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Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by NaughtyBrainiac: 11:00am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Simran94:He cannot leave her, she is his sister, his only sister. If he doesn't help her, who will? |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by tolakadupe(f): 11:03am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Prayfortheworld:she should be helping the family, abeg rest, let her finish school first |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by Nobody: 11:03am On Mar 03, 2022 |
NaughtyBrainiac:How does he want to help her! She is a 22 year old lady already in 300level. Do you know the kind of people she’s already mixed up with? Someone who screams at her own elder brother? The guy isn’t even staying with them sef, he’s in Lagos. If her own mother cannot caution her while the brother was away, then there is absolutely nothing he can do to help her. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by Enemyofpeace: 11:05am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Call her, sit her down and have a serious discussion with her, if she doesn’t change, please sanction her, serious sanctions as in let her know that life is not the way she is going about it. You don’t need to be sentimental with her, if you really want her to change. I ate nonsense. Mynd44 where can I buy akara, bread and coke in your area? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by Enemyofpeace: 11:06am On Mar 03, 2022 |
NaughtyBrainiac:says who? He has his life to live too jo 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by minasu190: 11:08am On Mar 03, 2022 |
There is something fishy going on inside her phone,she is your sister you can tactically get her phone and observe things from there,and beside hope she is not into illicit drugs because that shit also trigger one attitude..beating would not solve the problem,calm down and sort things out,thank you. |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by MrWondah(m): 11:09am On Mar 03, 2022 |
I'll comment when I'm done eating this bone |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by luminouz(m): 11:10am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Jennyclay:Yinmu...forming hard-working girl...see your head |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by NaughtyBrainiac: 11:13am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Simran94: There is a lot he can do to help her. Even people that are worse than her and already making their own money always get help and end up changing. Not to talk of someone who is dependent on the brother for almost everything. What family means to people is different. Family means a whole lot to me and I think family means a lot to brighton1 as well. If he leaves her to learn the hard way, do you know the form the learning would come? And when it happens, you think OP would be happy? In the end, he would share part of the problem,if not a major part of it. |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by Nobody: 11:16am On Mar 03, 2022 |
[quote author=NaughtyBrainiac post=110712864][/quote] You don’t get my point. Her mother has the bulk of work to do on the girl. If the guy stops paying her school fees, don’t you think the mother will beg him or find another way to pay the girl’s school fees through using the rent money they receive. The girl has been living with her mother since and yet her mother didn’t notice any of her behaviors. The guy can’t do it alone, he needs his mother’s intervention |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by Etila(m): 11:18am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Your sister if not keep in check will grewup to become a liability to your entire household! |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by SmartPolician: 11:18am On Mar 03, 2022 |
GoodHardDick: That thing you said made sense is not a gorl. He's a guy who disguises as a girl. |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by NaughtyBrainiac: 11:18am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Simran94:You are saying something different now. I don't disagree with you on the fact that he can't do it alone. All I'm saying is that he shouldn't leave her to learn the hard way |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by NaughtyBrainiac: 11:20am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Enemyofpeace:Yes he has his life to live and his sister is part of his life. What family means to you is different from what family means to other people. |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by Enemyofpeace: 11:23am On Mar 03, 2022 |
NaughtyBrainiac:your reason is why she is what she is today, a spoilt child, who believes others must serve her 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by Enemyofpeace: 11:24am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Etila:i swear |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by sylve11: 11:25am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by gozzlin: 11:37am On Mar 03, 2022 |
MadamVanessa: Madam, this comment is completely wide off the mark. Someone said he needs advice on how to handle her errant sister, and you are saying he shouldn't complain if she start gobbling dick. How does that even make sense to you? Completely irrelevant comment just for the sake of commenting. 1 Like |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by soundOsonic: 11:40am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Jennyclay: I used to laugh when people say sit them down and talk to them in a polite way. Talking and reasoning with people in a polite way have little or no effect. The best way is to invite someone with similar behavior in the past so they can educate them, she will be able to relate with a stranger that do what she did in the past than her brother who doesn't understand why she do what she does. The best person to talk to a thieving child is not a parent or pastor but an ex-convict in that act. If you can't have anybody like that, just leave them, when their actions result in repercussions they will learn. What they wish to do, they will do it, you can't stop people with words only especially if you don't understand them. Sometimes you have to be Stern with them and break them but that's the short cut with long term reward. They wouldn't realize it until they have sense. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by Nobody: 11:43am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Brighton1:Leave her alone, God will bless her with a man that'll more than take care of her.That's how all these oversabi elder brothers will not allow someone rest and have fun, they'll be behaving like monitoring spirit. Leave her alooooooooooooooone oooooooo.Raspberries what do you think? |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by 9gerian: 11:47am On Mar 03, 2022 |
Sounds good. GoodHardDick: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by Mattwillz: 11:51am On Mar 03, 2022 |
I Noticed nobody is even talking about the 18 yrs old brother again..op Abeg buy dat guy a phone bigger than her own......stop giving her too much money.....when they pay rent to you,pls hold the money......only give to your mother when there is real need for it.....i suspect your mother use to give her money anytime she asks for it even for things not necessary...overpampering Dey boost morale o 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by Druss(m): 11:55am On Mar 03, 2022 |
I looked at your post history. Are you still a womaniser? Is the cost of doing that affecting your responsibilities? Are you worried about your sister because of this? You sense some parallels? 1 Like |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by ukaface(f): 11:55am On Mar 03, 2022 |
First, o.p Have you abused any female before? If you have, then karma don enter the situation. |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by A1kennedy(m): 11:55am On Mar 03, 2022 |
You are the fault. Get her a touch light phone,and collect the other phone. Now, if she want to ruin her life, let her raise money and buy the iphone herself and use herself to waste herself. But for now, u are the fault. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by anonymuz(m): 12:04pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
immortalcrown:well said. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by Blackdisciple(m): 12:16pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Up coming slay queen... You for reset her brain with some slap, I don't have younger sis, na ninjas dey my back but I feel younger sis can be annoying sometimes and since dad is not around mum might up want to disturb the lil girls bro e don be your work now to scold them ooo by any means necessary... Good luck bro you dey try walai May God continue to strengthen you both financially and physically... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by amadaovie(m): 12:30pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
MadamVanessa: Just hear yourself. So if the money stops coming as usual and the girl goes into prostitution, it's the guy's fault shey? |
Re: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by Peskid: 12:42pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Tell u mum that u are not comfortable with the path she is following;then reduce the allowance given to her if it possible collect her phone for the main time and check if she will change if she did not change let her be. In a family not all its members have a goal in life so it up to her.it her life she can do anything she likes with it. 1 Like 1 Share |
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