Islandlady:
This is not a lie, she did supported him, but if you feel it's a lie then swerve pls

You are such a toxic girl, That guy that broke your heart, really did you dirty. Real dirty. You are even an introvert. It's not you have a lively personality to keep a relationship

Favfables1:


"He that walks with the wise, will be wise..."
"Show me your friends and I will tell you what you are..."
"You cannot be better than your 5 closest friends..."
"The friend of a thief is a thief..."
"Birds of the same feather flock together..."

I believe the above quotes aren't strange to you ... If this guy stated, that one of the reason why he broke up with his girlfriend is because she has you for a friend, then that girl is honestly better off without you ....

How can you advice your friend not to show "excessive care, kindness and loyalty" to her own fiancee!!!?!! Like who does that?!!!! So if she doesn't show this excessive care, kindness and loyalty to her fiancee/hubby to be, who then should she show it to?!!

Let's flip this around for a moment...
Imagine I tell a guy not to show "excess love, kindness and loyalty" to the girl he wants to marry, how does that sound?

I may not know you ma'am...
But if your posts and write up on nairaland is a clear reflection of what your ideologies are in real life, then I NEVER want to have anything to do with you .... But if it's all cruise, then I think you'd make one hell of an amazing company ....

Take care ...

That guys was just looking for a way out of that relationship for main reasons best known to him, it wasn't about me tho one good thing about me is I don't force my belief or attitude on people around, that's why I have different personalities of friends around me and we are cool

At the bolded, I only advice her that too much of everything is bad which everyone knows this... then if with all her excessive kindness, support,care he still dumb her through a common text message then human can't be satisfied

Islandlady:
Yes men are ungrateful being, infact some are useless

I have been warning my best friend about her excessive care, kindness and loyalty to her fiance, but she feel I was jealous of her relationship , so I stopped my advice jejely

So yesterday I caught her crying profusely at our usual evening hangout, I consoled her and asked her to tell me what's wrong, she didn't want to tell me but with much pressure from me she opened up! She told me that her fiance just texted her a broke up message, which she showed me She called him in my presence and put the call on loud speaker for me to hear what his reasons are...

I couldn't believe his reasons where so foolish and useless He said he can't be with my friend because she do have many toasters, so he is scared she might dump him, he also don't like her clique of friends like me and my friend has invested so much for this guy from his business to his personal life

So pls is this enough reasons for him to break up with her...why are men blind to see a good woman, shallow minded and ungrateful

Mynd44
Seun
Dominique

Men too get dumped too. A girl I was training in school left me for a lecturer in her department. They are now married and I wish her well. Me too don dey lecture now. Please send me your friend's number let me console her. I practically understand what she is going through.

LINTUNE:
don't mind the OP

yeah

Islandlady:
1. That guys was just looking for a way out of that relationship for main reasons best known to him, it wasn't about me tho

2 At the bolded, I only advice her that too much of everything is bad which everyone knows this... then if with all her excessive kindness, support,care he still dumb her through a common text message then human can't be satisfied

1. Well...
I don't know the whole story...
I can only make my inference from this particular write up...
There maybe more to this...
But considering that you know more about this than I do, then I'll defer to your POV ...

2. Yes ma'am...
"Too much of everything is bad" I agree, but this doesn't apply in this case in my opinion...

Because i don't think that showing "too much care, kindness and loyalty" to the individual you want to get married to is a bad thing, infact sef, I don't even believe that there is something like "too much" when it comes to couples ((not just mere boyfriend/girlfriend stuff o))...

I believe that once you and I become serious, we become each other's priority.... I also believe that as long as I'm not taken for granted and my energy is reciprocated, then nothing I do can be said to be too much ...

But it's just my personal beliefs sha ...
Have a lovely evening ma'am...

Islandlady:
Why!!! how do you know I am a toxic person I might be a feminists but my friend is not a feminist or a man hater...so why will he judge her by me

I can't date a girl who has feminist as friend not to talk of marriage. Friends Influence.

I still dey use eyes look my current GF, if she display any act of feminism either by mistake or new conviction , I don comot body. Sharp

I no get strength.

toujurs:
You are such a toxic girl, That guy that broke your heart, really did you dirty. Real dirty. You are even an introvert. It's not you have a lively personality to keep a relationship

Thank you for calling me toxic, all because you feel you know my lifestyle from this faceless forum

Woman initiate breakup, the narrative is, she has found someone better than you and man should take his L and move on. The man is not caring enough. Man initiate breakup, he is selfish, ungrateful bla bla. Let her take her L and move on in peace.

Stenewiser:
you girls should know that we guys love to date socially exposed girls, fun loving girls, but you see marriage I personally, cannot marry my present gf, I want a homely girl for marriage, not all this anklet and waist beads girls, especially girl who clubs, my dear, girls like you will still see marriage as a relationship, but it's far different from that.

Them go spray hair join,tight there mothers wore and cover with long gown, is what they wear from their house to shopping malls...they think they are doing mosdii, they don't know they are doing themselves

This is who you're,
* You're typical narcissist hook-up lady who does not have a serious relationship because of your harlot lifestyle.

* You're allergic to a relationship and seeing your friend in a relationship was so annoying to you and bcoz of that you always exhibit your nonchalant body language and hostility anytime your friend boyfriend is around and the dude can perceive literally what you're radiating.

*You cause the break up and I believe the break up it's a dream come true for you.

I can see you're now brainwashing your friend by painting men as a brutal and cruel gender.

* I can see you're now trying to fully lure in your friend into the embodiment same as you that both of you may now have things in common.

I can see you're now influencing your friend manipulatively that she too can also have negative perception about men that she too may become toxic like you do.

I can see two of you now in the path of harlotry.

These I have seen.

Islandlady:
Ahh see false accusations to my face I was just telling her too much of everything is bad, I did not say she should leave her Fiance o, besides I don't hang around that guy often, so why use me as source of breakup

STFU

Islandlady:
Whattt?? Who are you again, do you even know me huh...The painful part is that she is viewing this, and y'all making me look like the bad n toxic person

She should stay away from you. You’re no good.

No vex

One new feminist have been added to the list of frustrated women in Nigeria, all thanks to the OP.


Enjoy your new initiate

burritto:
One new feminist have been added to the list of frustrated women in Nigeria, all thanks to the OP.


Enjoy your new initiate

She is not a feminist

Islandlady:
She is not a feminist

but you are trying to initiate her

Islandlady:
Yes men are ungrateful being, infact some are useless

I have been warning my best friend about her excessive care, kindness and loyalty to her fiance, but she feel I was jealous of her relationship , so I stopped my advice jejely

So yesterday I caught her crying profusely at our usual evening hangout, I consoled her and asked her to tell me what's wrong, she didn't want to tell me but with much pressure from me she opened up! She told me that her fiance just texted her a broke up message, which she showed me She called him in my presence and put the call on loud speaker for me to hear what his reasons are...

I couldn't believe his reasons where so foolish and useless He said he can't be with my friend because she do have many toasters, so he is scared she might dump him, he also don't like her clique of friends like me and my friend has invested so much for this guy from his business to his personal life

So pls is this enough reasons for him to break up with her...why are men blind to see a good woman, shallow minded and ungrateful

Mynd44
Seun
Dominique

Babe me i no bad ooooo
Plz tell ur friend to invest in me if i no love am pass myself

burritto:


She should stay away from you. You’re no good.

No vex

Do u know sad the part of it? She was happy that they are apart. She never liked the guy and must have been disuading her friend from having anything to do with the guy. The guy must have sensed that too, perhaps, she is the closest to her friend. If She was a good friend, the guy wouldn't have mentioned her. And if they had issue, it would have been easy for her dissolve their issue. It is people like this that make ladies lose interest in relationship and marriage.

This one almost everybody are tagging you for the reason behind this break up,

pls try and reduce this your feminist sh*t is affecting your friends and time will come it start affecting anyone who knows you and even your family members, down to your church or mosque.

This sweet relationship that your friend is enjoying, you don go scatter am..

Since you said your friend is viewing this post.

Lemme tell her clearly,

OP is a pain in the ass on this forum, I know she must have been trying to impose her feminism crap on you...
And the way I see you, you're a good person

Pls my sister am talking to you as brother, give her 6metre gap, she is a bad person, who hate to see two lovers holding hands.

And for you OP
Sometimes am seeing you as w*tch, cus you have done worst than a feminist.

Stenewiser:
you girls should know that we guys love to date socially exposed girls, fun loving girls, but you see marriage I personally, cannot marry my present gf, I want a homely girl for marriage, not all this anklet and waist beads girls, especially girl who clubs, my dear, girls like you will still see marriage as a relationship, but it's far different from that.

Exactly! They fail to understand that dating and marriage are two different endeavours entirely.

Islandlady:
So you will judge your fiancee by her friends right... you are sick tho

He is not sick. The sheep that moves in the company of a dog will soon feed on faeces. If you detest her fiance and you possess some questionable traits then that is enough red flag for him.

Islandlady:
Why!!! how do you know I am a toxic person I might be a feminists but my friend is not a feminist or a man hater...so why will he judge her by me

Because you'll soon pollute her and indirectly cause chaos in her marriage.

Uniquetani1:



That gender?
So self-centered and insecure
He has someone else

Get away jor. As if your type aren't worse

Islandlady:
Whattt?? Who are you again, do you even know me huh...The painful part is that she is viewing this, and y'all making me look like the bad n toxic person

Don't cry, it's the truth. Sadly the mishap can barely be overturned

Favfables1:


"He that walks with the wise, will be wise..."
"Show me your friends and I will tell you what you are..."
"You cannot be better than your 5 closest friends..."
"The friend of a thief is a thief..."
"Birds of the same feather flock together..."

I believe the above quotes aren't strange to you ... If this guy stated, that one of the reason why he broke up with his girlfriend is because she has you for a friend, then that girl is honestly better off without you ....

How can you advice your friend not to show "excessive care, kindness and loyalty" to her own fiancee!!!?!! Like who does that?!!!! So if she doesn't show this excessive care, kindness and loyalty to her fiancee/hubby to be, who then should she show it to?!!

Let's flip this around for a moment...
Imagine I tell a guy not to show "excess love, kindness and loyalty" to the girl he wants to marry, how does that sound?

I may not know you ma'am...
But if your posts and write up on nairaland is a clear reflection of what your ideologies are in real life, then I NEVER want to have anything to do with you .... But if it's all cruise, then I think you'd make one hell of an amazing company ....

Take care ...

Gbam!

Bignuell:
Woman initiate breakup, the narrative is, she has found someone better than you and man should take his L and move on. The man is not caring enough. Man initiate breakup, he is selfish, u grateful bla bla. Let her take her L and move on in peace.

Don't mind islandlady, always playing the victim card

Islandlady:
Yes men are ungrateful being, infact some are useless

I have been warning my best friend about her excessive care, kindness and loyalty to her fiance, but she feel I was jealous of her relationship , so I stopped my advice jejely

So yesterday I caught her crying profusely at our usual evening hangout, I consoled her and asked her to tell me what's wrong, she didn't want to tell me but with much pressure from me she opened up! She told me that her fiance just texted her a broke up message, which she showed me She called him in my presence and put the call on loud speaker for me to hear what his reasons are...

I couldn't believe his reasons where so foolish and useless He said he can't be with my friend because she do have many toasters, so he is scared she might dump him, he also don't like her clique of friends like me and my friend has invested so much for this guy from his business to his personal life

So pls is this enough reasons for him to break up with her...why are men blind to see a good woman, shallow minded and ungrateful

Mynd44
Seun
Dominique

It's enough, you are a bad influence, advising your friend to love less and be less committed.

2. It doesn't matter how you treat your man, if you're destiny to chop breakfast, you won't miss it

Druggey:

Rules are meant to be broken baby.
U're now happy that she's single. Change ur behavior so that the next man she gets won't dump her because of ur attitude.

She saw her friend's love, care and kind gesture towards the guy as a SIMP. And she is here calling men names. Can u imagine?

Islandlady:
Yes men are ungrateful being, infact some are useless

I have been warning my best friend about her excessive care, kindness and loyalty to her fiance, but she feel I was jealous of her relationship , so I stopped my advice jejely

So yesterday I caught her crying profusely at our usual evening hangout, I consoled her and asked her to tell me what's wrong, she didn't want to tell me but with much pressure from me she opened up! She told me that her fiance just texted her a broke up message, which she showed me She called him in my presence and put the call on loud speaker for me to hear what his reasons are...

I couldn't believe his reasons where so foolish and useless He said he can't be with my friend because she do have many toasters, so he is scared she might dump him, he also don't like her clique of friends like me and my friend has invested so much for this guy from his business to his personal life

So pls is this enough reasons for him to break up with her...why are men blind to see a good woman, shallow minded and ungrateful

Mynd44
Seun
Dominique

you're the biggest fool here mumu!

Truvelisback:
She saw her friend's love, care and kind gesture towards the guy as a SIMP. And she is here calling men names. Can u imagine?

don't mind the Biitch. I'm very sure she's happy that her friend is now single. She just posted the shit for her friend to see and think that she really cares. she's a goddamn hypocrite.

You have a good sense of reasoning!! Maybe she enjoyed more from the said friend and can't even talk about her own part.

Johnnycastro18:
"He said he can't be with my friend because she do have many toasters, so he is scared she might dump him, he also don't like her clique of friends like me "

Men are not ungrateful, and I do have a feeling
that you probably are the cause of this broken relationship self , advising your friend not to show love and care to her boyfriend, who does that?.....

Now that there relationship is over I believe you are happy now , just as your friend's boyfriend pointed out according to you, that her constant meddling with clique of friends like "YOU" with TOXIC character is one of the reasons for his decision to break up with her.....

People like you are just embittered, frustrated and Narcissist females, calling all men ungrateful, dear leave men alone, go get a life baby girl

Don't date girls that have alot of female friends.