litigator:
Like this na to marry more wives like one popular traditional ruler.

bigpicture001:


Guy! u guys shod stop talking marriage down...

Marriage is important but maybe not necessary, we all need someone to love us and be with us...someone to spend time witg as we age,someone who wouldn't giv up on us...someone who will always be sure to be there.....now thats why we marry,

Procreation is another good reason.....we almost need partners, weather as gay,straight etc..everyone needs someone to love them


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Katcall:
you?

BRATISLAVA:


Just what I posted and had a misinterpretation. This place harps on the order of life milestones as if that's what matters.

So what if you have a child before marriage? So what if you're living together before marriage? So what if you're not a virgin when you get married? There's no order to happiness.

There's a lot of judgement and pressure, but people who have tried and can't have it in the expected order shouldn't feel bad to do it in whatever order gives them joy and peace. The end justifies the means.

bigpicture001:


Guy! u guys shod stop talking marriage down...

Marriage is important but maybe not necessary, we all need someone to love us and be with us...someone to spend time witg as we age,someone who wouldn't giv up on us...someone who will always be sure to be there.....now thats why we marry,

Procreation is another good reason.....we almost need partners, weather as gay,straight etc..everyone needs someone to love them


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Katcall:
I want marriage because of sex

Aguilar:
Unmarried women are just littered everywhere like strays waiting for a responsible Innocent man to claim them . It's not our fault they are unmarried. No man like stress. We just want our peace. If you can't give us that, then you are OYO.

Caseless:
it begins to get lonesome when she hits 40. She needs someone to take care of her in her old age. Your logic can't solve that. That's why she's crying and not because of what society subjects her to.

SamCeci:


More to life than Marriage and Kids? If her own parents had this same challenge and were to follow this same piece of advice back then, how would they have given birth to her?
What are the major purposes for being created then?

BRATISLAVA:


Still sentiment.

Maybe in Nigeria where all the men are reading the same sheep manual that dictates to them what and what women can and cannot do because of this and that.

Live and let women live.

Some of you here have sisters older than 40 who are unmarried, yet come here to judge and mock women tirelessly.

garriAndsugar:

Nice.. sometimes people tend to care about what the society thinks than their own happiness. I don't see anything bad in having children without getting married as long as they can be catered for

Stargurl20:


We know this is a thing of joy for most men, especially on this platform. Continue

SamCeci:


More to life than Marriage and Kids? If her own parents had this same challenge and were to follow this same piece of advice back then, how would they have given birth to her?
What are the major purposes for being created then?

Blessedmercy8:
Those who are married are not 100% Happy. So it's not marriage that gives happiness. In fact, many of them will tell you they lost their happiness after marriage.

Marriage is a whole lot of responsibility that demands a lot from you. It's not like what you see in zeeworld. That is why many get disappointed because they go in with unrealistic expectations.

Just continue living your best life. If marriage comes, fine. if not, life goes on.
For me, I can't be bothered as long as God is taking care of me and I'm comfortable. what more can one possibly ask for in life.?

fykes:
I don't think the marriage thing is a male / responsibility factor...you need to see the level of toxic feminism the average young woman out there has...so entitled, proud and shallow. (No bashing sisters) but if you want to marry in this tough country and times, pls learn the act of being peaceful and making your personal space a comfort zone - No man will devalue a woman who gives him peace not for anything.

Please learn from ur mothers
Being disrespectful doesn't make you woke
Being rude and arrogant doesn't make you woke.
Being woke is being progressively informed.

Sex is not a man's critical need, respect is

Mcslize:
30 not married? Sister, it's 70% your attitude. I have met lots of 30yrs old and above ladies. Their attitudes suck badly.

You want to marry but you can't position yourself properly in a way that will make any man wants to marry you.

They must always show their devilish side and always flop up their chances with men.

The last one I met was nothing to write home about. Very rude and mannerless. God forbid! I just kept my cool. Till date I haven't called her.

Ladies, if you truly want any man to think of marriage with you, thoroughly work on your character and your inccesant love for money, only then will any man think of marrying you.

Once I sight a lady, I can easily tell the type of person she is. It doesn't take time before they start displaying their madness.

God forbid bad thing!

Treasure17:
There's more to life than marriage and kids. Why subjecting yourself to unecessary tears, pressure and sorrow cause you ain't married? Common.

Modified. To those quoting me with unecessary takes. Hope you understand now?

The truth is that most humans find their purpose in what other people are pursuing.

You make your assertions there because you've seen other purposes for living. Some people don't have the capacity to do that. So if they don't get married, have kids and money, they'll never feel fulfilled - Nosayer

Aguilar:
your problem. It's not my fault you're a woman. If you like blame nature

OgaTheTop2:
Hehn, the rate our ladies are unmarried... Ha, this is serious o.

Nigeria is hard, we understand. No man want extra responsibilities when there is no job, no security, no hope in Nigeria.

Vote wisely for enabling environments in Nigeria.

Vote wisely for security

Vote wisely for job

Vote wisely for hope

Vote your conscience

Vote Peter Obi.

emmanuelbrown26:
U can't compare life of a man with a woman. Women expires after 25 down to 29years. U see 30year old lady is so shattered both mentally and emotionally.
I was engaging one sometime ago, d way dis aunty dey fast and pray all bcs of a man I keep wondering if men dun finish for dis kantri.
When a woman start flexing muscle with a man,she tends to remain single for d rest of her life, if u think say na lie go and ask @Blessedmercy8

Faber:
Follow white people dey flex feminism muscles and "I don't need a man" ��������....bros abeg no take laff kee me o...

Rita Dominic rushing to go marry, Tonto Dike, always shedding tears for leaving Churchill, Mercy Aigbe becoming a 3rd wife to a man, Judy Austin getting married to Yul Edochie, becoming a second wife, Genevieve running into depression and mental issues because of lack of husband should teach you young ladies some lessons...

Guys are going on strike, you will not notice it till it dawns on you.
I got like two ladies in their 30s always frowning at me when they see me with younger girls...one told me, what I am doing with all these indomie girls. For her mind I should come and settle for her battered pussy who does that

Kewtt:
Came across this.... It's a real hustle out there

Stargurl20:

Lol ... Blame nature? Nah.
Bask in the euphoria while it last

Rubbiish:

She knows u are saying the truth, everybody knows what u are saying is the truth, but she is just frustrated! Nigeria men are not the cause of menopause, let her shift her blame to biology & nature.