kellyzaf:


Omor this your side note get K leg abeg, hw can you say that, your side note advice is very wrong plz, dont give such advice to any man. Note that yout first advice is very on point but u just spoil it with the side note.

Na Una type due turn woman to house girl.

Ndubuisipaul1:
My fiancee told my younger brother that she will send him out of my house if we get married. She was joking, but it didn't sound like a joke to me.

Let me tell you how this started. My younger brother told my fiancee jokingly, that he will be sending her on errand anyhow, when she marries me. Although he went too far for saying he will be sending her on errand anyhow. But he has every right to send her on errand because he senior her. She then replied that if my brother do anyhow, when we get married she will ask me to send him away from my house. At this point I stop seeing the whole discussion as joke. I asked her to repeat what she said, she repeated it again (take note: she was saying everything jokingly)

I told her right away that if my brother comes visiting when we get married, she will not send him away. She said she will use her woman power to make me send him away.

She went further to ask me, that if they ask me now to choose between her and my brother who would I choose. I told her I would choose my brother (she could see the seriousness in me).

And I really meant it, any girl that will separate me and my brother will have to use jazz .

This my younger brother established the business that I am doing today. Has done countless number of things for me.

We don't joke with each other, and she knows that.

So am really scared, could this be a joke ? even though it a joke. How can a woman joke that she will separate two brothers ?

Nairalanders, please help a brother with your advice. is this a red flag ?

Na real man you be. Almost all women try this sh!t with their husbands. But it's good you have already let her know. That brotherhood bond, keep it dearly because that's all that really counts. I wish I had your kind relationship with your brother.

Ya'll are jobless.

Ndubuisipaul1:
My fiancee told my younger brother that she will send him out of my house if we get married. She was joking, but it didn't sound like a joke to me.

Let me tell you how this started. My younger brother told my fiancee jokingly, that he will be sending her on errand anyhow, when she marries me. Although he went too far for saying he will be sending her on errand anyhow. But he has every right to send her on errand because he senior her. She then replied that if my brother do anyhow, when we get married she will ask me to send him away from my house. At this point I stop seeing the whole discussion as joke. I asked her to repeat what she said, she repeated it again (take note: she was saying everything jokingly)

I told her right away that if my brother comes visiting when we get married, she will not send him away. She said she will use her woman power to make me send him away.

She went further to ask me, that if they ask me now to choose between her and my brother who would I choose. I told her I would choose my brother (she could see the seriousness in me).

And I really meant it, any girl that will separate me and my brother will have to use jazz .

This my younger brother established the business that I am doing today. Has done countless number of things for me.

We don't joke with each other, and she knows that.

So am really scared, could this be a joke ? even though it a joke. How can a woman joke that she will separate two brothers ?

Nairalanders, please help a brother with your advice. is this a red flag ?

Sixfeetbelle:


Abegii! Book which nonsense space? There's no disclaimer like that on Nairaland so deal with it.

I did not lie.

Every time, you guys will quickly rush here to post about perceived wrong the women in your life did while neglecting the good they do. The poor widow your mother helped today, where is the post? The lost little boy your sister helped locate his parents, where is that post? What about the post of how your aunty dodged marrying a married man nko?

Nope, none of those exists. It's only topics like "My ex said my boss is her spec", "My girlfriend asked me for money", "My babe punna is wide" una sabi. Nonsense.

You're 34? So what? Somehow you're above making up stories to bash women? Abegii 🤨🤨

There are 200million Nigerians. You means these sort of stories don't happen on daily bases?

priceactionx:
Oga Paul, she is right. Please define a marriage. If you can genuinely define it, then you will be matured to handle what may come your way. Yours is to protect her especially a young marriage. She does not have a problem with your brother until your brother insist he would be sending her on an errand. Who does that? As for say na him marry her or assistant husband? You too dey support nonsense. He is a brother not your mum for Christ sake.
when you married, and you want peace, you first of all separate family members coming to stay from those that just coming once in a while.
No matter what your brother might have done for you, he can always come like a visitor and your marriage will have peace. If you want him to always be around you, let him get his apartment close to you and get an house help to do the running up and down, and you can always visit each other.
once she is married to you, she won't allow someone sending her up and down for no reasons. She is not a house help but your own help mate talk less of being an errand girl for another person that is not feeding her.
Baba.. Reason am na.
if you can't abide by simple marriage code that can bring early peace, no need to marry at all. It's that simple.

Una never still learn. Some of these girls wey dey old for their papa houses dey cook for family, clean entire house, some even wash their elder brothers' clothes. They fear some of their elder brothers and sisters. But immediately reach their boyfriends and husbands, they set unnecessary standards. What is wrong is for the op's brother to send his girl on an errand especially when he is older than she is?

Ndubuisipaul1:
My fiancee told my younger brother that she will send him out of my house if we get married. She was joking, but it didn't sound like a joke to me.

Let me tell you how this started. My younger brother told my fiancee jokingly, that he will be sending her on errand anyhow, when she marries me. Although he went too far for saying he will be sending her on errand anyhow. But he has every right to send her on errand because he senior her. She then replied that if my brother do anyhow, when we get married she will ask me to send him away from my house. At this point I stop seeing the whole discussion as joke. I asked her to repeat what she said, she repeated it again (take note: she was saying everything jokingly)

I told her right away that if my brother comes visiting when we get married, she will not send him away. She said she will use her woman power to make me send him away.

She went further to ask me, that if they ask me now to choose between her and my brother who would I choose. I told her I would choose my brother (she could see the seriousness in me).

And I really meant it, any girl that will separate me and my brother will have to use jazz .

This my younger brother established the business that I am doing today. Has done countless number of things for me.

We don't joke with each other, and she knows that.

So am really scared, could this be a joke ? even though it a joke. How can a woman joke that she will separate two brothers ?

Nairalanders, please help a brother with your advice. is this a red flag ?

As much as you will protect your girl from disrespect, don't also allow her to feel too big. Some of thee girls dey wash their elder brothers' clothes for their papa house as unmarried ladies. Some no dey fit raise voice for their mean elder brothers or sisters. They was toilets, clean house and cook. Na until them meet simp boyfriends and husbands, dem dey begin set unnecessary standards. Don't allow any woman to come between your blood, unless you are certain that your blood started the issue.

SaintNegro77:
The heart of a man is desperately wicked and deceitful, no one can know it all. I tell you my brother, she's not joking. The truth is even my wife can't stand between me and my brothers and mother. I will treat her and her people with utmost respect and love but she dare not try to put a rift between I and my siblings.

You people talk like {..removed..} sometimes. Picking on the girl while ignoring the foolish utterance from the daft Op's brother. For any woman to marry from this kind of sick family, I reject it for her.

Ndubuisipaul1:
My fiancee told my younger brother that she will send him out of my house if we get married. She was joking, but it didn't sound like a joke to me.

Oga, go and marry your brother and let's hear a word.

hifocus:


You people talk like sick demented people sometimes. Picking on the girl while ignoring the foolish utterance from the daft Op's brother. For any woman to marry from this kind of sick family, I reject it for her.

Sick demented. Please don't use such words to me. I got your point but don't use insulting words.

2elliot:
As much as you will protect your girl from disrespect, don't also allow her to feel too big. Some of thee girls dey wash their elder brothers' clothes for their papa house as unmarried ladies. Some no dey fit raise voice for their mean elder brothers or sisters. They was toilets, clean house and cook. Na until them meet simp boyfriends and husbands, dem dey begin set unnecessary standards. Don't allow any woman to come between your blood, unless you are certain that your blood started the issue.

Wetin concern her elder brother with elder your brother? So your wife should cook or wash toilet for your elder brother? Next thing he will also service him in he bedroom too as he no get eyes go marry him own wife


Guy that won’t dare talk to me on the road will now be a sending me message because say I marry him brother, who do you men even think you are?


Do you even think before you talk? Abi are women children to you? Do you know angry women get at talk like this? Na marry we marry you, we no leave our father’s house to come and run errands for your family.


Why don’t you wash her elder brothers car too as because say you marry her. your family get right to dey send her message like house girl.


Anyways, it’s people from poor homes that have such discussions. This is pure see finish, that’s all.


Na jobless thing wey no dey work then for they send message, that’s the kind of women that fit you people

You wouldn’t dare marry a girl from a rich home and be talking this trash. Run errands for who, as Na your brother dey feed her



Sometimes Nigerian men, I will never understand your pattern of thinking.

pocohantas:


No mind the coconut head. I want to believe the story is fabricated, else na the girl fck up to date his kind. Tuehh!

Probably a fabricated story like many others on NL, but it's the errand thing that got to me. I would like to see the brother of somebody's son send me on an errand.

The nerve of these neanderthals!

Maysdevices:
A fact


Not an insult

A fact that your sister is my wife whom you describe earlier right.

Sometimes I wish this site moniker come with a profile pic so one can see the slowpoke quoting him.

Farfalla:


Probably a fabricated story like many others on NL, but it's the errand thing that got to me. I would like to see the brother of somebody's son send me on an errand.

The nerve of these neanderthals!

saucy disperectful child of today.

get into the kitchen and make me a sandwich

then get your fat arse and big knoc-kers in the other room

you are overdue for some big black discipline

Godoverevery:


A fact that your sister is my wife whom you describe earlier right.

Sometimes I wish this site moniker come with a profile pic so one can see the slowpoke quoting him.

You can’t see my picture? It’s right there.

A shit show of a thread, of course fools will definitely support the brainless Op, I pray the lady dump the Op, a blind bat who refused to see that his brother started the stupid joke and she replied accordingly, nonsense brothers.

GloriousGbola:


saucy disperectful child of today.

get into the kitchen and make me a sandwich

then get your fat arse and big knoc-kers in the other room

you are overdue for some big black discipline

You can also invite your siblings to send me on errands while at it!

Maysdevices:
You can’t see my picture? It’s right there.

Ok....try to always mind your business and respect people opinion.

My life and my choices.

Gracia

Farfalla:


You can also invite your siblings to send me on errands while at it!

i said get into my egbon's [senior brother] bedroom
are you okay?
i am sending you to do your marital service and you are speaking english

Hmm... mad o
But why are you telling us? This sounds like a family matter

VULCAN:
I'm not sure what to make of your post.

It's reads like a satire or something.

Are you saying that no Nigerian woman can say what his gf said or what?

If so, you shouldn't be taken seriously by anybody.

What kind of daft refutal is that?

Are you Lie Mohammed's Daughter?

You sound confused.

Mention me when you've unravelled your thoughts

2elliot:
There are 200million Nigerians. You means these sort of stories don't happen on daily bases?

Apparently in all the stories that happen in Nigeria daily, you guys only feel it worthy to post the "women bashing ones". And I'm supposed to believe it's not deliberate and fabricated?

GloriousGbola:


i said get into my egbon's [senior brother] bedroom
are you okay?
i am sending you to do your marital service and you are speaking english

Ballzproblem2:
senseless from ,your end , instead of you to calm things you are even fueling it more ,your brother shouldn't be placed above your wife ,if na mumsi I fit try understand,but brother/sister is a no wether seniority or not , nevertheless,both are wrong , better start creating peace ,cause the way I'm seeing it your marriage is heading towards a rock.


side note:- your senior brother has no right to send your fiancee/wife on an errand,if he wants something,ask politely,if she can't ,let him do it himself

Family always come first especially if you guys have been through a lot together.
Am not choosing a bitch I know not less than 20 years over my brother.

pocohantas:


No mind the coconut head. I want to believe the story is fabricated, else na the girl fck up to date his kind. Tuehh!

yeye dey smell, you wey no fck up why you dey hide sorceress papito, be stealing people's boyfriend picture to post on your Profile .. i just shame for you

Godoverevery:


Ok....try to always mind your business and respect people opinion.

My life and my choices.

Gracia

Mind my business on a public forum? Are you are a child or is it that you don’t know what you’re doing here?

This is literally a place for for clashing opinions.



Opinions aren’t always to be respected especially when it involves my gender or giving another person stupid advice. You had better get out of your feelings and stop crying like a woman.

Maysdevices:
Mind my business on a public forum? Are you are a child or is it that you don’t know what you’re doing here?

This is literally a place for for clashing opinions.



Opinions aren’t always to be respected especially when it involves my gender or giving another person stupid advice. You had better get out of your feelings and stop crying like a woman.

Feel free to hang yourself since my opinion is actually the probs of your miserable life.

Godoverevery:


Feel free to hang yourself since my opinion is actually the probs of your miserable life.

Crybaby



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RED FLAG brother

Maysdevices:
Na Una type due turn woman to house girl.

Your Opinion sha but if na me i no go take that ur K leg advice.