LIGHTHEARTED0:
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All i want to say to you op, is that, that girl still love you, at least you haven't catch her cheating on you


But your 'i want to be a man in the relationship' mentality won't agree with you

I don't wish u to be in a relationship with a nagging and argumentator as a GF, life go tire u

I wanted to ignore but nah

Now I see the reason why men suffer—almost everyone here is attacking the OP for having standards. As in e don reach where e dey certain say guys dey so f,ucking cheap with no boundaries—that's why you lots suffer and to a point you deserve the suffering you get in relationships.

Just cos she wrote she loves him, every one is siding her—how daft can most guys continue to be?

She obviously doesn't respect him and women love through respect so her typing that stuff means nothing—she's just butthurt that he cut her off. (Girls that don't love you will still be pained when you cut them off cos it under leverages their power over you)

The guy sef don already tell am say e no like the constant argument but due to lack of accountability on her part she shifts the goal post and calls it "teasing" WTF!

Una no Sabi say na so the disrespect they start? Na small small e dey start upto the point where e go don build up to a point of no recovery.

If she respected him truly she would have stopped the constant argument. Una suppose know say Dem like to argue for no reason and sabotage the peace.

Abeg make she geddifok.

U even saved her name as angel,she is indeed an angel

You too still love the girl no lie.

yungzed360:



That's my girl bro.

Nonywendy:
I don't wish u to be in a relationship with a nagging and argumentator as a GF, life go tire u

sir only few of us that have been there will understand what u at facing, for the past two weeks I told my own gal friend or rather ex, let's us go on break in the relationship, she is the exact of how u describe your gal friend, what many guys don't know and I want them to know is that Love is not enough, believe me bro, I am more happier than when we were together, your own gal didn't even go emotional too much, mine cried but the babe no wan learn, I have to let her go

T3ndrils:
I wanted to ignore but nah

Now I see the reason why men suffer—almost everyone here is attacking the OP for having standards. As in e don reach where e dey certain say guys dey so f,ucking cheap with no boundaries—that's why you lots suffer and to a point you deserve the suffering you get in relationships.

Just cos she wrote she loves him, every one is siding her—how daft can most guys continue to be?

She obviously doesn't respect him and women love through respect so her typing that stuff means nothing—she's just butthurt that he cut her off. (Girls that don't love you will still be pained when you cut them off cos it under leverages their power over you)

The guy sef don already tell am say e no like the constant argument but due to lack of accountability on her part she shifts the goal post and calls it "teasing" WTF!

Una no Sabi say na so the disrespect they start? Na small small e dey start upto the point where e go don build up to a point of no recovery.

If she respected him truly she would have stopped the constant argument. Una suppose know say Dem like to argue for no reason and sabotage the peace.

Abeg make she geddifok.

sir only few of us that have been there will understand what u at facing, for the past two weeks I told my own gal friend or rather ex, let's us go on break in the relationship, she is the exact of how u describe your gal friend, what many guys don't know and I want them to know is that Love is not enough, believe me bro, I am more happier than when we were together, your own gal didn't even go emotional too much, mine cried but the babe no wan learn, I have to let her go

yungzed360:


O'yes it is man. Whatever will be a disturbance to me should go. Not even my parents. This is usually how it begins and then into marriage and then the frequent torments and then u begin to wonder how u got into it.

sir only few of us that have been there will understand what u at facing, for the past two weeks I told my own gal friend or rather ex, let's us go on break in the relationship, she is the exact of how u describe your gal friend, what many guys don't know and I want them to know is that Love is not enough, believe me bro, I am more happier than when we were together, your own gal didn't even go emotional too much, mine cried but the babe no wan learn, I have to let her go

The two of you know too much and want too much and less from each other at the same time. Two bosses. She always has a point or two to give, while you can only accommodate less. None want to compromise his or her stand. Communication is argument per second. If you didn't break up now as you just did, you will do in future, or will do it herself, when she sees someone she can lord over. In a nutshell, since you both didnt understand each other and were not ready to compromise, I can only say you did well breaking up. However, whatever makes you go back to her, she will initially raise your hope and crash it in revenge, to give you a taste of how she felt, when you broke up with her. Revenge is a sweet game, I like it too.

Opeyemic01:
The two of you know too much and want too much and less from each other at the same time. Two bosses. She always has a point or two to give, while you can only accommodate less. None want to compromise his or her stand. Communication is argument per second. If you didn't break up now as you just did, you will do in future, or will do it herself, when she sees someone she can lord over. In a nutshell, since you both didnt understand each other and were not ready to compromise, I can only say you did well breaking up. However, whatever makes you go back to her, she will initially raise your hope and crash it in revenge, to give you a taste of how she felt, when you broke up with her. Revenge is a sweet game, I like it too.

I agree 100%. They but need to breakup and may have a chance to re-engage or try other partners. Their ego issues will blind them from the many positives they have which they're both blind to

All lawyers and spectators of this jury are against you, ur lawyers turned their back against you too.
As the chief judge of Nairaland, you're hereby subjected to appeasing this angel or serve a year barn or both.

I rise!!!!

Court!!!

U are the problem here....u re too egoistic!

The lady is more mature than u....
Another thing is, u seem to be novice in relationship matters.

Chill, u guys should hang out, have fun... nothing do u two.

Deep down, are u sure of your break up note? Call your bae and give her the sweetest kiss

yungzed360:
Sincerely I don't even know what to say. I'm heartbroken. Although I called it off... I'm an emotional person and it's the good state
of my emotionss before anything. I won't have a girl who challenges me at every opportunity given. I'm not a woman beater and I won't ever do such. I have lots of sisters but sincerely some girls Sha... This is a relationship I'm in where I'll have to send money when I can, make the calls. And after all she tells me I'm not doing her a favour.. I've not even seen her bra to begin with. Where's then the favour she is doing me? So unfortunate...

my guy you will never meet a correct woman than this girl...... she seems cool and she really loves you........... i don't really see what she did wrong from your messages though, you seems too unreasonable.................. Anyways send me her number kia kia, am married though but i will hook her up with my Younger who need serious relationship asap

Some guys just don't deserve good woman like my wife

So you were expecting us to read all that?
If I give you biancalized slap your brain will reset...

You will regret losing that girl. Is it because you have not slept with her like you said?

I love her thought processes. Bring down your ego and get that girl back. Or experience will teach you that you messed up big time

I can't stand girls that type this way,you did well my guy. Na small girls and runs girls dey type like that.

NB after going through all the messages,I take back what I said.this babe truly have feelings for you to be chatting this long with you, my distrust toward Naija girls dey make my Spidey senses tingle, do you spend money on her and flex her? It's either she's dependant on you or truly just like you, or maybe you have other girls at your disposal and just want your freedom to lash freely without any attachment. I've been there.

Two of you de show say English na your papa language abi? Well done. Rest abeg.

T3ndrils:
I wanted to ignore but nah

Now I see the reason why men suffer—almost everyone here is attacking the OP for having standards. As in e don reach where e dey certain say guys dey so f,ucking cheap with no boundaries—that's why you lots suffer and to a point you deserve the suffering you get in relationships.

Just cos she wrote she loves him, every one is siding her—how daft can most guys continue to be?

She obviously doesn't respect him and women love through respect so her typing that stuff means nothing—she's just butthurt that he cut her off. (Girls that don't love you will still be pained when you cut them off cos it under leverages their power over you)

The guy sef don already tell am say e no like the constant argument but due to lack of accountability on her part she shifts the goal post and calls it "teasing" WTF!

Una no Sabi say na so the disrespect they start? Na small small e dey start upto the point where e go don build up to a point of no recovery.

If she respected him truly she would have stopped the constant argument. Una suppose know say Dem like to argue for no reason and sabotage the peace.

Abeg make she geddifok.

I've been laughing at all the insults and bashing. Thanks a lot brother... You understood perfectly what the thoughts in my head were. Thank you.

patosky55:

sir only few of us that have been there will understand what u at facing, for the past two weeks I told my own gal friend or rather ex, let's us go on break in the relationship, she is the exact of how u describe your gal friend, what many guys don't know and I want them to know is that Love is not enough, believe me bro, I am more happier than when we were together, your own gal didn't even go emotional too much, mine cried but the babe no wan learn, I have to let her go

That's true bro... Thanks alot... It's better that way honestly.

Opeyemic01:
The two of you know too much and want too much and less from each other at the same time. Two bosses. She always has a point or two to give, while you can only accommodate less. None want to compromise his or her stand. Communication is argument per second. If you didn't break up now as you just did, you will do in future, or will do it herself, when she sees someone she can lord over. In a nutshell, since you both didnt understand each other and were not ready to compromise, I can only say you did well breaking up. However, whatever makes you go back to her, she will initially raise your hope and crash it in revenge, to give you a taste of how she felt, when you broke up with her. Revenge is a sweet game, I like it too.

Nothing is ever taking me back. I'm not that kind of person... Thanks for the understand. Atleast u r part of the few that didn't insult me.

oluphemmxzy:
U are the problem here....u re too egoistic!

The lady is more mature than u....
Another thing is, u seem to be novice in relationship matters.

Chill, u guys should hang out, have fun... nothing do u two.

Deep down, are u sure of your break up note? Call your bae and give her the sweetest kiss

Ofcourse I'm sure. Ok yes, I'm the problem, agreed!. Anymore?

yungzed360:
Sincerely I don't even know what to say. I'm heartbroken. Although I called it off... I'm an emotional person and it's the good state
of my emotionss before anything. I won't have a girl who challenges me at every opportunity given. I'm not a woman beater and I won't ever do such. I have lots of sisters but sincerely some girls Sha... This is a relationship I'm in where I'll have to send money when I can, make the calls. And after all she tells me I'm not doing her a favour.. I've not even seen her bra to begin with. Where's then the favour she is doing me? So unfortunate...

Ehen?

DECENTBWOY:

Honestly, I don't like girls that talk too much, before you say A, they have said B to Z...
With those screenshots, I can only sense that your ex talks too much and I would have ended my relationship with her a long long time ago... There is a way problems are being handled in a relationship, not talking at every point in time..
I'm not saying you should be a dummy o, but somethings should be overlooked just so that peace will reign...


Op, you did the right thing.. Don't feel bad, you will be alright...

Sure boss. Thanks

Op acting as if he is still in year one. O boy man up. That girl care for u relationship is like that na. Lol

Dear OP, you don fvck up! Big-time.

You can PM me her digits. Na this kind logical, calm and mature ladies we dey find. She even sounds more rational than you. All her points are constructive while yours are heavily based on fallacies.

Truthfully, from what I read, 90% of the wahala is coming from you. Look, just know that there won't be any relationship for you if you don't calm down and change your views about how you see people.

Except you jam olodo. Because it seems as though na olodo you want in a woman.

Again! Please do send me her digits. Let me show her who a real man is.

Guy that girl is more matured minded than you. If you really need a girl that will not argue with you (a zombie) why not go to a timid village and carry one illiterate that will worship you as a demi god.

In this century, you are still expecting your woman not to air her view? My brother grow up.

U better carry your big head and reconcile with her before a lucky man will take her away from you.

That girl really love you and she is ready to amend.

There are 2 ways women try to win an argument.

1. They always ask questions, you will end up being the one explaining and defending yourself.
2. They always twist your words make you feel like the villain.

If you understand this two point, they won't win.

TimFisher2:



You are a Mumu oooo



Well i won't be tempted to blast women this time around...some of our beautiful women deserves some respect

That lady loves you...and i did not see any crime she committed rather i see a Foolish ego maniac man that calls himself Man of the house


I am happy she dumped you..let her go and find someone that will cherish and respect her


Pride no go kill this man!


I see OP running after her...I see her rejecting OP..telling him is to late...I see OP wailing and hitting his head on the bathroom mable ....I see OP not eating for three months..... I see OP falling in love again with an Olosho...I see OP tired of relationships because of what he passed through

I see OP becoming weak docile timid and quiet because his spirit has been broken

I see OP coming to Nairaland again to spill venom on women

I see Marianangels falling in love with OP...just to finish him kpatakpata for the last time

I see OP leaving woman matter for next 40 years and becoming a proud bachelor


This I have seen!

Can't believe what I read.

I have concluded long time ago that ladies who say "I'm sorry" are no longer available.

Here is a lady with to notch sense of logical reasoning, no emotions at all even at the point of breakup still respects the man's opinion..... Haba


Move on dear.. Your best partner is not far from you.


The guy just lost a gem!

ezegenigbonine:
Guy that girl is more matured minded than you. If you really need a girl that will not argue with you (a zombie) why not go to a timid village and carry one illiterate that will worship you as a demi god.

In this century, you are still expecting your woman not to air her view? My brother grow up.

U better carry your big head and reconcile with her before a lucky man will take her away from you.

That girl really love you and she is ready to amend.

Sincerely, you are useless and I understand...lol

Artzdanielsz:
Op acting as if he is still in year one. O boy man up. That girl care for u relationship is like that na. Lol

Mumu

yungzed360:



Mumu

I now see why you are here crying like a kid, you don't have the mind to engage in an argument, mugu