AsomArchitectNG:


I won't mince words as i'll tell u what you need to know

Yes, your woman is an hookup girl, olosho, pr*stit*te, just pick whichever that suits you, so u know, she has someone bankrolling her currently more than you do. It's a big red flag if she wouldn't respect your decision and it clearly means she doesn't love or no longer in love with you. Now I'll tell you this for free. A woman fears and respects the man they truly love, as she wouldn't want to loose u. You don't force it as it comes naturally.

Now I'll leave you with this question to go and pounder on...

Can you go ahead with a woman that wouldn't take your words or rather respect you as man?

I believe you've gotten the answer. Now be a man and be logical. *drops_mic

Whoever wrote this God Bless You tremendously.

You have said it all. Nothing else to add.

@OP, read this and do the needful.

Dude. When ur dog start barking at you, just know that someone else is feeding her.
So sorry for your situation. Indeed u are hooked and the worst part is you are a nice person. Try start unhooking urself, e nor go easy you but something can always be done. Fighting ND arguing is definitely a waste of ur Time as a man.
First how do you see urself
She does she sees you..if she's giving you this bad bitch act, then u need to start checking her moves.. how ... Nth arose a woman's warth than another woman...she need to value you,else her wants will always supercede your want. U need to be hard. Just take care bro

frozen70:


Having loved her and showed her what love is, she has her own way of life and you may not be strong enough to stop her

Relationship has never been easy in all areas

I think she wants to be as free as a bird and explore then come back to you when she realizes that there is no one like you

I will suggest you stop getting worried about someone who is on a fast lane

She has friends who will either deceive her or make her

Just relax yourself and mind

Stop playing cheap because she does not need that for now

I am not saying you should ignore her but start responding the way she is treating you

Reduce your frequency of calling her let her live the life she has designed to live

Focus on yourself on how to build up your self to be strong to withstand the heart break that may come up or not

Be a man, take a break and watch the masquerade with its dancing steps

A time is coming when she will search for you then you can decide whether to continue or not

Just leave her until she gives you a call and when she does don't be desperate

Women like when men are all around them

Just be yourself that's why you are a man

Tomorrow will tell

Someone who can't be loyal to you can not be committed to a relationship

Who knows probably you are blocking others

The best reply and advice,you’re wise, thanks!

Lol, my own no reach that level, but she has something for short gowns, as in gowns below the knee. What makes it worse is almost all her clothes are office gowns. They look fitted in it but the negative is the short size.

I personally don't feel it's proper to be seeing a lady's "tight" when she sits down, unfortunately, that's how almost all her office gowns are.

Truth is, if you ain't comfortable with it, you just say your mind, don't "think she understands"

That's what I did... It's now left for her to change or leave

Another Simp here...

is the foto she uploaded on her whadass profile that bad. i dont think it is that bad oh with this generation of females. did you not hear that FUTURE IS FEMALE !!!. POST the said foto so we can access it.......

Have you read 'Nearly All The Women In Lagos Are Seriously Crazy' you will learn a thing or two from that medium post.

Guy do you need prophet to tell you, that your girl has started seeing another man..the day she told you to stop calling her regularly was the day she said BIG YES to the dude servicing her now....in a layman definition, guy anoda man don dey nack her akpako..so take chill pill and move with ur life without her. o na no be meet again.. behind those clubing moment there is her man behind it.

Lots of bad advice on page 1. @Op, I will advice u to leave her. Give ur life to Christ first b4 marriage. If u had been a christian, u will know that any lady that clubs or dresses immodestly is not for you.

Colephbreed:
Hello guys good day hope y'all are doing great.

Am writing this with so much grief in my heart as I feel depressed, sometimes love can come with somuch pains and joy at same time.

So recently I agreed with my fiance to relocate to a different city since she got a job over there, we agreed a scheduled time we wil have to see each other within a specific period of time. This is someone we share everything in common the love was great, she's an awesome soul to be sincere.

I got so much attached to her, that it made me felt lonely and empty when she left, due to that reason I always want to call and check up frequently, This has been going on For about 4 weeks consistently, the first red flag I noticed was that she asked me not to be calling her frequently that sometimes it's not really cool with her, I respected that fact and reduced the way I call but I was beginning to loose the trust I had for her.

She goes out with her friend frequently and they love partying, even when I consistently warn her about the late nights they keep most times in clubs and partying she keeps telling me she's not a kid and she can handle things herself. Lately the relationship have been filled with lots of argument, misunderstanding, and the trust is beginning to reduce drastically.

Yesterday she uploaded a nasty picture as her display pics on WhatsApp, she was just putting on a top without bra, though she's busty and all that, I asked her take it down and upload something more appealing and decent that am not comfortable with such pics, she began to rant and start saying all manner of things like it's her privacy,her phone, her body,and she decides what to do with it, am an African man and I don't welcome this woke mentality of women nowadays, feeling they need to be half naked to feel sexy I can't cope with such indecent dressing, I told her am not trying to tell her what to do but atleast you should respect my opinion sometimes, I got angry and sent her a very long message about my displeasure. since then she has refused to pick my calls nor reply my messages.

She tried calling earlier today but I didn't pick, I couldn't sleep through out the night the whole drama was just playing in my Head.

Guys is this enough reason to call of a relationship or are my just being too self centered? have actually made up my mind just need to hear from different and more matured people in the house.
Thanks for reading and enjoy the rest of your day.

I dated a particular girl for 3 years this is how everything went before i broke things with her. I've been careful lately in chosing my life partner, i don't wanna make the mistake Johnny Depp and Will Smith made. It's better you end things with her. A word is enough for the wise.

[quote author=ahnie post=113604584][/quote]

I'm not interested on the kinda dirty pant u wear.

Go tell that to whoever dat wanna listen

Kingzeez10:

How much do you charge for ST?

ST?

gasparpisciotta:
If you cannot step down to her level, why can’t you step up to another level to avoid stories that touch.

that is exactly how to handle such situations,to reduce the percentage of love for her when you notice she is reducing her own,but it is not easy if you love the girl,but to be man is to see reality and adjust accordingly,you don't need to chase her away,you can keep her as a sexmates and treat her how she deserves to be treated,if you cannot force her to love you then continue to enjoy the pvssy,it is still allowed

Good for u

Zane2point4:


The best reply and advice,you’re wise, thanks!

Thanks for the compliment dear

DorianD:

Unbelievable wisdom coming from a woman

Hahaha thanks dear

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I'm interested on the kinda dirty pant my mum wear.

Because she's such a dirty swine.

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[quote author=ahnie post=113615392][/quote]

Cry

BigRocky:


Cry

You wish....E go shock you!

ahnie:

You wish....E go shock you!

Shock ke? Lol
If handkerchief soak,use ur pillow

[quote author=Slynation post=113588946]Well...I will not tell you what to do, but seems like you just explained how I broke up with my girl last year!! She started by hanging out with one of her friend I knew was a core runs girl, I knew because the said friend on a particular day I visited her, was busy giving her gists about different guys she traveled to meet in various hotels, they thought I was busy with my phone and earpods...

Then she started posting for the public, her caption was now "hey guys....!! How do you rate my dance steps, Hey guys, say a word about my dressing and every other rubbish hey guys" it was no longer about us anymore...

Then the missed calls, unnecessary dramas, arguments and disappointments trooped in, well I was just smashing the damn pussy to my satisfaction because I knew it's already slipping away...

Then she started going to the bathroom to pick calls or ignore when I'm around, always traveling to see her brother without being consistent in lying, Well as a bad guy, I acted along until we were in a very good mood one day and I brought up a topic about her bro and asked how the matter ended. Her reply was:::::::

"Hmmm...I don't know, I haven't even seen that one for 2months now"

so who Aunty travel go meet last 2weeks and spent days with, wey she tell me say she dey with her brother?? I Justin smile tho and knew it's time to move ahead...

I told her two things before I started Ghosting her existence even till tomorrow...!!

1. If your Presence is no longer needed try Absence
2. If they no value you, value yourself[/quote]

I'm inspired!

BigRocky:


Cry

You wish....E go shock you!

Me,cry say wetin because byour scrotum looks like that of an albino rat?
My dear my liver full....you nor reach!

Now run along and go help mum plant more suckers

BigRocky:


Shock ke? Lol
If handkerchief soak,use ur pillow

You're obviously still bn fed by your parents
What a schmuck!..short boy with black face.
I nor dey fear darkness come go shit inside house...Dem no born you well.

ahnie:

I'm obviously still bn fed by my parents
What a schmuck!.. am a useless woman with black face.
I nor dey fear darkness come go shit inside house...Dem no born me well.

Lol

Colephbreed:
Hello guys good day hope y'all are doing great.

Am writing this with so much grief in my heart as I feel depressed, sometimes love can come with somuch pains and joy at same time.

So recently I agreed with my fiance to relocate to a different city since she got a job over there, we agreed a scheduled time we wil have to see each other within a specific period of time. This is someone we share everything in common the love was great, she's an awesome soul to be sincere.

I got so much attached to her, that it made me felt lonely and empty when she left, due to that reason I always want to call and check up frequently, This has been going on For about 4 weeks consistently, the first red flag I noticed was that she asked me not to be calling her frequently that sometimes it's not really cool with her, I respected that fact and reduced the way I call but I was beginning to loose the trust I had for her.

She goes out with her friend frequently and they love partying, even when I consistently warn her about the late nights they keep most times in clubs and partying she keeps telling me she's not a kid and she can handle things herself. Lately the relationship have been filled with lots of argument, misunderstanding, and the trust is beginning to reduce drastically.

Yesterday she uploaded a nasty picture as her display pics on WhatsApp, she was just putting on a top without bra, though she's busty and all that, I asked her take it down and upload something more appealing and decent that am not comfortable with such pics, she began to rant and start saying all manner of things like it's her privacy,her phone, her body,and she decides what to do with it, am an African man and I don't welcome this woke mentality of women nowadays, feeling they need to be half naked to feel sexy I can't cope with such indecent dressing, I told her am not trying to tell her what to do but atleast you should respect my opinion sometimes, I got angry and sent her a very long message about my displeasure. since then she has refused to pick my calls nor reply my messages.

She tried calling earlier today but I didn't pick, I couldn't sleep through out the night the whole drama was just playing in my Head.

Guys is this enough reason to call of a relationship or are my just being too self centered? have actually made up my mind just need to hear from different and more matured people in the house.
Thanks for reading and enjoy the rest of your day.

Una no fit simple

Ok i know her she use to walk around in the street with chilling boyz so bro go hustler hook up dey give her money but it is painful madooooo.

Pray for her, fast and book masses for her. The devil is trying to destroy your relationship using your insecurities, but you will overcome.
Just love her and respect her wishes so that you don't destroy your relationship due to your insecurities.

Romanoff:


No one can fear and respect you. It's either one of the two. Fear or respect.

It's better you're respected than feared.

The person who fears you will kill you when you're weak and they have the chance.

. Nah, one can be feared and respected. Respect can either come from a place of fear or love, it is either you respect someone out of fear or love and youth actually right about one being dealt with when weak, if the respect is out of fear.

LadyRosa:



Naaaa

You need deliverance,most importantly you need to forgive yourself.
You're living a life of pain and self condemnation.
Your preaching reveals the inner battle of who you really are,a pained hypocrite whose previous sins still haunts him that he condemns everything that looks bad,seems bad or acts bad, albeit in a way that speaks more volume of hypocritism rather than godliness,love and genuine compassion especially where it's driven by genuine call from God

People who God truly called don't like the job.Leave say me and you dey talk rubbish, I've a strong oil on my head,and it torments me even more as I reject it.Thats why I hate people like you,you disgust me!Your woes should not be transferred to anybody's.Your method of evangelism is too fake, beneath it lies the worst kind of smoky unrepentence.

If you go through one quarter of what I've been through in life spiritually you will be a dead man!

Listen,na me go teach you.
Stop being stupid.Evangelise with humility to serve,rather than condemn.You lack it!You can't win soul.
Work on yourself!Be less hateful and remove pride from your miserable life!
Else the suffer you went through years back will be a child's play compared to what is coming to you.Be careful.

You just confirmed my point - you need healing from Jesus.
The oil you claim is on your head is not from God.
I prayed for you during my night prayer.
May God touch you and heal your hate-filled and toxic heart in Jesus Name.
Shalom.

See

ahnie:
Redfillers ounje ti'de.

Pls find a way to iron your differences.

Which differences are they ironing.na Balenciaga premium tears dey load for the guy last last.guy swerve.you go get better woman last last

Colephbreed:
Hello guys good day hope y'all are doing great.

Am writing this with so much grief in my heart as I feel depressed, sometimes love can come with somuch pains and joy at same time.

So recently I agreed with my fiance to relocate to a different city since she got a job over there, we agreed a scheduled time we wil have to see each other within a specific period of time. This is someone we share everything in common the love was great, she's an awesome soul to be sincere.

I got so much attached to her, that it made me felt lonely and empty when she left, due to that reason I always want to call and check up frequently, This has been going on For about 4 weeks consistently, the first red flag I noticed was that she asked me not to be calling her frequently that sometimes it's not really cool with her, I respected that fact and reduced the way I call but I was beginning to loose the trust I had for her.

She goes out with her friend frequently and they love partying, even when I consistently warn her about the late nights they keep most times in clubs and partying she keeps telling me she's not a kid and she can handle things herself. Lately the relationship have been filled with lots of argument, misunderstanding, and the trust is beginning to reduce drastically.

Yesterday she uploaded a nasty picture as her display pics on WhatsApp, she was just putting on a top without bra, though she's busty and all that, I asked her take it down and upload something more appealing and decent that am not comfortable with such pics, she began to rant and start saying all manner of things like it's her privacy,her phone, her body,and she decides what to do with it, am an African man and I don't welcome this woke mentality of women nowadays, feeling they need to be half naked to feel sexy I can't cope with such indecent dressing, I told her am not trying to tell her what to do but atleast you should respect my opinion sometimes, I got angry and sent her a very long message about my displeasure. since then she has refused to pick my calls nor reply my messages.

She tried calling earlier today but I didn't pick, I couldn't sleep through out the night the whole drama was just playing in my Head.

Guys is this enough reason to call of a relationship or are my just being too self centered? have actually made up my mind just need to hear from different and more matured people in the house.
Thanks for reading and enjoy the rest of your day.

Can I get your phone number?

Let me call you at a convenient time so that I can tell you what to do