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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by KayCee92(m): 4:40pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by GoodIsGod: 4:42pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
I have a Christian Lady who is a close friend. She is Forty and no marriage and no kids. Her major reason of still being single is that she wants to stay a virgin till marriage but every man she meets want to have fun before being committed. Once she denies them, they Waka. She has good shape and a good face. Not ugly at all and very hardworking. I pray for her daily to get a man. I am just glad for her that she remains a happy woman despite her challenges. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Theoarhics: 4:46pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
You still young and u still get lost of prospect. There are people far older than you that not yet married...in the 40s and 50s. God can still do it for u. No need feeling bad. 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by zionzoe(m): 4:47pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Monaboo: Your Hubby is amongst your friends. But are you friendly? 2 Likes |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by karkinase(m): 4:49pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Monaboo:Think about marriage oo.. it’s important. Make we no Dey deceive ourselves 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Monaboo(m): 4:50pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
zionzoe: I totally disagree. Your spouse are not always amongst your circle of friends. 3 Likes |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Monaboo(m): 4:55pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
karkinase: I agree with you but like I said, I think I'm wired differently. I feel people want different things in life. Same as me. I won't say because everyone is getting married or thinking about marriage then I will. I believe that our purpose here on earth is different and when you find your purpose on earth, every other thing would fall into place. Some people's purpose on earth is to get married and answer MADAM and have kids. Some are married for years yet NO KIDS. Do u think they are happy in marriage? Let me not go deep because this matter is deeper than the world sees it. 4 Likes |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Bahamas95(m): 4:57pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
fykes:Don't forget Tiwa Savage is also someone's mother. |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Stargurl20(f): 5:03pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Aguilar:Lol... U need not feel my pain. Plus, I gat no problem. I'm not perfect, but my attitude aren't intolerable. You should be careful what u mock people for. It may not concerns you, but you beloved. My 10kobo ![]() You're free to rain insults. Bye ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by tiswell(m): 5:04pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
garriAndsugar:stop encouraging the careless breeding of bast*rds in our society. We are tired of the existing ones already ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by BePrepared: 5:06pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Guys its plain wickedness to mock these ladies, let's be considerate, sincerely I pity them. Ladies on the other hands don't mess with your lives while young. Stop building castles in the air, settle with any reasonable guy that is genuine and serious while your flower is still fresh. Say no to premarital sex 8 Likes |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Peterodion49(m): 5:12pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Am a male looking for a wife in Abuja so will marry WhatsApp me 08171096446 free to insult me no wahalla but I was 1983 April 24 see my pictures on WhatsApp 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Stargurl20(f): 5:13pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
GoodIsGod:Trust most NL's men to criticize such lady for being overly selective, bad attitude, greediness etc if she seeks advice from this forum. Empathy is really a big thing we've lost in this part of the world. I'm not justifying the greedy ones, overly selective ones( of course select, but with moderation cos I don't advice anyone to marry someone who's abusive in the name of marriage), but most of them, once any post is made to bash women, they become excited. You will see them commenting and rejoicing that I wonder if these commenters are the kinds of men women are expected to settle down with. They are bullies, that can reduce any woman's self esteem to nothing. May God grant all good women out there good husbands, Aameen. 3 Likes |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by sageb: 5:14pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Faber: E choke oooooo 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Memyselfu2009(m): 5:15pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
ExudeLoveToAll: Oga them no they rush marry check out the rate of failed marriage in Nigeria |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Stargurl20(f): 5:15pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
BePrepared: No to pre marital sex is reason why some are still unmarried. What would you say to that? 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by GoodIsGod: 5:21pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Stargurl20: Many of these guys are kids. Many still under their parents and many lack good home training. Many of them are from broken homes where father and mother don't know anything about God. Many are even atheists so, they have no respect for anyone including God. This lady is such a nice caring woman that if I wasn't married or not a Christian, I would have considered marrying her. I just wonder why such a nice woman could still remain single at 40. I had to create a Christian dating group to help ladies like her. But the group isn't doing well at present. May God bless her with a good man. 3 Likes |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by BRATISLAVA: 5:26pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Katcall: You're funny. Drop your assumptions. Live and let women live. |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by denobaba: 5:28pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
abbey621:Off tangent. How does marriage translate into women ending up in the kitchen? Do western women cook for their family or not? Marriage and career are not mutually exclusive. Many are married and practising their career successfully. I understand ASUU strike is a thing here, but biology and life do not care. Women can get suitors even in their 50's but that would account for the exception. And women don't have to be married if that is their choice. You come across as emotional and lacking in judgement. Work on your comprehension skills. 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by BRATISLAVA: 5:30pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Stargurl20: You will get very tired of the village mentality on the forum. The men here are from the village where they give them a copy of the sheeps handbook for rams. All of them regurgitate the same rubbish day and night. And the funny thing is that they all have that man/woman in their family that isn't married at 40. But there's nothing they won't say to denigrate women to feel good about being men. |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by bukatyne(f): 5:31pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Threesha: Hahahahahaha This sounds so funny! 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Exceed15: 5:32pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
If you are not married yet ,trust me you are not missing anything. Most people in it are looking for a way out. If hasn't worked even if you are 40 enjoy your life abegii. Marriage is overrated in Africa. 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by bukatyne(f): 5:35pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by BigBashiru: 5:36pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8:Come let's get married. Kisses |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by bukatyne(f): 5:37pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by BRATISLAVA: 5:37pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
GoodIsGod: Wait for them to tell you how her private part is slackened, and she's greedy, and she's looking for a dark, handsome, 6ft man with a billion dollars (like there are any in Nigeria to begin with), how she rejected all her suitors and is arrogant, how she was 20 and running them in circles, how the problem lies with her at her age, how she's got a hellish behavior, how she's not actually a virgin. ![]() It is never the fault of the men she met. I seriously pity any woman above 35 who is unmarried. The mocking and pressure must be intense on her. Imagine this being a forum of over 1M people, supposedly international, and the garbage that daily spills fourth about women is still unchecked. This place is 50 years behind in reasoning. 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by ThinkSmarter: 5:39pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
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Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by BRATISLAVA: 5:42pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: I don't understand all need to denigrate women. I feel these guys have lives so miserable, like mpsdii who was killing snakes in the forest to eat, and that is why they're angry at anything female. Poverty is the greatest cause of his kind of posts. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by BigBashiru: 5:45pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: With me it's not rush in and rush out baby you will rush in and stay glued 1 Like |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by Movichabiodun(m): 5:49pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
fykes: I wish I can like this a thousand times 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by BePrepared: 5:51pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Stargurl20: Thats a lie Agreed no to premarital sex is reason why some are unmarried, cos they made company with irresponsible men. Make the right company bro |
Re: 30 Years Old No Marriage No Kids, I Cry To Bed Daily... by AlphaTaikun: 5:56pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Kewtt:30 is still OK, i.e., in terms of fertility. |
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