NwaliE01:
Hmmm, i am planning of bringing mine abroad this year. This your story is instilling fear in me.
What can we do to women to truly please them?

but men why una nor dey ever hear word sef? Anyway,i have this quote that might intrigue you

"He who fails to learn from the experiences of foolish men, the wise ones will learn from his"
Good luck

Insultme:


Is it not too early?
Just a year plus.
Who knows what the next one is capable or will do as well?

Is the guy at her work place a British citizen?
If he is,she might dump you for him.

There are good women out there but you picked the narcissitic type as a wife.

ikelords:
Dear insultme. I don't know if you will see this write up but anyways I will drop it.
A cheating woman is a dangerous woman. Now that you know her secret once you let it out she might end up coming for your life. I will advice you to play along, gather all the evidence you need to satisfy your conscience that she is having an affair outside. Evidence I mean are very strong evidence, when presented it can't be disputed. So play along and pretend you know nothing. When it's time you pull your strings. If her present stay is still dependent you,I will advice you file for divorce and send her sorry ass back to Nigeria. May God be with you.

💯. That is how a sensible man talks.
Not all those spitting jack shit up there.
You're weak
You're simp.
You're this and that.

I painstakingly chose to read through all the chats.
I am in the UK and I know what is obtainable. I brought my wife in January and I know what started happening just 3wks she came in. Hiw I saw the chats from her own sister of how they will teach me a lesson.
In all, be calm. Speak to her, Share the bills and plan yourself.
Take your time and decide if you want a child with her (pray more about this) because it will increase your sorrows. Take care of your mental health brother.
Thanks for this thread. Atleast I am consoled. I nearly ran mad here.

Brother, is a rain that falls everywhere..since morning I have nothing eaten because of a girl whom I Love . Things didn't work out and money didn't flow as I expected to pay her school fee this, girl change all of a sudden no calls no chats .

I really wish it would be possible for a man to live his life without involving a woman.
Sorry I have no advice for you even me am not on the right state of mind .........
Women are evil ...

Omotaday:
I guess the club that was under renovation was LA lounge. Beware of Manchester boys.


I will advice you not to divorce her yet as my guess is that your lady might not have had sex with the guy yet. Your wife is materialistic, the guy is trying to lure her with money & lifestyle hence she went to visit him before they went to the mall. Your wife is trying to play smart with the guy but trust me if she continues, the guys and many others are going to drill her real bad. She is highly undisciplined, you married a slay mama.

Try and talk it out with her, report her to her parent at home, give her another chance and start studying her. If you see any other sign later, please divorce her.

Edited cc: Insultme

I Don see the guy in question.
For you to know the club. 😂😂😂😂.
Talk true, náà you àbi?

FairlyUSEDpussy:



Oga u burnt yourself!!!!

U sud have used one of yo siblings as dependant.......

My own big brother too........carried is wifey enter Dubai without informing us his family know........still saved all his money to send her to Germany for studies...........

Now........ever since she entered Germany she's hasn't not being reasoning my brother matter again lol.........she told him (my brother) to get another wife and should stop nursing plan to come to Germany...........

Funny enough..........late last year one of our cousins was interested in processing my brother traveling which wud see him leave Dubai for Australia.........but nigga was adamant he couldn't leave his wife...........


His saving grace now.......is that that my cousin is still interested in helping........but then not to Australia but uk.........

This is really sad mahn

Uptheante:

Trusting women is one of the greatest mistakes a nigga can make

Thanks brother.

Insultme:


Are you the guy?😂🤣.
Even if he is not on this thread at the moment, someone is going to narrate the story to him one way or the other, that is the reason I tweaked some things in the story, although I gave out lots of information already but still, it can be anyone.

Call him out now so that nairalanders can help you talk sense into him. What's his handler.

Mumu man. Dem dey carry woman wey never born like 4 for you go UK?

Konjiboii:


Omo you be small pikin? Must you marry before you born pikin, what is wrong with you. Men dey give you better advice you still dey form strong head, if you knew you weren't going to heed to any advice then why post this gist. Omo no make me vex oh I no dey like men when dey behave like odoyo. Behind dey find girl back home, no promise any girl marriage or say you go take them abroad, whenever you return give am belly and dey support from abroad.

Like I said,
I won't agree or disagree with anyone,
Cause the guy dey here.
But I know what to do.

Insultme:


Is it not too early?
Just a year plus.
Who knows what the next one is capable or will do as well?

Lol okay. It’s too early jare my brother, how can you divorce her already when you haven’t trained another man’s child?. Please have patience.

Konjiboii:


But you sef why you no dey fvck her, Omo I can't imagine say I go dey date woman and I no go fvck her tonton, me when be say dem use fvck swear for me. Where she wan get strength take cheat on me, when her kuntus go dey sore for one week.

Lol ode

IyaebeTheGreat:
Harsh treatment, they should settle and if that is not in sight then they can le and hel can still help her whenever the need arises. They shouldn’t part on a sour note. You don’t pay evil with evil. Some women sha

Keep quiet. Must you make senseless comment?

Sometimes you guys need to understand that there are guys out there who barely talk to ladies , they are not that good in jumping from one girl to another and most likely, they're the one suffering in the hands of these heartless Nigerian girls. The op seem to be one of them. He's so pure with his intentions but you see most of these Nigerian girls , they're very very wicked. Ask her why she did what she did , you'll be shocked at what she uses as an excuse. Go for a girl that has already tasted money a bit. All these broke girls with their entitled mind set will destroy your life. The good news now is that she has overstep her boundaries and the Bible gives you the opportunity to decide whether to keep her or send her away. Bear in mind that people don't change, they adjust at a certain point to meet their target. She's a cheat and forever, the urge for such is constant. Hope this will help

Insultme:
This is a true life story and it's really a long epistle, so take your time to read it. Insults and advice are welcomed as well.

There is this girl we're dating in Nigeria, which I intend to Marry though eventually. It started that I got my student visa in Nov 2021, so instead of me coming alone and leaving her alone back home, I decided to get Married to her same Nov 2021 and same year I did my house warming, that was in December. So she moved in to my house and I traveled for my Masters in January 2022.

So I came in alone to put everything in place, renting apartment and starting my studies. It was really an heculeous task, my eyes see shege as I was unable to pass through verification / affordability check, so I had to offer 6 month upfront before I was later considered. By end of January, she started with she is feeling lonely and can't stay alone in the house, so I started processing her visa February and I went back to Nigeria during Easter to bring her myself, just to avoid unnecessary wàhálà at the POE.

Plan your exit from the relationship cos she has started planning against you, when the time is right she will do you strong thing

Konjiboii:


But you sef why you no dey fvck her, Omo I can't imagine say I go dey date woman and I no go fvck her tonton, me when be say dem use fvck swear for me. Where she wan get strength take cheat on me, when her kuntus go dey sore for one week.

Fvck till you die 😂😂
No be every time you go dey jogo.
Focus. Make money, go on vacation.
No be everything be woman woman.

People that even God could not please, you want to please them.
Just try, but you will end up not being able to

Insultme:


Is he also childless?
Cause I will like to know what happens after his demise.

It’s good you don’t keep attacking people you say you need their advice, OP. Just read through all and make use of the best you think. After all, this is a face-less forum. Nobody knows you.

You don marry nonsense. May God be with you

Antyxx:

you guys would see good girls, leave them to marry slay queens. You call good girls dirty, ugly, and now most Naija girls have become slay queens bcx slay queens are more successful with rich guys.

Are you single?😂😃

Insultme:
This is a true life story and it's really a long epistle, so take your time to read it. Insults and advice are welcomed as well.

There is this girl we're dating in Nigeria, which I intend to Marry though eventually. It started that I got my student visa in Nov 2021, so instead of me coming alone and leaving her alone back home, I decided to get Married to her same Nov 2021 and same year I did my house warming, that was in December. So she moved in to my house and I traveled for my Masters in January 2022.

So I came in alone to put everything in place, renting apartment and starting my studies. It was really an heculeous task, my eyes see shege as I was unable to pass through verification / affordability check, so I had to offer 6 month upfront before I was later considered. By end of January, she started with she is feeling lonely and can't stay alone in the house, so I started processing her visa February and I went back to Nigeria during Easter to bring her myself, just to avoid unnecessary wàhálà at the POE.

You can imagine, just within a space of 1yr she came, she is exhibiting such traits.

From on set she doesn't love you and has been with you all for your money.

Broooo pet her, bring her back to naija, seize her papers and burn it.

Lanxoe96:
I'm sure this comment is from a lady...

😂 😂 Because woman deh answer REGEX?

Insultme:


No am not.
Does it look like a movie?

I feel like crying for you bro. Thank God you guys don't have kids yet. Just divorce her and look for an egg donor bro. You will live your life to the fullest without heartbreak

Insultme:
I go continue later. Make i quickly go attend to something. Let me know when you guys have finished reading.

For now do not involve her in your property or will, cause she is ready to frame you up in the UK .

justwise:


Are you joking with this post?

I am shocked at her behaviour, no child yet and all these is unfolding?

According to the Yoruba proverb, person wey get head no get cap, person wey get cap no come get head, OP advice yourself.

winner37:
Brother, is a rain that falls everywhere..since morning I have nothing eaten because of a girl whom I Love . Things didn't work out and money didn't flow as I expected to pay her school fee this, girl change all of a sudden no calls no chats .

I really wish it would be possible for a man to live his life without involving a woman.
Sorry I have no advice for you even me am not on the right state of mind .........
Women are evil ...

Lol. Go on vacation.
Las Las, you go dey alright.
That is abroad for you.

Dshocker:


You can imagine, just within a space of 1yr she came, she is exhibiting such traits.

From on set she doesn't love you and has been with you all for your money.

Broooo pet her, bring her back to naija, seize her papers and burn it.

very terrible and horrible traits, I doubt if she ever loved him in the first place

einsteine:
Mumu man. Dem dey carry woman wey never born like 4 for you go UK?

So you as a man or woman can marry someone that just came into the UK àbi?
Cause you be mumu

GEEBITE:
Maintain your calm for the rest of your studies. Ensure you return back to NIGERIA immediately after your studies and show no interest in post study work visa. When you get back to Nigeria you can apply from here without her. Her stay in UK after study is consequent upon you for now. Dont let her know any of your plans concernig staying after completion of studies. She can find a legal loophole to stay if you become aggressive and confrontational. Also do not get her pregnant.

Hmmmm it's better to walk away now that kids are not involved, you may raise another man's child if you are not careful

Princewell2012:
Call her attention and open up all the secret, and see her reaction. If she apologized from the button of her heart forgive her, and if you have truly forgiven her. Let everything slides and don't bring up the issue again. There is no marriage without temptation.
If she is truly yours ,her behavior will increase positively and she will love you more.

But if there is still no change even in her behavior you style to bring her back to Nigeria and don't returned with her again.
That's my humble advice. And you too should be prayerful and don't allow this marriage to ruin your life.

God bless your marriage.

she will restrategize and be more discreet