01, 2022 |
ubunja: I agree 100%. I think cold approaching is actually becoming illegal in some countries now (eg UK) because of how it can be borderline intrusive sometimes. I also agree 100% that there’ll never be a superior game to the chosen doctrine. Funny thing is when i was younger and even to this day, being chosen has the “cat and string” effect on me. You know how when you dangle a string over the head of a cat, it would go crazy trying to reach it but the moment you drop that string, the cat walks away lol. I kind of feel like a victim when chosen. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 10:07am On Feb 01, 2022 |
ubunja:Lmao. I had to think real hard whether or not to reply to this. 80% is a feat to you? Like seriously? 4 out of 5? You can't get the numbers of 4 girls out of 5 you approach? ![]() I really as in honestly want to believe you're mixing things up. I never for once referred to actual sex because I have a body count that's still less than 100 (80+) while my phone that is solely dedicated to women has a contact list of about 1,400. And the problem has never been about game or lack of it. The problem always has been lack of time. So my question to you is with all your game, getting 4 numbers out of 5 girls is an impossible feat? Because based on my understanding that is what cold approaching means. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 10:18am On Feb 01, 2022 |
Tonnyray:Bro, you just defined a typical Nigerian girl, kudos ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 10:21am On Feb 01, 2022 |
Calibrator:Remember I warned you about this sometime last year December but you said that was your way to understand women. I'm glad your eyes are open now ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 10:34am On Feb 01, 2022 |
Cold approaching is a fools errand, a move for the desperate and weak, typical of the masses even rich Simps use the muscle of their resources but the issue is that most men that engage in it based on emotions( lust or affection) instead of emotional detachment, the issue is that men shoot their shots either randomly at different women or targeting a specific demographic of women whom you deem your spec either in beauty( fine face, fair skin) or attractive body ( breast and ass), calibrate your cold approach to women who you are more attractive than i.e ugly or average looking girls, poor or average income girls especially when you don't have the means, they reject you it doesn't hurt at all since they are beneath you, approaching a hot baddy or your spec will make you emotionally invested since you like her or her beauty, it clouds your judgement and reason and you then begin to chase and simp 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 10:46am On Feb 01, 2022 |
Looks like today is gonna be interesting... Cold Vs Hot Approach Debate Well, is there no lukewarm? ![]() I like both arguments...my take is you have to be sensitive to her moods when doing cold approach. Trust me, you don't wanna approach a woman with menstrual pain 15 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Calibrator: 10:47am On Feb 01, 2022 |
We learn and update our knowledge every day ![]() Smartb0y: 8 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Smartb0y: 10:51am On Feb 01, 2022 |
JESHAL: Cold approaching is for men that don't see themselves as the prize. They still have a long way to go ![]() 9 Likes |
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