Treasure17:
There's more to life than marriage and kids. Why subjecting yourself to unecessary tears, pressure and sorrow cause you ain't married? Common.

Modified. To those quoting me with unecessary takes. Hope you understand now?

The truth is that most humans find their purpose in what other people are pursuing.

You make your assertions there because you've seen other purposes for living. Some people don't have the capacity to do that. So if they don't get married, have kids and money, they'll never feel fulfilled - Nosayer

Evolutionlove:
Congregation of Evening Newspapers & Leftovers. Most Humans are programmed to learn the hardest way. This Is Just a Tip of an Ice-berg. The World Powers are emasculating Men and strategically and systematically destroying the Female Gender's heritage without the Female Gender knowing. They thought they were being liberated lol. It's all a game and facade. See the truth Is the way things Is going now, Many women/men will acquire so much material success but they won't be able to experience "True Happiness" It's Just what It Is. And mind you, this development will Hit the Female Gender the most because they are the ones always craving for marriage. Wetin consign me with marriage..

Magnumproperty:
You dey cry kwa? When a lady here is 34. She's still in her late father's' house. Her two younger sisters are married and she still here so happy. She dey happy go other people's wedding on Saturdays. Her life no move forward and she no move backward. She just dey like that

Blessedmercy8:


My dear, I dey use others experience dey learn and advise myself accordingly.

When the time is right, things will fall in place. No need to rush.

Kewtt:
Came across this.... It's a real hustle out there

ibechris:
Same way u have lazy men in their fathers house at the age of 40 above doing nothing except gambling and doing cults.

I know some people are angry with me for saying this. Go to Lagos and see them loitering the street like bees,no work,no trade just fooling around the area.

Most of them are landlords children...waiting for their fathers to die just to share one room each.

Some of them are here typing rubbish and calling ladies evening newspaper as if they themselves are brand new books.

FrancisDiote:

Not all ladies, but most ladies. There's a man for a woman. It's not a crime for ladies to take the first step.

Treasure17:
There's more to life than marriage and kids. Why subjecting yourself to unecessary tears, pressure and sorrow cause you ain't married? Common.

Modified. To those quoting me with unecessary takes. Hope you understand now?

The truth is that most humans find their purpose in what other people are pursuing.

You make your assertions there because you've seen other purposes for living. Some people don't have the capacity to do that. So if they don't get married, have kids and money, they'll never feel fulfilled - Nosayer

benqo01:
Even people dey wey don marry for here dey shout marriage is not everything una well done stop that rubbish

Stargurl20:

Lol... You guys contradict yourselves in most of the things you say.
Not all ladies, but you generalize. It's not a crime for ladies to initiate, yet most guys take advantage of such ladies. It's okay if you don't like them and reject them. Guys get rejected as well, but most guys won't do that. They see her as vulnerable and take advantage of that. Tell me, if you were in women's shoes, would you take such risk? Pls, be sincere.
At times, I just read comments silently and laugh at what most young guys comment which is opposing to the reality. I'm a young girl as well.

I know they are ladies who are prideful, saucy, and ill-mannered. However, they are some chaste ladies who not just lucky. Plus, nature has really favored men in many aspect. That's the reality!, And that why I laugh when some women drag equality with men. We're unequals, whether any lady takes it or not. I'm a lady as well.
Beyond greed for wealth, bad attitude, over selectiveness and all other negative things you guys think keep most of age ladies unmarried, there more nonnegative things hindering them from marriage. Thank you.

denobaba:
I understand, but you need to be more pragmatic and deliberate towards relationship, if you are a lady past 25 already. Clearly, everything does not depend on you but recognise that your biological clock is ticking, which makes your chances slimmer, if at all.

It's too much risk marrying a woman above 25. There are health concerns, reproductive issues, emotional baggages that could potentially crystallise from such choice. In general, we hope for the best and I know some ladies were just unlucky. However, outside of economic consideration, toxic feminism has made marriage such a bad deal for men.

What we are likely to experience is high percentage of single motherhood, fatherless neighbourhoods, sexual promiscuity, mental depression among our women, increased ageing in women because of the mostly unguarded quest for financial agency. It's up to us to buck the trend by embracing our African culture or continue the plunge into the abyss by further importing western dysfunctionalities into our soceity.

To women and men who genuinely seek life partners, I pray God to help you.

BRATISLAVA:


Why wouldn't she be praying and fasting when people like you are mocking her endlessly? Dictating what she did and didn't do? Brandishing unproven sentiment as fact?

All this nonsense about a woman flexing her muscles at men is infantile, prejudiced talk at best. You know nothing about women and what they did and didn't do.

Leave women to live their lives, because if men were subjected to just a half of what they put women through, a lot of you would have mental health issues.

There are a lot of single old bachelors, but nobody is constantly berating them.

meobizy:
This has to be fake. I do not believe somebody will pass the age of twenty-three and still think having a partner completes them as a human being. The only exception is if the person is handicap hence would require service from an able-bodied person.

Brassers:
Na their yanga still big pass o


My former bitch was just cruising in her 27... I told her she won't get any easier relationship if I dropped her with her annoying character, she thought I was joking... I left her, she thought I would miss her lol... She called me after one week to act as if nothing happened and started forming special adviser.. I just tell am say "what ur business with my life ?" Shame won kill d bascard... Na she hang up

Till now, she go call tire... I dey pray make she marry sha cos d guy wey go marry am ehn, I go clap for d guy.

D gal na all shades of ASHAWO AND ANY CHARACTER COMBINE

Katcall:
hope you're fùcking both of them. Cos Am interested. I fùck milfs for a living

Treasure17:

Is that how you talk to your father?

Treasure17:
There's more to life than marriage and kids. Why subjecting yourself to unecessary tears, pressure and sorrow cause you ain't married? Common.

Modified. To those quoting me with unecessary takes. Hope you understand now?

The truth is that most humans find their purpose in what other people are pursuing.

You make your assertions there because you've seen other purposes for living. Some people don't have the capacity to do that. So if they don't get married, have kids and money, they'll never feel fulfilled - Nosayer

nedekid:
Metcheew, my kid sis nko, a stunning beauty, UK trained professional, house in lekki, 2 nice automobiles, at 39 she never marry + no kids. You at just 30 de complain

DryMouth:

This is the problem with you ladies.

You keep living in fantasy until reality hits you hard

MufasaLion:
So having kids or marriage is now an achievement?

Irritating folks.

BRATISLAVA:


Still sentiment.

Maybe in Nigeria where all the men are reading the same sheep manual that dictates to them what and what women can and cannot do because of this and that.

Live and let women live.

Some of you here have sisters older than 40 who are unmarried, yet come here to judge and mock women tirelessly.

ibechris:
Same way u have lazy men in their fathers house at the age of 40 above doing nothing except gambling and doing cults.

I know some people are angry with me for saying this. Go to Lagos and see them loitering the street like bees,no work,no trade just fooling around the area.

Most of them are landlords children...waiting for their fathers to die just to share one room each.

Some of them are here typing rubbish and calling ladies evening newspaper as if they themselves are brand new books.

I concur you are saying the truth ,some upon that no money but want someone daughter to born for them so the woman and baby suffers

BRATISLAVA:




Please, tell all these little boys that life is beyond their mocking of women. They think they know everything and are quick to mock unmarried women.

emmanuelbrown26, Qwr123, kay29000 can you see?