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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by iamoyindamola(m): 10:57am On Apr 27, 2023
BlueRayDick:


Raumdeuter sef don get him own segunzik alternate grin
I no believe yet, na only him sabi turn this kind amala lefulefu bi eti
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by seankafor(m): 10:58am On Apr 27, 2023
GrammarNazi1:

Can you see why one should not argue with that gender?

No matter the superiority of your argument, that gender will never admit defeat.

That gender is always right and begins to see itself as not a weaker vessel.

For something that is simply white, that gender will say it is gray.
bro na only online Dem dey claim dose things.

Offline, Dem loyal to their boyfriends grin ...where Dem for see money pay bills

Those broke things grin
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Itsrm(m): 10:58am On Apr 27, 2023
BlueRayDick:


IDAN Prosper

grin grin
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Unlimited22: 10:59am On Apr 27, 2023
iamoyindamola:

I no believe yet, na only him sabi turn this kind amala lefulefu bi eti
This level is superior. Them dey turn amala inside pot.

Them dey turn tuwo inside pot wey dey on fire. This levels mad gan
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by KingTom(m): 11:00am On Apr 27, 2023
seankafor:
grin grin grin cheesy grin grin grin grin those stuffs are already dead on arrival here in Africa

Maybe it's the internet that gives them the temerity to dream

When they log off, they'd face the reality in their various environments grin
And this is the sad truth my brother. I remember a wedding ceremony and that famous quote "NO DOWRY WAS PAID WHATSOEVER" grin
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by liveLongNprospa(m): 11:01am On Apr 27, 2023
Kholiwe:

Nothing like assuming. Men rights activists are there for anyone to look at their mission statements and what they are fighting for. Men discussion boards are also all over. Men speaking out against the patriarchy and Gender stereotypes are all there. I don't need be dead to know a dead man.
There are about 3billion men give or take.
What is a constant amongst majority of men is the protection of women and children when there's problems.

We see it among mammals too.
Those men that you listen to complain will sacrifice their lives for their partners and children. Sometimes you think it's because we want to be heroes when most times it's just how it is.


I grew up thinking like this. When I got married, it opens you up to a whole other level of responsibility to your partner..
You are legit making a vow to protect with your life and that becomes second nature to you.

Of course like everything there will be outliers for sure but even some of those outliers will react to certain things because it's your nature.


So again you are not a man.
You don't know how we think or what we feel at every second of our existence.

Please do not reduce what it means to be a man to talking points in forums.
I can't even begin to cover what it means to be a man.

Don't tell us we are being 2nd class or that we shame men who want to speak up. Those same men still wear the badge of pride when everything passes and the women and children are safe.

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by seankafor(m): 11:01am On Apr 27, 2023
KingTom:

And this is the sad truth my brother. I remember a wedding ceremony and that famous quote "NO DOWRY WAS PAID WHATSOEVER" grin
28 to life

grin grin

Remember
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by liveLongNprospa(m): 11:02am On Apr 27, 2023
I've tried.. Make I go carry my wife enter bedroom 😁
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by seankafor(m): 11:03am On Apr 27, 2023
liveLongNprospa:
I've tried.. Make I go carry my wife enter bedroom 😁
this rain 🌧️ reach your side undecided

I dey with one now grin

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by GrammarNazi1(m): 11:03am On Apr 27, 2023
liveLongNprospa:
I've tried.. Make I go carry my wife enter bedroom 😁
According to the resident feminist, your wife should carry you to the bedroom ooo.

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by seankafor(m): 11:04am On Apr 27, 2023
GrammarNazi1:

According to the resident feminist, your wife should carry you to the bedroom ooo.
grin angry grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin cheesy

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Chineke bakwara ekwensu mba grin

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by liveLongNprospa(m): 11:04am On Apr 27, 2023
GrammarNazi1:

According to the resident feminist, your wife should carry you to the bedroom ooo.

Lmao she go carry me later this evening.
We dey ration the carry😁
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by liveLongNprospa(m): 11:05am On Apr 27, 2023
seankafor:
this rain 🌧️ reach your side undecided

I dey with one now grin

Omo everywhere dark.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by iamoyindamola(m): 11:05am On Apr 27, 2023
grin grin
Unlimited22:

This level is superior. Them dey turn amala inside pot.

Them dey turn tuwo inside pot wey dey on fire. This levels mad gan
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by iamoyindamola(m): 11:05am On Apr 27, 2023
seankafor:
this rain 🌧️ reach your side undecided

I dey with one now grin
E reach here too
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by iamoyindamola(m): 11:07am On Apr 27, 2023
seankafor:
bro na only online Dem dey claim dose things.

Offline, Dem loyal to their boyfriends grin ...where Dem for see money pay bills

Those broke things grin
Them beg pass anything
Anytime your chat is leading to i am not fine or i am trying to be fine
Jaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaapa

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Kholiwe(f): 11:10am On Apr 27, 2023
liveLongNprospa:

There are about 3billion men give or take.
What is a constant amongst majority of men is the protection of women and children when there's problems.

We see it among mammals too.
Those men that you listen to complain will sacrifice their lives for their partners and children. Sometimes you think it's because we want to be heroes when most times it's just how it is.


I grew up thinking like this. When I got married, it opens you up to a whole other level of responsibility to your partner..
You are legit making a vow to protect with your life and that becomes second nature to you.

Of course like everything there will be outliers for sure but even some of those outliers will react to certain things because it's your nature.


So again you are not a man.
You don't know how we think or what we feel at every second of our existence.

Please do not reduce what it means to be a man to talking points in forums.
I can't even begin to cover what it means to be a man.

Don't tell us we are being 2nd class or that we shame men who want to speak up. Those same men still wear the badge of pride when everything passes and the women and children are safe.
Lol your nature is not to protect women. It's shameful you can't see how you have been conditioned due to Gender stereotypes and patriarchy over the years to thank that a woman needs your protection and care. Those are things rooted in benevolent sexism like I told you before. Same way patriarchy has forced women to see men as masters to be worshipped which leads to toxic masculinity. You are defending being oppressed and wearing it like a badge. We have seen Men being shamed because they don't want to conform to gender stereotypes. They are Nigeria men in Sudan who don't gives two fecks about the women there and would jump on the first bus but due to pressure and fake masculinity would shut up and go along it.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by liveLongNprospa(m): 11:16am On Apr 27, 2023
Kholiwe:

Lol your nature is not to protect women. It's shameful you can't see how you have been conditioned due to Gender stereotypes and patriarchy over the years to thank that a woman needs your protection and care. Those are things rooted in benevolent sexism like I told you before. Same way patriarchy has forced women to see men as masters to be worshipped which leads to toxic masculinity. You are defending being oppressed and wearing it like a badge.

Lmao... Man go tell you something about man.
You wey never live as man go dey argue with man about man.

God bless you dear

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by larride(m): 11:18am On Apr 27, 2023
liveLongNprospa:


Lmao... Man go tell you something about man.
You wey never live as man go dey argue with man about man.

God bless you dear

Since you don’t have “manly” duties to do, you can continue. 😂

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Kholiwe(f): 11:23am On Apr 27, 2023
liveLongNprospa:


Lmao... Man go tell you something about man.
You wey never live as man go dey argue with man about man.

God bless you dear
Is it not your fellow men that are fighting against gender stereotypes and organizing Men rights movement? Is it not your fellow men who suffer abuse in marriages but can't come out and seek help due to toxic masculinity and for fear of being shamed by his fellow men? Is not men like you that suffer rape but can't talk about because they will be seen as weak?
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by akwesenana: 11:29am On Apr 27, 2023
You don't need to be dead to know a dead man. But you need to be dead to know how it feels to be a dead man.

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Donjazet2: 11:31am On Apr 27, 2023
BlueRayDick:


I don’t even know .

But what usually amuses me is Africans born and raised in African societies attempting to copy the woke culture of the west. I just read, smile and move on.

Please can you give an example of this "woke culture" you speak of?

Because from experience, people are barely able to elucidate when asked to define "woke" culture or the meaning of the word itself.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Donjazet2: 11:32am On Apr 27, 2023
seankafor:
grin grin grin cheesy grin grin grin grin those stuffs are already dead on arrival here in Africa

Maybe it's the internet that gives them the temerity to dream

When they log off, they'd face the reality in their various environments grin

Please what "stuff" exactly are you talking about? What exactly is "dead on arrival in Africa"?
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by seankafor(m): 11:39am On Apr 27, 2023
Donjazet2:


Please what "stuff" exactly are you talking about? What exactly is "dead on arrival in Africa"?

feminism, women having equal rights with men in Nigeria/Africa environment
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 11:47am On Apr 27, 2023
liveLongNprospa:


Lmao... Man go tell you something about man.
You wey never live as man go dey argue with man about man.

God bless you dear

Which kind man u be sef? Rain dey fall, woman dey inside house u dey argue Feminism and sexism online.

I beseech thee brethren, go into za room and do thy manly duty!

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 11:50am On Apr 27, 2023
Donjazet2:


Please can you give an example of this "woke culture" you speak of?

Because from experience, people are barely able to elucidate when asked to define "woke" culture or the meaning of the word itself.

Baba, I no too get strength for that kind wahala. Woke is Woke

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Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by liveLongNprospa(m): 11:52am On Apr 27, 2023
larride:


Since you don’t have “manly” duties to do, you can continue. 😂

She dey busy with serious workkk😩😩😩😩😩
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Theflint1(m): 11:53am On Apr 27, 2023
Why is Abike Dabiri dividing Nigerians fleeing a war in Sudan by state of origin?

https://twitter.com/abikedabiri/status/1651219730273910786?s=19

Which states get first dibs?
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by liveLongNprospa(m): 11:53am On Apr 27, 2023
BlueRayDick:


Which kind man u be sef? Rain dey fall, woman dey inside house u dey argue Feminism and sexism online.

I beseech thee brethren, go into za room and do thy many duty!


I shall get to work😩😩
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by BlueRayDick: 11:55am On Apr 27, 2023
Theflint1:
Why is Abike Dabiri dividing Nigerians fleeing a war in Sudan by state of origin?

https://twitter.com/abikedabiri/status/1651219730273910786?s=19

Which states get first dibs?

Wait for Raumdeuter to wake for America, he will an explanation you never thought to share on the matter.
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Theflint1(m): 11:56am On Apr 27, 2023
BlueRayDick:


Wait for Raumdeuter to wake for America, he will an explanation you never thought to share on the matter.
Maybe na by states wey give APC the most votes Dem go use comot grin
Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Donjazet2: 11:58am On Apr 27, 2023
seankafor:
feminism, women having equal rights with men in Nigeria/Africa environment

See ehh, I know how very easy it is to dunk on the "feminism movement" in order to appear cool, to feel fly especially in spaces and environments like these that are predominantly male dominated.
You know, just like a bully who oppresses a weakling to the cheering and ovation of others too timid or unwilling to challenge the bad ordeal.

Maybe a good context or reminder of how far we've come as a society and what the feminist movement has achieved especially in the last few decades for women will rehabilitate this ignorant view of women you have consistently had.

1. Many years ago, women did not have the right to vote not to talk of even contesting for any leadership positions. Today their voices are now heard as equally as men.

2. Women had no say in their choice of marriage. Her family decided for her who she married (still happens in some societies today) but it has largely subsided.

3. A woman who wasn't a virgin was basically ostracized in the society and unmarried in society. Very different from the man. (Still happens albeit in a different form, with the different standards set for men and women who are promiscuous with sex). The man who loves sex with multiple women is called a "player", the woman is called a whore_and a slut_.

4. A woman was basically viewed as a property of the man, such that a father could use his own daughter to settle a debt to someone else.

So you see, the feminist movement over a 100 years have sought to seek for society to acknowledge that they are human beings in their own rights. Capable and conscious 9g making their own decisions.

I pointed out here few days ago, how roles that were traditionally male dominated were being occupied more and more by females. From Police force to military to architects and others. I mean, if you go to the US, you will be shocked by the sheer number of taxi and bus drivers that are female. Roles which in Nigeria is still predominantly male.

This idea of consistently dunking on the feminist movement because they seek equal rights and opportunities is wrong especially coming from black people. Another group that has been largely marginalized by other societies..

It truly pains me when I see black people stump on other minority groups. It displays a lack of self awareness.
In the same US that you're condemning for these movements, black people and women rights groups have fought side by side for emancipation from subjugation but you come to a black society like ours and see the opposite happening.

The feminist movement has been a force for good for women. It has seen to the rapid growth and integration of women into the society. It's unfair that men continue to use them as a punching bag while speaking from a position of privilege.

And lastly it's funny pointing out this irony. Few days ago, many were sounding excited about the prospects of a first ever female governor in Nigeria but today are dunking the movement that enables such.

But come to really think of this, Nigeria, one of the biggest and most prominent country in Africa is yet to have a female leader. Let that sink in and tell you how underprivileged the women in our society are.

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